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Question by monkey girl
Submitted on 12/8/2003
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i like a guy should i tell him or not?


Answer by cuteishone_678
Submitted on 1/22/2004
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of course. take it easy. don't go up to him and say i like you then run away and never talk to him again. tell you truth he probably won't talk to you again if you do that. tell him that you you like him and would get to know him better.i know its not easy. believe me, i'vedone it before. i'min the middle of one right now. just take it easy and do it on the phone. ask him that you would like to talk something out with him and would like it to be private. good luck!

 

Answer by #1hazeleyes
Submitted on 1/24/2004
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i like this guy and i think he likes me to because he always looks at me but i don't know how to tell him. the thing is he has a girlfriend but he doesn't really like her what should i do

 

Answer by becca
Submitted on 1/29/2004
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i am going through thesame thing and i am finally going to tell him. if i don't tell him it would be worse then if he didn't like me.  I think he likes me so it won't hurt if i tell him and it wouldn't hurt if you told him either
luv, becca

 

Answer by KeLlOgS_001
Submitted on 2/5/2004
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I think you should tell him cause if you leave it up to the guy then nothing is ever gonna get done and you could go on forever liking him and giving him signs but he might not catch on to what you want.  So just go for it!!!

 

Answer by sam
Submitted on 2/7/2004
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hey.I'm going through the same thing.i like this guy hes like my best friend and he has a girlfriend and every time is see him with her he has to kiss her in front of me and smile.its like he knows i like him i don't know what to do.I LOVE HIM i know i do.

 

Answer by aznchika1028
Submitted on 2/7/2004
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hey there... i am going through whether i should tell this guy or not... It's hard but really when you're around him you can actually tell if he likes you. if he looks at you and smiles when he sees you. than again always telling the person gets it off your chest. if he doesn't like you back you know you will find somebody else. but give it a shot thats what i am doing.. it's not going to be easy but it won't hurt! aite.. so good luck!

 

Answer by n-a
Submitted on 2/14/2004
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Are you twelve or just insecure? What's the worst that will happen? He'll laugh and tell you he's gay. Big deal! Plenty of guys out there.

 

Answer by ~nezzi~
Submitted on 2/14/2004
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Hey, I'mnezzi, and I have been liking this guy for the past 1 and half, don't think I'ma loser or anything, it is just that me and him are really good friends and I have liked him since then, he got everything going on for him, hes good looking, he as a great personality, best and nicest guy I have ever met, hes a professional snowboarder and baseball player and hes my friend, me on the other side, I'mjust there you know, like i got my qualities but i got my bad stuff too, and it makes me feel as if I'm not worth him, but anyways, i can't hold how i feel any longer and i really want to tell him, but I'mso scared hes gonna reject me and never talk to me, I'mso scared of everything that will come out of this and all I'masking lol is how should i tell him, over the phone, face to face, or just i don't know, and how should i do it????

 

Answer by Amil
Submitted on 2/16/2004
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Hey,
Go out and tell him! first you should talk to him in private somewhere. weather on the phone or in person, your decision! then tell him even to not be mad and you still want to be friends, just tell him you like him, if he's your good friend, he'll understand and hopefully feel the same way you do! and if he says no go away, he wasn't a true friend to begin with! hope this helps you!

 

Answer by superMadison0521
Submitted on 2/17/2004
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i like this guy but he is a senior and i am only a junior. and i barely know him... well sort of... I know what he wants to be, and about his living situation, and about his dirty little habits (he smokes pot, but he is trying to get over it), and i know that he has a lot of ambition. so i know him but i don't know him. cause like he is in my 4th hour and we talk sometimes but i don't see him out of history class.cause he only has 4 classes so he doesn't stick around after 4th hour for when i go to lunch and then to my theatre classes. but i mean i like him, but he is also leaving a month after he graduates (graduation is June 3rd) to New York. And now we are in Arizona. so what do i do?

 

Answer by help me!
Submitted on 2/25/2004
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there's this guy i like who's in the same year as me and i got to know him on a recent school trip where we got on really well. But now we're back to school,i hardly see him but would love to get his number. How do i go about doing this??

 

Answer by Little piggy
Submitted on 2/25/2004
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hey theres this boy who i think likes me I like him a whole LOT! We always make eye contact and he throws erasers at me a lot but he does this to other girls too.Plus there is another boy who is dating someone who dosnt like his GF  we always make eye contact too and is really nice even though i really dont think he is that cute. what should i do??

 

Answer by kt
Submitted on 2/29/2004
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dude, I am just as confused as u guys. I like this guy, I go along well w/@ camp, + I think he's really hot! I can't stop thinkin about him too. When he seesme he smiles, but that doesnt help me much except that I melt whenever he smiles @ me, or laughs. What should i do? I cant concentrate much. Even if i don't have a clue if he really likes me, should i just dive in?

 

Answer by JOY
Submitted on 3/1/2004
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THERE A GUY THAT I LIKE AND WE BROKE UP A FEW DAYS AGO BECAUSE I KEEP TALKING ABOUT HIS BROTHER INSTEAD OF MY EX CRUSH AND THEN AFTER WE BROKE UP WE DIDN'T WORK OUT FOR US AND THEN I STILL LIKE HIM BUT HE STARTED TO LIKE ANOTHER GIRLS AND I WAS ABOUT TO GET BACK TOGETHER BUT HE ALREADY HAVE A NEW GIRLFRIEND I STILL LIKE HIM AND I TRY TO GET OVER HIM BUT IT REALLY HARD AND HE WAS FLIRTING WITH ANOTHER GIRLS BUT I GOT SO JEALOUS BECAUSE I NEVER FLIRT WITH HIM BUT HE DID WITH ANOTHER GIRLS WHAT SHOULD I DO LET IT GO OR GET BACK WITH HIM

 

Answer by kare bear
Submitted on 3/4/2004
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I like this guy, but i dont think he feels the same way as me. I dont know if i should tell him like i know were friends, but i dont know if he would be open to more. I would jus tell him but the problem is that he isn't very popular and he isn't hot. I mean he's average i guess but i would feel stupid if i got regected by him!! what should I do?????

 

Answer by Tuppence
Submitted on 3/10/2004
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Come on!  Get a friend to do it, if he says no get the friend to say it was a dare!  Works like a charm if he says no!  I'm your age, feel your pain, and also need advice!  How do you get guys to like you?

 

Answer by Not Telling!
Submitted on 3/11/2004
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Please, go up and tell him that you likes him. i a problem same as you but i cant do what i told you so good luck 2 you!

 

Answer by draw4life
Submitted on 3/11/2004
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I just recently told a guy i liked him, and at first it was REALLY embarrassing. it was over AIM, and i went "AAAAAAAHHHHH" for a while after i did it, then i asked who he liked and it was some other girl. that kinda sucked but now i guess I'm ok.

 

Answer by Soccer Girl
Submitted on 3/11/2004
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See i like this guy we have been friends for a while and one day we stayed after school and we went behind the school building and made out then a couple weeks later he said he had a girlfriend

 

Answer by Josh R
Submitted on 3/12/2004
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Yeah you should Not tell her i told a girl that i liked her and she blew me off so yeah now I'm never going to tell a girl that i like them GIRLS ARE MEAN!!!!

 

Answer by cool one
Submitted on 3/12/2004
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I have a huge problem: I like this guy and he likes someone else but I've heard that he doesn't like her anymore but I don't know if thats true. Should I go for it and tell him I like him or fly solo?

 

Answer by HANNAH
Submitted on 3/12/2004
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HEY,
I'M 10 AND BOY CRAZY I CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY (TRE'ROSE IS SUCH A DWEEB. ALL MY FRIENDS TELL ME TRE' AND I ARE LIKE THE BEST PEST PALS EVER. I GUESS I COULD UNDERSTAND BUT ONLY IF I HAD THE COURAGE TO STAND UP AND TELL HIM,WHAT I AM AFRAID OF IS GETTING HURT AND HIM TELLING ALL HIS FRIENDS I TRY TO ACT LIKE I AM SOME KIND OF SUPER MODEL BUT I WANT SOME HELP THAT CAN GUIDE A 10 YEAR OLD GIRLS BOY LIFE


 

Answer by deba
Submitted on 3/13/2004
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wow! seems like a lotta girls are in the same deal as me. well i wish i had enough courage to do something about it but guys are sooo confusing. one day were like getting along like really really really well, and i think he likes me! the next day im being ignored and then the next day he kinda flirts and then he really flirts then doesnt! what should i do?!! well i suppose you could try an old trick:
girl: will you go out with me
boy: no
girl: YES! i win! (run over to friend and jump up and down, shouting 'haha! i was right'  then go back to him and go thanks for being part of our bet! and walk off laughing)

but still, you need courage. also if you ask him out and he says he will tell you tomorrow then it wont work and youre busted, so if he says that go dont worry about it, or ask him to please answer today!! sometimes it doesnt work so just be confident.

 

Answer by fabulous
Submitted on 3/14/2004
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hey, im 13 n i really like this boy n all, n im not sure i wnna go out wiv him cuz well were really gd mates n were in the same class and stuff, and anyway, i don't mind tellin him i fncy him, cuz i get the feeling he likes me 2, so im just gettin my bets friend 2 tell him wen im not there she knows som1 who fncies him and it will lead from there, i meen wen u dnt tell him u fncy him u gradualy get ova him and its really nice 2 know u like som1 n they like u, so alwyas go 4 it, the embaressment fades away if evrything goes wrong.

 

Answer by Casey
Submitted on 3/16/2004
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I like 2 guys and one guy I know does not like me becasue on Valintine day I gave him a note that said will you be my Valintine and He turned around and shook his head. I got really upset but I am better now.
and this other guy He looks at me but I dont know if he likes me or what I mean I really like him but I don't know I am just so confused

 

Answer by sunflowergrl
Submitted on 3/17/2004
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i think you should go with the second because if the first guy does not like you then he will maybe not change his mine

 

Answer by christa
Submitted on 3/17/2004
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Well, I like this guy and we've been hanging out and he invites me to go to his house a lot, he's told me he loves me and I tell him I love him too, but the thing is he has a girlfriend and she now knows about me telling him I love him...I don't know what to do. He told me he'd make his decision this month about everything. What do you guys think I should do other then just wait?

 

Answer by Laura
Submitted on 3/18/2004
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I like this guy, he carried me and is always with me. I feel really good around him. I think he likes me, and I really LOVE him. But then again, he looks at this other gilr, and when he says hi to her, and she doesn't kis him, he says "is that a kiss?" or something like that. I'm so confused. Does he like me or that girl??? Just 4 the record, he is very (VERY) flirty, does that have anything 2 do?? Who does he like??? plz HELP>

 

Answer by susan
Submitted on 3/18/2004
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i think he likes you he just wants to see if you can stand jealousy. ummm... now i have a question, how do i get a guy to like me?

 

Answer by heffersayWHAT
Submitted on 3/19/2004
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I know what you mean, I just realized I like a friend of mine and I don't know if I should tell him. I'm also worried because we are of different races--he is black and I'm white. While I dont care (I mean, he is THE sweetest guy) I'm a little worried what will happen if I tell him.

 

Answer by daydreamer27
Submitted on 3/20/2004
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wow, lots of girls feeling how i'm feeling... cept i've liked this one guy since December of 2002!! over a year i've had a crush on this guy... i'm a senior in highschool and he's a junior (i go to a really small school, by the way)... i'm so fed up with not knowing how he feels... we've never hung out together b4 and we've only talked a few times about nothing, but little things he does makes me think he likes me too... i hate not knowing, so i've decided to just get it over with... i'm either gunna ask him on AIM or write him a note... which do y'all think i should do? in the note i would tell him to call me or text me on my cell phone to let me know how he feels... but AIM it's a direct response unless he decides not to answer me (if he doesn't like me)... any help would be appreciated!

 

Answer by amy
Submitted on 3/23/2004
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i fancy a boy but i told hi m at a disco do that

 

Answer by HANNAH
Submitted on 3/23/2004
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TO:JOSH R
GIRLS ARE NOT MEAN THEY JUST AFRAID TRY TO COMFORT HER GIRLS LIKE THAT DON'T BE AFRAID TO ACT A LITTLE GENTLE TRY IT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU NEED MORE HELP JUST TYPE TO ME ON THIS WEB SITE DON'T FOR GET TO TELL ME WHAT HAPPENED.
FROM:HANNAH

 

Answer by Brandon
Submitted on 3/24/2004
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If you like him you should tell him the way you feel about him and if he don't respond the way you want him respond then he isn't the guy for you.

 

Answer by Trinity
Submitted on 3/26/2004
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Okay there is this guy and I have dumped him more than once and now I am afraid to tell him that I think I love him. What should I do?

 

Answer by Trinity
Submitted on 3/26/2004
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Okay there is this guy and I have dumped him more than once and now I am afraid to tell him that I think I love him. What should I do? He does drugs though. I just feel so comfortable around him. And if I call him or try to talk to him at school he will ignore me. I really want to be back with him.

 

Answer by beca rocks!
Submitted on 3/26/2004
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well I really like this guy and me and him have been really good friends for a loooooooong time and well i really like him and i want to know how to find out if he likes me too? Before he go's to this really preppy girl i hate that is a big rat!

 

Answer by native baby
Submitted on 3/29/2004
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yea go ahead do what you want

 

Answer by MADLY IN LOVE
Submitted on 3/29/2004
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I LIKE THIS REALLY HOT AND CUTE GUY IN SCHOOL AND WERE GOOD FRIENDS. HE ALWAYS TALKS TO ME AND JOKES AROUND WITH ME HE'S IN 5 OF 8 CLASSES AND I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!!!! I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD TELL HIM? I REALLY DON'T WANT TO GET REJECTED OR MY FEELINGS HURT. PLZ HELP ME I NEED ADVICE THANKS

 

Answer by Stephanie
Submitted on 3/30/2004
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i like this guy(cam)and i think he likes me....alllll his friends say he does but he always denies it...i think he knows that i like him...he smiles @ me everytime he sees me...he talks 2 me lots...hes the greatest 2 me hes really nice...hes hott...hes kinda popular..he sk8boards...snowboards and likes everything that i do!!!!shud i tell him i like him or keep it 2 me...HELP!!!!!!

 

Answer by cristina
Submitted on 3/30/2004
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hey girls,...well i like this guy and its clear that he likes me, we talk in lunch sometimes(small talk) but i want to ask him if he likes me as much as i like him but i dont know how to tell him. the thing is that we only see each other in lunch so thats my only chance  CAN SOME ONE PLEAS PLEAS HELP ME HOW SHOULD I START IT OFF???????????????????????????????

 

Answer by crushin
Submitted on 3/31/2004
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I really like this guy and me n him have made eye contact alot and his friends tell me he thinks  i'm hot n stuff. i'm really shy about talking  to him and i'm terrible at starting and keeping a conversation. somone help me i really want to be able to talk to him w/ out spazzing out!!!

 

Answer by totally confused
Submitted on 4/3/2004
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i used to really like this guy at my church. about a year ago, we both had feelings for each other. but then i decided i liked him for the wrong reasons, because some other girls had a crush on him. well now a year later i really like him. i mean like jelly in the knees. i totally want to go out with him but i don't know if he'll still like me or not. i want to go out with him so bad, but i'mtotally not sure if he still has feelings for me. what should i do?

 

Answer by Angela
Submitted on 4/5/2004
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Well this pole looks raelly old but wtv

I met this guy at my church and I so so SO love this guy from the botom of my heart.  But hes ot that cute.  Hes liked me for years i can just tell he went through the lil kid teasing phase the stare at me n look away te gp red in the face, flirting phase touchy felly phase i fact once my rents were having an aurgument  (One of the few and the WORST ever) and i was crying and he came and hugged me and conforted me... (SO SWEET) But in the relationship area he is soooo shy!! SO SHY!  I mean he hasn't told me cuz he thinks i dont like him in that way but i do! And i want to tell him but im not use to telling guys i like them its more the other way around.  How am i gonna do this??

 

Answer by Indian girl
Submitted on 4/7/2004
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Ok..to add to the boy-telling-"i like you" problems. I like a senior (i am one too), I used to be a T.A. in one of his classes but now i am in his 3rd period class. we sit right next to each other. He always smiles at me, and goes out of his way to get my attention and make me laugh, and there are times when i think he likes me. But some days he doesn't talk to me at all. He is really popular and there are many girls that like him. I haven't seem him flirt with many. But some girl told him that i liked him, and now he knows. He hasn't made any moves or shown any signs, but he is is not acting wierd. He talks to me more. But i don't understand what he is thinking. I really would like to know what to do. But for everyone else out there, i would suggest taking chances and telling the guy. Cause trust me..i am totally fragile when it comes to being rejected, and i have taken this chance by having someone tell him.

 

Answer by Basketball54
Submitted on 4/8/2004
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I really like this guy in my grade. He is really nice and wouldn't hurt a fly. Alot of girls say he is nice but don't want to date him because they say he will grow up to be a priest. As far as i know he is single but i'm to scared to ask him out because i'm afraid of rejection and embaressment. Should i ask him out? in person or have a friend ask him for me?

 

Answer by yellow
Submitted on 4/9/2004
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people i had the same problem a little while ago and i told the guy i loved him and i asked him out. to start with he sed mayb and then i pretended 2 him that i wudnt care wot he sed to me, even tho i wud and then unexpectedly when i went to stay round a guy mates house of mine he rang up and asked me out well i was like ok sure that sounds good. we are gettin on rely wel and it is gr8 goin out with him and he is totaly gorge and so i reckon all u gals shud just go for it and i think it is so much beta to be m8s first. any questions?

 

Answer by yelow
Submitted on 4/9/2004
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guys rule i am 2 much of a flirt and it got me in2 truble recently dont b overly flirty
peace out dudes

 

Answer by brat01
Submitted on 4/11/2004
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I like this guy  at school  hes really cool. I started liking him like two weeks ago.I have him for science class.People say he likes this one girl I'm not sure if he still likes her or not.I just met this guy this year.Hes really cool.He sort of is my friend we don't talk much but were still cool.I don't want to tell him yet I'm going to wait a while to see what happens.If i tell him and he says no I'm not getting bombed out because i know there will be more guys but i sure hope it works out in my problem an yours.

 

Answer by smile
Submitted on 4/12/2004
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if u really like a guy, and u want 2 tell him, GO FOR IT!!!there's nothing stopping u.if ur shy, maybe say how u feel in a note.

 

Answer by Andy
Submitted on 4/12/2004
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I have a problem to I'm scared to tell this guy i like him.But I'm taking a chance at it. If it doesn't work out ill find another  guy.  Hope it works out with your prince and mine.

 

Answer by curly cutie
Submitted on 4/12/2004
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well i have like the same problem as everyone here !!!!!! and i think you should tell him but remember his ego is fragile so go slow ,good luck !!!!!!

 

Answer by s
Submitted on 4/14/2004
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Man o man..i like this guy @ school right? and like he doesnt no me..only thru school..and i have just started to like him. My friends joke around a lot and make it soo obvious that i like him infront of him!! and its alright i guess but i wanna kn0w if he likes me...should my friends make really obvious so he gets the hint? or juz let my dreams walk by and lemme get over it. Btw i started to like him on the last week of term 1..now im on holidays and it doesnt help much ay!!...oh also he's like a year older than me..soooo strange..DAMN TEEN YEARS!! ha-ha

 

Answer by Bri
Submitted on 4/15/2004
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me 2. i like a guy ALOT! i just found out he likes me but is afraid 2 tell and ask me out. any suggestions??? plese HELP!!!!!

 

Answer by kaykay54
Submitted on 4/15/2004
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This guy @ school is soooo funny. He teases me alot in fun. But I'm not u no the "popular" material but i still would like to ask him out. Should i go for it?
please help me out!
                   Peace out,
                       kaykay54

 

Answer by heather rule
Submitted on 4/15/2004
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i am goin thorugh the same thing i would go to the boy and say i was wondering if you would like to hang out and then when you two become ore of friends i would tell him.

luv heather

 

Answer by gorgeyporgey pie
Submitted on 4/17/2004
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uve got 2 write an answer 4 this ok? rite? if u dont i wil b a loner 4eva - so do the rite fing n help me k?
i realy like this guy, n i fink im fallin in love wiv him as i like EVERYFIN about him n want 2 b wiv him al the time! i dont hang round wiv his 'crowd' at scool, n im scard 2 tel him how i feel. shud i tel him straight away, or get 2 know him more first? plz help iv only got a cuple weeks left of seein him and i realy dont no wot 2 do! btw if i tell him, n he rejects me, i wil probly neva want 2 b seen agen, as i am v sensitive! heeeeeeellllllllllppppppppppppp thanku

 

Answer by alias_freak
Submitted on 4/19/2004
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Ok....I'm sorta in the same situation as a lot of u, but it's a little different...Here's how it goes, if it gets too complicated, i'msorry....

Ok, so 1st of all i went out w/ this guy who'd been my friend for a long time...but after about a month i realized it was just too wierd, and told him i wanted to just b friends...so he was a little hurt, but it was ok and so we're still like best friends (ie: i know WAY too much about him)....and it really isn't wierd, cuz we never even kissed or anything

Ok so that was done about 2 months ago....K, so then there's this other guy that I know has liked me for about 3 years...and EVERYBODY know'sit. And he's a little wierd, like sometimes if you didn't know him you'd think he was gay ( he's not) and apparently in the 7th grade (3 years ago) he said he wanted to marry me or something. and He can be kind of a jerk, some stuff i'veheard, i don't know if it's true....although for sure i know that he lead on one of my best friends....so he does that, but I know for sure he likes me a lot. So lately I've been thinking that maybe I like him...I don't know. So then maybe I want to go out w/ him, but then I'm not sure what everybody would think. And then I don't want everybody to know that I like him, cuz w/ the first guy, that happened, and then it was just yucky, like there was so much pressure, and i couldn't get away from it, and maybe i didn't even want to go out w/ him in the first place, but i did cuz everybody expected me too....And also, the first guy is always being an ass about it to the second guy, making fun of him and stuff for liking me, and it's mean and annoying.

So I'm thinking I might want to tell the second guy that i like him, but then if we were to go out, i would want it to stay separate from school and that kinda thing, so it wouldn't be like last time...but i don't know..I don't know how i would do it either.....

Oh yeah, you should know that i go to a really small school...35 in my grade...so it's hard to keep things 'your own' so that's another thing that i'mworried about.....so I don't know what to do...

 

Answer by Kayla
Submitted on 4/20/2004
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Please read this it might help:

I liked this guy and i was really scared too ask him.  I would not let my friends ask him for me because i beleive that if you like someone you should ask him out not have your friend ask him out. so one day i got the nerve to ask him out but i did not no how.  I went up to him and asked him in these exact words "Kayla wants to know if you will go out with her."  There is 8 kayla'sin my grade so oviously he asked which one to my mistake. Then i corrected my self and said "I want to know if YOU will go out with ME." He said yes and we are going on our 3 month of dating.  The moral of the story is don't be afraid of putting yourself out thier and deffently don't be afraid to make a mistake because they can cause a good thing not always a embaressing thing.  If he laughs at you he is not the right one and don't even bother asking that jerk again.  If a guy rejects you because you are not popular screw him find someone that doesn't care. if he says no nicely just leave it at that maybe he will relize what he is missing by not being with you.  Defenantly don't take other girls men, it's a law of dating. NEVER try to prosaide him into sex or dump him if he trys to do you.  I hope i helped you and never be afraid of what power women have over men.!!!.

