Ok people, all I can say is that I went through the same crap!! I mean i'm17, so this was im my early teens!! I hated everything about my body!! I thought i had chicken legs, a flat horrible arse, and i was out of proportion!! I especially hated my bum, i used to always wear black trousers, and a jumper round my waste to cover it!!! I mean it didn't help being surrounded by curvacios women in my familly!!! It's so stupid now i think about it!!!Everyone is different, their is no one perfect humanbeing!! I know that u all think you've heard it all before, but it's true, honestle, and i can talk from experience!!! If u learn to accept yourself and stop obbsessing over one particular thing, u'llbe so much happier whithin yourself, and that confidence will show to other ppl around u!! I mean think about this, say you finally lose weight, or gain it, you'll just find something else to hate about yourself!!!!And it'll turn into a vicious circle!! I still have moments where i do feel insecure about myself, just like any other teen out their, but I try not to dwell on it too much!! I mean for the past 3 years i've been quite un well, and I think thats help put everything back into perspective for me!! I just didn't have time to worry about body image anymore, i had other stuff on my mind.... Your health and happiness are the most important things!! Not body image or what type of body image is in vogue, which in the media world changes all the time!!! I mean one minute it's skinny, and the next its curvy....I mean it's like ppl, what do you want from us?? I hope that i've helped ppl to start to accept themselves, i mean i don't wanna preach to ppl, but ....hey anyway i hope i've helped a litle bit, at the very least!!
Anyway, best be off!!!
C'ya! And keep thinkin happy thoughts, hehe!!
Ps, and forget these ways of losing or gaining weight, the best thing to do is just to eat as healthely as you can!! And that doesn't mean a lettuce leaf once in a blue moon!!(",)!!
Good luck peeps!!! And smile, it helps, really it does...he he!!
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