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Question by down girl 13yrs old
Submitted on 11/14/2003
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i want to kill my baby tell me how with-out abortion


Answer by slowly falling
Submitted on 11/26/2003
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I wish I knew... i also would like the answer to this raw, but honest question... good luck finding one...

 

Answer by vanessa
Submitted on 12/11/2003
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I am is shock!  How could you begin to feel that way about a beautiful child growing inside you.  God gave you that child, a child is such a blessing.  A blessing that you obviously do not deserve.  Why don't you think about adopting you baby to a nice family?  There are many families that would love to have a child and cannot.  Maybe you shouldn't be having sex (AT AGE 13!!) if you're not prepared to have a child!  You know, you're lucky you got pregnant instead of infected with HIV!!!

 

Answer by just someone
Submitted on 12/14/2003
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That is not something you really want to do.  Your life will forever be ruined if you do.  Talk to your parents or other responsible adult about this desire.  There are alternatives, such as adoption.  Giving birth to a baby at your age is not the end of the world, just a slight change in plans.

 

Answer by hannah m.
Submitted on 1/16/2004
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you've got three options: 1. abortion, 2. adoption, or 3. keeping the baby. if you intentionally end a pregnancy, then that *is* abortion, no matter the means... do you know what i'm saying? you need to talk to an adult you can trust. it sounds like you've gone over your head, a little; maybe that's a bit of an understatement. there's a lot of people who put a lot of moral judgments on girls or women who choose abortion, but i have had one, and am glad, because there was no way i could've had a baby. but it is a very big decision, and one you shouldn't have to make by yourself. look up "planned parenthood" in the phonebook and give them a call... they can answer all your questions.
btw, your life doesn't have to be ruined because you choose an abortion: my life is vibrant and joyful; i am doing my life work. it was terribly sad, a little scary, and a BIG surprise to be pregnant, and it was difficult to decide not to have the baby. my husband and i had to ask ourselves some soul-searching questions, and did a lot of crying, but in the end we decided to wait until we can support a child, have finished our educations, and i am healthier. i am currently on several teratogenic (means to cause birth defects) medications and looking to get off them but we'll see what the doctor says.
anyway, long response. good luck with your predicament. i see some time has passed since you posted and i would like to know how you are doing.
peace.
hannah
  

 

Answer by mom
Submitted on 1/27/2004
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use a coathanger

 

Answer by Person
Submitted on 1/31/2004
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Your a little slut, 13 do you truely know what your dooing at such an age. You deserve what you get. Hell I hope whatever you do torgures you and damages you

 

Answer by jasmine
Submitted on 2/3/2004
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hey don't know what to say but i am 20 years old and i have had 2 miscarriages just the other day was my second one. i dint know what is wrong with me.  my first one i was 4 or 5 months and now i am just really scared to try again. Because i don't want to be hurt or upset again plus my dad died in august of 2003 and this one died February 2 of 2004 help i don't know what to do...

 

Answer by kat
Submitted on 2/3/2004
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girl,  I am just telling you to have an abortion the right way.  tell your mom or dad.  They may be very upset but they will forgive you eventually.  You are their daughter and they would be more upset if something happened to you than they would if you told them the truth about your pregnancy. just do the right thing please.

 

Answer by babeesunshine8
Submitted on 2/6/2004
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Listen I know what your going through I have two beautiful children and have had two abortions and I'm pregnant again and don't know what to do. I'm 27 and let me tell you its not easy no matter what you decide to do.  My opinion just have the abortion its the safest way.  I've been with this guy for a long time now and unfortunately he is very abusive physically and emotionally so do I want to bring another child into this misery I call life I don't know If anyone has some good advice for me let me know thanks

 

Answer by flesh
Submitted on 2/8/2004
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Oh, abortion isnt any easy decision.  If it wasnt so easy for selfish lives these days then it wouldent be done. Its the easy way out.  If you dont want to get pregnant eather use your brains or use birth controll.  IF you have children and your in an abbusive reltaionship, get out the relationship.  Its not fair to your kids that you need affection so bad you would have an abusive roll model around.  If he abuses you, just wait untill he kills one of your kids.  Or is that what your waiting for?  Your all ready killed a couple of your own.
Shame on who ever got a 13 year old girl pregnant.  