 

Answer by Ashley
Submitted on 4/21/2004
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I like this guy.He's a senior in high school and i'm only a freshman.We're in choir and madrigals together.In the beginning of the year we were really cool with each other.He even came up to me and introduced himself.But series of events happened that changed our relationship to somewhat rocky.We've gotten into kicking matches,he ditched me with his friend and got me grounded for two weeks.But he's also been really great.Like on the phone talking about things....driving me around in his new car, and just generally flirting.But we have this weird thing when we can talk one day ,then ignore each other the next.But for the past 2 months we've been great.I want to tell him I like him...but idk how to or if i even should.I don't even know if he's worth it!He's graduating in two months and I feel he should know.Can somebody help me??

 

Answer by I need help, too!
Submitted on 4/23/2004
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okay...here's my story:

I like this guy (a senior).  I know him but not know him know him.  We've been in the same acting group for a couple of years.  Anyway, a few years ago I accidentally injured him (ouch!).  Now I like him and I've liked him for maybe a year.  He's going away to college this fall. Should I tell him that I like him? Does he hate me? I'd really appreciate it if someone RESPONDED TO THIS.

 

Answer by guy troubles..
Submitted on 4/28/2004
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OK. I really really REALLY like this guy and i think he likes me too. he flirts constantly and is just the sweetest. im moving to another state this summer, and i probably wont be able to see him again. School ends June 3. Should i tell him? and if i should...WHAT THE HECK DO I SAY!!!! thanks!

 

Answer by Help meh plz
Submitted on 4/28/2004
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I really REALLY like this guy but there is a major problem. He always seem to only talk to my cousin. I want to tell him I like him, but how and when? There is a dance coming up, should I tell him then?

 

Answer by Help meh plz
Submitted on 4/28/2004
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I really REALLY like this guy but there is a major problem. He always seem to only talk to my cousin. I want to tell him I like him, but how and when? There is a dance coming up, should I tell him then?

 

Answer by sUnKisSed69
Submitted on 4/28/2004
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Hey I was thinking of telling my ex that I like him again, but I don't know what to say exactly. I think that " I think that you should know that I like you again" sounds too annoying. What do you think I should say?

 

Answer by sara
Submitted on 4/29/2004
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i really like this guy we talk an have a laugh but i cant tell him i like him because i dont now if he likes me how do u now if some one likes u

 

Answer by Dinkydory
Submitted on 5/3/2004
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Should I Ask My Crush Out? I Hardley Ever Speak To Him, And If I Cock-up, I'll Be Teased For Life!

 

Answer by Echo
Submitted on 5/8/2004
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Hello, whats crackin? not much here i just have a little problem. Ok well i like this guy we can just call him (D)and i'mpretty sure he likes me to but i'mnot sure. This is what happened well i was talkin to him at school and his friend was sittin right next to us and his friend asked if i liked (D) and i said yes and then i was talkin to some other people and (D) told me to come over to where he was sittin and then the same friend who had asked me if liked (D)asked me if i would ever date him.Do you think he likes me or what? listen to this the same day my friend Ashley and i were finishing are science experiments in the same class and (D) walks over and his hand brushed my butt. i think he knew he did it. I dont know what to do PLEASE HELP    

 

Answer by banana split
Submitted on 5/8/2004
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i'veliked this hunk for ever. i also had a crush on his best friend, but not like i do now i think i'mactually falling in love (the real kind of love) i'vetaken him to a movie but nothing happened my friends were really happy about that but now i'mreally mad because he should invite me not me invite him. he knows i like him what should i do?

 

Answer by manda_chick
Submitted on 5/10/2004
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k, there is this boy I like in a lot of my classes. at the beginning of the year I hated him, and he liked me and told me i was hot. i blew him off but now i like him!! and i always want to flirt w/ him but well im not very good at it.. he used to flirt with me but not much ne more.. i really like him!! what should i do

 

Answer by katelyn_marksdale
Submitted on 5/11/2004
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hey hun, u should just go for it and tell him u like him.. i mean, if he liked u or still does what do u have to lose? go for it, good luck.
Kate

 

Answer by philippino_babe_89@hotmail.com
Submitted on 5/16/2004
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to help manda_chick, u should tell him u like him. i say this because, my grandma always told me that bottled up feelings can never be put to use. -Aninna

 

Answer by prosper flower
Submitted on 5/16/2004
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how do u know if a guy likes you? any help would be appreciated.

 

Answer by plastic_barbie
Submitted on 5/17/2004
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hello...
u prob.ly will skip my thoughts but i tottaly think u guys should tell the guy i kno u prolly like" oh ya that easy pfft" but trust me it is.. have confidence in urself... what will u loose... nothing.. if he says " i dont think this is gunna work for me" then smile and tell him that its aiigh n good to come out.. i liked this guy for 1 yr n he was graduating.. i had 2 weeks to tell him ... i thought" omg everyone will laugh at me if he rejected me" but i took the chance n told him i asked him if we could talk for a min alone... he said "sur" so i said" listen i kno its too much for uto take now maybe.. n yes u could laugh all u want but  i like to take chances... u never kno where life will bring u unless u try.. but l8ly iv had soo many things run in my mind.. and ur one of them i really do like u alot... if i dont get it out its going to bugg me alot.. its likewhen u walk by.. a big smile shines on my face... so yeah...i just hope we'l still be friends no matter what ur thought is to what i had to say n if u wanna get to talk a bit more about it ... we can sometim after skool u never kno .. give a chance... cuz the one u say no to maybe ur long lost love" ... i mean idid that n my relationship with my bf is 5 1/2 yrs :) im glad i came n told him.. plus he just got cheated n then he dumped a girl :| poor guy ... but now hes happy we found eachother ..so w.e u do dont back off take ur chance.. dont be sad if he doesnt feel the same way... feel strong :)...
if neone wants to talk more bout probs liek this email me pink_ _kiss1619@hotmail.com
(mowahs)

 

Answer by Marisol R.
Submitted on 5/17/2004
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Hey...I'm not a person of very much confidence, but when love is there, go for it.

 

Answer by gretchen
Submitted on 5/19/2004
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UMM ITS NOT REALLY TO DO WITH SCARED OF TELLING A GUY  U LIKE HIM BUT I USED TO GO OUT WITH THIS GUY 3 DAYS I SPENT MOST OF THEM AT HIS HOUSE I REALLY LIKED HIM I EVEN DITCHED MY FAMILY FOR HIM BUT I THOUGHT MY FRIEND WAS REALLYSAD N THAT SHE LIKED HIM TOOO ALOT SO I GAVE HIM UP N I DUMPED HIM N THEN MY EX BESTFRIEND WHENT OUT WITH HIM 2 DAYS AFTER SHE TOLD ME SHE HATED HIM N THEN TODAY HE DUMPED HER N WE HAD SEX TODAY ALSO :| HE ASKED ME TO GO BACK WIT HHIM N THAT E THOUGHT GOING OUT WITH HER WOULD MAKE ME BE CLOSER WITH HIM HIS LIL BRO TOLD ME THAT HE WAS HALF WAY OF CRYIN WHEN I DUMP HIM BUT WHEN HE DUMP MY EX BESTFRIEND HE DIDNT REALLY SAY NETHING.... N THAT EVERYHTING IS WRONG IN HIS FAMILY :| N HE WISHES THERE WAS SOMEONE TO SPEND TIME WITH THAT HE FEELS COMFIRTABLE WITH.. NOW I DONO WHAT TO TELL HIM ...

 

Answer by CHIARA
Submitted on 5/23/2004
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Hey! I am from Russia. I liked guy, he is my age, I like him very much and but I almost did not talk to him, this is stupid...So my friends told me to talk to him and say that i like him. One day I get closer and asked him about something like homework...then I stoped...Then i told him that i like him and i said that he should not b mad at me. He did not say anything. Next day he asked me to b his girlfriend. So...........GOOD LUCK PEOPLE!

 

Answer by kelc
Submitted on 5/24/2004
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I like a guy.. he likes the same bands as me and on MSN hes always typing kinda love song lyrics to me its cute.. but hes my friends brother.. i like him lol. This is so pointless.. =)

 

Answer by skyblu8
Submitted on 5/27/2004
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hey! okay this is my situation,
so im 14 and i go to highschool, anyway at the beginning of he year i got to know this one guy and before we used to hardly see each other around, i guess only around school. so when i got to know him he seemed like a really nice guy, he was sweet and nice and cute and lets juss say he was totally my type! but the problem was that i guess i didnt really want him to know i liked him so i acted like only a friend to him. my other friend who recently came to the school also got to know him a little better and to my surprise he asked her out! i was pretty devastated and sad at the time becuz i really really wanted him to ask me!

well as time went by he and my friend started going out and so i kinda kept the fact that i liked him to myself and tried my best to stop. While all this was going on i met another guy at my school who is really nice and hot mite i add! well one thing lead to another and his friends told me that he really liked me and that he was planning on asking me out and i kinda got over the other guy but in the mean time my friend broke up with the guy. first i felt bad for them but my friend said that she couldnt like him more than a friend. A short while after that to my surprise the guy that i used to like (the guy that my friend broke up with) asked me out!!

i dont wanna hurt his feelings but i also like the other guy and i want him to ask me out! should i say yes to the first guy or should i wait for my crush to ask me out?? as much as i try to forget about the first guy i think i still have feelings for him.. but i do also have feelings for the second guy!!!!! HELP ME PLZZZ

 

Answer by Lauren
Submitted on 5/30/2004
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hey i know how all u girls are feeling...there's this guy that i've liked for about 4 months now, and i really wanna tell him how i feel...about 2 months ago i told him online that i thought he was hot, but then he said right away that he had to go, so he never responded.  over time we have sorta become friends and we talk online  stuff, and he even flirted like the day after i told him he's hot.  does anyone think i should tell him i like him?  i'm scared that he won't wanna be my friend anymore if he doesn't feel the same way...PLEASE help me...cuz lots of girls are in the same situation...advice would really be appreciated!

 

Answer by Monica
Submitted on 5/31/2004
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dear lauren
i think that u should take the chance its part of life... i was scared this guy will reject me or something.. but i told him yesterday :) it was  a rainy day i called him n said" hay can u come out for a walk" so he did it was 12 at night i walked with him n told him" u kno what iv been thinking of telling  u this n its hard.. butno matter what i hope nothing changes after what i am about to tell u... i have feelings that i cant hold ...yeada yeada.." n if he likes u hell say something if hes a jerk bout it hes not the guy to begin with :)

 

Answer by Hawaiinmonkey95
Submitted on 6/3/2004
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I need help.There is a guy I'm OBSESSED about him. He has a girlfriend but she only says hi 2 him 1 time a week and she flirts with other guys.I think Kenneth likes me though. At the fair he was flirting with me and that was after they got together.Please help.

 

Answer by helloheather
Submitted on 6/7/2004
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well he does have a g/f and that means that hes taken but if u can get him to break up with her hes all yours. go for it.

 

Answer by stpaul_abchick
Submitted on 6/8/2004
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Im going through the same thing right now! and i believe its so hard to do! but you have to do what you have to do! For me i know he likes me back! but think that he might either A) say he likes u back or B) wont talk to you again! sometimes guys dont know how to take certian things head on! dont worry about it! if all goes wrong! ask if you guys can still br friends! it might be awkward at first but you have to take it slow!

 

Answer by stpaul_abchick
Submitted on 6/8/2004
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Im going through the same thing right now! and i believe its so hard to do! but you have to do what you have to do! For me i know he likes me back! but think that he might either A) say he likes u back or B) wont talk to you again! sometimes guys dont know how to take certian things head on! dont worry about it! if all goes wrong! ask if you guys can still br friends! it might be awkward at first but you have to take it slow!

 

Answer by shortyy77
Submitted on 6/9/2004
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ok, i really like this guy and hes popular but im not and..i told my friend i liked him and shes friends with him, so she was like "u know who would make a really cute couple, you and (my name)" then he laughed and sed i was 2 short :( we talk sometimes but i dont want to over talk to think that im annoying him..i dont know if i should tell him i like him or what..?

PS my friend aslo liked him

WHAT DO I DO?

 

Answer by anonymous
Submitted on 6/11/2004
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well, i dont think its a girls place to come up to a guy and tell him she likes him.
It is up to him. It is important to get his attention, be flirty, but dont be TOOO much of a whore!

 

Answer by TinkerBell
Submitted on 6/14/2004
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I love this guy to death but hes in grade 11 and I'm only in grade 9, but he flirts with me like CRAZY. he has a Girlfriend but I'm pretty sure he doesn't like her that much, and he is always stareing at me, waving and stuff, i dont know what to do, also there is this other guy that i just adore and he is super flirty, i dont know what to do, HELP!!

 

Answer by margaret
Submitted on 6/16/2004
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I have a problem also. there is this guy. one night my friends were over my house and whatever. i didn't like him but after he had left i said to my guy friend that wow mike if such a nice guy!and he had called me to say good night. then my friend called him and pretended that he had left also he was like oh ya margaret said some good stuff about you blah blah blah and the guy was like straight.. so he called me again.  we talked for like 10 minutes or whatever. the next couple days we good ( a couple i mean like a week) i visited him on his break and we talked. then one day he decides he "doesn't like me anymore" ummm,,,, that's weird. i think it means he never liked me in the first place  if he got over that so quickly. but also he had broken up with his girlfriend of a month a week before anything was said. and i don't know how to act around him or anything.  hes not really cute or anything. but i don't know why he did this. did he feel sorry for me? i have no clue!

 

Answer by curious george
Submitted on 6/17/2004
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alright... um to el everyone the truth, im a guy but i dont want to be mean but i need some help. There is a girl i like, and i like her a lot.  We flirt every now and then and it makes me like her even more.  I want to ask her out or at least ask her on a date, but im not sure if she likes me or not.  I think she does, cause  why else would she flirt.  so my question is, how do i ask this girl out on a date or ask her out/

 

Answer by LonelyOne
Submitted on 6/17/2004
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To:curious george                            Just ask her. Start a conversation like "oh have seen you the day after tommorow?" Or just something like that. If she says no then say something like"Well then how would you like to come see it with me?" Im pretty sure she'll get the message like that.            good luck -Gabby

 

Answer by Margaret
Submitted on 6/18/2004
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tinkerbell, ok this guy you like you say he flirts with you. but when you see him in the halls does he acknowledge you? also i remember when i was a freshman, freshmen don't really think. you think you know everything but highschool is a new experience to you. since he does have a girlfriend what makes you think they are unhappy? what are they like when they are together? just because he does flirt with you doesnt mean anything. this happens to everyone. most of the time it is just to play with you and see if they can get your attention. most of the time they are happy with their relationship.

 

Answer by steffiekay
Submitted on 6/21/2004
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theres this guy i like and i have liked him for a long time and last year one of his friends asked me if i like him and i said yes but he told him i said no but i still like him and i wanna know if he has a girlfriend and if he still likes me so what should i do?

 

Answer by iluvsurferguyz
Submitted on 6/26/2004
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u kno wat? i told a guy i liked him on the last day of skool hoping that i wont see him for like 3 months and then later that weekend i saw him. And theres also like 4 other grls that told him and it was no big deal but he hasnt asked any of us out and i know he likes one of us im just not really sure which one

 

Answer by unsure
Submitted on 6/30/2004
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Hey! I met this guy at a party and hung out with him and my friends, and did the same at another party.  I also talked to him at school, but only for a quick second. For some reason, however, I really like him and can't stop thinking about him. I have no clue why and feel stupid about it because I don't even know him, but I would like to talk to him or see him again, but I don't even know how to contact him. I do have a freind who is a good friend of his and I'm sure she'd talk to him for me if I asked, but I don't know if I should do this because he might think that I'm desperate or weird or something to like him for no apparent reason. What should I do? Thanks!!!

 

Answer by LIL
Submitted on 7/3/2004
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i did fancy 3 boys at once but iv narrowed it down to 1 boy now that i like. he is very shy and so am i, he has never had a girlfriend before what should i do i dont no if he evanlikes me. HELP ME!!!

 

Answer by nikki
Submitted on 7/3/2004
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yeah sure about get his friend to tell him cuz then he will start likin you and then he will ask his friend about  you and then his friend will tell you and he will seem to follow you or always be around and then he'll startto like you and then he'll ask you out it is deffent to happen

 

Answer by LuV hUrTs
Submitted on 7/6/2004
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i'm 12 n...sighs...i dunno...but i like this guy in sch...he's so damn cute...but he's very bad temper though...he doesnt noe i like him....but...i wanna tell him...not face to face...but on msn...but he nvr cums online...but b4 he cums online...i'm gonna change his temper...whether he likes me or notz...

 

Answer by ebl
Submitted on 7/12/2004
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theres this boy that i like alot but his friend ruind it he said that mark liked me and the friendship waz ruind but the day he said that i waz like ewww but now im head over heels over this guy and i only get to see him this week at VBS i wrote a note but im scared of regection HELLPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by homefry
Submitted on 7/21/2004
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i no how u feel. i like his guy he is soooo
nice.i've had a "thing"for him since i met him 1 yr. ago! i've been debating wheather to ask him out. then i figured im gonna go for it. u never no he may say yes. guys probably feel the same pressure we do. and even if he doesn't, would u rather face a minute of embarassment, or a lifetime of just wondering "what if i'd asked him." good luck! hope i've helped!

 

Answer by sweetchick88
Submitted on 8/13/2004
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I don't know whaT to do. wed. school starts and i wanna know if he likes me.

 

Answer by nirvanalover
Submitted on 8/13/2004
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Okay.. umm..wow.. Uhh-- Let's see.  
I recently started liking 2 people.
But then again.. there is also history
with 2 other ppl.. ehhh

#1. He has been in the same school as me for yr.'s but I've never gotten to know him.  I've always thought.. that there was something special about him ***.. He's so cool & mysterious. Then suddenly, this yr. I realize.. Wow.. He's so gorgeous.. Why haven't I noticed???! He's so cool.. But, people say he is immature.  I think he roxx.
But, thing is.. I've never talked to him just one-on-one.  I've talked in groups with him, just not directly.. We've made eye contact, and I constantly try to be around him.. but I can get so nervous-- I seriously don't know how to get over this..
#2. He has all the wonderrrfullll qualities I want.. His smile just makes me melt.. He's so friendly and sweet, and he's such a joker.. He can always make me smile.. And given he is so hot.. he's got piercing blue eyes dark hair and a pale complexion.. he's so amazing.. and we've made eye contact and smiled a lot at each other..but.. my friend likes him--- I am just afraid that she would get mad at me if ...? and she even started talking about .. (the first guy^^^) in front of him... eek..
#3- I used to be obsessed with him. He's great. But, I don't really have feelings for him any more. He's my best friend. But, he says that (guy number 1...) is a bad choice.. and that he doesnt know .. guy number two .. that well.
#4- he's my ex-b/f and we were going to hook back up over the summer.. didn't happen. We keep talking, but he seems to strain from talking to any one really .. except.. guy number 3.. He also used to be best friends.. .with ..guy number 1.. heehhh..oh.. wow..

WHAATTTTTTT should i do..?

 

Answer by Ziggy
Submitted on 8/14/2004
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should i tell him i love him or just leave it has good friends

 

Answer by Ziggy
Submitted on 8/14/2004
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what do i do if he says no when i ask him out  he is abit older than me

 

Answer by extreamhottie33
Submitted on 8/19/2004
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I think that you should just tell him because that is what happend to me,i wasnt sure if i like this guy and i let him waite to long and now i want him.so just dont let him slip through fingers.

 

Answer by Roni_baibee
Submitted on 8/22/2004
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Hi,
I'm 13 I like my best friend,and we've known each other for 9 years so far and I've really gotten to know him within the past year, he smiles at me, flirts, compliments me in private when no one is listening or looking.  He's asked me if I liked him a few times before and I wanted to cry when I told him no, it really broke my heart.  He was trying to guess who I liked and he had a few hints here and there, my friends are always saying we're perfect that no one else has ever made a perfect mate for him but me, and that he likes me and he wants me to make the first move, but with all of this, sometimes I think hes just being a really great friend is all. And I don't want to risk the greatest friendship that we already have. What do I do? Does he like me? How can I tell him how I feel? As you can see I've given this so much thought and I really need to come to an absolute conclusion, or something close at least!  

 

Answer by Pounding-Heart4aguy
Submitted on 9/7/2004
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Hello peeps, I am stuck in the same position as all of you. It all started of like this, I saw this really cute and charming guy in one of my classes and I just couldn't take my eyes off him. Hes only two years younger than me.  Ever since I saw him, I have always wanted to tell him I had a crush on him but never actually got the chance to.
:-(Every time I see him, he is with his guy friends and most of the time I get a chance to have a good conversation with him. He's really smart and decent. The problem is, I don't know if he has a girl or not, its like two of his guy friends have told me he has a girl but I don't know 4 sure. I really love this guy from the 1st day and I'mnot sure he knows.  How am I supposed to tell me that. How do I give him hints that I really like him, I've known him for over a year now as he was in my college and now he is moving college. When do find the right time to tell him and how do I tell him? I really need some good advice which will work!!!!

 

Answer by invaderzim050
Submitted on 9/11/2004
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i am gay i like a guy  but i don't know if he is gay too what should i do?

 

Answer by lizz
Submitted on 9/14/2004
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i know this guy cause i sometimes sit on the bus with him. I see him in the halls and he is in my lunch. we dont talk but just smile. i asked acouple of people if i should ask him out. they said yes. but he does not know me. so sould i introduce myself and then ask him what should i do?

Lizz

 

Answer by nicole
Submitted on 9/14/2004
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I like a boy and it seems that he likes me too!!!!!!!!! I don't know if I should tell him or not. but if you really like him you should tell him besides maybe he likes you as well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by emmie
Submitted on 9/20/2004
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i really like this guy but he is like my best m8 n i do not no weather to tell him in case he does not feel the same or if it will spoil our friendship :( please help me x

 

Answer by me
Submitted on 9/20/2004
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i like this guy and i think he likes me back but I'm scared to do anything with him cause my friends tell me he is the kind of person who is only in a relationship for sex. but he doesn't seem like that and I'm not sure what to do so any advice would be great. thanks

 

Answer by little'b
Submitted on 9/22/2004
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Hey
everyone says that me and this guy at (that i really like) school  flirt all the time,i really like him but i don't know if he likes me. I need advice should i tell him.He acts like he does sometimes.

 

Answer by smartie
Submitted on 9/28/2004
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hey girls!
I need to tell you my story of liking a guy!
well well, i broke up with my bf few months ago. i had spent 2 years with him. i wasnt happy so i decided to finish. I NOW LIKE A GUY who is studying at the same university as me. i had been seeing him at a cafe where he works partime as a waiter. i never liked him in a special way because i had a bf which is logical. i feel he likes me because of the enthusiastic way he speaks with me. i lended him a book he needs for a course and left him a note in the book at his work. so when he met me couple of weeks later he was all enthusiastic and talking a lot about the similarities between the book i lended him and the one he had and so on. we was so happy or he seemed happy!
PROBLEM: but the owner of the cafe fancies me so much he even told me: i wish i were younger to date you!! and sometimes he says: bonjour mon amour ca va?
OH MY GOD! GRRR.. the guy who works for him is in his early twenties which is good for me.
I like to go to that cafe to see the guy but the boss annoys me!!
HELP! PLEAAAASE WRITE TO ME TO TLIJA@hOTMAIL.COM BECAUSE I MIGHT LOSE THE WEBSITE FOR I AM VISITING IT FOR THE FIRST TIME!

 

Answer by kelso
Submitted on 10/2/2004
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hi, i have a question
i'm 14 and i really like this guy alex who moved away during the summer...i know it sounds stupid but i still want to know if he likes me or not, our only communication  is over the internet and I wanted to know how i could get him to like me...
if u can help thanks!!!!!

