Frequently Asked Questions on Soc.Culture.Jewish
Part 5: Worship, Conversion, Intermarriage, and other Practice Questions
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- News Headers
- Question 9.1: How does a rabbi differ from a priest?
- Question 9.2: Do you need a rabbi for a wedding?
- Question 9.3: Do you need a rabbi for a divorce?
- Question 9.4: How do Jews pray?
- Question 9.5: Is there a distinctly Jewish form of meditation?
- Question 9.6: Does Judaism have a strong tradition of religious art and music?
- Question 9.7: What is a synagogue?
- Question 9.8: What will I find in a synagogue?
- Question 9.9: How is a synagogue operated?
- Question 9.10: What functions does a synagogue serve?
- Question 9.11: What is the name of the Jewish God?
- Question 9.12: What is the reason for a "minyon" (a quorum of 10 men requried for certain prayers)?
- Question 9.13: What is the "Shema"?
- Question 9.14: Where can I learn about the prayers before eating?
- Question 9.15: What is the structure of the morning service?
- Question 9.16: When should morning services start?
- Question 9.17: Why do people put their tallit over their heads when they pray?
- Question 9.18: What is the importance of collective worship in Judaism?
- Question 9.19: What is the difference between Conservative Prayer and Orthodox Prayer?
- Question 9.20: What is the Timeline of Women in the Rabbinate?
- Question 9.21: Are extremely observant men permitted to pray at home?
- Question 9.22: What is the Qetzatzah Ceremony?
- Question 9.23: What time of day were the sacrifices offered?
- Question 10.1: Does Halacha (Jewish law) permit intermarriage?
- Question 10.2: I'm a Jew who married a gentile. Am I still Jewish?
- Question 10.3: I'm a Jew who accepted the tenets of another religion, but now wants to practice Judaism again. Am I allowed? Am
- Question 10.4: OK, then apart from halachic considerations, why do many Jews of all types oppose intermarriage?
- Question 10.5: Is objection to intermarriage a form of bigotry?
- Question 10.6: But I still want to intermarry? Do you know of a Rabbi that performs intermarriages?
- Question 10.7: How does one convert?
- Question 10.8: What about adults who are not circumcised?
- Question 10.9: What does the word "Jew" mean?
- Question 10.10: Who is a Jew?
- Question 10.11: What is the origin of Matrilineal Descent?
- Question 10.12: I've heard that Jewish parents consider an intermarried child as "dead". Is this true?
- Question 10.13: Why is the conversion process so complicated? The matriarchs didn't have to convert.
- Question 11.1.1: Dress: Why do some Jewish women wear wigs or cover their hair with a snood, beret, tichel, turban, kerchief or hat?
- Question 11.1.2: Dress: Why do many Jewish men wear head coverings (variously referred to as "yarmulkas," "skullcaps," and "kipot")?
- Question 11.1.3: Dress: What is a Tallis? Tzit-tzit(those fringes)? Why do Jews wear them?
- Question 11.1.4: Dress: What are those black boxes and leather straps Jewish men wear?
- Question 11.1.5: Dress: Why do many Jewish men sport beards and/or long sideburns?
- Question 11.1.6: Dress: Why do some Orthodox Jews, especially Chassidim, wear a distinctive style of clothing (i.e., fur hats,
- Question 11.1.7: Dress: What is Shaatnez?
- Question 11.1.8: Dress: Are there any special dress rules or customs for women?
- Question 11.1.9: Dress: What is a Kittel?
- Question 11.1.10: Dress: What is the large high ceremonial hat that the Rabbi wears in the synagogue called?
- Question 11.2.1: Sex and Purity: What's this I've heard about a hole in a sheet?
- Question 11.2.2: Sex and Purity: Can a Jewish man only uncover his wife a hands-breadth?
- Question 11.2.3: Sex and Purity: What is a "mikveh"?
- Question 11.2.4: Sex and Purity: What are Jewish hygene practices?
- Question 11.3.1: Writing: Why do some people write "G-d" with a hyphen instead of an `o'?
- Question 11.3.2: Writing: Why do some Jews write "J-s-s" and "Xianity?"
- Question 11.3.3: Writing: Why are somethings written in Hebrew, and others in Aramaic?
- Question 11.4.1: Practices Towards Others: Does Judaism permit slavery?
- Question 11.4.2: Practices Towards Others: What does "eye for an eye" mean?
- Question 11.4.3: Practices Towards Others: Is it permitted for a Jew to sell Christian objects?
- Question 11.6.1: Death and Burial: Is it true that someone with tattoos cannot be buried in a Jewish cemetery?
- Question 11.6.2: Death and Burial: I've heard about a custom of putting stones on the grave. Do you know where this custom
- Question 11.6.3: Death and Burial: Is "stone setting" at the cemetery within a year after death is a Jewish tradition?
- Question 11.6.4: Death and Burial: What are the Jewish mourning customs after the death of an immediate relative?
- Question 11.6.5: Death and Burial: What are Jewish funeral customs?
- Question 11.6.6: Death and Burial: Is getting cryogenically frozen against Judaism?
- Question 11.6.7: Death and Burial: Are Jews buried facing West?
- Question 11.6.8: Death and Burial: Can Jews be cremated?
- Question 11.6.9: Death and Burial: What is the Jewish position on Suicide?
- Question 11.6.10: Death and Burial: Can pregnant women attend a funeral?
- Question 11.6.11: Death and Burial: If a Jewish person lives in an area where there is no synagogue, no Jewish funeral home, and no
- Question 11.6.12: Death and Burial: Can Jews and Non-Jews be buried together?
- Question 11.6.13: Death and Burial: Must the Chevra Kedisha be family members?
- Question 11.6.14: Death and Burial: How have burial customs changed over time?
- Question 11.6.15: Death and Burial: Why do Jews emphasize burial within 24 hours?
- Question 11.7.1: Charity: What are the levels of giving?
- Question 11.8.1: Sacrifices: When did Jews stop making animal sacrifices?
- Question 11.8.2: Sacrifices: What replaced animal sacrifices in Jewish practice?
- Question 11.8.3: Sacrifices: How do sacrifices relate to compassion for animals?
- Question 11.8.4: Sacrifices: Will sacrifices be restored if the Temple is rebuilt?
- Question 11.9.1: Symbols: Why are Jews called Jews?
- Question 11.9.2: Symbols: What does the Star of David represent and what is its symbolism?
- Question 11.9.3: Symbols: What is the signficance of "Chai" and the number 18?
- Question 11.9.4: Symbols: What is a Mezuzah?
- Question 11.9.5: Symbols: What is a Menorah?
- Question 11.9.6: Symbols: What is the significance of the number 5?
- Question 11.9.7: Symbols: What is the significance of the number 3?
- Question 11.9.8: Symbols: What is the significance of the number 40?
- Question 11.9.9: Symbols: What is the significance of the number 7?
- Question 11.9.10: Symbols: Are there any Jewish housewarming rituals?
- Question 11.9.11: Symbols: What is the significance of blue in Judaism? Are there other special colors?
- Question 11.9.12: Symbols: What is the significance of the number 8?
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