 

Answer by spike
Submitted on 2/12/2004
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well, im glad there were some people who left constructive comments here. I think everythings been said already that i would have contributed, but i think its sick that there are people on here who would be so harsh towards someone who is obviously making an effort to find help and information when they are in a time of extreme stress and need. i think she probably came on here partly to ask for help to avoid comments like that which she would have received in person from people. peace

 

Answer by mom want to be
Submitted on 2/13/2004
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PLEASE THINK AND DON'T REACT ON A WHIM.  I HAD 11 TUBAL PREGNANCIES WHICH ALMOST CAUSED MY DEATH TRYING TO HAVE A CHILD - THERE ARE MANY LIKE ME THAT TRIED EVERYTHING TO HAVE THE BLESSING OF A CHILD - I FINALLY SUCEEDED AFTER 3 IVF (PLACING IT DIRECTLY IN THE WOMB) AND I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MY SON HAS ENRICHED AND CHANGED OUR LIFE - IF YOUR PARENTS, AFTER BEENING MAD, DON'T HELP YOU CONTACT ME AND I WILL BE HAPPY TO TAKE CARE OF YOU DURING THE PREGNANCY AND ADOPT YOUR CHILD.

 

Answer by mommy
Submitted on 2/17/2004
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why don't you just kill yourself?  I have a feeling that is probably best.

 

Answer by brokenheart
Submitted on 2/26/2004
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God loves you so much and no matter what decision you make right now He will always love you.  It's a hard decision to make at such a young age.  I'm praying for you.  Don't listen to the horrible comments that people have said to you.  You don't deserve that.  No matter how bad this may seem to someone else they've done things in their lives that aren't good either and I'm not excluded.  It says in the bible, Let the one with no sin cast the first stone. John 8: 7 I believe.  I know I couldn't and neither could anyone else cause we have all sinned and fall short of the glory of God.  But you know what?  He loves us all anyway, just give that some thought.  Even if I'm too late to encourage you not to have the abortion or do something drastic, I hope you're doing good and you get this message.

 

Answer by honey
Submitted on 2/29/2004
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Girl your crazy I wih I could have a baby I have been trying for almost 3 years now ad I can get pregnant dont kill your baby that is a gift from God oviosuly you are ment to have a baby now try to make the best of it. I wish I would have me a lil one but God thinks is not the time for me. Your crazy and ignorenet if you kill it you knew when you first opened your legs you had the chance to become pregnant.

 

Answer by Daddy Warbucks
Submitted on 3/4/2004
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Punch it ,Drink,smoke,take hormone pills eat spicy foods

 

Answer by thickdyme06
Submitted on 3/6/2004
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just drink vinegar. You SLUT!!!

 

Answer by thickdyme06
Submitted on 3/6/2004
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just drink vinegar. You SLUT!!!

 

Answer by ben2525
Submitted on 3/8/2004
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next time think slag

 

Answer by babylover
Submitted on 3/8/2004
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I had a 13 year old girl live in my home and I helped her with her birth and with placing the child for adoption.  It turned out to be a very positive experience for her.  You should let your baby live and bless the lives of a family who would love and care for it.  I could let you talk to this 13 year old who is now 15 if it would help.  You could make this into a positive experience and bless your life and others.  It could change your life for the better.

 

Answer by SandCsmommy
Submitted on 3/12/2004
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I hope you didn't listen to anyone on this bored :(  Nothing they said will work to abort you pregnancy, but it could totally mess up and destroy your body and make the baby mentally handicapped. You don't want to be throwing money at hospital bills the rest of your life or ruining the baby's life.  I know this was posted a long time ago, and I pray real hard that you chose the right thing to do.  Accidents happen, you made the wrong decision by having sex at your age.  I hope it taught you something, but I also hope that you didn't let it destroy the life your baby.  There a LOTS of people out there wanting to adopt babies that would be wonderful parents.  I wish you could talk to me so I could help you through this.  All I know to do is to pray for you and your baby.  I'm sure you know that a baby is living and thinking and a live being after the first few week inside you, and I hope you remember that.  Don't listen to those vulgar comments that people posted about you, like someone said earlier, "Let those without sin cast the first stone".