 

Answer by ruffy
Submitted on 10/9/2004
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well I'm in the same situation too sometimes our eyes meat but no-one has the guts to say a word i really do and i think he knows that also but i cannot start even a conversation with him. what can i do to, i don't even have a friendship with him, i just like him.....

 

Answer by ThebestChoice
Submitted on 10/11/2004
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This is my story- I like this guy and we have known each other for 2 years we are really good friends. And everyday he compliments me and he flirts with me. But yet he asks me for advice to get a girl he likes. and he talks about her constantly . And he still compliments me everyday! and my Friend asked him if he likes me and he said no. I really don't understand! How should i tell him how i feel. And i don't want  to feel awkward around each-other as it is! Help

 

Answer by danie
Submitted on 10/23/2004
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i dunno what to do either

 

Answer by kukukachu
Submitted on 10/28/2004
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My b/f and I have been going out for 9months and 25days.I think he is the one i want to marry, for our 1 year anniversary i want him to get me a promise ring,how can I be sure that he feels the same about me? How can I hint to him what I want without being pushy?

 

Answer by i love him
Submitted on 11/1/2004
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i like this one guy Jacob obviously and i thin he might like me but i am not sure because he has a girlfriend but when it is just me and him we flirt and everything.but i don't know if he knows that i like him should i tell him just to let him know or does he already know?

 

Answer by Katie
Submitted on 11/4/2004
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Hey Im 13 and I like this guy that I think likes me too. He stares at me, and smiles. I have never noticed him staring at another girl b4. The prob is that A LOT of girls like him, but he hasent said anything about liking them at all. Should I tell him i like him? If so, what should I say? Help!!

 

Answer by sfclassof04
Submitted on 11/14/2004
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i like this girl and i think she likes me but she just broke up with her boy and i don't know how to find out if she likes me and how to tell her i like her. i don't know if it is completely over with her and him. please help.

 

Answer by Jenn
Submitted on 11/16/2004
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Hey I think telling a guy that you like him is a great thing. I told a guy that i liked him over MSN We were good friends. and i want that friendship back. I thought he liked me because we always pocked each other and i aways have a good time with him. But the other problem is that my best friend likes him too. and i haven'tto her that i tole him. so from what i have been going throw then just take a changes and go for it!

 

Answer by SxylilShayShay69
Submitted on 11/17/2004
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Hey hunn! if u really like this guy, then wat is there to loose? go ahead and ask him!i mean its worth a try, and who knos he kud like u back! but ull never kno unless u ask first, no affense guys, but guys r not as bright as girls, so they dont take to mind that someone kud like them! thats just the way they r, but yes definatly tell him! then its out in the open and ull feel so much better,and who knos he might even say yes, or u guys kud end up to be really good friends! either good luck! tru love is hard to find, but once u find it u kno its tru! find ur tru love, and if u dont, dont worry its not the end of the world, just move on to the next guy! ull find someone soon! good luck! * * SxylilShayShay69* * i love robbie!

 

Answer by shorty
Submitted on 11/20/2004
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I like this guy and i have a feeling he likes me, i could be wrong(but he flirts). how do i get him to know that i like him, without making it to ovious. Help!

 

Answer by feyona
Submitted on 11/21/2004
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My friends have asked the boy I like out but it wasn't me.I think he likes me because when I walk by in school he looks a me and sometimes he says hi. We aren't much of friends.And also He knows I like him.

 

Answer by B16TCH
Submitted on 11/22/2004
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Lunch Number..and then backwards

 

Answer by LuKe
Submitted on 11/25/2004
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I like a girl called emily but i don't know how 2 tell her i don't know if i should . i don't know if she likes me! should i tell her?

 

Answer by Pudding
Submitted on 11/29/2004
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how can i tell a guy i like him, i've known him for 2 years and i can't do it!

there's only two weeks left of term including this week, then we get shipped off to different highschools!

WHAT A DRAG!

PLEASE HELP ME!

 

Answer by kacheeky
Submitted on 12/5/2004
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Hey all...I am going through the same thing I like this guy and he acts like he likes me but we are friends and I don't wanna mess up our friendship by telling him I like him...why mess up a good thing..any advise I really need it. Thanx a million!!

 

Answer by Shy and Clueless
Submitted on 12/9/2004
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I like this guy at school, but he just broke up with his girlfriend a month ago who has become my friend and she hates him. and i don't know what to do

 

Answer by jessi
Submitted on 12/10/2004
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i really like this boy and i dont know if he likes me we go to the same school but we live far from each other im a freshmen and hes a junior im good friends with his sister and i told her i love him. i think he likes me because he only takes things from me like he asked for my pencil he took my notes out of everyones and im thinking if i shopuld tell him or not and i really dont know what to do. what  should i do?

 

Answer by broken_heart
Submitted on 12/12/2004
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i told a guy i really liked him, he used to always talk to me for no apparent reason in the halls and what not, then when i told him.... he never talks to me anymore. then i found out he likes a diffrent chick from a diffrent school. the only thing he does is give me glances when im not lookin. it kinda makes me sad cause i still like him alot. but otherwise im pretty ok. I think you should tell the guy you like him just to see what happens. cause if its bad.... than you laugh at it.... and then eeevvverryythiinnnggg is better. :D

 

Answer by brit
Submitted on 12/17/2004
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i would tell him but i am goin through the same thing with my best friend and i havent told him but he will probably think your not mature enough to like if u get your friend to tell him!its kinda personal so yeah!

 

Answer by Pam
Submitted on 12/17/2004
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I have a question....see i like this guy, and i'veliked him for a while...i dunno how long i can keep it from, him or myt friends, i just want to get it over with ya know? So i was thihnking of writing a letter, but the problem is, what should i say!!!

 

Answer by Smash_xox_babie
Submitted on 12/20/2004
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I say do what you want just go with the flow.....but i have some problems of my own!! I realllly like this guy and i told my friend...big mistake now the intire school knows should i go ahead and flirt and talk to him or just let the gossip cool down a little...

 

Answer by Laura
Submitted on 12/23/2004
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HELP!!!!  I have this good friend named Matt, and I really like him.  We walk from our science class that we have together to lunch, and from there to study.  I sit with him at lunch, and he lets me wear his hat.  I'm trying to tell him that I like him, but I can't get the courage.  Help please!

 

Answer by Jessy0466
Submitted on 12/30/2004
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How can I tell a guy that I love him ?

 

Answer by so confused
Submitted on 12/31/2004
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ok i like this guy and i need to tell him how i feel but im scared that he wont feel the same-->im 13 turning 14 really soon and hes 16 were like 2 years part if u even it out and so i think he knows i like him but he doesnt know exacly how i feel i need to tell him its killing me but im not sure if i should or not cuz i dont want him to be weird then like my friend asked him what he thought of me and he said he would probably hang with me and i was glad to hear that but when i asked him he said he wasnt sure yet...should i just say like hey i like u alot but i would love to get to know u more if thats ok with you i know im like 2 years younger but if u like someone that really doesnt matter would u like to catch a movie this weekend or somethin??? PLZ HELP ME!!
This girl who is ma friend and who is 19 thinks if i tell him I'm to forcefull am i??

 

Answer by so confused
Submitted on 12/31/2004
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if u can help me please help me!!

 

Answer by so confused
Submitted on 12/31/2004
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if u can help me can u e-mail me at flirtychik17@hotmail.com it would be really great thanks:)

 

Answer by Unloved
Submitted on 1/8/2005
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Ok i'vegots a problem...one thats like most of yours...ok well i really like this guy, but the problem is that he's got a girl frend: ( i don't really have n e thing to do cuz his gf is my frend...so if its possible and he breaks up with her and "goes out with me" then shed be mad at me and i'dlose a good frend!: / i sad now cuz i just...well i just like him alot and i wanna go out with him and all that crap but i can't!:`(

 

Answer by luv is like heaven but hurts like hell
Submitted on 1/11/2005
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Hey i like this guy but i dont know if i should tell him... he has a gurlfriend but i think he likes me cuz he doesnt like her that much. and i just want some answers so please answer me and tell me wut u think

 

Answer by brittany
Submitted on 1/16/2005
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i have really liked this guy for a really long time and the only thing i have said to him was "hey I'm brittany" how should i tell him how i feel. I'm really afraid of rejection

 

Answer by i think im in love
Submitted on 1/19/2005
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hey all! im in 8th grade and im obsessed with this guy. i really really like him! he's in like 3 of my classes and is really nice. He picked me to be on his team for volleyball (hehe)! so anyways...theres this song by mandy moore and its called i think im in love and i really want to like hand him my ipod and be like hey listen to this but would that be really dumb? and if i did wut would i say? HELP PLEEEEEEEASE!! thanks a million!

 

Answer by Dexy the guy magnet
Submitted on 1/26/2005
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Hey well im not really to sure what to do..i need help..you see i have this thing for a guy i know his names shane and i like him soooo frickin much im not sure how he feels and im not sure how to ask him.....i do think that he knows tho...plz if n e one has a good clean way to ask him how he feels plz feel free to e-mail me at flirtychik17@hotmail.com...thanks

 

Answer by BloNde R alWayS beTteR
Submitted on 1/28/2005
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ok i have liked this one kid off and on now that i talk to him more at school and online i am liking him even more the problem is he likes my best friend!  he has liked me once b4 but nothin happened and he asked my best friend out this past weekend and she said yes but broke up with him the next day because she doesnt like him....she already knows i liek him and does not care but i dont no wat to do should i tell him or wat??? plzzz help

 

Answer by cobra
Submitted on 1/29/2005
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I really like this guy, but he's younger then me by a year, and he hits on me! he also has a girlfriend, i don't know what i should tell him, or do!

 

Answer by beany beanz
Submitted on 2/6/2005
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hey,
i think the best way to tell him is like this... ask him to watch movies at your house, make sure its a scary one! when he is getting ready to leave and is at the door that is you Que to tell him that you like him alot and would like for him to watch movies again sometime. if he doesn't want to go out with you then think of it this way there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

 

Answer by Munchkin
Submitted on 2/12/2005
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I'm going through the exact same thing i think even if he says that he doesnt like me after i tell him that i think that ill just feel better
after all there are all of fish in the sea

 

Answer by cutegirlcarlie
Submitted on 2/15/2005
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yea omg i like this one boy at school he is so cute but he has a gf and i flirt wit him sometimes but i dont know how to tell him that i like him too? help me plz...

 

Answer by LoveCrushz
Submitted on 2/16/2005
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Well, This guy at school i really like him alot and he flirted with me by playing in my hair all the time and smiling at me, he winked at me before too while i was watching him play basketball. I was totally in love so Valentine's Day was coming up and i wrote him a love letter and gave it to him, that same day he told me from a distance that he loved me!" :)0

 

Answer by LIL'B
Submitted on 2/19/2005
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I ACTUALLY I NEED HELP
I DO NOT KNOW IF I SHOULD TELL
THIS GUY SRAIGHT UP TAT I LIKE HIM!!!!!!!!!!
I DO NOT KNOW NOTHING ABOUT HIM
BUT HE IS HOT

 

Answer by confused101
Submitted on 2/21/2005
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i have a huge problem i have this friend that i have known since i was 3 and i am now 15 and so is he and i saw him over christmas and he seemed to like me and he hung out with me the whole 2 weeks that we were out and he is really cute but he lives over 1,000 miles away and i also like this other guy that i have been friends with for 3 years and he is a year older than me and he seemed to like me for a while and then i over hered him saying that this girl asked him out a few days ago and he said that he did not want to date her and i am so confused because i do not know who i should ask out or even if i should ask out ether one of them. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP!!!!

 

Answer by elle_bell
Submitted on 2/24/2005
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i like this guy that catches my bus but i can't bring myself to talk to him!!!

 

Answer by Patience
Submitted on 2/24/2005
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Well it all depends are you friends with this guy? Can you be yourself around him? If the answer to all these questions are yes then definatly tell him

 

Answer by cutyma
Submitted on 3/2/2005
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yes girl how will you know if you don't tell maybe he'll turn around and see t hat he feels the same way about you holla

 

Answer by crissy
Submitted on 3/4/2005
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umm im 12 and the guy i lik is 13 and he looks at me but i don't know if he likes me but i like him alot should i tell me wat if he says he doesn't like me back im confused and scared help me out please.

 

Answer by Mallory Vanover
Submitted on 3/12/2005
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Monky Girl,
         If I were you I would ask him if he liked me then you know for sure and can ask him out on a date.

 

Answer by easy8
Submitted on 3/13/2005
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I know exacally how you feel. There is this guy I like, and he had a girlfriend. But he broke up with her, and he always looks at me and flirts. I hate waiting... but it is the best thing you can do right now. It seems like forever, but you will be glad you did when he comes to his senses; and if he doesn't, then you are better off.

 

Answer by grace-ay
Submitted on 3/17/2005
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if i were you i would tell him...i used to be that way...but the guy i like found out...and if you dont tell him soon...you will get heartbroken...like i did...but the guy i like doesnt notice...he doesnt even notice me...but whats really sad is that he has a girlfriend...and he said to me to be just "GOOD FRIENDS"...not everything goes well...but if you keep it in...youll be in much hurt and youll soon want to tell him soon...so i think you should tell him...

 

Answer by Unknown
Submitted on 3/25/2005
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Well... I like this guy and he is in all of my classes but anyways he is pretty popular and well... I'm not!He likes skateboarding and I didn't but now I try to, to impress him, he and I really don't talk much but were cool.I want to tell him I have feelings for him but how?PLEASE HELP!!!!

 

Answer by boo
Submitted on 3/30/2005
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boo boo boo, i have to go!

 

Answer by sarah
Submitted on 4/8/2005
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i like a guy but he is by best friends x what should i do?

 

Answer by ***Sweatthang****
Submitted on 4/19/2005
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there is this guy and he use to be obbssed with me! i liked him but was scared he asked me to go for a walk be the lake (all this was at the beggining of the year) i told him no mostly because my friends would cruise me and i didn't wanna ruin my rep if any thing happened (i am 13). now it is 2 months till the end of the year and i just found out that i like him SO BADLY i just didn't want to admit it! we were talking on MSN for like 2 hours a few months ago and he told me when he first started to like me was at our first Jr high dance (we danced like 8 times) he told me that when he looked into my eyes he was hooked. I know that i love him and i don't know weather to tell him cause hes probublly moved on now. I don't know what to do i want a fairy tale ending that will NEVER happen because I'm WAY to shy!what should i do????

 

Answer by @rsenic_33
Submitted on 4/22/2005
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well its funny cause i just told the guy i've been crushing on that i like him. i wrote him a letter yesterday and i gave it to him. i'm SO afraid on what he is going to say, but i'm happy that i told him.....i'm just hoping for the best! so i really think that u should tell the guy that u like him. sincerely, melissa

 

Answer by i love connor
Submitted on 4/22/2005
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i like this guy named connor and i think he knows and i think he likes me too but how do i tell him i do plz HELP ME!

             LUV,ILOVECONNOR

 

Answer by I LOVE CONNOR
Submitted on 4/22/2005
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dear ebl if u only get to see him this week how will that work out i mean if u love him i get the picture if u love him tell him right away then u will have more time to spend with him andhe will fall in love with u even more every minute so i think u should tell him

 

Answer by val
Submitted on 4/29/2005
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Yeah, my parents say I'm too young to love and all but i really love this guy but we're sorta both too young and I'm scared that if i just go straight out and say, he'll reject!

 

Answer by Curtisluver
Submitted on 4/30/2005
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I would appreciate it if somebody would give me advice.Just yesterday, I really noticed for the first time, that this boy named Curtis Watkins was looking at me, I looked at him and he turned his eyes off me.When I go and get a drink, i'mgoing 2 get help from my teachers, or i'mwalking towards him, he looks at me while i'mwalking.He smiles at me and everything. Actually i'venoticed him looking at me a while ago, and I didn't think much of it, now I can't help but notice it, cuz I always see him looking at me when he thinks I can't see him looking. Does he like me, or wat?

kristina_forsha@yahoo.com


 

Answer by Leslee
Submitted on 5/1/2005
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Hey I really need help! okay well my best friend told me to tell this guy(Who is one of my good friends) that i liked him so i did and he said that he did not like me like that! and now he won't talk to me! What should i do!?

 

Answer by banana
Submitted on 5/7/2005
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Hey gurlies!

  I really badly need help! you see theres this guy I like but we have only been friends and I don't know if he wants to be more then that or not with me! Plus he has a girlfriend that scares me! So should I tell him I like him and hope his girlfriend won't get mad or just wonder what would have happened?

 

Answer by pritty kitty
Submitted on 5/8/2005
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of course you should! If you tell the guy the truth it shows him you are trustworthy to tell him anything. especially the way you feel for him!

 

Answer by cutiepie9614
Submitted on 5/10/2005
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hey if you like a girl what the heck tell her!!! but don't do it in a way that she will stay away from you as much as possible!
so i say if you like her tell her most girls like guys who can actually tell them stuff and trust them. SO JUST TELL HER!! i'mnot saying to just come up to her around everyone but just kinda when you're alone after school or something. but if you tell her make sure you have her trust and you don't make her feel uncomfortable around you.

 

Answer by Dollydale
Submitted on 5/10/2005
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I have known this guy for a long time, We have danced, party together, talk alot and I always thought of him just as a friend.
  I went to Deaf Expo the other day and I saw him there. He came over to me start hanging with me, walking around looking at things that they were selling like pagers, equipments for the deaf people. We laugh so much and I really enjoy his company.
   A friend of mine took a picture of us together. It looks so good.
He came home with me after the event was over, we chatted all night and gotten to know each other better.I took him home the next day then on way home, I started thinking about him. His face keeps appears in my mind everywhere and I cant stop thinking about him. What does that mean ?
He even send me email said ,He almost fell in love with me then said Kidding , Is he being serious or JOKING ? Could he be falling love with me for real? I did send him email told him I am in love with him and How I feel about him . I want this man so badly but he told me to give him time he is working alot of overtime to save money to move out and get him a car.He has been living with his ex-girlfriend.
She told him to find someone else and They are just good friends and he has no car that is the reason he rides with her to work. They work at the same place at the Post Office.
  Do I have a chance with him ??? HELP ME !! I need your ADVICE .........

 

Answer by carebear babe
Submitted on 5/17/2005
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hay i have two boys i been crushing on 4 a yr! i know that one of them likes me and i don't know if i should ask him out and the other 1 is like almost my best friend. he likes another girl and i don't want to get in the way of anything, but all i know is that he likes me a lot because when we went to a party he always is right beside me and every where i go he goes. today he asked mi what is my email address and what is my phone number! i was super excited about giving him this info! the other boy i been liking loves me and every day i here that he is looking for me and usually i say okay but i just told my friend that he can tell the boy that i like him on the last day of school. i like them both the same but if i like the other 1 more than i am afraid that he will have a broken heart and i don't know if this will be the only chance i will get w/ him! who should i go w/?¿?¿? the guy that i go to parties w/ loves to tickle me and flirts w/ me a lot! they both love to flirt w/ me but i love to flirt back! the party one is in my class and we always talk to each other and the other one talks to me every so often i like them for good reasons but i just don't know who to go w/! can you please help me?¿?¿?


signed,
the young and the hopeless

 

Answer by Danyella
Submitted on 5/18/2005
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I told my friend to tell a guy named Rocky that i like him, and she did but he was in front of his friends  . See the thing im scared of is that  last time i liked a guy and i told her to tell him he stopped talking to me even until this day cause he is in my class too , but this time its different. Rocky isn't mad at me and it just happend today but he is still flirting with me kind of and although it might increase later or tomorrow, it isn't as much as the flirting we were doing yesterday. Cause he sits behind me and yesterday his hand was hanging off of his desk and i was playing with it getting ready to hold it then michael the one i told i liked him and got and at me came back in class so rocky told my to stop in a nice hot way and he puts his foot under my chair when me foot is there so we touch. And when i have my arm behind my chair he puts his legs there and i grabbed it seemingly on accident and he didn't tell me to let go and today he called my name in class to show me stuff in the book  and look at him. I think he is trying to get my attention. and he even trusts me inside of my backpack and he had money in there.I like Rocky so much but im still not sure if he likes me. Yes or No? Pleez Help! Luv Danyella

 

Answer by sk8erchick
Submitted on 5/22/2005
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i like this one guy and he likes me! we been together as friends but that is it. my best friend tells me to ask him out but i want him to ask me out because i don't want him to think i am a dispirit girl or anything like that. i also like another guy and he tries to get really close to me at parties when nobody is looking. but then someone always notice and says," Ethan likes Callie" but he follows me around. i think he likes me and i like him but i want to ask out of the boys out but i don't want to be cheating on any one! what should i do?
signed,
the young and the hopeless

 

Answer by jkl-ip-gloss
Submitted on 5/22/2005
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why are you soooo afrid of a boy?!?!?! They are practicly harmless! just ask him if he likes you! it's not that hard people. What if he says no, you ask? YOU MOVE ON TO A DIFFERENT GUY! Big fat flippin deal!
Hope I helped! BYE

 

Answer by Lydia
Submitted on 5/24/2005
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I really like this guy.He's really shy though. Someone asked him if he thought I was hott or if he had a crush on me.He said "No, i cant say i do."But lots f times i see him staring at me.What is that supposed mean.Should I tell him I like him???They say he doesnt like girls like that yet but hes 16.

 

Answer by fred13isred
Submitted on 5/26/2005
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i totally know how you feel. @ my old school this guy and I both knew we liked each other and we flirted every day. we just couldn't say "i like you" to each other. then i had to go to a new school and its all over. do it sooner than l8r. now im trying 2 hook up w/ the guy again. any advice on how 2 do It?

 

Answer by Ash
Submitted on 5/26/2005
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I really really really really really really really really really like this guy. Should I tell him I like him? What if he says no???

 

Answer by i'mlost
Submitted on 6/1/2005
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i like this guy and he is 10 years older than me, i want to tell him how i feel but i am too scared, what should i do?

 

Answer by melly
Submitted on 6/9/2005
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well ok i like a boy form 1 of my classes and i told my friends that i had like him for a bit than they both ran over there and told him.they said will you go out with melly  than he yeahed out nnnnoooooo now never since that class i seems we are getting closer. do i ask him or play along what his doing.

 

Answer by lil bruce
Submitted on 6/13/2005
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i like this guy and he says he doesn't like me back and we keep making eye contact some one please help me!!

 

Answer by HOTTIE WIT
Submitted on 6/13/2005
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OOOOOOKKKKKKKKKAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!! I LIKE THIS GUY "A LOT A LOT" AND HE LIKES ME AND I KNOW IT. CUZ I HAD A POOL PARTY FOR MY BROTHER'S BASEBALL TEAM AND HE'S ON IT. AND WE WENT ON MY LONG DRIVEWAY TO LOOK AT THE STARS AND HE KISSED ME. AWWWWWWWWW! IT WAS THE MOST ROMANTIC NIGHT OF MY YOUNG LIFE. I'M 14 FOR THE RECORD. ]
i JUST THINK YOU SHOULD TELL HIM INDIRECTLY. bE SUBTLE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS. DON'T RUSH THINGS. YOU CAN TELL HIM WITH HINTS AND SUPRISE HIM WITH A SMALL KISS ON THE CHEEK OR SOMETHING. CUTE AND SWEET ARE ALWAYS IN. BE CUTE, NOT "WHORY" AND CRAP LIKE THAT. GUYS DON'T LIKE IT WHEN A GIRLS BOOBS ARE HANGING OUT OF HER SHIRT. SAME WITH YOUR BUTT. SUCK IT I GIRL. BE DECREET. LIKE HIS HANDS WONDER. (ONYOU! LOL) IT'S FUN TO HAVE HIM TOUCH YOU. IT TICKLES LOL!
HAVE FUN WITH YOUR LOVER Y'ALL!

