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Answer:
In biblical times, polygamy was permitted. The Bible, in tolerating
polygamy, gives evidence that the practice had long been an accepted
social institution when these laws were written down. In the
patriarchal age polygamy is regarded as an unquestioned custom. While
the Bible gives a reason for the action of Abraham in taking Hagar for
an additional wife and, in the case of Jacob, for having Rachel as a
wife besides Leah, it only proves that polygamy as well as
concubinage, with which it was always associated, was among the mores
of the ancient Hebrew people (Gen. 16:1-4; 29:23-28). The same
attitude is revealed in the episode of Abimelech and Sarah (Gen. 20:1-
l3).
Polygamy was such a well established part of the social system that
Mosaic law is not even critical of it. We find only certain
regulations with respect to it; as, for example, if a man takes a
second wife the economic position of the first wife and of the
children she bore must be secure; and, in the case of inheritance, no
child of a subsequent marriage is to be preferred over a child from
the first wife. Other regulations were that the high priest could have
only one wife and that a king in Israel should not have too many wives
(Lev. 21:13; Deut. 17:17; Ex. 21:10). The last injunction, however,
was of no effect. David had seven wives before he began to reign in
Jerusalem, and an extraordinary number of wives and concubines has
been attributed to Solomon (II Sam 3:2- 5, 14; 5:13). In connection
with David, the prophet Nathan did not denounce the king for adding
Uriah's wife to those he already had but for the means he employed to
secure her (II Sam. 12:7-15).
However, if polygamy was not forbidden it was not directly sanctioned.
It was a heritage from the past and it was left undisturbed. As the
civilization of the people reached a higher form and, especially under
the teaching of the prophets, their moral and religious consciousness
developed, the polygamous system gradually declined. This is
noticeable in Israel after the return from the Exile. We know that it
survived into the Second Commonwealth, as evidenced in Christian
writings (for why else would Jesus refer to the practice).
According to the Talmud the right to a plurality of wives is conceded,
but the number of legitimate wives, as in the Koran, is limited to
four. The taking of additional wives is held as sufficient ground for
divorce for a woman who had previously been the sole wife. Where a
polygamous union exists, provision must be made for adequate
maintenance of each wife as well as a separate domicile. Throughout
the Talmudic age not one rabbi is known to have had more than one
wife. Monogamy was held to be the only ideal legal union; plurality of
wives was a concession to time and condition. At a later period
Maimonides in his Mishneh Torah maintains, contrary to his personal
opinion, that polygamous unions from a strictly legal point of view
are permissible.
About the year 1000, Rabbi Gershom ben Judah issued an edict (Herem
de-Rabbenu Gershom) which was considered authoritative among Ashkenazi
Jews. This edict substantially prohibited plural marriage. One
exception was allowed: A man could marry more than one wife if he
obtained the special permission of 100 rabbis in 3 countries.
Originally, Gershom's ban was limited in time to the year 1260,
however it has continued to be accepted by Jews of Europe and the
Western World to this day. Rabbi Gershom's edict was followed less in
sephardic countries: cases of polygamy were found in Spain as late as
the 14th cent. That such cases were not rare may be inferred from the
fact that in the Spanish communities the Ketubah, the document marking
the betrothal, exacted that the man was not to take a second wife. The
Islamic influence on the Jews in Spain was more or less pronounced
until the expulsion at the end of the 15th cent.
Nowadays, technically, polygamy is permitted among non-Ashkenazi
(non-Northern European tradition) Jews and Ashkenazi Jews who obtain
special permission of 100 rabbis (as in the case of (G-d forbid) a
wife who becomes incapacitated). However, this is largely an academic
question, because:
* Most Jews live in countries that ban polygamy by civil law.
* Most Jews still follow Rabenu Gershom's edict that banned
polygamy.
Yeminite Jews are a distinct case, being neither Ashkenazi or
Sephardi. The Yemenite Jews were isolated from all Jewish people from
the time of their exile in the middle of the first Temple period until
recently. Yeminite Jews do not follow Rabbi Gersonm's edict, and
believe that in some cases, the Torah even requires polygamy. An
example cited is the case of "yebum", in which a man's brother dies
and he must marry his wife, even if he is married already. As a
result, some Yemenite Jews still take plural wives.
Note: The Sephardic community in Israel has its own ban on performing
polygamous marriages in Israel. In Israel, some Yemenites who came
with more than one wife, still have them (including the last wave of
immigration).
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