 

Answer by Koo
Submitted on 3/14/2004
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eat it they taste like poo mmmm cancer

 

Answer by angel
Submitted on 3/15/2004
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Hey Girl.., you know what? if i were you, i wouldn't read some of these things on here.. just the positive ones.  My suggestions are like others, just speak to either a close friend or a family member if you cant talk to your parents. i know what its like to go through something challenging and just wanting it all to end.. but if you do what you are thinking. i promise you it will never end, it will always be on your mind. you would be 70 years old and still regreting the decision you made when you were 13. like others have said, you can always give your baby up for adoption or maybe someone in your family can take custody or something like that...i know you want help and encouragement and if you ever want to e-mail me and talk my address is sarlenob@yahoo.com take care of your self.. happier days will come:)

 

Answer by stephanie
Submitted on 3/18/2004
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i think that you should not kill a beautiful living thing that is growing inside you. at least give it a chance at life. give it up for adoption.

 

Answer by Naelki
Submitted on 3/21/2004
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Please e-mail me at this address and I will tell you who you can give your baby to.

Nnanking@wmconnect.com


 

Answer by Naelki
Submitted on 3/21/2004
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Jasmine,

I'm sorry about what you went through.  My sister is 39 and wants a baby, but she's afraid she's too old.  She's got Thyroid problems, but won't go to a specialist about it.  She's also got bad ovaries (cysts) and is staying on the Pill so it will keep them away.  She and her husband do not want to adopt because the parents can always come back to get them when they're 5 years old.  

Do you have thyroid or ovarian problems?  Maybe that is what is making you miscarry. I had really bad periods a few years back, lots of flooding and pain during ovulation.  I found out later that I had Endometriosis.  I went on a diet consisting of vitamins C and Zinc (Zinc is good for the reproductive health), Fish and other meats (B vitamins for the really bad PMS symptoms, especially mood swings), fiber-veggies, cereal, etc. It is a good idea to keep the colon open during that time because being constipated just adds to the pain.  The hormones that cause cramps are carried out of the body that way, too.  Water-don't get bloated as much during PMS.

I found the diet in Doctor's Book of Home Remedies.  I went on it and now have no more trouble with it.

Another thing about my sister is that she is very stubborn and will not do what we tell her.  I've tried to tell her about my diet, but she doesn't listen.  I'd rather do that than be on the Pill or have that laparascopic surgery; I've never been cut on and don't intend to start now.

Good Luck!

 

Answer by Naelki
Submitted on 3/21/2004
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Down Girl,

If you do decide to go ahead with it, here's some friendly advice:

Don't use a coat hanger.  They used those back in the 1920's when abortions were illegal.

Don't do the "partial birth" thing either; it's a good way to get killed.  I'm glad president Bush banned those.  they're just plain stupid.  if people only knew what went on during those, they wouldn't be having them.

Do the hospitals/clinics have this form of abortion in your area?  I heard about this on the O'ReillyFactor.  A suppository is placed into the woman's cervix.  It has enough hormones to trigger labor pains and the baby is born alive and whole.  This is only for the late pregnancies.  Depending on what month the baby is aborted, it lives anywhere from 30 mins to 4 hours.  It is a more humane form of abortion.

 

Answer by ARLDY
Submitted on 3/22/2004
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Naelki,

A more humane form of abortion??  To make a child come into the world, just to have to live 30 minutes to 4 hours of excruciating pain until it dies?  Are you crazy??

Down Girl,

I agree that you need to talk to your parents.  I was 14 when I got pregnant with my 1st child (I'm 22, married, and have another child now).  I placed him for adoption.  Contact www.gladney.org for More info on adoption.

The only reason a woman should have an abortion is if the child will not be *whole* or the mothers life is at risk.  To have an abortion for any other reason is just flat out murder.