 

Answer by CHUCKLES2
Submitted on 6/19/2005
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I LIKE ONE OF MY GUY FRIENDS, AND I TOLD HIM ON HIS XANGA SITE. PROBLEM IS HE HAS THIS OTHER "FRIEND"WHO HE SPENDS A LOT OF TIME WITH. HE CLAIMS THEIR JUST PALS BUT HIS MOM SAYS DIFFERENTLY. BUT HE FLIRTS WITH ME ALOT . AND HE NEVER SAID HE DIDN'T LIKE ME. AND A LOT OF PEOPLE THINK WE MAKE A GOOD COUPLE.WE STILL TALK BUT ABOUT EVERYTHING BUT HIS FEELINGS 4 EITHER 1 OF US.ALSO HE TALKS ABOUT DIS GIRL NONSTOP EXCEPT WHEN I'M AROUND. BUT HE OFFERS ME RIDES HOME &2BUY ME DRINKS &WE TALK 4 HRS. I'M SO CONFUSED. ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE?

 

Answer by CON- FOOSED
Submitted on 6/19/2005
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OK,U READY? I HAVE A GUY FRIEND THAT I HAVE LIKED 4 2 MONTHS NOW,SO I GOT 2 WHERE I COULDN'T TAKE IT ANY MORE. I ABSOLUTELY HAD 2 TELL HIM. WHATZ THE WORST HE COULD SAY RIGHT? WELL,THAT WAS ABOUT 2 WEEKS AGO & WERE STILL COOL AS FRIENDZ IGUESS, BUT HE'S BEEN ACTING WEIRD.LIKE U KNOW HOW HE GOES 2 MY CHURCH? WELL,AFTER CHURCH ON WEDNESDAY NIGHTZ WE USED 2 HANG OUT AFTER CHURCH AT KRISPY KREME OR SOMEWHERE,NOW HE'S VERY DISTANT.SHURE WE STILL TLK AND ALL BUT WE DONTHANG OUT LIKE WE USED 2.WE USED 2 TALK 4 HOURS AND HE WOULD OFFER ME A RIDE HOME.[HE'S 16 & IM 14 & I GOT HELD BACK ONR YR.SO MY MOM WNT LET US DATE EVEN IF HE DID LIKE ME. WHICH HE NEVER SAID HE DIDN'T ALL HE TYPED BACK AFTR ITOLD HIM I LIKED HIM WAS '"SAW THAT ONE COMING" MEANING I WAS OBVIOUSE.]THEN LTR HE SAID HE HAD 2 TLK 2 ME ON SUNDAY,THEN HE NVR DID. WHEN IASKED HIM ABOUT IT HE "CLAIMED" HE COULDNT REMEMBER WHAT 2 SAY.ANOTHER THING HE'S BEEN DOING IS HE USED 2 SIT BY ME ALL THE TIME, NOW HE DOESN'T AT ALL.AND HE HAS ANOTHER FRIEND THATS AGIRL THAT IM PRETTY SHURE H LIKES BECAUSE HES BEEN HANGING AROUND HER ALOT LATELY.AND HE WON SHUT UP ABOUT HER UNLESS HES /W/ME THEN HE DOESNT MENTION HER AT ALL. HE USED 2 FLIRT /W/ ME ALOT HE STILL DOES JUST NOT AS MUCH.IM CONFUSED DID I RUIN OUR FRIENDSHIP? DOES HE EVEN LIKE ME? DID ISCARE HIM OFF? PLEASE HELP MEEEEE!!!!IM DESPERATE.

 

Answer by Ashley
Submitted on 6/28/2005
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I really like this guy and I've gotten to become closer and more in love with him lately. I love him more than any other crush but he has a girlfriend. Should I tell him how I feel how I feel even though he has a girlfriend?

 

Answer by xXxamixXx
Submitted on 6/30/2005
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well if i fancie a guy i tell him ... well i tell every one id evn shout it accross the skl field! I prefer the boy to know, coz u neva know he mite lyk u 2 so but if u dnt tell him nuffins eva gonna happen but if u do theres more chance of u gettin together!

 

Answer by Lydia
Submitted on 7/9/2005
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yeah i wish the guy i liked liked me

 

Answer by suezey
Submitted on 7/11/2005
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how do tell a guy you like him but you'vknown him for eight years?

 

Answer by Sangee
Submitted on 7/31/2005
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UURR ANSWER ALL SUCK!!! OMG!!

 

Answer by Michelle
Submitted on 8/1/2005
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well my best friend has a really super cute brother that i have liked since i was seriously 5 yrs old. even though i've just been thinking and just found out that how obvious i've been flirting with him and not even knowing that i do. but i really really do like him al0t. i mean its even worst because they are my neighbors. and well he is 2 years older then me but always flirts with me and comes over when i only invite his sis. and he makes it a point to tease me (playfully) and play wrestle with me. but then i dont know what to think. i'm really super nervous. i want to tell him i like him but i really dont want to be rejected and ruin our friendship.

 

Answer by blackrose
Submitted on 8/2/2005
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i have a crush on this guy and i want to change so he look at me and say wow she really change what should i do and other thing what if he stairs at you want does that me

 

Answer by Fuh-ny
Submitted on 8/5/2005
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So there's these guys that "suppoivly" like me they've told me and stuff, and i guess that i like them.  
why not?  i mean they're nice and all, but they always ask me what kind of music i like?  
is this some lame guy tip from a website or something?

 

Answer by storm
Submitted on 8/5/2005
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i rely like this guy his so cute i just want to lick him all over but his 2 years older what should i do

 

Answer by Jessi
Submitted on 8/8/2005
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I have a question! Quick! My friend needs a way to tell a boy (ex boyfriend) that she still loves him. She's on the phone with him. Hurry!

 

Answer by Lise
Submitted on 8/22/2005
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I like this guy that goes to my church. We have only known eachother since January, but we are good friends. We talk about important things and he knows me better than anyone. His mom and our youth leaders all think that we like eachother but nothing has been said. It just drives me crazy. Both of us are really shy and I want something to happen. What should I do? and should i ask him to my homecoming (he doesn't go to my school)?

 

Answer by not-so-pretty
Submitted on 8/25/2005
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ok, here's my prob.: i really like this guy but he is so popular and FINE! almost every girl in school likes him. he's a sophomore and i am a freshman. i am totally not confident and although i am part of the "popular crowd" he would never notice me like that. he went out with my best friend and they broke up last year and she is sooo much prettier than me! he is one of my ex-boyfriends friends but i know i don't have a chance! all my friends tell me to have confidence and he'll c that b/c i'm not ugly...but i so am! i just need help w/ what to do! b/c me and him are friends but i am afraid if he finds out i like him he'll say "EWWWW! GROSS!" HELP PLZ! ANY ADVICE WUD B GREAT!

 

Answer by Ally
Submitted on 9/2/2005
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Theres a boy who I like but I dont know if he likes me.

 

Answer by sweet--kisses
Submitted on 9/3/2005
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I LIKE MY BEST FRIENDS BROTHER WHAT DO I DO? WE DONT REALLY TALK BUT HE SAID SOMETHING ABOUT ME AND HE WONT TELL HIS SISTER<MY BEST FRIEND>WHAT DO I DO?

 

Answer by T.T.
Submitted on 9/11/2005
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In Spanish on friday I was told that a boy liked me in that class. I sent him a note saying "do u like me?" He kept staring at me. The part i like the most is after class I was walking and i saw him talking to his friends he opened the note and all i needed to hear was screaming of "you like T" What should i do?

 

Answer by Monique
Submitted on 9/14/2005
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Hi I like this guy and we been going on several dates together. I like him a lot and i think he likes me too and I gave him so much time so why isn't he asking me out yet? Whats he waiting for?

 

Answer by LoVe dOnT lOvE mE
Submitted on 9/26/2005
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Hey there is this guy in my year and we are not in the same class. But we play tennis all the time together and we flirt and he sings that "i want you" song and dances around me and looks at me while he does it. i really like him but people say he is a flirt and he does that to every one, what do i do?

 

Answer by soup
Submitted on 9/26/2005
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i like this guy. no i love this guy and i dont know wat to do! HELP ME!

 

Answer by Fordrunner
Submitted on 9/28/2005
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hey i have a problem there are 2 boys whom i like both i likes me 4 sure the other one i think he's does the problem is we're Christian and don't date get back 2 mr

 

Answer by a boy on here :gasp:
Submitted on 10/2/2005
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ok im not sure if there are any other boys on here ever. i was bored so i decided to mess around on the internet. ok im giving real advice: plz dont tell a guy strait out you like him in front of anyone. this is a reason for other guys to laugh at him. make yourself possible to talk to. dont walk with alot of friends when he has a chance to talk to you. but if he tells you he likes you in front of ur friends be REALLY likes you......
just thought you should know.

 

Answer by spacecowboy
Submitted on 10/3/2005
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I think everyone who came to this has or is in a situation like this! I'm just about to tell a guy that I like him, we've been good friends for a while and just recently started hanging out a lot. I've never had a real boyfriend or whatever because I've always broke up with someone before it became too serious because I've always been afraid of rejection, but this time I have realized that you have to be bold with these things, life is too short. You can never recieve love if you cant accept rejeciton along the way!

So to all these girls, go for it. If you get rejected its a good experience and a part of life, you'll have to deal with it sooner or later. Ask yourself if this is a guy you want to risk it with first, and then just go for it!

Get to know him first before flat out telling him so you can't see if you really do like him, or if there are signs that he might like you too? Say you want to get to know him more, hang out!

Then when the actual moment comes when you're ready to actually tell him. Say something along the lines  of " I want to ask you something.. but I don't know if I should" the guy will obviously ask what, in which case you could say something like " well I've never really done this before or whatever, and I really freaking hope that this doesn't make things awkward but, I want to put this out there. That I've developed feelings for you and was wondering what you felt about me?"

I plan on doing this all tommorow, and I'm freaking nervous but wish me luck cause I'm going to do with it! REMEMBER, guys like it when girls are bold and go for the first move!

I hope this helped all of you! Good luck with all yr situations!

 

Answer by blondychck
Submitted on 10/4/2005
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hey well i need help to because i already have a boyfriend but he seem like he never wants to talk but this is this really cute guy at school and i dont no what to do so someone help because my boyfriend drinks and other stuff so help

 

Answer by cappy
Submitted on 10/7/2005
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i'm 12 i've liked this lad for about a year now but i just can't talk to him i get all embarressed when i'm around him i want to ask him out but i'm scared he will say NO!
what should i do??????????

 

Answer by sarbear
Submitted on 10/9/2005
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i like this guy...he is in ALL of my classes. in art we sit across from each other. thats when i catch him staring at me and stuff. we make eye-contact a lot. i don't know if i have enough courage to tell him. what should i do?

 

Answer by baka-boi
Submitted on 10/16/2005
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if you want a guy to like you, get to know him first to see if you REALLY do like him

then ask him out, this is the best way to totaly sweep him off his feet

guys get the impression that they have to ask the girl out and it takes alot of courage to work up to it, trust me (I'm a guy)

chances are if he doesnt have a girlfreind and you ask him out, he WILL go out with you

good luck ladies

 

Answer by DarkAngel
Submitted on 10/17/2005
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All my friends say he likes me coz he always stares at me and smiles everytime he sees me and always plays with me.I really like this guy should i ask him? But if i ask him i am afraid he would say no and be shy and never talk to me again. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by ilovetosuckblood_16
Submitted on 10/19/2005
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i like this guy in school and ive known him for 2 months and i really really like him but i don't know how to tell him or if i should tell him but i get signals from me he like pokes me and tickles me and grabs my hand but i don't know if hes doing that in a friendly way i just really would like to know

 

Answer by becki...x
Submitted on 10/21/2005
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well i don't know if this might put you off it really depends if the guy you like is different to others if he's shy well go for it and if he's loud then you might have to flirt with him or tease him and act like you don't love him at all i'm sure he'll come and ask you out!

 

Answer by roxy 41
Submitted on 10/22/2005
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i have a problem too but it kinda differnt ok i like this boy since 7th grade and i asked some friends to ask him out for me and he said no and we dont hang out i had him in some classes i always payed attention to him and he doesnt know me that well sometimes when i see him walking i look in his eyes and we stare at each other for a while an doh o luv him how should i tell him that i do please answer help me im dying to tell him but im too shey and he is a popular one and im not a popular and not a geek or a nerd im normal and im scared to ask him

 

Answer by chocolate ch1PP
Submitted on 10/22/2005
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What does it mean if a guy you like makes eye contact with you?

 

Answer by roxy 41
Submitted on 10/23/2005
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i know how you all girlz feel and i have the same problem as you guys do i really like this boy and not sur if he likes me i asked him out last year and he said no i just thouth he doenst know me thats all but im too shy to get to know him every time if like he walks tword me and i always look into his eyes and he looks into mine and we maybe smile or something ya stephen his name is and i think he is so hot and i like his personality too he is funny popular and a football player too and me im not popular and im not a geek im normal so i think im gonna try and ask him out i know its hard but go for it he might end up saying that he likes you too but he was shy to tell you
so go for it takes my advise k i luv you all  

 

Answer by rxystar19nov
Submitted on 10/24/2005
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Hey to all you out there i think you shouldn't let the opportunity slip because there was this guy i liked for ages and i didn't let any think happen. he liked me and i liked him but we were just to shamed. but he died and i regret so much that i didn't do any think about it. so you girls get your arse into gear and hurry up and get your man kk.

 

Answer by LOOLOO
Submitted on 10/28/2005
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I really like this guy named David and i know that he knows i like him. so i try to avoid him and with our school being so small its hard. i don't talk to him ever because i am afraid! what should i do, he graduates this year and i really want to go to prom with him?

 

Answer by 2cute4u
Submitted on 10/28/2005
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i am going out with this guy and we hangout alot but then his fiend thats really short likes me and does everything to brake us up but I don't wanna hurt his felings saying NO what do i do :(

 

Answer by conversegirl
Submitted on 10/30/2005
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hey i like this guy we talk everyday and we have dated before but this was a long time ago and ever since then i cant get over him we dated like a long time ago last year and everytime we hang out or talk on the phone i just wanna be like look i really really like you and stuff..he always asks me to come over and hang but i just dont know how to tell him how i feel

 

Answer by xxamogirle
Submitted on 10/30/2005
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i like a guy but i think he likes my friend and she likes him. . .what should i do??

 

Answer by me
Submitted on 11/5/2005
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OMG I LUV HIM i know it its the guy that u say gay things around and cant say anything without babbleing. the problem is i told him in the worst way. he hates me i dont know if i should get over him or try to get him to like me wat should i do

 

Answer by why does it hurt so bad?
Submitted on 11/7/2005
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hey if u have been through enough with boys and are tired of the same old pitty soul that they expect us to care for but in return they push us to the ground and say no to are courage to tell that we like them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well then email me at teletubies_rock88@yahoo.com

 

Answer by Sam
Submitted on 11/8/2005
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I'm majorly crushing my best friends brother. He is about 2 years older than me but there is just something about him that i love. I'm not sure if he likes me..so what can i do to find out if he does besides going up and asking him..?

 

Answer by k8lyn
Submitted on 11/9/2005
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wow this is old.......
ive liked this guy for a year and a half. i used to hang out with "that" gang until i got sik of them suddenly shutting me out so i left. Wen i woz there he used 2 flirt with me and he used to say that he liked 2 girlz 1 i knew of and the other he'd never tell me! He used 2 hug me 4 a malteaser and woz practically the only 1 whod talk to me. now that ivce left i still like him and its sooo hard coz i see him around but we neva talk nemore! i dont know how 2 tell him coz i were not really friends ne more and dont talk help:(

 

Answer by Nicki
Submitted on 11/14/2005
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how do i ask a guy do a dance¿

but im not sure if he likes me or not

 

Answer by mia
Submitted on 11/15/2005
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i have the same problem.i like a senior in high school but I'm just a freshman.he knows i like him but i don't think he feels the same.how do i find out.he recently said"i Ive been thinkin bout u i dont know if its good"i dont know what that means. i really like him but he iz 17 im 14 i really need advice.i wanna know how to find out if he likes me 2

 

Answer by mia
Submitted on 11/15/2005
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i agree ask him.what i do because im really shy i write him a note expressing all of my feelings 2 him.then i put if u dont have a feelings 4 me i hope we can be friends.try it it works 4 me everytime.good luck.

 

Answer by babe_gurl
Submitted on 11/16/2005
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well if you really like this guy then i say write a little love letter (find out if he has  a gf first)and leave the rest to natural life

 

Answer by lovesick
Submitted on 11/17/2005
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k Im gonna help u.....or atleast try to, I told a guy I liked him and he avoided me....so u know I talked to his friend who later said that the guy had said that he hates me....so I walked up to him and said  if u cant say it to my face the dont bother saying it at all and then i walked off. What I am saying is it might not turn out the way you want it but you gotta live with that..

 

Answer by embaressed
Submitted on 11/17/2005
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ok, I like this guy and this guy who is my friend and his told him cuz i asked him to, but now he is avoiding the subject or goes offline on msn. But then again it might be to early seeing it was 3 hours ago so yeah lol....haha...
but what do you guys think??

 

Answer by NBoemker
Submitted on 11/18/2005
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How do you tell a guy that you like him?
Do you just walk up to him and be like "Hey, I like you."?

 

Answer by BRELEX,PLAY,PLAY,PLAY
Submitted on 11/20/2005
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GIRL,YOU NEED TO LAY LOW.WAIT, A WHILE SEE
IF HE LIKES YOU HE'LL TELL YOU.IF HE DOES
NOT.THEN TELL HIM STRAIT UP DON'T BE SCARED.
YOU HEAR ME, TELL HIM LIKE YOU MEAN IT.I GO
TROUGH THE SAME STUFF.I TOLD THE BOY I LIKE HIM.I NEVER SPOKE TO HIM.BUT I REALIZED IT'S NOT LIKE THAT. W  O  R  D!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by laynabbg
Submitted on 11/20/2005
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HEY ALL! I AM GOING TO START OUT LIKE MOST OF THE OTHERS! I REALLY LOVE THIS GUY AT MY CHURCH! I REALLY CANT GET HIM OUTA MY HEAD! I SEE HIM AT CHURCH IN A CLASS THAT WE TEACH AND ON WED. HE ALWAYS FLIRTS WITH ME BUT W/OTHER GIRLS TOO. IT KILLS ME! I WANT TO KNOW IF ANYONE ELSE HAS FELT THIS STRONGLY ABOUT SOMEBODY AND WHAT I SHOULD DO! PLEASE HELP GUYS!

 

Answer by sports lover!!!
Submitted on 11/25/2005
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hey i have a ? for u well...this guy is telling all of my friends that he likes me and..i like him to but he is a yr. older than me..hes a freshman and I'm in 8th grade. he said that he doesn't want to go out w/ someone in Jr. high..im fine with that. but lately he hasn't talked to me but he still is telling all my friends that he likes me. hes like the shy type witch is diff. from my normal type. i usually like the really funny jockey popular guys but this one is diff. and hes hard to read.. should i just let him go or try to figure out y he isn't talking to me??

 

Answer by heart
Submitted on 11/30/2005
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im having a problem, this 1 guy i realy like keaps giving me sighns that he likes me, i think but im to afraid to ask him if he realy does like me and my friends wont so what should i do?

 

Answer by Kristin
Submitted on 12/4/2005
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You know, I'm reading these and it is SO funny because these were all problems we had in what, the 3rd and 4th grade?? Where I live, (NEW ORLEANS, had 2 rep it), I don't find that we have problems like these. #1, we don't come on forums to get advice on how to talk to a guy because while your on the computer, he's out getting some other girl's ass.  BE BOLD! What do you have to lose?? He's just a guy! But to help you little girls out, this is how I do it...Wait till he makes eye contact...if you look back and smile and he smiles back, then good. Then wait for him.  If a guy doesn't have enough balls to approach you first, then he's not worth your time. MOVE ON. But there are always exceptions to the rule. Maybe he's just shy. Well, if thats the case, then plan your move.  Dont come off as the crazy hormone driven teen, but don't come off as the weird loner type either. Just be yourself, unless of course, you are the types I just mentioned ;-)...Hope this helped, bye!

 

Answer by gigi
Submitted on 12/5/2005
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okay, so there's this guy i like in my photography class. one day during lunch we both decided to come into our photography class to develope our film. ahhh, it was so much fun, and at the end he asked for my phone number and i gave it to him. so then on monday i told one of my friends that i liked him and that maybe i should get his number as well. so at the end i did, but it was so embarrassing i think i even made a fool out of myself. so every once in a while we would talk to each other on the phone, but once in class we would completely ignore each other, what should i do, forget about him or give it one more chance? ahhh i'mso confused, so please, any advise will be greatly appreciated.

 

Answer by Justina
Submitted on 12/6/2005
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I have a question for everyone! OK I really like this guy named Brandon, and I'm pretty sure he likes me. Well at least it seems that way. He knows I like him NOW! But I really want to ask him out. I've already done it before but he said no because he was dating someone. But should I try again?

 

Answer by Msatan
Submitted on 12/6/2005
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i had the same problem but what i did is i told him that i liked him and if u dont like me thats ok coz everyone moves on and u never know u might so out with him or u never know he could be GAY!!!

 

Answer by becky
Submitted on 12/7/2005
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ok well there is this guy that i really like he is not that cute but he is nice and funny. i like him alot , well so does my best friend.  i also like this guy that ismuch more popular than me we talk alot but he is really flirty with alot of other people (the popular girls) and i dont know what to do or who to like

 

Answer by Vanessa
Submitted on 12/7/2005
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I like a guy but I dont know what to do?

 

Answer by SoO CoNfUsEd!!
Submitted on 12/8/2005
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ok so i really like this guy mike but i dont know wut to do because i THINK that he likes me becasue he always lookes at em and stuff like that, but he hasnt really dated anyone in a while so i dont know if i should tell him because i dont know if he  wants a girlfriend or wut?? I have liked him for a long time i mean like a year! I really want to go out with hime but i dont know wut to do!! HELP ME PLEASE I DONT KNWO WERE ESLE TO GO!

 

Answer by Katiebug14
Submitted on 12/8/2005
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0o00o0o0o0o0o0o0oK si theres this boy and i mean i know him and everything and he knows me and well i really like him and i think he likes me but im not sure!! what should i do?

 

Answer by kk
Submitted on 12/10/2005
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Ok i like this guy i have liked him for a long long time but he used to like me but when he did i was goin out with his friend so i totally just kinda ignored his flirting but know of course i like  him and we have become good freinds he calls me all the time and stuff but i want to be more then freinds i just wonder if it is to late know i mean i had my chance but i might have blew it what should i do i ndeed help should i tell him i like him or not and if so how

 

Answer by babyangel4
Submitted on 12/11/2005
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i kno how all ya'll feel.  i'm best friends with this guy and we've been friends for about 9 years!(our parents are friends) so i call his step-mom and his dad "aunt and uncle" so i guess he's kinda like my cousin(but not blood relatated) and he flirts with e constatly and our paretns are always like wow they should get married and blah blah blah but im scared becuz he'lll introduce me as his "cousin"(he quotes with his fingers lol) or his friend.  im not sure what i should do. im so confused. his dad told me he likes me and he always jokes with us and makes kissy faces and evrything. and this kid i like always gets red and he touches me in a playful way alot. ahhh! wat in the world should i do!?

