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soc.culture.jewish FAQ: Jewish Childrearing Related Questions (12/12)
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Frequently Asked Questions on Soc.Culture.Jewish
Part 12: Jewish Childrearing Related Questions
[Last Change: $Date: 1996/04/10 18:08:37 $ $Revision: 1.7 $]
[Last Post: Sun Feb 8 11:07:17 US/Pacific 2004]
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Special Introduction to the Jewish Childrearing Portion of the FAQ
This FAQ is intended to serve two newsgroups: soc.culture.jewish and
soc.culture.jewish.parenting. The latter group will recieve only the
Jewish Childrearing Portion of the FAQ. Readers with non-childrearing
questions about Judaism should consult the first part of the
[2]soc.culture.jewish FAQ, available at [3]http://www.scjfaq.org/faq/.
Answers to general childrearing questions may be found in the
[4]misc.kids.info FAQs, posted on a regular basis to misc.kids.info.
Reproduction of this posting for commercial use is subject to
restriction. See Part 1 for more details.
Section Contents
- News Headers
- ORGANIZATION
- Question 21.1.1: Entering the Covenant: What is circumcision?
- Question 21.1.2: Entering the Covenant: Why are Jewish boys circumcised?
- Question 21.1.3: Entering the Covenant: Who performs the circumcision?
- Question 21.1.4: Entering the Covenant: When is the circumcision done?
- Question 21.1.5: Entering the Covenant: But doesn't it [circumcision] hurt?
- Question 21.1.6: Entering the Covenant: But shouldn't the child make its own decision [regarding circumcision]?
- Question 21.1.7: Entering the Covenant: But circumcision is only required for boys. What about girls?
- Question 21.1.8: Entering the Covenant: What are our options for welcoming our new baby girl?
- Question 21.1.9: Entering the Covenant: Can we hold a welcoming ceremony on the 8th day for a girl?
- Question 21.1.10: Entering the Covenant: What is a pidyon haben?
- Question 21.1.11: Entering the Covenant: When is a pidyon haben required?
- Question 21.1.12: Entering the Covenant: What about babies who are stillborn or die shortly after birth with respect to pidyon haben?
- Question 21.1.13: Entering the Covenant: What about an adopted child?
- Question 21.1.14: Entering the Covenant: Does Judaism have a tradition of Godparents?
- Question 21.1.15: Entering the Covenant: Is Circumcision required for a boy to be Jewish?
- Question 21.2.1: Naming: What are the Ashkenazi customs regarding the naming of children?
- Question 21.2.2: Naming: But my grandmother was named (insert old- fashioned out of use name here)? No one uses that name today? How do
- Question 21.2.3: Naming: Is it appropriate to name a child after a relative of the opposite sex?
- Question 21.2.4: Naming: Is it appropriate for multiple children (i.e. cousins) to be named after the same relative?
- Question 21.2.5: Naming: My spouse has a living relative with the same name as my deceased relative. Can we name our children after my
- Question 21.2.6: Naming: What are the Sephardi customs regarding the naming of children?
- Question 21.2.7: Naming: What about babies who are stillborn or die shortly after birth?
- Question 21.2.8: Naming: Are there any distinctly non-Jewish names?
- Question 21.3.1: Playtime: Can I let my kid swim on Shabbat?
- Question 21.3.2: Playtime: Can I let my kid play in the sandbox on Shabbat?
- Question 21.3.3: Playtime: Can children play sports such as Soccer on Shabbat?
- Question 21.3.4: Playtime: What is appropriate dress for swimming?
- Question 21.3.5: Playtime: Can my kid play with Playdough during Pesach?
- Question 21.4.1: Eating: Where can I find kosher baby food?
- Question 21.4.2: Eating: Where can I find kosher for passover baby food?
- Question 21.5.1: Holidays: What are good activities for children for the major Jewish holidays?
- Question 21.6.1: Schooling: How do I determine the right type of religious program: day school vs. afterschool?
- Question 21.6.2: Schooling: How are teachers in Chasidic schools trained?
- Question 21.7.1: B'nai Mitzvah: What is a bar/bat mitzvah?
- Question 21.7.2: B'nai Mitzvah: What's a good gift for a b'nai mitzvah?
- Question 21.7.3: B'nai Mitzvah: What is appropriate dress to wear to the b'nai mitzvah ceremony?
- Question 21.7.4: B'nai Mitzvah: What are the characteristics of a good b'nai mitzvah program?
- Question 21.7.5: B'nai Mitzvah: How do I select a good b'nai mitzvah tutor?
- Question 21.7.6: B'nai Mitzvah: I need to speak at my child's bar/bat mitzvah? What do I say?
- Question 21.8.1: Other childhood lifecycle rituals: I've heard of a ceremony called "Consecration". What is it?
- Question 21.8.2: Other childhood lifecycle rituals: I've heard of a ceremony called "Confirmation". What is it?
- Question 21.8.2: What is Upsherin? I know it relates to the cutting of the hair of boys at age 3, but tell me more.
- Question 21.8.3: I've been invited to a Bat Barakah. What is it?
- Question 21.9.1: Coping with other religions: My child says all of his friends have Christmas Trees, and he wants one too. What do I
- Question 21.9.2: Coping with other religions: My child's non-Jewish grandparents have asked her to help trim the tree. What do I do?
- Question 21.9.3: Coping with other religions: My child has been invited to an Easter Egg roll? What do I do?
- Question 21.9.4: Coping with other religions: My child has been invited to the Easter Egg roll on the White House lawn? What do I
- Question 21.10.1: Growing Older: My child wants to start dating? How do I ensure proper behavior?
- Question 21.10.2: Growing Older: What other forms of body modification are allowed? Tattoos? Earrings?
- Question 21.10.3: Growing Older: When do I need to start worrying about issues of modesty?
- Question 21.11.1: Resource References: I need some information on Jewish Genetic Diseases. Where do I start?
- Question 21.11.2: Resource References: Are there any recommended online resources on Jewish Childrearing or specifically for Jewish
- How do I obtain copies of the FAQ?
- Jewish Childrearing FAQ Credits
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