 

Answer by ShannonPrichard
Submitted on 3/25/2004
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First off, I hope that you listened to very few of the replies here. Yes, you made a mistake having sex at 13. But so did I. And I was pregnant at 15 twice (both miscarriages), once at 16 (girl), again at 19 (boy) and again at 20 (boy). I never thought of aborting, but my dream was always to have kids. Yes, I did not know what I was doing having sex at that age, but the shame is on the 16-28 year old men that were having sex with a 13 year old and abandoned her when she was pregnant. I am so sorry to hear of your situation. If you are still pregnant (and GOD I hope you are), consider adoption. You will forever be a hero and a blessing to your child and his/her adoptive family. If you need someone to talk to, email me. My email address is shannonprichard1@hotmail.com. I am so sorry for what you are going through. I am even more sorry that you are being so harshly judged for it. But there is another way. You can turn this into a good thing. I promise there is a better way for your baby. PLEASE email me. We can talk. I l know what you are going through, and I will not judge you for your actions or your thoughts and feelings.

Shannon

 

Answer by ShannonPrichard
Submitted on 3/25/2004
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In fact. You know what? I'll adopt it. My husband and I would do it. We want to adopt our 4th and final child. Email me. ShannonPrichard1@hotmail.com. PLEASE don't kill your baby. I know plenty of women who have had abortions and not one of them has not been haunted by it for the rest of their lives. I am telling you, you will regret it. Let your child have a life and a family. And do an open adoption, so you can always know your baby, and you will always know why you went through this was a good thing. Email me.

 

Answer by jmd_als
Submitted on 3/26/2004
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Some of you people are sick! I've got a daughter, and I was young when I had her. It changed my life, but I'd never give her up  for the world. Perhaps you should have thought about getting pregnant before you had sex. I suggest you give the child up for adoption. Talk to an adult, or go to a doctors office or a counselors office to get help.

 

Answer by Tam
Submitted on 3/28/2004
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I don't usually post on message boards but after stumbling onto here I was so aghast at some peoples' comments I just had to write something.  I'm guessing that the reason you don't want to have a proper abortion is because you don't want to have to tell anyone that you are pregnant and would rather the whole thing just went away, which no one has seemed to think about.  Don't listen to the comments of the religious, self-righteous, those desperate for a baby or the just plain sick - talk to your parents, a family member or a health professional so that they can help you make a choice that is right for you, and that won't harm you in the process.  Good luck with what ever you choose to do!

 

Answer by Vivian
Submitted on 3/29/2004
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Tam -- I appreciate that you are trying to help. But, it seems that you are being awful judgemental of the people who responded and were honestly trying to help. Are you saying that just because someone has a religious belief and is not afraid to admit it that any helpful thoughts that they have should be completely disgaurded? And are you saying that the girl who offered to take the baby in and give it a home is desparate for a baby and should be disgaurded as well? It seems to me that she said that she already has 3, so I dont think that would make her desparate for a baby. I applaud anyone who would be willing to take someone else's child into their home and raise it as their own. I don't know that I could do it. I think that there were several people who had terrible comments here. But there were some very helpful ones as well. I'm sure that you are not the only one who realized that she wants the whole thing to go away. That is how a 13 year old child's mind works. But you have to remember, yes you are speaking to a mom to be. But you are also speaking to a scared, alone 13 year old child. You need to have a little more unserstanding and sympathy. You are coming accross as very judgemental. Yes, you had some good advice. She should talk to someone. Definitely her parents. And definitely a helth professional. But you dont need to judge her for a mistake and everyone else for trying to help.

Viv

 

Answer by a proud mommy
Submitted on 4/5/2004
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If you are looking for someone to adopt your baby i know plenty of couples here in my hometown looking for a baby.PLEASE DO  NOT ABORT IT AND FOR GODS SAKE PLEASE DONT DO SOMETHING AS STUPID AS A COATHANGER NOR THE CRAP PEOPLE TOLD YOU TO TAKE TO TRY AND KILL THE BABY.THAT IS A BABY INSIDE YOU!!!! JUST THINK ABOUT IT...YOU WERE ONCE A BABY INSIDE YOUR MOMMYS TUMMY.WHAT IF YOUR MOTHER DID THAT TO YOU!YOU WOULD NOT BE HERE TODAY.MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND TURN YOUR HEART AROUND TO DO WHATS BEST FOR YOUR CHILD GROWING INSIDE YOU.~A MOTHER THAT LOVES HER CHILDREN

 

