Define "good".  No, I'm not being overly Zen again, I'm serious (actually,
cats are the universe's most perfect Zen creatures, so if I want to be
overly Zen, I will. *nyeh*).

*ahem*

Where were we?  Oh, yes.  The definition of "good".  Think about it.
What makes a perfect partner (or at least one better than the ones you're
currently dating)?  And don't tell me "I'll know it when I see it", because
I may have to come over there and piddle on your feet!!!

*deep breath*

Right.  Ok, now that you know what you're looking for, go find it.  Get out
of the house.  Go do different things (after all, whatever you're doing now
isn't working, is it?).  Once you get out and start doing the things you
enjoy, you'll start meeting people who also enjoy those things.  The more
social contacts you make, the better your chances of meeting that someone
special.

After all, if you don't play the lottery, you can't ever win!  And whining
from the sidelines just irritates the players.