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Answer:
The circumcision is done the eighth day after birth, unless ill health
or serious medical problems prevent it. Even Shabbat does not stop a
Bris. If such a child is not circumcised, he is nevertheless
considered a Jew [San. 44a; Hoffmann, Melamed Leho-il, Yoreh De-a,
#79]. However, if there are no medical contraindications (e.g.
hemophilia), it is incumbent for the individual to arrange for their
circumcision when medically safe to do so.
There are quite a few customs associated with circumcisions:
* In the Ashkenazi community, on the Shabbat night (Friday night)
prior to the Brit, the community comes to the home of the newborn
to welcome him with singing and thanksgiving to Hashem on his
birth, and a small meal is served including chickpeas (ar'bes).
These are served as a sign of mourning: the child mourns that the
angel caused him to forget everything he learned in his mother's
womb (just one explanation of many for this custom of eating
chickpeas).
* In Sephardi communities, the night before the Brit is called the
night of "Brit Yitzchak" and the community and family gather to
learn the "Zohar" together, to sing special songs and have a
dinner. In many places people from the community and family get
together and study all night not only on the night before the
brit, but also during the preceding week.
* The greeting said to the newborn when brought to his bris is
"baruch haba"--blessed be the one who is arriving. It's a very old
greeting, dating back to the workhands' reply to Boaz when he
greets them in Ruth. The origin is probably a blessing God
promises the Jewish people if they observe the Torah (Deut 28:6).
"Blessed you shall be when you come, blessed you shall be when you
go." It is part of a general covenant about getting the land of
Israel, listing blessings and curses that will visit the land and
the Jewish people depending upon their observance.
* One does not issue invitations to a brit. This is because it is a
mitzvah to attend a brit, and one tries as hard as possible to not
refuse the opportunity to do a mitzvah. If you are invited and
refuse, you run into this problem. If however, you are only
informed of it, you have not been formally invited and circumvent
the problem. Furthermore, since Eliyahu (the Prophet) will attend
(the chair in which the holder of the baby sits is called
Eliyahu's Chair), it is impossible to refuse an invitation.
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