Answer by steph
Submitted on 4/8/2004
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well, i actully have been trying to figure of the same thing myself. as sad as it is to say. allow me to introduse myself, i am stephanie, i am 15 years old, and well... i was actully forced to have sex. FORCED! i really was forced! i dont know if i am pregnant because i am late on my period, and i'm not sure if i am. i am scared just like you are. i look of abortions on the internet, boy, i don't wanna do that! it is so wrong. because soemtimes you have to deliver the baby and you give birth to this lifeless little child that never even had a chance in life. so i am aginst abortion. so here i am, in total confusion ab out weather or not i am pregnant. i dont want to buy a pregnacy test because i am scared for the results. i am just praying my period is late. here is my advice to you, fallow your heart because it may seem like the solution to kill this unborn child now, but trust me, in a few years, you'll regret it. i wish you the best of luck in the world. if you ever need to talk, e-mail me boy_luva_01@yahoo.com

Good luck
steph

 

Answer by Galadreial
Submitted on 4/8/2004
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Are you a complete idiot? You can't just swallow random substances and hope you END A LIFE.  You need to keep your legs closed if you can't handle the responsibility of a child.  I'm sure there are plenty of people that would love to adopt your baby.  Your parents might even want to! You're too immature to be having sex, learn some morals little girl.

 

Answer by caesar
Submitted on 4/8/2004
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fall down a flight of stairs, or have someone jump off a roof onto your stomach. tell me how far the baby shoots out! my record is 40 ft.
P.S. you're a white trash slut with a loose vagina

 

Answer by Shae Shae
Submitted on 4/9/2004
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I would love to adopt if interested please contact me at kaydeshae@hotmail.com

 

Answer by A Friend
Submitted on 4/12/2004
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The majority of the people who wrote on this forum need to learn that morals and moralizing are two distinct things.  Morals are personal!  Ignore the rude and  mean comments up there.  Those people apparently think they are better then you, and everybody else.  They dont know you, they have no right to judge you.  I might be too late with this message, but please know that there are people who care out there.  Who care for your well being because they understand what feeling lonely is all about.  Take care of yourself, nobody else will do it for you.

 

Answer by come on!!
Submitted on 4/12/2004
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First of all, don't lie and say you have Down's Syndrome (if that is what you meant) because you would never think this way if you did.  You should really think about private adoption.  You want to kill your baby?  That is pretty compelling. Abortion means stopping a heart from beating--that is murder.  Do you want to be a murderer?  I don't believe that you are 13 either.  That is a sympathy ploy.  If you are 13, then you need to consider making some serious changes in your life!  Go to a local church or somewhere you can talk to somebody very candidly about the decisions you have made, and will make in the future.  I don't believe in judging people, and there are several people out there that will help you if  you give them a chance.  Open yourself up for somebody to help.  You will be glad you did.  You have probably already made a decision about the abortion-I hope it was adoption.  

 

Answer by Dawn
Submitted on 4/12/2004
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HI me and my partner just tried IVF and it did not work i do not feel like a women please don't hurt your baby please let someone take care of your baby for you i really feel for you but think your just thinking the wrong things and putting this ad out on here will make you more depressed all i can say is try not to worry and take each day at a time i promise you, that everthing will be fine please beleave me and if you like to chat to me please email at
erolston@aol.com

take care.........

 

Answer by stephanie
Submitted on 4/16/2004
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i really cant believe that people actully would want to kill a baby. they have dotn nothing to you. not trying to be rude or anything, yes i have posted before, i am the 15 year old girl that posted. look, i really cant give you advice on how to kill your baby. and if i knew how, i would not tell you. a baby is a blessing, not a burden. just think, somepeople cant have baby's and if you are pregnant, to some women you are the luckiest person becuase you can give birht to children. some people cant give birth, or create baby's. seriously, dont kill this amazing gift of love. keep it because you may think the killing it is the best soluttion, but later on, yo may regret it.

 

Answer by Barbie
Submitted on 4/18/2004
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Hi, I'm Barbie, i know exacly how you feel cos i have a feeling that I'm pregnant as well, I'm 15 and this is the 1 time i had sex, if you have a good relationship with your parents you should tell them and don't be scared they will understand you. Xx

 

Answer by The Lady
Submitted on 4/19/2004
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Stephanie..... hugs to you. You seem like a very sensible young lady. As a victim of child molestation and rape, and someone who WAS pregnant at 15, my heart goes out to you. You will be in my prayers. Please let us know if you are pregnant, for those of us who care.....