 

Answer by MERLIN
Submitted on 12/13/2005
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I KNOW THIS GUY AND I REALLY REALLY LOVE HIM BUT I DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD SAY ANYTHING WHAT SHOULD I DO PLEASE HELP ME

 

Answer by carrie05
Submitted on 12/14/2005
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Actually, there is no right or wrong answer to this question. I was the type that never would tell a guy. I was into this old fashion thing. Than i fell in love and we broke up and i never thought i could fall in love again. After two years, i met a guy and i fell for him. But i had to know how he felt. So i just messaged oneday and asked him what he would do if i said i liked him. And he said that it would be fine. But at the end, he told me that he has been in love with someone else but if i came just a little earlier, things might have been different. Though it hurt so much, atleast i knew before i fell too deep. But till today, i can't quite find anyone like the two of them. So if you ask me, i would rather stay to the old fashion thing. Wait for the guy to make the move first.

 

Answer by Monika
Submitted on 12/14/2005
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i like thease to guys, one of them i already went out wit n i kinda didnt like him than i liked his closest friend we decided to call it a mutual seperation than we had this big fight me him n our other  friend and so i told him the only reason y i went out wit him was to get over his closest friend so now i m afraid of rejection my friends think we shold go back out i think so to but how about if he rejects me what do i do?

 

Answer by I love him
Submitted on 12/14/2005
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I like this guy he walks me home from school and he is always all over me but then again i seen him hugging other girls and stuff he said he also has a girlfriend but he likes me what should i do

 

Answer by INLUVWITHMATT!!
Submitted on 12/14/2005
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I LIKE THIS BOY A LOT!!! (OBVIOUSLY YOU KNOW WHO!) AND I WANT TO TELL HIM. BUT WHAT IF HE DOESN'T LIKE ME BACK. I DOUBT THAT HE DOES LIKE ME. BUT I DON'T HAVE THE GUTS TO TELL HIM. HE'S ALWAYS WITH HIS FRIENDS. I'M LIKE THE SHYEST PERSON IN THE WHOLE ENTIRE WORLD!!! ANY ADVICE ON HOW NOT TO BE SHY??

 

Answer by Secret Someone
Submitted on 12/15/2005
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Hey, i guess i have the same problems as everyone else here....but..i really like this guy, but he's not the most popular, my friend hates him cuz she thinks i can do better. but i really like him, then one of my other friends shouted out during band to the guy's brother that i liked his younger brother! i was so embaressed cuz now his older brother knos before he knos! i want to tell him so badly but my friend says if i don't tell him soon she's gonna drag him over to my lunch table n hav me talk to him n tell him the truth! but i want to tell him in private....i'm so confused, n nervous. is this guy really all worth it or not? i mean, i really like him, but idk if he even will like me back.......

 

Answer by Cecily
Submitted on 12/20/2005
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Okay well when I used to be a little I used to be shy telling people, like some of my close friends that I liked a guy. Now since I'm fifteen going on sixteen next month, I'm not shy anymore about things like that. I used to like this guy named Valentin I knew last year, but we moved to Sacramento and I wasn't going to back to that high school ever, so I told him. It really does feel good to tell someone you like them. Now this year, I like this guy name Brandon. He is super popular of what I heard he went to the middle school everyone else did. He has a lot of friends that I see I wouldn't be good being around, or talking to as friends. I have Brandon in my sixth period and we sit next to each other. I told my friend Cassie that is a good friend of Brandon that I like him. She happened to slip it out to him that I like him. I felt really happy he knew, but he acts like he doesn't know when we're in sixth period together. He doesn't talk to me a lot, but there's been days that we have talked a lot. He's this really funny guy, with the best personality, and he's really cute. All my friends think he's not hot and not that cute either, but they stick up for me and tell me to talk to him more. I want to, but when I walk past him with his friends at lunch, him standing there eating and laughing, I just get nervous. I feel like I am budding in to all this relationships with his friends and him since I wasn't there last year. I just can't get to know him better, but I really want to. I've left comments on his myspace many times and he doesn't answer at all and I feel awkward talking to him knowing I left a cheesy comment. My friend Cassie did ask him in a letter if he liked me and all he could say was, "That was random." and she never got to asking him again. I was gonna send this long e-mail on myspace telling him I want to get to know him better, but I don't want to scare him away. My friend said that guys like it better [he's a guy lol] if the girl comes up and tells him herself that she likes him, but he already knows! Can anyone help me at all? That would be great, (: thanks ¢¾.

 

Answer by nellysa
Submitted on 12/21/2005
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I am going through the same thing but I only know this guy for two weeks, we went out dancing with other people twice and both times he ended dancing only with me and talking only to me, we get so close tha we almost kiss each other but I have doubts that he likes me because boths he never calls me after we go out, (he has not ask me out, we go out we a group).  I really like this guy, I don't think I had liked somebody as much as I like him, I think is love a first side.

 

Answer by Sammy
Submitted on 12/28/2005
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well i wanted to ask people how to get a guy to go out with you put your also afraid to ask him. Cause I'm new to the school and none of my friends don't no yet because then they will just tell him that i like him then i well be done for it. I'll be embarrassed. What em i supposed to do please help. and also I'm only 12 years old  

 

Answer by luvinandy
Submitted on 12/28/2005
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I'm really good friends with this guy and me and his little sister are best buds.  I have liked him and i think he likes me but i don't no how 2 ask him and not ruin the friendship.  What do I do?

 

Answer by confused
Submitted on 1/1/2006
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Ok I went out with this guy like 5 months ago, and then we broke up, we've known each other for like ever and we've liked each other since like grade 3. When we broke up, i was really sad, and i'm still crying over him, he told me that we could still be friends, and the reason that we broke up was because we wouldn't see each other much throughout the winter, we only see each other throughout the summer. I said ok and left it at that, but the next time that I talked to him, he told me that he liked someone else. I don't know who he likes  now, and I saw him the other night, I wanted to ask him a few questions, but I didn't get the chance, I want to tell him that I like him, but I don't know how, I can't really call him, because I hate the phone and I always end up stuttering, and can never say what I want to say. How do I tell him without making it weird between us? I need help!

 

Answer by Anabel
Submitted on 1/1/2006
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well there's this guy i really like but i don't know if he likes me. he always bothers me he bothers other girls the same but mostly wit me. is ithe likes me or he just fools around?

 

Answer by soconfused
Submitted on 1/4/2006
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im 17,i know this guy and we only walk home together and  when im far ahead he'll run to catch up to me and i do the same thing too, we talk a lil bit during school but not a lot cuz we dunt have ne classes wit eachother, and im kinda a tomboy n i dunt dress up or n e thing but i like this , how can i tell if he likes me bak during the few moments we're together?

 

Answer by college candy
Submitted on 1/7/2006
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hey, well, I'm pretty sure I'm older then aalll of you and I just have one thing to say  : GUYS ARE NOT WORTH THE TROUBLE! sure it's cool to have a Boyfriend and he looks all hot and cute now , but in a couple years you'll be thinking about what an idiot you've been for having obsessed over this dude! (most of them end up gay anyway) . So if u like this guy , tell him , if u don't feel like doing that , believe it or not there are thousands of other guys out there . So unless you live on a desert Island with only one guy STOP WORRYING SO MUCH and save the earth from pollution or murder mickey or do SOMETHING constructive with your time besides obsessing over this dude u won't remember in 2 years!

 

Answer by hotchick
Submitted on 1/8/2006
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i like a guy but i dont know how to tell him

 

Answer by babygurl
Submitted on 1/11/2006
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wat up yall im dealing with this too. I lke this boy too,and i think he like me becuz he makes it obvious and when i always think a guy likes me its always true. This guy is very nice hes different then all guys i know he told me that im different then all girls in the world. He said that he can talk to me about anything. I told him i cant stand without seeing him for about 2 days he was like home-girl'' 2 days ''  i can stand without seeing you for about'' 1 day''.  couple weeks later we started kissing (he can kiss)lol i found out a couple days later he started to go out with this girl.What do this mean? either way hes going to cheat on her and try to go with me he might try to spit his game lol were friends with benefits right now. so what i think that all the girls should do is go with the flow so he wont know that you like him and dont act like it becuz hes going to think that you is desperate,, act like you dont need him ,,u got a man ,,do it i done it before it worked too. dont act like you hate him like i said go with the flow

 

Answer by betty
Submitted on 1/11/2006
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My case is different. I like this guy at school but he is three years younger than me. He always looks at me. I think he likes me.is age matters?

 

Answer by superman
Submitted on 1/11/2006
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i am cool

 

Answer by superman
Submitted on 1/11/2006
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i am a boy and we feel more pressure then girls when we ask them out

 

Answer by Tia
Submitted on 1/12/2006
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Hey, I'm sorry I don't have a response but I have a question. I really like a boy named brian. He is sweet and funny but I don't know if he likes me like that. Or just as a friend. I always catch him looking at me. And when he looks at me, he talks to me with his eyes...*sigh* sorry i'm getting all gushy LoL. but my friend likes him to, but he doesn't know that. I really like him what should I do?

 

Answer by Confuzed :(
Submitted on 1/14/2006
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I like this guy and i think he likes me too. We dont go to the same school and we can talk no problem on msn but when we see each other in person we both just look at the floor and we dont say anything    What should i do???

 

Answer by HeLp Me
Submitted on 1/20/2006
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im so missreable i mean i like this guy and it is so ovious he likes me but why the heck wont he tell me..i know he knows i like him...a lot of girls like him but he trates me so much diffrently..homestly i like it.

 

Answer by Monkies101
Submitted on 1/21/2006
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I like this guy,but I'm afraid he'll tell all his friends and he won't be my friend anymore!

 

Answer by CountryGirl
Submitted on 1/21/2006
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I have a question!!!! Should I tell him or not? There is this really hot guy that is my best friend, he always talks to me and we have all of the same classes. He also pokes me a lot, and shares things with me about him personally. He does flirt with me a lot too, but i can kinda tell that he flirts with some other girls. Well, does he like me and should i tell him i like him?

 

Answer by obsessedwithMATT!!
Submitted on 1/21/2006
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Hey guys!
I've found some helpful and non-helpful answers in here. I have one answer to tell all of you. MY/YOUR QUESTION: HOW DO I TELL A BOY THAT I LIKE HIM? MY ANSWER: TELL HIM ON THE LAST DAY OF SCHOOL ON THE PHONE OR BEFORE HE GOES HOME. IT WILL SAVE YOU A WHOLE LOT OF EMBARASSMENT AND TIME. OKAY, MAYBE TIME DEPENDS ON HOW LONG IT TAKES AND WHEN YOU DO IT. I'M PLANNING TO TELL *MATT* ON THE LAST DAY OF SCHOOL.
I HOPE THIS HELPED!!!!!

 

Answer by Mara
Submitted on 1/23/2006
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I like this kid whos in my class. All of our friends always talk about how we love each other. I always pretend I dont like him, but I really LOVE him. I thik he likes me too, but im not sure. I have asked my friends to ask him if he likes me and he always ignores them, or just tells them to go away. My friends have also asked him out and he says "no". But when a boy askes him out for me he says "yes". But then he dumps me 2 hours later. I want to know if he likes me but I cant find out, what shouuld i do or say?

 

Answer by ...+...silent child...+...
Submitted on 1/25/2006
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wow!!! I'lljust add to this never ending chain. but i like this guy (doesn't everyone?) and i have a lot of classes with him! and he's always trying to grab my attention it seems like. and at one point when we were hanging out with some friends and watching a movie in my basement, he started playing footsie with me. but at school, he's not like that at all! he's talking to lots of other chicks and all that and ignores me until 7th period! it's like one day they talk to you and try to show off, then the next day they act like they don't even know who you are! but i just keep talking to him and he talks back. my friends told him that i like him, but he hasn't acted differently around me. so that'sgood.

 

Answer by steph
Submitted on 1/31/2006
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I think you should tell him, just make sure that your friends don't obsess about it, they can totally ruin  that experience for you. And its not even the telling him part, just the aftermath where they wont shut up about it..lol

 

Answer by mee
Submitted on 1/31/2006
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heyy well tuu the giirl wiith thee first question ii am verii embarrased my self so i know what ur going through i like this guy heapz but i dont think he likes me even though he looks at me all the time and smiles and he is soo cute andd nicee so i cant give u much advice becoz ii am like u but i think u should goO for it coz u sound like someone who can deal wiht thing becoz remember if he blows uu off uu can always goO for another guy out there the sayin goes there are many fish in the water by the sounds of u i dont think he will blow uu off soO goO forr iit but other people helpp mee watt hsouldd ii doo coz thiis guy iis olderr thenn mee andd im embarrassed tuu tell hiim helpp mee watt doo ii doooo ??

 

Answer by kate
Submitted on 2/1/2006
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I had this friend in college who I knew for three years and we played this cat and mouse game. We both liked eachother but we were going threw some kind of stupid phase. An experiment if you will. We went to las vegas for spring break our junior year, and had great sex after I won 200 dollars at blackjack. Now were married. So hey it can happen. I never told him I liked him, you need to let guys do things in there own time. Sometimes its not in the cards and he may not be ready for a relationship. The old saying goes "if you love something let it go." Its a ladies way of keeping some of her dignity. Not to mention the fact that its almost against nature for women to approach men. It is almost hard-wired for us to be the attentors rather than the attenties. Patience , if you really like these guys. It takes time and love. Boys need unconditional love and vindication, no matter what if you can provide that your well on your way.  

 

Answer by kate
Submitted on 2/1/2006
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I had this friend in college who I knew for three years and we played this cat and mouse game. We both liked eachother but we were going threw some kind of stupid phase. An experiment if you will. We went to las vegas for spring break our junior year, and had great sex after I won 200 dollars at blackjack. Now were married. So hey it can happen. I never told him I liked him, you need to let guys do things in there own time. Sometimes its not in the cards and he may not be ready for a relationship. The old saying goes "if you love something let it go." Its a ladies way of keeping some of her dignity. Not to mention the fact that its almost against nature for women to approach men. It is almost hard-wired for us to be the attentors rather than the attenties. Patience , if you really like these guys. It takes time and love. Boys need unconditional love and vindication, no matter what if you can provide that your well on your way.  

 

Answer by Dani_101
Submitted on 2/2/2006
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OK. So this guy i like he goes to my school, but i only have 3 classes w/ him on the same day (A day). he is so flipping hot!!! he just broke up w/ his girl and i think he might like me, like in Reading he will look over at me and if im reading a book or just not looking at him then he'll like watch me.
            im in LUUUUVVVVEEEE  
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PS: Did i mention he is sooooooooooooo HOT!!!
    HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
                               -Dani_101

 

Answer by Alecia
Submitted on 2/5/2006
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I like this guy and he's in my class and I had a dream that I married him now I don't know if I should ask him out or if I should see if there are other guys in the world. But it's like we were met to be I mean look at our initials mine is AB his are CD=AB-CD. I don't know what to do!!!!

 

Answer by Rella
Submitted on 2/8/2006
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I have known this guy since elementary school,and I always thought he was really cute,but I was never really into him. But now that we are in high school and I have grown up a lot I know that I really really like him, and I don't  know what to do.  I am so confused!!!

 

Answer by tata
Submitted on 2/10/2006
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im in this problem at school where im in yr 7 and there r these to guys i like and i thing they like me to but if they both ask me out ill be lost and i really like the Blondie headed one and to other one is just like me he dose all the same sports and all that but im close friends with both and if i reject one of them i may loss mt friend ship with him i don't no Wat to do ????/

 

Answer by nonefromme123
Submitted on 2/11/2006
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OK there this guy who i like so much,he is my ex-boyfriend, he always looks at me on the buss... i think
he likes me but, he always say he doesn't like me that way cause after we broke up ...
what do you think?
what should i do?

 

Answer by sammaybabay
Submitted on 2/12/2006
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omg theres a really cute guy in mi grade and i like him- but i think he likes me too. im to shy to up to him and say-"Hey, i like you" PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by Ashley
Submitted on 2/16/2006
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I really like this guy at school and I fell and he asked me what happened and was I ok 2 times I really like him what should I do?

 

Answer by Root Beer
Submitted on 2/16/2006
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What do u do when u like someone but your not sure if he likes u like one day he makes it seem he likes me but then he makes it look like he likes this other girl. What should i do?
Signed root beer

 

Answer by i like u so much
Submitted on 2/19/2006
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i wan 2 tell him but he is younger than me..
i would like 2 tell him that i like him then i scared he will escape from me.... feel like wan 2 cry now...:(

 

Answer by Truth teller
Submitted on 2/23/2006
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You should tell him! I told the guy that i liked that i liked him, even though he did not tell me who he liked or if he liked me we are doing good and he keeps Flirting with me! So u should go for it! Even if it turns out he does not like u chances are he will want to be friends with u so ASK HIM! What is happening to me might happen to u just stick up for what u believe in. Tell him!

 

Answer by dada
Submitted on 2/23/2006
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Hey, I like this guy and he likes me but i have no idea how to tell him. he's very shy and i see him trying to sneak peaks at him. the problem is i don't want to tell him face to face cause thats just harsh. i don't have his phone number and writing notes is stu[pid... please help

 

Answer by Laurenna
Submitted on 2/25/2006
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I just told a guy that i liked him over aim,  which wasn't a smart thing to do. because his girlfriend was there, and she wrote back to me saying that she would kick my ass but of course i'm not afraid of her because lol she looks like a rat. and i'm taller and bigger than her, but she is a total sweet heart, but of course it wasn't the answer i was looking forward to, So my advice is to NEVER tell him over the computer or email, but either phone or face to face. even if he has a girlfriend- its alright but make sure she doesn't find out because its not fun, even though i feel like crying right now i am telling you people what is right and what you should or shouldn't do. I really hope this comes in handy for the next time you go through a problem like this

 

Answer by xO.bebe
Submitted on 3/5/2006
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there is this guy i have liked since grade 7 and now i am in grade 10..he has a girlfriend and they tend to have their times where they dont get along..he talks to me but i dont know if hes flirting with me or not..we're also really good family friends and im scared he looks at me as like a "sister" or whut not but he stares at me in person but doesnt talk..i get vibes that he likes me but im not to sure.I really love him though..what do i do?

 

Answer by luvergurl
Submitted on 3/8/2006
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i'vestarted liking my ex again. we've been talking a lot and i just started falling for him again. he flirts with me all the time and he put i heart you on my myspace page. the trouble is, he lives kinda far as in maybe an hour away. i really want to tell him that i care for him and that i like him but i don't know how to. any suggestions?

 

Answer by totalyblonde22
Submitted on 3/11/2006
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i have the same prob   he flirts with  me and makes me laugh he nos i like him but i want to no if he likes me he scares me 4 no reason all my friends say he likes me i wish hed give me an answer   but u should tell him maybe he likes u 2

 

Answer by MangoTango
Submitted on 3/13/2006
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well i have like a guy almost 3 years now and we barley even know eachother. he is liek the party guy and stuff and we barley ever talk. but i love him, i know i do. what should i do!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

 

Answer by Jen
Submitted on 3/14/2006
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i broke up w/ my bf like 4 or 5 months ago and now i like him again i am to scared to tell him because i know that he would never take me back and he likes my bff. should i tell him or not?

 

Answer by Devon
Submitted on 3/15/2006
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Hey. My name is Devon. There's this guy that I really like, he goes to my school and my church, and lives around the corner from me. When we are at church, he constantly flirts with me and is really nice. But, when we're at school, he won't even say a word to me. I don't know why?!

 

Answer by COnfuSed GiRL...?
Submitted on 3/16/2006
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OK I like this guy k? and hes really cute and sweet. But hes also kinda sick... i should say he watches porn (well were only 13 so I think its a big deal even if you think its not) and I think he may like me cuz he looks at me and we have had our moments. Like we made a lot of eye contanct. And sometimes we exchange smiles and hes really really really cute. I dont know if I should tell him that I like. ++ Im going away this year and this is my last year at this school and if I dont tell him now then maybe I'll never get a chance... but IM SCARED THAT HE'LL REJECT ME!! I've asked my friends what to do but they say tell him. I thought dat I might need some outside advice. SO PWEASE HELP!!!
PS i also kinda thought that I might tell him on the last day of school?? need feeback!!!!!!

 

Answer by natalie
Submitted on 3/17/2006
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i rekon if  a guy looks at u and smiles is acually a sign so when your with ur frenz stare at this guy u like and smile and turn  away for 2 secs then if hes lookin at u den ur in u no hes INLOVE trust me its happened to me b4!!!!  good luck![",]

 

Answer by Faded Mascara
Submitted on 3/18/2006
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I'm so confused.I've been friends with this guy for a few months now and i've started to develop feelings for him.The thing is we've already kissed and stuff and he wants to take things further (sexually) Sadly i think he just wants to get in my pants but i don't no.He's a really nice guy and we get on great. He lives far tho so i dunno.I'm not the type to come out and tell someone i like them. I was thinking of maybe writting him a note expressing how i feel but i don't want to scare him off? what do u's think the relationship is based on? Do u think writting the note is coming off to strong?? Please help lol.

 

Answer by Dominique+Drake
Submitted on 3/25/2006
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OMG!!!!!!I was on this last week,read the answers,told him I loved him and the next day he said he loved me to and asked me out we're boyfriend and girlfriend now and im soooo happy.Drake was my best guyfriend,and we bolth had a secret crush on eachother and were to scared to say anything.We are the happiest couple in school so just tell him,it may have a happy ending:)

 

Answer by esmeralda
Submitted on 3/29/2006
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well i like this guy and he is a senior ever since i saw him i fell in love. he goes in my p.e class to help out and i always feel that he is looking at me but i don't know if he likes me \? but then i think he is looking at one of my friends  i really don't know. i want to ask him out but I'm just to scared. because what will he think of me but i want to tell him because i dont want to think did he like me or not? please help me?

 

Answer by GirlsInLove
Submitted on 4/1/2006
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Well i really liked this Guy, It is my brothers mate, and he is gorgeous and my mate Daniel told me that he is not interested in me, but recantly Ive been talking to him on Msn and he asked me to sleep ova at his house, so i did  (Only has friends) and when i went ova he was hugging me and holding my hand and we  slept in the same bed ( we didn't do anything) its just i don't know if he is interested or was just looking for a bit of fun plz help xx xx  

 

Answer by turned_night_to_day
Submitted on 4/1/2006
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ok, i really, REALLY like this guy. he's a sophomore and i'm a freshman. i was going to tell him that i liked him and ask him to our sadie hawkins dance (it's unfortunately got canceled though), so i wrote him a note asking him if he could stay after school so i could talk to him. he didn't stay though, but that was when track was first starting, so my friends we like "oh, he probably had to get to track! don't worry about it!" ALL my friends think he likes me, but i'mnot sure. they also think that he's just as shy as what i am so he doesn't know what to say to me. he stares at me all the time, but he probably knows it's me that likes him so he just looks at me like i'ma freak or something. i really don't know what to think. do you think i should try and tell him i like him again?

 

Answer by naomi
Submitted on 4/2/2006
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so i like this guy right now who just recently broke up with his girlfriend. ive liked him for about a year now.  he and i had a thing a year ago when we first met, but somehow things just ended. we ended up not talking for a while until he was invited to do something that i was part of.  for the past few weeks he and i have gotten closer  and sometimes i feel like he likes me back. but i dont know if i should tell him that i like him or not.  its at the point where i think i love him but then i dont know what to do.

