Top Document: [alt.backrubs] Frequently Asked Questions (FAQL), (4/5) Previous Document: News Headers Next Document: Finding a good professional massage See reader questions & answers on this topic! - Help others by sharing your knowledge a) The alt.backrubs newsgroup has had many discussions of issues related to massage as a profession and tools and techniques for massage professionals. Copies of many posts on these topics are available in the alt.backrubs archive (see question 5.1.2). For example, the archive contains information about massage tables, professional organizations, exams and draping standards. The BODYWORK mailing-list aims to be for discussion amongst bodywork practitioners. If you are a professional MT or studying to be one then you might be interested in the list. Question 5.2.4 b) has details about the list and how to subscribe. ------------------------------ b) Emotional response considerations Keith Grant, a massage instructor (amongst many other things), has submitted the following notes about emotional response considerations in professional massage. More information about this topic is available in the archive file `emot.release' (see question 5.1.2 for information about the archive). EMOTIONAL RESPONSE CONSIDERATIONS As a massage professional you should be aware that some clients might suffer strong emotional release during massage. You need to be able to recognize signs of such sublimated emotions and to know how deal with such issues when they arise in your massage practice. Background Unresolved emotions can become anchored in the body as a result of physical and emotional traumas. One can think of the body as maintaining `physical memories' of such emotions in the tension of muscles. The condition is especially common with those who suffered physical or sexual abuse as children. It can be that over time, the body becomes habituated to the unbalanced muscle tensions. Eventually, patterns of body usage and posture are changed in an unconscious attempt to compensate. Massage can bring anchored emotions and associated memories back to conscious awareness. Indeed some psychotherapies involve forms of bodywork intended to focus the patients attention on tension in their body (more information is available in the `mas.vs.psychotherapy' file in the archive, which is the subject of question 5.1.2). While the re-awakening of emotions is a process that can contribute greatly to re-integration and healing, it is important as a massage practitioner not to assume the role of emotional therapist or become caught up in listening to verbal stories. Indications It is equally important, however, to bring your focus and awareness to bodywork sessions. A massage professional should be aware of their client's overall way of inhabiting their body. Watch how they hold themselves, walk and gesture. Projections of being overly rigid, collapsed, or inanimate/dissociated can be indications of past abuse. Abuse survivors can have trouble `owning' their bodies. They may feel loss of breath or voice. If their physical memories are triggered, such clients may remove all of their conscious awareness from their body. Not feeling able to `own' parts of their body can lead to discernible splits in the use and vitality of their body, e.g. left/right or upper/lower. Be aware that a client may verbally agree to a technique while disagreeing with their body language. An example could be saying yes while shaking their head or retreating slightly from your hand. Such incongruence in presentation is a subtle indicator of the incongruence between their conscious and unconscious thoughts and feelings. Try to be attentive to subtle changes in breathing, tension level and small movements, that might be early indicators of emotional responses during a session. How you should react In the event that one of your clients has a strong emotional response to deep tissue work, you may need to forego further work planned for the session. Keep your own centre, stay calm, and remember that your goal is neither to `fix' the problem nor to add your own emotional reaction to the client's process. Instead assume a role of offering the quiet acceptance and support that will enable the client to reach an acceptable level of equilibrium by the end of the session. This may include gentle grounding work around the head, neck, shoulders, or feet and ankles. Remind the client to breathe. Often the most important thing you can do is to quietly convey to the client a sense of connectedness and support. Aside: The words people use Although many people do refer to storage of memories in the body I tend to avoid referring too literally to this as a mechanism. I prefer to think of memories, not necessarily available via conscious cognitive paths being indexed (hence my phrase `bookmark') or reached by the more primitive and unconscious sensory paths from touch. It's not necessary to understand the mechanism or location of memory storage for the metaphor to useful. I've come to this view, partly from some training I've had in Ericksonion trancework. In a similar vein, I try to avoid limiting the bodily causes to habitual tension. The interactions are complex. The original abuse could have been any (or all) of: physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, or neglect. The abuse or neglect survivor often loses both their voice (in the physical and metaphorical senses) and possession of parts of their body. Many times they lose all conscious sensation in parts of their body. The physical outcomes can include tension, disruptions in movement, breathing and speech. However you should not assume that these symptoms are necessarily a direct result of tension. One of the outcomes can be muscular collapse that leads to a lack of normal tonality or tension. On the emotional level, the ability to establish normal boundaries may be lost or never learned. Incongruence between verbal and nonverbal responses (e.g. saying yes and shaking the head no) often indicates the resulting conscious/unconscious split. User Contributions:Top Document: [alt.backrubs] Frequently Asked Questions (FAQL), (4/5) Previous Document: News Headers Next Document: Finding a good professional massage Part1 - Part2 - Part3 - Part4 - Part5 - Single Page [ Usenet FAQs | Web FAQs | Documents | RFC Index ] Send corrections/additions to the FAQ Maintainer: jamie@csd.uwo.ca (J. Blustein)
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