 

Answer by morgen
Submitted on 4/19/2004
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i have like two friends who have had sex. and i know that they wish they didnt do what they did. and i am telling u now... out of experience you now know that having sex at the ripe age of 13 is not the right answer. i am only here to give advice because i am only 15 years old and do not have the wisdom of a older person. but i have to say you have a lot of guts asking for help from people all over the us. i believe what happened to you was fate and you must do what you really think is right. i believe that abortion is not nessesary and will just cause more pain to a 13 year old. i understand that having a baby will be hard and painful. but in the end i feel you wont regret it. i have read what some people have said.. and to those people- some people in the world do not have enough sense to understand if your serious or a mental case. just stop and think about what your doing because you may affect some ones life. and that guilt will haunt you.


 

Answer by stephanie
Submitted on 4/19/2004
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hello, its me again, stephanie the 15 year old girl, good news, i am not pregnant. also the man that forced em to have sex with him is behind bars. i am happy i am not pregnant, but yet a little dissapointed too because i love childrean but yet i think about the fact that i dont think i coudl take care of it so its a blessing in disguise i guess. but to this 13 year old girl, hun, this may not be what you want to hear, but you made a mistake, if you are pregant then you had the choice to say no, i was almost pregnant and i could not say no. so i honestly think maybe you should give birth to this baby and try to raise it, let it remind you of the mistake you made so you wont make the same mistake again. i lived through a horrible experience beging molested and raped. if i would have been pregnant, i would not have killed the child, i more than likeley would have kept it because i would to keep it safe from being harmed like i was harmed. i would not let it be taken advantage of. but you were not taken advantage of which is why i say you give birth to this child, and let it remind you of your mistake, and let it keep you from makign the same mistake.

 

Answer by Stephy
Submitted on 4/20/2004
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umm ... I was lookin  for da same thing gurl. I had sex and I didnt wanna though. I wasnt ready but I did anyways but look at this if Im pregnant Im makin him tell my mom. hahaha !!!!!!! Gurl Im 13 too. PULL THREW and all these otha people could go to hell cuz that aint ryte callin u a slut or callin me a slut or loose. They prbly are .. hahahaha .. newayz ttyl .. SIKE. ~1~

 

Answer by Someone who knows
Submitted on 4/20/2004
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Stephy -- FIRST, do not live in this country and butcher the language. You sound like a complete idiot! When you are older, you will take a look at your 13 year old self and be disgusted. And what difference is it going to make him having to tell your mom? You both did it. And unless your mother is as dumb as you seem to be, it won't matter who tells her. Her 13 year old can't speak English, is having sex and then 'taking it back' and getting pregnant. And trying to ruin the life of another 13 year old girl. Not to mention disrespecting a lot of her elders. That is what will matter to her. You are not ready for any of this. Stop trying to grow up so fast. Love yourself. Respect yourself. Have fun being a young lady and make the most of it. Don't throw it all away for sex. When you are older, you will regret every one of those sexual experiences. I did. I thought I knew it all. I had tons of sex. When I grew up, I married a virgin. He had waited for me all of his life. When he had the opportunity to have sex, he thought of the woman he was going to marry, and said no. He waited because even before he knew me, he respected me. Now, he can honestly say I am the only one he ever needed or wanted. It hurts like hell that I can't take back what I did. I wish to God that I could. Please, it's not too late. You can turn it all around. Get your mind off boys and on your future. THINK! RESPECT YOURSELF! BE DIFFERENT THAN ALL THOSE OTHER GIRLS THAT HAVE SEX LIKE IT'S NOTHING AND DON'T THINK ABOUT THEIR FUTURE. YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID IN THE END.

 

Answer by stephanie
Submitted on 4/20/2004
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this is to the lady, i want to thank you for caring about me. it made me feel good to come on here and find out that people cared. it maade me feel good. but i am not pregant so, i dont need to worry about that. that thnk you, the lady, who ever you may be.

 

Answer by Elisa
Submitted on 4/22/2004
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To all those people calling her a whore or ripping out Bible-verses on her: haven't you ever made a mistake? She obviously regrets what she did and she needs help.