 

Answer by redrose
Submitted on 4/4/2006
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I have liked a guy for the past year and i told him i liked him. all he said was i would go out with you but i have a girlfriend. Should i still be friends with him

 

Answer by chatterbug
Submitted on 4/7/2006
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hey i like this guy right now. i told his nephew that i liked him and i thouoght that he wouldnt like me because his nephew said that he didnt like me. i was starting to think why would he like me? i thought that he liked me friend. but i get this phone call ab=nd it was my friend asking me if i wanted to go out with the guys that i wanted to go out wiht and i said yes. but i didnt know if we were going out or not so yeah.  he called me one night. i asked him if we were going out? and he said yes. i was talking to him about how i felt and he said why wouldnt i like you? i said cause of......... i said my sfiends name and he said no. now we are going out. his nephew is trying to brake us up. but we like eachother to much that he cant .   so what i am trying to say is what can it hurt to tell him that you like him? i bet you are thinking ge could say no. but yeah he could but it will hurt worse if you dont tell him. he could like you back but he is afraid you say something. someone need to stand up nd be the man. if you dont say something you will regret.

 

Answer by NettletonChick11
Submitted on 4/10/2006
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Hey ... Well i just told a guy i liked him cuz he asked who i liked n he calls me beautiful but then sumthin tells me he doesnt like me. sumtims he acts like he likes me then he doesnt. what should i do?

 

Answer by Catherine
Submitted on 4/11/2006
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If you like a guy that you've known for awhile and you guys click it will be easy for you to tell him how you feel..but if your just crushing on this guy..get to know him better..become good friends and then tell him how you feel.

 

Answer by answer person #whatever
Submitted on 4/11/2006
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i think you all just need to tell them or your going to end up like me ALONE and having no fun at all because your to busy worrying about whether or not i should or shouldn't ask him out trust me it (censoring myself) sucks the sooner you get an answer the better because not having one it even worse then rejection so please for my sake go ask all these little hotties of yours out so there will be less boring people like me in the world:)lol

 

Answer by TeXaN GaL1314
Submitted on 4/14/2006
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i think u should tell him urself. but if u r really shy then have a friend tell him for u. that's what i did. and if he asks u if it's really true then give a little smile then say yes!
i know it's hard. the same thing happened to me. but just don't say i like u and get it over w/. start a conversation, say u have sumthing important to say, then tell him. don't try to change the subject after that tho. first talk about it a little, then when the convo starts to die down, then bring up a diff subject.

hope it all works out!
~s.s.~

 

Answer by applejax815
Submitted on 4/14/2006
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i have the same thing but i would tell him, just noot in a creepy stalker way ( :

 

Answer by cia
Submitted on 4/16/2006
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I have a crush on a popular, and older boy and I dont know if I should tell him I fell that I shold but in a special because he wants to know who i am(akahissecretadmirer) so I say go for it or you will fell bad if you dont.TRUST ME!

 

Answer by Ellie aged 13
Submitted on 4/16/2006
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I need HELP! There's a guy hu I like n he reli likes me. He knows I like him and he asked me out but I said kno. My parents wouldn't let me. I want to go out with him though, if my parents would let me I'd give it a try but they wont and if I dont go out with him I dunno wat I'll do coz I love him soooooooo much.

 

Answer by Brown
Submitted on 4/17/2006
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i really like this guy josh and right now he has a girlfriend and i am very jealous LoL but idk if he likes me or not i mean how can ya tell but what i want to say is that im a chicken when it comes to guys but i think that when u really like a guy get to be like his best friend  and then ask him if he likes you  if ur too scared to be best friends with him become friends with his friends so then ur around him more thats what i did and 3 days after i started hanging with josh and his friends more he broke up with his girlfriend and asked me out a couple days later and of corse i said YES LoL but dont think im lieing cuz im not but now me and josh have been going out for about a year and half  

like i said become friends first then get closer LOL

 

Answer by Crazy Girl
Submitted on 4/19/2006
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I like this boy and I think he likes me to but how can I tell if he does?

 

Answer by cuite pie
Submitted on 4/20/2006
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go for it.... if u get that feeling that he likes u then tell him that u like him.... if he says that he doesn't like u, at least he know how u feels about him.... good luck, and go and get ur man!!

 

Answer by txbutterfly
Submitted on 4/21/2006
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There is this guy that I like and he goes to a different school, but i love him!!! He is a year older than me, but I talk to him EVERY SINGLE DAY!!! I really really really like him, and I don't know how to tell him that I like him!! I can't sleep because I haven't told him! It hurts me!! But if I tell him what if he rejects me?! It hurts to be rejected! He always tells me about his personal life, and that is why I think he likes me! But there is one small problem. Even if he doesn't reject me, he has a GIRLFRIEND!!! I don't know what to do!!! Can someone please help me?!!!!!

 

Answer by channy chic
Submitted on 4/28/2006
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i like dis boi and i asked him out and he sed he has 2 get 2 no me 1st wat do i do?

 

Answer by girllover12
Submitted on 4/29/2006
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Okay, hi my name is Hailee I started a new school over the summer when i started i met this hot guy his name is Cristian,he is so cute hes 13 he is so nice,funny,athletic,cool,anyway the semester is almost finishing and i don't have the guts to tell him that i like him what should i do i am so confused.:(

 

Answer by Becsy
Submitted on 4/30/2006
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I like this guy and hes 2 years older than me. I've liked him since last year when we met on the track and field team. This year we were both in fashion show. And I've seen him in just his boxers which has made him even hotter.LOL! At times I've seen him look at me but I dont know if I should tell him that I like him. Im afraid he'll think im ugly.

 

Answer by jessi
Submitted on 5/1/2006
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OK there's this guy and he is going out w/ my best friend and i liked him way before she did and hes always looking at me and making me laugh i don't no what to do he already knows i like him how can i make him tell me he likes me?

 

Answer by SAV06
Submitted on 5/2/2006
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ok so i have this guy and hes younger and at first he liked me and i would never give him a chance then i got feelings for him and one thing happened after another then we were together but he treats me soooo bad and i think hes cheating and now he says he dosent know what he wants... so i ended cuz i was sick of crying.  I know he wants me and wont call now that i ended it.  But if i call him hes mean when i know he wants to be nice but he dosent want me 2 know he cares... how can i get our perfect friendship back or just make him want me so0o bad?!?

 

Answer by CASSIE
Submitted on 5/2/2006
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well i just moved to this new school and there is a boy there who i think is really cute im to afraid to tell him or even my friends. I only tell my friends at my old school my feelings because they understand more. My friends at my new school would ask him out for me but then he would just hate me. I like him sooo much!!!!! I have asigned sets with him in choir and in P.E i try to sit by him in homeroom when ever i can but then my friend would get really suspesios and ask him out for me. I need alot of help with this PLEASE HELP ME!!!

 

Answer by jann
Submitted on 5/9/2006
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heyy...i think im going to tell him....hes very nice and cute but i dont kno if he likes me back how do i tell..if any one has any questions ask me on aim duckie1208

 

Answer by Yoshi
Submitted on 5/10/2006
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Its okay. I think you should tell him. If you don't, later on in your life, you will say theres the guy I liked, and I never told him how I felt about him. So give it a shot and tell him. If he doesn't like you back, than they are missing out on you. But you will find someone if they don't like you back. Just give it a good hope try! ^-^

 

Answer by xXxSAMxXx
Submitted on 5/15/2006
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I really need help!  about a year ago, I was in love with this guy.  The other night I got really drunk and told him and he said he used 2 lyk me 2!!! but he then said that he didnt want nythig 2 happen now coz if we broke up then it wud be sooo weired, and he wud rather be friends with me for agessss instead.  I was totally fine with that-except I was drunk so I may have shouted at him a bit.  But anyway...now we havn't spoken since and I'm really worried that it's going to be weird between us anyway!!! HELP ME!!!!

 

Answer by boona225
Submitted on 5/17/2006
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look every thing yall went through i went through to. but if u like somebody bad just tell him it want hurt just ask or get somebody to ask for you.

 

Answer by NewRochelleRox2010
Submitted on 5/18/2006
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hey everybody~ i got stuck with the same problem. The guy I like "supposedly" has a gf but she doesn't go to ALMS(my school).HaHa, nice try Keith.(the guy I like)He acts really weird around me, but we're really good friends.And the worst thing is we have a really bad past.The Valentine's Dance TOTALLY ruined my life! We were flirting and we didn't know it and the slow dance came on and he gave me this puppy dog look but I DIDN'T DANCE WITH HIM! URRRRRRGGGG! I hate myself for that night!He was totally checking me out.Man, I was really depressed that week.We had to fill out a poll before the dance that told us our most compatiple and he was mine. I was his second!Pretty darn close.Now we talk in health and out of health and sometimes we walk together but there's something weird with him. I'll catch him staring at me in gym and in health and he turns red sometimes. I want to tell him but I'm kinda not exactly freaked out but scared it will ruin our friendship. Next year we go to High School and I don't want him to forget me when he gets there.
Luv <3,
Jess

 

Answer by bunsetey
Submitted on 5/18/2006
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theres this boy i like but i haven't really talked to him. i mean sometimes i feel like he is staring at me and tries to act cool with the guys that sit near me in class but I am not sure if he likes me. i haven't even told my friends that i like him. how am i supposed to ask without being ridiculously embarrassed? (i get embarrassed easily...)

 

Answer by Micayla
Submitted on 5/19/2006
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this is actually a question theres this guy at school and hes pretty popular I dont like him because of that but because he treats me diffrent not like the other popular girls he treats them like a regular girl loving teenage boy would but he treats me quitly and nicely, my mum says his body language is diffrent with me and she thinks he likes me but I am not sure I am not as pretty as the other popular girls that are always hanging around him and I am so FLAT lmao but I am shy around boys and this would be the first time I would tell a guy I like him or go on a date I have never been on one and I am only aloud to go out on dates in groups I am 14 and I was wondering If I should tell him at the end of the school year or not or early I dont know what should I do???? :(
~Micayla~

 

Answer by Rhiannon
Submitted on 5/28/2006
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There is a boy who is thirteen and i like him and i think he likes me maybe he tries to make me laugh and smile he is sweet he is my best friend though what should i do ?

 

Answer by XShazX
Submitted on 5/30/2006
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Hunnie - noone can tell you what to do. You have to decide whether or not to tell this guy that you have feelings for him. I know it must be very fustrating for you, but at the end of the day only you can tell this guy how you feel about him.
I know it seems scary - the thought of you telling him how you feel, because I've been there and boy is it hard!
At the end of the day, if you really have strong feelings for this boy then I'd tell him that you like him.
The worst he can say is that he doesn't feel the same way! The best he can say is that he likes you as well.
At least you'll know where you stand and may feel better!
Good luck!

 

Answer by leuqar
Submitted on 5/30/2006
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HEY YEAH SO I SEE THIS GUY EVERY DAY AND IVE LIKED HIM SINCE IVE TALKED TO HIM IN CLASS.AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! LIKE NOW WE DONT TALK BECAUSE ALL OF THE SEATS IN CLASS ARE MOVED AND I REALLY LIKE HIM AND THINK HE IS CUTE!! BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. AND MY FRIENDS SAY THAT THEY DONT LIKE HIM WHICH I THINK THEY DO BECAUSE I SAY THAT I DONT LIKE HIM BECAUSE THEY SAY THEY DONT BUT I REALLY DO LIKE HIM A LOT WHAT SHOULD I DO!

 

Answer by Dro898
Submitted on 6/2/2006
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I like this guy, and I think he likes me as well.  He has been very flirtacious for the past month or more.  HOW DO I DETERMINE BEING FLLRTY AND NOT JUST A NICE GUY ?

 

Answer by kellie
Submitted on 6/7/2006
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ok i like this guy alot and i think he likes me to but he has a girlfriend and my best friend is really ugle and she thinks that he likes her but he is always flirting with me what do i do

 

Answer by kellie
Submitted on 6/7/2006
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ok i like this guy alot and i think he likes me to but he has a girlfriend and my best friend is really ugle and she thinks that he likes her but he is always flirting with me what do i do

 

Answer by No Name Please
Submitted on 6/13/2006
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I like this guy a ton, and I've known him since I was 4. I only get to see him once a week because I met him through church (i know, how corny) and I think he likes me too, but my friends make fun of me for liking him because he's a geek (he's cute AND smart). Im also scared he's gonna reject me if I ask him.

 

Answer by sillygirl
Submitted on 6/13/2006
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I like this guy and i think he likes me; he holds my hand and we hang out alot! but i dont understand whats going on here! help me out! thanxx!

 

Answer by sundaekail1
Submitted on 6/19/2006
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I'm best friends with this boy and we used to like each other and we have kissed alot, and we still do kiss occasionally, but he likes my friend a little, what do i do?

 

Answer by kitty
Submitted on 6/20/2006
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i like this on guy Lots, but he don't like me the same because he has a girl friend. I want to make-out with him so bad but like i said he has a girl friend. I want to go out with him but he has a girl friend what do i do.

 

Answer by Teressa
Submitted on 6/21/2006
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i need help! i like a guy and i don't know if he likes me? he emails me every day. and i was wondering how do i tell him how i feel.

 

Answer by Luvly Girl
Submitted on 6/25/2006
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I fancy i boy in my class but i have neva come round 2 tellin him. Hes one ov da boyz hu hangs ou wit m8s and laughs. wat am i gona do??? Oh Yeahhh big shout 2 mah bby gal-charlotte ur da best hun. c ya----- my msn is ---   mysteriousgirl_xx@hotmail.com byyy!!! xxxxxxxx

 

Answer by Nezky
Submitted on 6/27/2006
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I like this guy, he's been my friend for over a year and I really want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know how he will react...

 

Answer by kiki
Submitted on 6/29/2006
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I like this guy a lot. He takes the bus with me and always looks at me. I want to tell him that I like him but don't know how to tell him!! This is my first crush, So I need some advise.

 

Answer by brooke
Submitted on 6/30/2006
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im in the grade below this guy who i have liked for 3 years. i think he likes this other girl who is my friend but isnt really close. he is now finally noticing me but i still dont kno if he likes me at all. i mean its possible for him to like both of us but i just wish i could tell him without telling him. its really hard for me to even aim him. please help me!

 

Answer by KissMe_KillMe
Submitted on 7/1/2006
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Look ladies.
You all seen to have the SAME problem.
{You REALLy like this guy but dont have the
gut's to ask him out or tell him}
And thats fine!! It's a HUGE deal to tell
someone your true feelings.
Right now your trying to figure out if
you should tell him you like him{and RISK
getting a"no"}
OR admire from a far:(

Well..everyone will tell you the same
answer..GO FOR IT!!!
If he doesn't like you[o well]..you'll find somone better.
And if yuo do tell him he could like yuo back.
So this can go either way..50/50
Take your chances girls.
Keep stronge and dont let thoes stupid guys
get you down!
GOOD LUCK!
<3

 

Answer by bj flipped
Submitted on 7/6/2006
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if you like him so much tell him and and if he don't like what you have to say then just forget him he might just be an ass but dont tell him in frount of his friends @ all

 

Answer by cheeseandbacon
Submitted on 7/7/2006
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Gosh it's so hard, i mean i'vegot this guy i REALLy like and I can't tell im coz if he rejects me then I'll die!!!!  But AHHHHHHHHHHH i don'tknow what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by jether3
Submitted on 7/7/2006
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i like a guy and i think he likes me cuz he is always smilin and staring at me. how should i tell him i like him? on the phone or in person?

 

Answer by meg89
Submitted on 7/8/2006
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Theres this guy i like very much and i usually talk to him online. Is there any particular way i shud tell him? Ive known him forever but hes a couple years ahead of me. I see him a lot so i dont want to make it awkward between us. Thanx so much.

 

Answer by aRiiaNa
Submitted on 7/8/2006
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hey i really like this guy a lot and i wanna tell him i like him but im so freakin nervous of telling him myself is it bad to get a friend to say it for u

 

Answer by A Friend Of A Friend
Submitted on 7/12/2006
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Well Lets Me Tell You
I Never Had An Age To Start Dating At And
I Never Ever Thought Guys Were Grose
So Ive Actually Been Dating For About....8 Years
I Am 14
I Have Alot Of Experiance In This Stuff
lol
well
lets me tell you
dont be nervous
calm yourself
and first think about
if that guys you liek is sumone that you would
actually be able to be with for a while
think about it for maybe a day or to
and sleep on it
then talk to him
(do the same thing if sumone just asked you out)
Ive been in alot of relationships and not all of them last more then a month
but w.e at least they happened lol
still
i help my friends answer this kinda of stuff
and honestly if you are like 9 years old DONT DATE
just dont okay?
i thought it was okay at that age
but like come on...9 years old forget it
guys are wayy to imature then
and stil lare

they cant handle reationship
still tell him
on the phone if ur naturally shy around boys
but if your not
just calm ur self and like pull him away frum his friends and just say
you need to know that i like you
at the moment its not nothing big
but i still like you
and even though you have a gf( if he has one) im not going to stop you frum seeing her
i just thought that you need to know and that i hope we can still be friends without any weirdness

** my best friend is my ex frum last year
his name is brandon and i love him and he knows it
but he still talks to me everyday
and we hang out every once ina while outta school. **
telling a guy you like them isnt gunna hurt you unless ur rejected but
think of this
tell him that you dont feel it nessesary
for him to say sorry or andything
but tell him that you dont really want a no frum him
but if he feels the same
then just tell him to ask you out privately or sumthing im no expert
but if you want more help on anythng i have millions of friend seriously lol ive been around countyr to country
then just add my e-mail
araca_18@hotmail.com

only nessesary of adding if you ned help in relationships thank you
have a very nice night <33 .xoxox. a friend of a friend


 

Answer by lisatilley
Submitted on 7/12/2006
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i like this guy called kirby but he has a girlfriend he knows how i feel but i love him and i cant get over him what should i do?

 

Answer by CandiExtrA_678
Submitted on 7/14/2006
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I am going through a similar problem. Well i think that if you aren't sure if he likes you back than you should consider the following: if he likes you.... 1) He'll look at you until you turn around then boom. he's turned the other direction. 2) you may 'feel' like he's looking at you but he's hard to catch at it. 3) Basically, the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when he's around you. 4)DEAD GIVEAWAY-when you talk to him he turns red.( BINGO! you can pack that puppy up and take him home.)
GOOD LUCK!

 

Answer by doorantblondie
Submitted on 7/15/2006
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ok well there is this guy named dave and we went out out for a while a year and a half ago but we broke up for stupid reasons during the school year well over the summer we started talking and making plan together again so i realized that i still really liked him but we never did go out again but now i still really like but he has a new girlfriend and she flaunts thier relationship to every one! and they say i love you a rediculous amount of times every day but they keep breaking up like every month i really want to tell him how i feel but im scared to because his older sister is best friends with my older sister and if he rejects me the next 4 years of my life will misersble and unconfortable!!! so please hepl me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  A.S.A.P.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by Rae
Submitted on 7/16/2006
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hey<3
i like this guy and he asked me out but I turned him down and now i wish i hadn't. I told him that b4 we went out i had to get to know him better so we went to the movies and i really really like him he's cute funny and really nice and he's not afraid to be him! that's why i like him and i really wish i would'vesaid yes the first time should i ask him out and say that i really like him. or should i just let him go?!

 

Answer by Daisuki
Submitted on 7/19/2006
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Im 13 and in the same situation >< I like this guy [a lot] in a grade higher than mine  and i think he likes me too, because he's been giving off signals like eye contact, smile staring, and his friend asked me if i liked him [but i sed no >< .. i wasnt thinking]  so i wanna tell him .. i know other girls like him to and he's a really outgoing guy and he flirts a lot with other girls

 

Answer by Ally
Submitted on 7/19/2006
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i actually have a question, i am soooo confused! there is this guy, and he goes to church w/ me, i like him a lot, and i think he likes me too, but should i tell him? my problem is that if i tell him i will be scared of the answer. if i don't tell him i will regret for not doing it!

 

Answer by caramelpop22
Submitted on 7/25/2006
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hi, i'm debating right now whether or not to tell a guy that i really like him. the thing is that we were on a school trip together, and we hooked up for a short while, but hes not the flirty type, so i don't know if it was just a one time thing for him. please help!! i really like him.

 

Answer by lady bug
Submitted on 7/26/2006
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first i think u shud b his friend 4 a lil while then ez on up and ask him out to six flags or something.it'll work trust me i've done it before.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D

 

Answer by Kairii
Submitted on 7/28/2006
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yea. i know what thats like, and even if you do get rejected, like you said, atleast you do know, it helps alot that you have such a positive attitude twords it, becasue if you didnt, itwould kinda kill the point, but owell :P

but yea there is this guy that i REALLY like, and i dont know how tell tell him, ebcause hes my best friends ex. (even though she says its okay, i still feel so bad cuz i know she still likes him) and my other friend likes him right now too. I;ve been hanging around with his fr the past couplew weeks staright. i dunno, its all so weird and i want to tell him but am terrifyed, and dont want to mess anythign up with another friends of mien either. because alot of his friends are my friends. anyideas?

 

Answer by Cowgirl_Up
Submitted on 8/1/2006
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hey!
I'm kinda going through the same thing I'm 16 and i really like this guy and I'm struggling over if i should tell him or not and i think he likes me but hes got a GF, i see him everyday and we flirt and his GF lives kinda far away so he only sees her like once a week. we spend alot of time together, we talk alot, he really trusts me he tells me everything that goes on in his life its kinda nice and hes there when i need him if I'm upset or need to talk. its just hard because what if I'm wrong and hes just a good friend ya know anyway, from what i read alot or girls have the same prob so its nice to know that were not alone. anyway so idk it could go ether way he could be happy to know and go out with u or he wont so i think u should just go for it. i hope it works out for u.
                       GOOD LUCK!! :)
p.s. if someone has something to say or advice that would really help me out that would be awesome http://www.myspace.com/i_like_big_pickups
just leave me a MSG

 

Answer by Aries131
Submitted on 8/8/2006
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Thats great you should go for it. Now for my question I like this guy but hes my best friends brother and I'm afraid he'll reject me I'm 14 and in 8th grade hes 15 and in 10th I'm so afraid i had a boyfriend last year and he helped me with my problems i was gin though with them he flirts with me a lot but I'm not sure if he jokin around or he likes me. hes on my mind all the time I'm also afraid ill ruin my friendship with my best friend. What should i do????????????????

 

Answer by adamlover01
Submitted on 8/9/2006
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i am also am in deep love i have known this guy since 1ST grade an liked him from that day till i die. i need to know if he flirts with me then he likes me too??

 

Answer by Confused
Submitted on 8/11/2006
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Omg, i didn't know so many people are going through the same thing as me. Im almost 13 and i really like this guy. And I dont know if I should tell him or not. The problem is my BFF likes him too and they see eachother everyday in football and i dont want him to like her. Should I tell him?

 

Answer by meghan
Submitted on 8/18/2006
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if your crushin on a guy, tell him!! the worst thing that can happen to you is you could be made fun of. i know that you want to avoid that, but i know you could take a little embarrassment. besides, the only people that will probably make fun of you and how long do you think they will really remember that?

 

Answer by skyy
Submitted on 8/30/2006
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omg!  i am going through almost the same thing. but the guy i like, is my e  we broke up 2 weeks ago and i'mstill in love with him and he just started going out with this other girl, and its really hard for me   and everyonce in a while i start crying.. i love him so much.. anyways back to you.... i would defienty tell him... my e told me and i told my ex that we liked eachother then he asked me out.. so go for it!!!

 

Answer by Me123
Submitted on 9/4/2006
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I need help with the same thing your not alone well I think that if you are too shy to tell him yourself you should write a letter or note or even calling him on the phone is not as bad as face to face.

 

Answer by boy crazy 11113
Submitted on 9/5/2006
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i like this boy but i don't know if he likes me or not i chase him at recess!

 

Answer by boy crazy 11113
Submitted on 9/5/2006
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i like this boy but i don't know if he likes me or not i chase him at recess!

 

Answer by aqua
Submitted on 9/6/2006
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i like thisguy but ive only been in skool for two days he dosent even notice me my friend is going out with his bestfriend and he knows i like him i dont know what to do should i ask for my bff to ask him if he likes me? im sort of a skater type of girl and he is a gansta-skater and im in 7th grade hes in 6th thats the problem................. someone help me

 

Answer by Vy
Submitted on 9/9/2006
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I think that you should go for it. To ask him if he likes you or not. It's better to tell him and get it over with then getting it bottled up inside and just be confused, sad, and really bored with life than to just tell him. If he likes you-- way to go! If not... there are almost 6 billion people around the world. Don't worry. Tons of guys you will find later who will appreciate you for who you are instead of someone who doesn't. That person just doesn't know what they're rejecting. =)

P.S: If he rejects you or is mean to you... he isn't worth your tears.

 

Answer by Natalia
Submitted on 9/14/2006
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Well i have a really big problem..i still have feelings for my ex..but he likes someother girl now and i like his best friend...and i told his bf that and he was all cool about it and stuff but we rarley talk any more and theres this guy who likes me ALOT and i dont know if i should go out with him or not like i like him and all but i dont know if i could ever picture us dating..hes nice but i just dont know hat other people would think and i still really like my ex's bestfriend..ive like him for like 3 years now and i cant get him outta my head....its just so comfusing...HELP..please anyone got some advice for me?

 

Answer by kiki
Submitted on 9/16/2006
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i have liked this one guy for 4 years i no its really pethetic but hey he has liked me twice but never told me untill he stopped liking me!! well i havn't eithier for 4 years and now my best friend likes him and told him! he says he doesnt like her but every one says he likes me like omg!!! but he hasnt told me and now i dont think its true and i am worried ill tell him and he'll say to me well i dont like u!!! help!!!

 

Answer by skittles
Submitted on 9/16/2006
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okay well their is this guy i like a lot i told him and now he wont talk to me cause hes 6 years older than me. Ok some of you may be going through the same thing maybe or not but what im going to do is talk to him face to face i told him by putting a note on his truck ladies never do thatttttt...! he works for my dad so luckly i get to see him almost every day. its been 6 weeks now so ive worked up the guts so im going to talk to him and see what he says and i will write more advice but in the mean time dont put a note on his truck!!! and my dad went to school with his dad so they are best friends so his son comes over with him he has a truck but he will come over with him he lives 4 streets down i drive their all the time even though im only 12 but whatever my dad lets me drive but pls listen to my advice try to be more of a girly girl dreesss nicely and some makeup and your hair up anykind they like it up so if they kiss you they dont have to sort thruogh your hair. And dont call them they call you uls they lve a mes on you phone but hope you get somthin out of this. Bye s ya lata

 

Answer by Anon
Submitted on 9/19/2006
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I have the same advice for everyone: just do it.  Ask whoever it is out or tell him you like him or whatever.  You have to realize that the other person is probably just as scared as you are, so if you don't do something then nothing might ever happen.  And the world is not going to end if he says no.  Rejection happens to everyone.  At least then you will know not to waste any more time on him.

 

Answer by Sexc_Gurl_4life
Submitted on 9/29/2006
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i like  this guy but dont no  whether he likes me but the problem  is mi  best friend likes him to  what shuld i  do

 

Answer by honey
Submitted on 10/1/2006
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i'm 13 and don't know wat to do see i like this guy and my friend told him now i don't know if i should tell him well tomorrow is my b-day and i'm going for it i hope he'll like me to i'll get back to u

 

Answer by honey
Submitted on 10/1/2006
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i'm 13 and don't know what to do see i like this guy and my friend told him now i don't know if i should tell him well tomorrow is my b-day and i'm going for it i hope he'll like me to i'll get back to u

 

Answer by Monkey luv
Submitted on 10/2/2006
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okay
i like dis guy who's younger then me but i can't help that
ummm i think he likes me too but I'mnot sure my friends seem to think so...
umm these are some signs...
he is always finding a reason to hold my hands always tries to hang out with me alone/...weneva we play sports he selects me to be on his team and teases me with other guyz
...he also asks me what i think about him and wen i say I'mgetting to know im... he asks me if i like him
o
and he said he luv me 3 times....out of the blue
i dunno
help....

 

Answer by Fgrnitout
Submitted on 10/2/2006
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I have a problem. I like this guy, but I have a hard time admitting it to myself. The last guy I liked broke my heart, and I haven't been able to trust since. This guy really likes me, but I don't want to be a fool and get into this again.

 

Answer by Mem
Submitted on 10/3/2006
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Hey, like everybody else, I'm going through the same thing.  I saw this guy at a dance.  I looked at him and smiled.  This year he goes to my school.  My friend told him that i like him.  Even though he has no clue who I am, I do the three steps when he walks past me.  1. I star at him.  It might sound rude, but just try it.  At least 4 seconds.  2. Smile.  Every guy likes a girl who has confidence.  Don't be afraid, show some teeth!!  And 3. Get close to him, let him know that you're into him.  I hope that this will/helps you out.  Good luck!!

 

Answer by tanna
Submitted on 10/3/2006
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no i would not tell him the way he would find out that i like him is if he asked me out and i would say yes and he would no that i liked him all along!!!

 

Answer by Christie K
Submitted on 10/12/2006
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I think you should tell a guy you like him...but don't be too foward!! If he never talks to you without you coming up first, then he probably doesn't love you. I think it's a good test.

 

Answer by brit
Submitted on 10/13/2006
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hey grlz, here's something a bit different...this guy really likes me and stares at me all the time and trys to make conversation out of thin air. i really really don't like him at all, but i see him every day, so how can i tell him without actually telling him....so you know, ignoring him ISN'T WORKING!!!!! plz help me

 

Answer by Soccergirl_1010
Submitted on 10/17/2006
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Ummm so I like this guy, but only kind of.  And he has been paying more attention to me lately, but I'm not sure that he likes me.  We are both in some of the same classes and play soccer so I've been to almost every game because my brother plays for the guys team.  What should I do?  Should I just let this be another crush and move on?

 

Answer by sam
Submitted on 10/20/2006
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there is this guy that i like but i dont think that he likes me what should i do, the only thing he talks to me about is homework and when i give it to him he smiles its like hes teasing me i dont know i dont want to ask him and get rejected ill feel like a looooooooosseer!

 

Answer by brayt08
Submitted on 10/23/2006
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Ok.. I like this guy a lot. We're kinda talking but, he has a girlfriend. We hooked up about a week ago because I thought that we'd start dating shortly after because he told me that he was going to break up with his girlfriend of 6 months for me. But he still hasn't done it. I'm with him pretty much every day and we have fun. But I don't know how to tell him that I want him and ALL of him, and for him to end things with this girl ASAP. Any suggestions?

 

Answer by Anne
Submitted on 10/23/2006
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umm i dont really now wat to do either.. coz i really like diz guy im just 2 shy to tell him dat i like him.

 

Answer by Ona
Submitted on 10/25/2006
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I like this guy and he is so cute and i caught him looking at me. and I'm afraid to talk to him because I'm scared of regetion and i don't want that to happen to me...What should i do...

 

Answer by melly
Submitted on 10/29/2006
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Hey! i really like this guy called Josh in my history class. He sits next to me and we talk a lot and i told my friends that i like him. that was OK. but i really do like this guy and i think i might have a go. but I'm 2 scared 2 come out and say it. i say hello 2 him nearly everyday when i walk pass him. 1 thing is for sure i don't know is what if he does say yes i do like you, but what would my friends think. I need some advise on how 2 ask him. sometimes i even blush when i talk 2 him. please help me. i really do like him. i have known him since yr 7 transition 2 Nuriootpa high school. thanks. bye.

 

Answer by Bauer
Submitted on 11/2/2006
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hi, I've liked a guy for nearly 3 years now but never told him so. We've become really really close friends but i don't know if i should tell him i like him, not knowing if i'dlose him as a friend. I'm not exactly a especially attractive person when he is, well certainly a lot more then me, but if i did tell him i wouldn't want to lose the great friendship we have for nothing. But if he said he did like me i would be incredibly happy. Someone please help my dilemma?

 

Answer by blondeandsmart
Submitted on 11/3/2006
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there's this guy in my school and i really like him. my problem is that if i tell him i like him i'm afraid of rejection and him acting all weird around me. but i think he likes me and so do all my friends. also don't just say "ask him out and see what will happen" because i know that wont work. Please help me ,he's single right now and i really want to be his girlfriend

 

Answer by Camera_Shy
Submitted on 11/4/2006
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I'd tell him all he can say is no and if he does move on  it sounds  hard but if you have great friends like I do you will be better in less than a week.

 

Answer by sam !
Submitted on 11/5/2006
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what ever you do do not call the guy you like more than 2 times because then he will just ignore you.trust me i know

 

Answer by girly
Submitted on 11/10/2006
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You remember my last post. Well I told him I like him. He's my new boyfriend and he's taking me to Starbucks in 15 minutes! Reach for your dreams, girls! They might just come true!

 

Answer by Dave
Submitted on 11/15/2006
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You should kiss him before he could see you.  I was embarrassed at first then at the next school dance she asked me out!

 

Answer by Green Eyed Monster :)
Submitted on 11/19/2006
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Ok so I just broke up with my first boyfriend ever! Actually he broke with me :(
Anyway he told me that he needed to take a break because his grades were slipping majorly! Then he told me that they were getting beter and was still flirting but it's been a couple of weeks and we're still not back together!!! Now my best friend has a new boyfriend and I'm too busy worring about my own problems that I have no time to be happy for her! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by I shouldn't do this
Submitted on 11/19/2006
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Ok i was just looking at this site for fun and now i feel like putting down my problems...one of them is all my fault and i am a real uhm..bad word..for doing this to someone but well here it goes...
there's this guy..michael...and currently i am very close to loving him...i really am...but the thing is i met him on yahoo chat and he lives in texas...well after about a month of talking to him i gave him my cell phone number and we got along so well and we talked for about 3 hours everday...(this all started in around may 2006) and we even told each other we liked each other and stuff but the bad thing was that i was on my friend candace'saccount when i was talking to him on yahoo and he would always see her picture and let me tell you candace is pretty much as hot as they come an i mean i am pretty well off myself...i get told that frequently--and that is not conceited it is just confident--an he always thought that was me...
and we kept talking all the time until about middle of september when he started school again...i had started in august but anyways...then we started talking less but when we would talk it was like nothing had changed...and well then i had made up my mind one night that i had to tell him who i really was...so i wrote him a text it said 'hey babe. i know that this won't make any sense tonight but i promise i will explain tomorrow and i am sorry for what i have to tell you and i really hope and pray that you will understand and not change' and i sent it...he finally replied while i was in chemistry that day it was 5th period so around 1 30. and he said come on you can tell me
i said no
and he kept asking me over and over  and finally i couldn't take it so i just told him 'Michael i like you...you know hat so i have to tell you...that isn't me in the picture and i hope you can forgive me and idk he still hasn't gotten over it and it really hurts an now i don't feel like saying the other one good bye

 

Answer by meee
Submitted on 11/20/2006
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i don't have a answer i have a problem. i like this guy he knows. i told him and he didn't say anything. i asked who he likes and he said no one. i think he likes me he just wont say it and then again he might not like me at all. we always talk on msn and i really like him. I'm to shy to ask him if he likes me or anything. what should i do?

 

Answer by shortywhatt
Submitted on 11/23/2006
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I think you should just tell him! Ask him in private so if you get rejected, everyone won't make fun of you. In most of the situations I've been in, it turned out the guy actually liked me back! And even if he doesn't.....the worst thing he can say is no :)

 

Answer by stasia
Submitted on 11/25/2006
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hey! i need help: i met this guy about 2 months ago. we were both 'extras' in a local movie filming. we talked when we were not filming, and i think he was flirting w/ me, and we were just joking about everything. it was so much fun! and at the end, when i had to leave, he said he needed my email address before i left. so we've been emailing back and forth. (oh, sadly, he lives 3 hours away from me.) from some of his emails, it sounds like he likes me, but from others it doesn't, and i can't tell! and sometimes it takes sooo long for him to write back. like now, the last time he wrote to me was about a weak ago. how can i tell if he likes me!!?? through emails i've said that we should do something together any time he comes to my town, and says he wants to. but it just doesn't sound like he's interested in having a girlfriend. how can i tell?? we exchanged phone numbers in the first emails and he called me once, but it was from a cell phone and i could barely hear him, so i felt stupid. he hasn't called me since then and that was a while ago. so, what should i do? i've hinted that i like him through the emails. i just do not know what to do now!! please help!! i reallyyy appreciate it. :)

 

Answer by Chelsea
Submitted on 11/27/2006
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If you like him and you know he likes you, go after him! But if he does not like you don't chase after him. There are plenty of good men out there.

 

Answer by shane
Submitted on 11/30/2006
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say what you want to say when you have the chance, because in just a blink of an eye you may lose your love ones. i have already been in this situation that there was a guy who really loves me but unfortunately i already lost him because of my pride.. i don't know if it's already t0o late to get back the love that i've taken for granted. until now, am still shy to tell him what i fell for him, that i already developed with him, the until now am very in love with him... Am so weak to tell and express my feelings.

 

Answer by Xlia_123X
Submitted on 12/2/2006
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I really like this guy at my school. I knew him 2 years ago, and liked him since Halloween. But he likes this girl, and I even HELPED them get together. However, the girl told me to go ahead, do what I want to do, and forget what everyone else says.(Everyone told me to drop it.) I can't forget or get over him, but every time I see them together, I get hurt. What do I do?? Do I give up or go for him, no matter how much pain I take in?? *I seriosly need some advise T_T*

 

Answer by hayley2298
Submitted on 12/7/2006
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OKAY I LIKE THIS GUY AND HE FOUND OUT.HE HASN'T REALY SAID ANYTHING AND IT SCARES ME I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO?WE ARE SUCH GREAT FRIEND.

 

Answer by steph
Submitted on 12/11/2006
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ive been out wid this lad loads nd i fink es the 1 nd i wnna get bk wid im but i dnt no ow 2 tell im i love him, how??

 

Answer by ck
Submitted on 12/16/2006
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omg theres this boy who i sorta no him but i dnt ive kown him 4 a skl term and im rely stuck on what 2 do cuz 2 of my closets m8ts r in his class and they were tlkin bout him and he ova heard and he sed i wasnt bad concerdering he dnt no me at all reli i only reli get 2 tlk 2 him 4 hours a week which isnt good :( and i dnt no what 2 do now cuz he nos and the otha day i was just going 2 cum out nd ask him but he wasnt in :( i sorta want 2 get 2 no him a bit more 1st nd i do reli rlei reli lyk him  i just dunno what 2 do nd if it helps we both lyk greenday :)
PLZPLZPLZPLZ HELP IM DESPRATE PLZ !!!!!!!!I RELI NEED HELP SOOOOO PLZ I RELI LYK HIM ND I NEED @ GET OVER A BOY AND (o ye im not a player if ure wondering )

 

Answer by hikell205
Submitted on 12/18/2006
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I had a friend ask the guy I like for me. And he likes me too.

 

Answer by ilove thewayyoulaugh.x.
Submitted on 12/20/2006
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I think I'm falling for him, he has got a girlfriend, and he's one of my closest friends, but everyone thinks he likes me, his mates and mine!
Should I tell him, or leave it? I don't want to put him on the spot or make him feel uncomfortable within our friendship! He's the only person I trust!

 

Answer by Ashley Neumann
Submitted on 12/20/2006
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if you need a Guy just ask him if he likes you!!!

 

Answer by jani
Submitted on 12/20/2006
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so, there's this guy i like.  there's a few problems though.  1)i'vebeen friends w/ him since pre-school. 2)he's really mean to me.  (he's usually mean to ppl, but he's extra mean to me.  idk if it's because he likes me, r if it's because he hates me.  he's actually told me that he hates me a couple of times.  i don't know what to do.  if anyone has any suggestions, please write back!  thx! :)

 

Answer by candycanegirl
Submitted on 12/22/2006
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I like a few guys but i don't really know if any of them like me. One of them i feel like he flirts with me every day. one looks at me in class. And the last one just looks at me and he's kind of my friend. The thing i hate the most is not knowing if they do like me or they don't! What should i DO?

 

Answer by candycanegirl
Submitted on 12/22/2006
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u kno wat? i told a guy i liked him on the last day of skool hoping that i wont see him for like 3 months and then later that weekend i saw him. And theres also like 4 other grls that told him and it was no big deal but he hasnt asked any of us out and i know he likes one of us im just not really sure which one

my answer to this is:
Look it doesn't really mater which one he likes as long as you like him. He might actually ask you out one day and if you say no you probably will regret it!
Love,
Candycanegirl

 

Answer by skater_gurl646@hotmail.com
Submitted on 12/23/2006
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a guy named peter hes SO hot and every girl in my school love him (but hes new to the school and same with me) i love him and i always think about him. when school started he always looks at me but i didn't like him but when i new he liked me i liked him back. one day we had a school dance and i saw him dancing with another girl i got SO upset that i cried and now i don't no what to do I NEED HELP!!!!! please help me PLEASE i love HIM and my eyes can't go off of him i need HELP!!! my email is skater_gurl646@hotmail.com please help me please

 

Answer by cecee
Submitted on 12/26/2006
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uhm go for it? what can you loose. unless your ugly....

 

Answer by Amanda
Submitted on 12/28/2006
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ok i like my best friend and he has a girlfriend but their having problems and
i think he likes. The other day a came and spend the night with me at my house ( non sexualy) and i mean we had a great time we talked and play games but i don't know if he likes me i mean we walk to the bus together and every thing but his bus is right in front of mine . it s really complex i need help really bad if anyone will help me out

 

Answer by Ciara
Submitted on 1/2/2007
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theres this boy i like his name is dakota i want to ask him if he likes me the way i like him wut should i do

 

Answer by Keito
Submitted on 1/11/2007
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I really like this boy in my tech class, but I'mso shy to even show some sign that i like him. I really want to tell him i like him but i fear that I'lljust be laughed at by other people in the class. Tech class is the only time i get to see this boy and i sorta know him seeing I'vehad the same class with him for about two years now. Once and a while it seems to me he has an intrest in me and then most of the time all he talks about himself. I get really frustrated when this girl who has a boyfriend hangs all over him. Does anyone have advice?

 

Answer by kit-kat
Submitted on 1/11/2007
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hey, i'mgoing throgh the very same thing my FRIEND told him that i liked him and no when ever i see him i get sooooo embarised and on top of that i sit next to him in like EVERY class and now i'mreally quiet in school!!! what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

 

Answer by adam
Submitted on 1/13/2007
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i like this girl but i don't know if she likes me but i always talk to her on msn so if if i ask her out she might reject me i need help plz

 

Answer by WiGlE_WiT_iT
Submitted on 1/13/2007
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k so wuts up wuts good yall kno all dat shyt but newayz i think u should jus tell da guuy u lik him i mean u neva kno he might lik u 2 but if he dont dats ight to cuz u kno u dont wanna b wastin yo time likin him wen u could b likin sumbody bomber n betta fo u...so jus tell him dont b playin dem middle schoole school games...k so g2g now lov ya if ya aint no hata

 

Answer by gemgirl
Submitted on 1/15/2007
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ive like this guy for like 6 months and i had a friend tell him that a liked him and he said he liked me a as just a friend. now he has a girl friend but they don't talk or any thing!!!! and i have homeroom w/ him and i have caught him looking down my shirt!!! and he is always touching me!!!! i don't know what to do i still like him but hes got his GF.. but hes flirting w/ me so much!!

 

Answer by RagDogLuver
Submitted on 1/17/2007
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I like this guy and i just told him tat i like him but i dont know if he likes me.  he said that he doesn't but he acts like he does.  I dont know what to do.  help!

 

Answer by chica588
Submitted on 1/24/2007
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I really like this guy he said he was going to ask my best friend out but he hasn't't and i still like him. we're talking more but he still doesn't't know i like him. should i tell my best friend and take a risk with my friendship and go for the guy or should i stay away from the guy and keep my friendship? HELP  

 

Answer by sad girl
Submitted on 1/26/2007
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i like a guy  and i went up and gave him a secret admirer note and he guessed it was me and i told him the next day and every one got on my nerves did i make the right chose

 

Answer by Kaya
Submitted on 2/5/2007
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i told a guy i liked him he was my best friend when i told him it was such a releif but you wanna know what girls no one can decide for you follow your heart it will tell you what is right now we are still friends and everything worked out for me and it will work out for you

                      Kaya

 

Answer by e_gyptfreak
Submitted on 2/7/2007
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ok, i like this guy, but i'm too scared to tell him, but i'm giving him hints like, when he is with me and my friends and we are discussing somthing, he usually says somthing and my friends totally dissagree with him, but i always take his side.  i think that's a pretty easy way to tell a guy that you like them.

 

Answer by cutie
Submitted on 2/7/2007
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Ok I really don't no what to do.. there is this Guy that a  really like.. I liked him for along time then my best friends said he liked me.. And i really want to tell him but i don't no.. people told me to tell him and now others are saying don't tell and stuff..what should i do??:(

 

Answer by lil_cupcake15
Submitted on 2/8/2007
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if the signs are there totally tell him. because if you don't it will just eat you inside till you go crazy . trust me it sucks when you wait till he's tookin

 

Answer by Ib_gurl
Submitted on 2/12/2007
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I like this guy but i heard lots of people saying he already has a girlfriend,but i dont believe it because i never see them talk. wat should i do?

 

Answer by sweets
Submitted on 2/12/2007
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I need help. Ok there is this guy i really like and he asked me out but its my best friends ex and she told me if i want out with him she would make my life horrible and i want to say yess really badly because I really like him but at the same time i don't want me and her to stop being friends... and i don't know what to do.. Plezzzzzzz HELP:S

 

Answer by Lilly
Submitted on 2/14/2007
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I am having a big problem! So, I like one of my best guy friends and it was v-day today and one of my friends knows that I like him so she zapped me. When our group of friends was heading down to the bus she said that I had something to tell him. So I just got scared and said "I just got zapped, will you go out with me?" and he just said no. Should I tell him that I like him or just leave the situation?

 

Answer by nicolasa
Submitted on 2/15/2007
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i really think its a good idea to tell someone how you fell because then later on your going to fall more in love with him then its going to more hard to forget about him

 

Answer by Kayla11
Submitted on 2/19/2007
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Hey,
I like a guy too, Hey hes not the cutest guy in the world but hes nice. Should I ask he out. I heard things like wright a note. tell him on AIM. NOT SURE!!!!! HELP PLSS

Soccer chick

 

Answer by Unbroken hearted
Submitted on 3/5/2007
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Well I have told a guy that i liked him because I did and I felt maybe he did too. Whwn I told him he apreciated but said that we couldn't be together (im getting into details). Anyway i wasn't sad or upset and i didn't have a emotional breakdown is was justan odd feeling. What im trying to say is that you just make a day to meet huim and say it (althougth for me it was a lot of umms) and if he doesn't like you fine then at least now you know! but just remember if your not ready to hear a no (if he does) try not to break into pieces. I know your probably thinking easier saud than done but hey it worked for me (sorta...)

 

Answer by Liv
Submitted on 3/9/2007
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you should definitely go for it.....like a lot of other people have said whats the worst that can happen? of course in my situation hes my best friend and i don't want to loose our friendship bu it turned out he felt the same way...but if Ur guy doesn't then look at it this way...its his loss not Ur's

 

Answer by Get Real Guys
Submitted on 3/9/2007
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C'mon You are just asking for another heartbreak! don't be a moron!

 

Answer by Jilly Bean
Submitted on 3/10/2007
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Yeah. I know of you feel. but i think you should tell him if you think he likes you. if you dont think he likes you i would tell his frind to say hey i think so and so likes you to the person you like. then he can think about it. i have don that many times and got lots a boyfriends out of it. ahah.

 

Answer by chantell
Submitted on 3/17/2007
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i like this guy in my class named jorden and i met him on monday march 12 and his sister says he likes me but we dont really no each other but i REALLY want to date him plz give advice

 

Answer by lost in love
Submitted on 3/18/2007
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Ok, i really need a ton of help! I really like this guy, and he is really smart, athletic, funny, great personality, and really really really cute!!!! I'm really not sure if he likes me, because he sends some signd but they are not always clear. I mean he'll talk to me online and at school, and we get along great but i'm just not sure if he means it in a friends way or a relationship way. He has also been being extra nice to my BFF too! Anyway, I can't stop thinking about him, and how we are perfect for each other!!! Please help me! Any suggestions on what i should do!!!??? please please please please help me!

 

Answer by 31M00
Submitted on 3/19/2007
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ok. ive been realy liking this guy and after reading this, im so going to tell him i like him. soo much time has beenwasted!

hes moving across the counrty in the summer, and time is running out. im going for it as soon as the oppurtunity comes.

THANKS SO MUCH!!!!!!!

 

Answer by Some1
Submitted on 3/21/2007
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I like a boy in the 6th grade I am in 5th and 2day i was at his cousins house getting my hair cut and he came in and just watched me get my hair done but 1 of my friends told me he likes my best friend what should i do????

 

Answer by Comet15
Submitted on 3/23/2007
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There's This Guy, Ive liked him for year and a half. We talk every day on the phone. We are Best Friends. But it would feel akward going out with him because were best friends. But I CraZY bout him he Hot,Smart,Strong, Plays Sports (like Me-- We are very competitve in every sport)N E Ways. He has A younger Girlfriend but he talks to me more and rarely sees her. And I Know he has like me last year and some of  this year Too. Just dont know if her likes me still cause if I ask him could it ruin out friendship. I kno What your THinking hes not a good friend if he thinks were not friends but he isnt like that. I need Some ADvice

 

Answer by hyttrfytfh
Submitted on 3/24/2007
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i have a friend that likes this Dude a.k.a Nathan suik. and she wants me to tell him that she likes him but i think thats not the way to do it. what do i do?????


p.s its nicole johnson

 

Answer by Homeslice
Submitted on 3/26/2007
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Yeah Tell him, I like this guy and sometimes i think he likes me to but my friends and stuff ask him and he says that he only likes me like a friend but I'm still not convinced but u never know the guy u like might like you to

 

Answer by in love and confused
Submitted on 3/28/2007
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i like this boy but he already has a girlfriend but everyone says he likes i'mnot sure we flirt well i think anyway he is 13 and i'm14 he is in 8th grade and i'min 7th and there is this dance and he said he didn't go because he doesn't like them but i went any way and dance alone anyway in 8 weeks he will be in high school and i will be in Jr high.

sincerely, in love and confused

 

Answer by stepup2theplate
Submitted on 3/29/2007
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OK, there is a guy I like, he is a junior and I am a sophomore, that doesn't matter though, the fact is, I like him, but I cant tell if he likes me, or if he is just being a good friend, I have known him for only a term, but I really! like him, I don't know how to tell him though, because he is a really nice guy, and we have a good friendship going, but I kind of want it to be more than that...should I tell him? or just hang tight? because I have been questioning that, and I'm not sure how he is feeling...he engages me in conversations, and tries to be funny whenever I am around him, but I am definitely not a risk taker, should I ask him? or no?

 

Answer by lost in love
Submitted on 3/30/2007
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Well, I told the guy I liked him, and he rejected me, worst of all, he wanted to be friends...i am out of his life forever...

 

Answer by popcicle babe
Submitted on 4/3/2007
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i think that ypu should wauot to see if he likes you first.......!

 

Answer by katy babe
Submitted on 4/3/2007
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I like this guy and he is SO hot, we are  friends and so I don't know if I should tell him because I don't want to ruin are friendship, HELP!!!!!!

 

Answer by ninja
Submitted on 4/6/2007
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I've been reading most of these answers, and a lot of them are the same. Everyone seems to be afraid of the outcome of what the guy will say. All I have to say to this is you are what you love, not what loves you. You own the love, not the guy. I'm about to tell a guy I've liked that I like him, and believe me it's much easier to keep this in mind while doing it!!

 

Answer by poo
Submitted on 4/6/2007
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i really really like this boy i want to ask him out but im scared he will say know and tell every1 that i asked him out. not only that but he is a player as well. i really want 2 fancy some1 else but i cant until i tell him please help me

 

Answer by ruby
Submitted on 4/14/2007
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i like a guy that i hang out with and iam not for sure if he likes me but the thing is he as a girlfriend. Should i tell him i like  him or just forget about it?

 

Answer by libby13
Submitted on 4/14/2007
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well i am goin through something like tht but the thing is tht i really like alot of guys i am kinda a big flirt flirtin is nto the hard part the hard part for me is tellin them how i really feel and i really realy really really liked this one guy tht had moved to my skool like three months before the end of tht year and he was really sweet and i really liked his smile and hes laugh and well lets jus say i liked every thing about him but ever one was sayin he was startin to like him and to have someone tell him i liked him and then i sauid ok and then i had one of his really really close friends tell him and he said tht he was startin to like me like tht but he didnt kno for sure and then like a week later he was talkin to me and said i am really srry but i hacve to move 30 min away so i wont go to skool here anymore and then he sadi i am realy goin to miss u u are like the only person i will miss and he said tht he had alot of funat my house tht one day and he said tht he wishes he didnt have to move eirhter and then he sadi i am movin in two weeks and then he said he cldnt choose between me and this other girl so he was not goin to choice at all and then i started likin the guy i liked before tht guy came along i had liked the other guys since like for ever and the thing wzas we flirt all the time but he was startin to be real mean to me and and it was really startin to hurt cause i had always been there for him and if he need somehting i was there and he was startin to treat me really bad and i didnt like it and the bad thing was i have all my classes wiht him and i am really startin to not like skool anymore and i reallly dont kno what to do anymore and sometimes he acts like he needs me really bad and other tmes he acts like i was not even there or he trys to make me mad by talkin to one of my best friend sbut not talkin to me so i realyly doont kno wat to do so if any of u have any idea it wld help if u told me and another thing is tht alot of ppl like me form other skools and they are all to shy to tell em i kno because of their freidsn and i dont kno what to do i like way to many guys and i have alot of problems with the one guy alto of things are messin up for me i really need help

 

Answer by Sunshinejoy113
Submitted on 4/14/2007
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Hi, there's this guy that I have liked for a really long time, and we are pretty good friends. He is sort of geeky, but he also sort of has a really annoying girlfriend. I have a theory that the only reason that he likes her is because he thinks that she is the only girl that likes him; and one day he will reallies that she is a total freak and dump her. And I went to a dance the other night, and she kept on hanging around him and I felt like I was going to cry... I am so depressed. Anyway, I want to tell him that I like him, but I completely afraid of being rejected and ruining the friendship that we already have, but I feel like exploding.... HELP!

 

Answer by Santana
Submitted on 4/14/2007
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I like this gut and I think he likes me to but my best friend just broke up with him what should I do ?

 

Answer by inlove
Submitted on 4/16/2007
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I'm so in love with this guy i went out with him but we broke up well i broke up wit him but the only  reason i did that was because his ex girl which was my friend was starting stuff with me i love him to death but i don't know how to tell him or try to get back with him what do i do

 

Answer by inlove
Submitted on 4/16/2007
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I'm so in love with this guy i went out with him but we broke up well i broke up wit him but the only  reason i did that was because his ex girl which was my friend was starting stuff with me i love him to death but i don't know how to tell him or try to get back with him what do i do

 

Answer by inlove
Submitted on 4/16/2007
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I'm so in love with this guy i went out with him but we broke up well i broke up wit him but the only  reason i did that was because his ex girl which was my friend was starting stuff with me i love him to death but i don't know how to tell him or try to get back with him what do i do

 

Answer by annoymis
Submitted on 4/18/2007
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i have known this guy for 5 years! but i really
like him and we are bestfriends but i dont
know hoe to tell him i like him =(. i have told him in
the past that i like him but then we stoped being friends
and i didnt like him anymore and now we have become
friends agian and all my feelings have come back
so i don't know how tot ell him i like him now.
ANY ADVICE?

 

Answer by so shy
Submitted on 4/18/2007
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i really like a guy but he is a senior and im a freshman we kinda talk sometimes but im scared if i tell him he will turn me down wut do i do

 

Answer by Marney
Submitted on 4/19/2007
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i really like this guy but
i dont know know what to do
cause he might like me or not
and all my friends tease me about
him.

 

Answer by Tina
Submitted on 4/26/2007
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I can't tell him that I like him..It's embarassing..Also,I'm shy..

 

Answer by Ellie
Submitted on 4/27/2007
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Well kind of...send him little hints. Make him think and if he will probly get it. I mean I'm was at your same place last year. I liked this guy and I thought he liked me. So I sent him a poem I personally wrote for him. He thought about who sent it. Then like a week after that we hooked up.

 

Answer by Ellie
Submitted on 4/27/2007
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Well kind of...send him little hints. Make him think and if he will probly get it. I mean I'm was at your same place last year. I liked this guy and I thought he liked me. So I sent him a poem I personally wrote for him. He thought about who sent it. Then like a week after that we hooked up.

 

Answer by Hannah
Submitted on 4/28/2007
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hi guys
I like this guy and have for a while. He likes someone else, but I really like him! What should I do?  please help!

 

Answer by Confused Girl
Submitted on 4/30/2007
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there's this guy i have a class with and we talk alot.Everyday after school we stand at his locker and we talk for a while and when he talks sometime he looks at my eyes but than sometimes he does.When we talk it's about anything.He looks at me and i make him laugh.Today some of my friend embrassed me and now i think he knows i like him because i walked away from him blushing and smiling.I don't know if he likes me or not i want to ask him out but i'm scared what should i do?

 

Answer by OrangeGirl
Submitted on 5/1/2007
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Hey there's a guy and hes one of my best friends.The problem is that hes been flirting w/ me for awhile even when he had a girlfriend. I also like him but I'm not sure if he likes me back because he also flirts w/ other girls. Help Please!

 

Answer by crystal7099
Submitted on 5/1/2007
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i like this guy i have liked him for a long time me and him talk on the phone every night but i dont know if he likes me. I want to tell him over the phone how should i do it??

 

Answer by Amy
Submitted on 5/2/2007
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Tell him how you feel, honestly, you'll regret it if you don't, you'll always wonder what if...
I made that mistake about a guy i love 2 years ago and now I'min a relationship with a guy i do genuinely love very much and we've been together for almost a year and a half now and i has taken me until a few months ago to stop wondering what could have been with the first guy. I know this sounds like I'vebeen using my current guy, I haven'tit's the other was the first guy i loved and i wondered if we could have made it work. I had to go talk to the guy and we talked about what happened between us, and I guess I got closure. But it could all have been avoided if I'd just taken a chance. Don't ever let yourself regret anything, it's pointless.

 

Answer by sk8er girl
Submitted on 5/3/2007
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i like this boy and i want to go out with him but if i do i don't want people to laugh at me because no one else would go out with him

 

Answer by Ali
Submitted on 5/4/2007
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Well I have the same problem as you all. I have liked this guy for a year and a half and he ALWAYS has girlfriends. I never ever have a chance to tell him how i really feel because A. I never get a chance with him alone and B. I wouldnt tell him either because I have gotten to be friends with him so far and I dont want to ruin that because then I wont ever get to see him again. It scares me when I think about him. He always makes me jealous to because he is always flirting with other girls. its hard because so many times I have tried to get over him but I just cant. sometimes I sit in my room and just think about him but it always seems like I just get lower and lower. I wish I had an answer for all you but I dont even have a answer for me....

 

Answer by wanting you....
Submitted on 5/6/2007
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i dont know if i should or not???

 

Answer by david rooney
Submitted on 5/7/2007
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hey there i know this is daft. i like this polish guy in ma work he is a very good at his english. but i dont know if he likes me. he looks at me aw the time, sometimes he talks to me, i am getting mixed feelings. i want to tell him. i'vtryed leaving him notes to text or phone me but hes not done tht yet can any1 help

 

Answer by monkey7
Submitted on 5/12/2007
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i like a guy named wade but my bffae did to so over the phone my sis asked him out he said no but it felt great to let it out but now if we get a hundred points on a reading thing we get lunch so i'm taking him and my cuz his bff

 

Answer by Dar
Submitted on 5/14/2007
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Well, I did asked a guy that i liked a lot yesterday, and guess what he said? "No, I am gonna ask someone else sorry"

yeah i am really hurted right now, but I'll learn to move on, and find other guy.

 

Answer by me
Submitted on 5/14/2007
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ok so there is a really special guy who i have like for MONTHS and he broke up w/ his gf of 5 months and we went out for 4 days but it didnt really work out... at a dance he danced real close to me and hugged me bit on monday he asked this other girl out and was denied cuz she has a bf problem is my friend e-mailed him and said i liked him... which i so do like a real lot... do u think i should say it is true or say it isnt???

 

Answer by Ive_escaped_and_im_back
Submitted on 5/18/2007
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Well, i'm currently crushing on my best friend. I mean he grabs my hand and tells me he loves me but then says 'YOUR TRYING TO HOLD MY HAND UGH' then he says i'm just joking but then i don't think he is quiet joking but then i love my boyfriend and i believe God sent him to me. But, then i don't know, SOMEONE ANYONE got any suggestions?

 

Answer by hottie1818
Submitted on 5/23/2007
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i like a guy and he is always starring at me i asked him out and he said no. should i have waited.

 

Answer by clairabell
Submitted on 5/24/2007
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I am twelve and i fancy this boy the thing is i went out with him and now he dumped me for another girl but i think he still likes me.Please help

 

Answer by Katie
Submitted on 5/31/2007
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i am a lot lke u guys i like this guy named bruce and he is totaly HOT!!! and i met him in all county chorus w/ the school and be looked at me alot and when he smiled at me i melted. i want to tell him that i like him but i don't know how to

 

Answer by Brittany
Submitted on 6/3/2007
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Just tell him how you feel! Take a chance!If he likes you back, great! If not, theres plenty of guys out there for you! Life is too short to wonder and worry about the little things. Just tell him and move on. :)

 

Answer by PoSSUM1232
Submitted on 6/3/2007
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Umm hi i like this guy so bad and i want to tell him but he aint that kind of guy yer so like help

 

Answer by kim
Submitted on 6/6/2007
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im in love with this guy who i meet on the net how do i tell him that im madly in love with him..

 

Answer by babygirl
Submitted on 6/11/2007
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i have a crush on this boy but I'm not sure he likes me and i went out with his best friend

 

Answer by I love you
Submitted on 6/13/2007
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I know just how you feel. I know this this guy and i really really like him, but i am really afraid of being rejected and made fun of but i know that i have my best friend and my other friends to comfort me. i figured if i don't tell him soon its gonna be tooo late so i am just going to get it over with but if i do get rejected I'llstill have  my friends and my dignity. Don't worry if you get rejected because you'll still have your friends and  your family who love you no matter what. don't be embarrassed to ask who knows maybe he'll say yes

   Good luck!!:) I hope i have helped encourage you to tell him that you like him!! :):):)

 

Answer by baby girl
Submitted on 6/14/2007
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HELP!!
Well okay i like this guy in my class and i know i would ask him out if it wasn't for this one  thing
I Went Out With His Best Friend
so please help me thank you very much

 

Answer by megalimoo-face
Submitted on 6/15/2007
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I have this guy friend. He's so nice,funny and everytime i look into his blue eyes i can't resist a smile.We've know eachother for a while now and every1 says we should go out and that he likes me and all that stuff.I really like him and I want to tell him that.but im not sure if he likes me and i dont want to get rejected. What should i do?

 

Answer by sassygurl
Submitted on 6/19/2007
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ilike this on guy like a lot...but he already has a girlfriend....&& i am really close to her....




me && him talk constantly... then get in trouble for it...he also just stood by me in chior one day....for no reason....
i went to my cuzins baseball game && he was there...he was staring at me the whole time...&& smiling to.....


there is also this one girl that is like the first to know everything.....&& she told me that he likes me.....&& i don't know if i should belive her...cause some of the stuff that she has told me in the past week hasn't been true



I don't think that he knows i like him...because on ly 2 people know(that i know of)


i really want to tell him....but i don't want to hurt his gurlfriend....

CUZ I'M SO  NICE LIKE THAT
duh!


 

Answer by sassygurl
Submitted on 6/19/2007
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ilike this on guy like a lot...but he already has a girlfriend....but it seems like he doesn't even like her.....but i don't think i should tell him because i am reslly close to his girlfriend (like good fiends)




me && him talk constantly... then get in trouble for it...he also just stood by me in chior one day....for no reason....
i went to my cuzins baseball game && he was there...he was staring at me the whole time...&& smiling to.....


there is also this one girl that is like the first to know everything.....&& she told me that he likes me.....&& i don't know if i should belive her...cause some of the stuff that she has told me in the past week hasn't been true



I don't think that he knows i like him...because on ly 2 people know(that i know of)


i really want to tell him......t i don't want to hurt his gurlfriend....

CUZ I'M SO  NICE LIKE THAT
duh!


 

Answer by Shytechnonotshygal
Submitted on 6/20/2007
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I need help wit a dude named Joe. His going to be on my bus next year wit his brother who i used to like. On the last day of school i told my friend to tell him i like him but he said ' no '. So when this dude on my bus called him on his cell Joe keep saying bye when the dude on bus asked if he like me. Please Help Me! Thank You

 

Answer by Helper
Submitted on 6/21/2007
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Usually if a guy pays a lot of attention to you and laughs with you. He likes you.

 

Answer by sammyt
Submitted on 6/21/2007
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I love this guy but the problem is i went out with his best friend!!! Should i still ask him out?

 

Answer by Susannah
Submitted on 6/21/2007
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hey everyone. a lot of you are probably having the same problem as me. there's this guy at my school and i really like him but i don't know how to tell him, or even talk to him. at one stage everyone was saying he had a thing for me.. but then like the week after he got a girlfriend. hes pretty popular and we never really see each other aside for lunchtimes. every time i see him and his girlfriend together it breaks my heart all over again. can someone tell me how i should approach him? i'm so lost.

 

Answer by sam
Submitted on 6/21/2007
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I'm in love with a guy but he hate me i can't stop thinking about him i see him all the time he is so hot please help I'min love

 

Answer by shy away
Submitted on 6/24/2007
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i like this guy and he likes me his sis says he does!!!
we used to be friends but now were sooooo shy together.... its horrible. i like him but that would be akward!!!!! ooooohhhhhhh his sis (do i trust her?) says he even is trying to LOOK BETTER 4 ME!!!! ohhhhh..... please help im 2 years younger  im in 7th hes in 8th.... hes never had a serious gf..... ;( i like him so much but now we cant joke like we used 2... i know its worth it but will we ever be together??? his sis would never live it down......... HELP!!!  p.s hes single!!!!! BYE HELP....... by a hopless shy scared wondering girl..... :(

 

Answer by Capri
Submitted on 6/28/2007
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i really like this guy i pritty much love him more than my life and i do any thing for him. Were friends and we talk on aim, but i'm really scared to tell him that i like him i'v liked him for 2 years. I'm going in to 9th grade next year and so is he we are going to the same high school next year and it will be nice to see him again i have not done any thing with him during the summer yet but he did ask me to the movies once but im not shore if my dad will let me go or if i even want to cuz i get really nervis around him. I just don't know if i should tell him that i like him or wate another year or so before i tell him. I dont really know if he likes me the way that i like him. For a wile i thought he did like me becaues he would allways  smile at me and we sat togeather a lunch all the time were were in the same class all throught 8th grade and 7th. I started likeing him in 7th grade but we wornt really good friends then, we became friends in 8th grade so i just dont know what to do i really want to tell him that i like him and if i do tell him i like him i dont want it to runan our friendship.I dont ever know if i should or how go about telling him i do have his cell number he gave it to me at the end of 8th grade i haven't called him yet tho but we allways talk on aim we never talk long there never anything to talk about so yea i really need some help what do i do ????????????????????

 

Answer by nicoleTogrant
Submitted on 7/4/2007
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Hey belive me i know wat ur going through there is this guy in my class tht i think likes me but im not sure. since were on break now my friends gonna give me his number.(she got everyones # for a pool party)i want to call him but its his home phone and he doesnt haveim so....what sould i do??

 

Answer by CeCe
Submitted on 7/4/2007
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Well i need help too...because i told my HOTT bestest friend that i liked him...and i have been nervous around him ever since i told him...and now i think there is gonna be drama between him and i which will later probably involve my friends!!!! HELP!!!!

 

Answer by Princess
Submitted on 7/10/2007
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Hello?! i have this one guy, i really like him, i mean really like, i told him and he said he like me back, all sweet?.. not really he said we should leave it as 'special friends' cause hes scared of break up. and hes afraid cause I'mgoing away for uni. i mean it makes sense but .. i mean i dunno how long i can hold just being special friends .. we both know we like each more than friends, our friends know and they tease us about it.. but nothing official is happening!   i think I'mgoing to go insane.

kill me now

 

Answer by Shy
Submitted on 7/10/2007
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I like a guy that is a different race than myself, and I think he likes me, but how do I know for sure? We work in very close quarters, and everyone says he never talked to anyone much until we started working together. Should I send a suttle hent of that I like him or should I just wait it out?  

 

Answer by Blondy
Submitted on 7/11/2007
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i know how u all feel. i like this guy and he said he likes me and i told him that i liked him.... But he dumped his gf and went out with my best friend! But now i like svs and he likes me and idk if i should tell him if i like him or not!

 

Answer by Kelsey
Submitted on 7/13/2007
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i like this guy.i think he likes me too he always sends me email.how can i tell if he does like me?

 

Answer by dancenbritt14
Submitted on 7/15/2007
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ok i have a promblem ok so i like to guys they both went 2 my school but one left and now goes to puyblic and the other 1 still goes 2 my school and the one that left  is really nice weather or not people oraround or not but the other  totally sweet when people around but if his twin notices he trys 2 make it up bye acting likea total retard but yet still  sweet but the other one  one i hardly ever see him so who should what should i do

 

Answer by Confused
Submitted on 7/19/2007
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I like this lad at work he looks at me alot, smiles and we always talk, i really like him and want to tell him how i feel but i'm to shy,i really trudt the guy but i'm afraid that if i write a note he will show every one and embarrass me what should i do?

 

Answer by boylover5335
Submitted on 7/19/2007
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I really like this guy and never felt the same way about another  guy and he is like...........3 or 4 years older than me and that is a problem and he rides the same bus as I do and lately he has been sitting with me and people are  saying that we are going out but I want its because I'm afraid they Will laugh at me for thinking of that and I really really like him but he is a good looking dude and so hot and I'm not the prettiest girl life has to offer you know what I'm saying and eh has been looking at me at the bus for like a lot of times for certain amounts of time!!!!!And i haven't gotten my first kiss and I want him to be my first kiss and he kiss both me best friend and my older sister!!!! And he is the type of  guy that would say no to a girl like me and then laugh and then tell all his friends about it!!!!! So should I tell him????

 

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