I'm 17 and I'm on the Pill. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 18 months and we've been having sex for 10 months. We always use a condom.
I had to go up to my mom and ask her to be put on birth control...it was very difficult and she was certainly not happy, but should she question your motives, tell her that you have made up your mind about doing something risky, but you want to be smart about it and safe. It actually made us closer.
Please don't feel bad about having sex, or let these people make you feel worse.
Check up on State laws regarding age and abortion. If you are under 18 in most states, you can go before a judge and tell him your problem and they may grant you a blessing to have an abortion without telling your parents.
You are young and you need to focus on your own life right now, not another child's. If you end up raising a child, it will live in a world torn between your own growing up and its growing up, and it will lead to unhappiness for a long time for both of you. If there are other options, such as abortion or adoption, you should take advantage of them.
Don't listen to people who say you should pay for your mistake, and keep the child as a reminder of your "sluttiness." That's stupid. Keep your own goals in mind and stay strong. Please, also, be safe in the future.

 

Answer by ZAYNIAH
Submitted on 4/23/2004
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I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD SAY THIS,,,,BUT UR NOT THE ONLY 1 GOING THROUGH THIS. DO WHAT UR HEART FEELS, BUT THINK TWICE, BECAUSE THEIR'S A MAN ABOVE AND GOD DONT LIKE EVIL. FOLLOW UR HEART, BUT AGAIN...THINK TWICE.

 

Answer by AMBER
Submitted on 4/28/2004
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I THINK I'M PREGNANT AND I'M ONLY 13 PLEASE HELP ME THERE NOT MUCH TO SAY BUT I THINK I AM AND I'M SCARED PLEASE CONTACT ME AT THUGDIAMOND101@AOL.COM PLEASE

 

Answer by Real Help!
Submitted on 4/30/2004
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I can help you. What I did was went to the search site ask.com and typed in "at home abortions" and got some GOOD advice on stuff to do by using herbs and Vitamin C. Try that it may help anyone who needs it. And as for some of the so called loving people on this site who are calling this girl a slut should take a
very close look at there own lives and remember what it was like at that age!

 

Answer by Im 15 and CAN HELP YOU!!!
Submitted on 5/5/2004
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YOU PEOPLE ARE RUDE!!!! acting like you would KNOW what to do at 13. MAYBE she didnt have a good perent to tell her about SEX and the consequenses/bloessings...how ever you would like to look at it. AT 13, I DONT FEEL you should have a baby. you have a WHOLE LIFE ahead of you, and having a baby would ruin a chance at a great future, and your teen life. Giving it up for adoption would be alot of heartache at 13, but what ever you do..DONT TRY TO KILL IT BY HURTING YOURSELF!! it doesnt neccesarily work either! If i were pregnatn at 15, id get an abortion if it was early in the pregnancy. i suggest the same. the only other option to NOT HAVING IT is giving it up for adoption. DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR SITUATION. also TELL your PARENTS.. THEY LOVE YOU know MATTER WHAT!!!!

 

Answer by JayJay
Submitted on 5/6/2004
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WOW I have been going through living HELL b/c of the two miscarrages and the Endometriosis I am suffering w/. I have one 8 year old but I have been going through SO much hurt and depression b/c I have lost two wonderful babies! It is a long story but when I read that part of a 13 year old girl wanting to KILL her unborn baby OMG! I was in SO much SHOCK! I cant even believe what I read, I REALLY cant & don't even want to get starting on what I think...Jay

 

Answer by MICHAELA
Submitted on 5/8/2004
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hi. I am 14 years old and will turn 15 on may 20th. I 1st had sex a week after i turned 11 years old. I had started my periods on my birthday (good present eh?) I fell pregnant. This obviously wasnt planned....i got drunk with my boyfriend.We had a girl and we named her Ashleigh, she is now 3 years old. it was so painfull giving birth as i was only 11 years old. I then fell pregnant again on my 12th birthday. My boyfriend and I had went out then went back to his house. we love eachother, he is also the father of my 1st child. So when i was 12 years old i had given birth to another beautiful girl...who is now 2 years old. We named her Zoe. None of this was planned. Please help me....i am pregnant again....i haven't had my period in 4 months....i don't want to...and i cant go through with having another child its so painfull...but i am totally against the idea of abortion...i need help.....some advice plzzzz...when i am 15 years old i will have 3 children!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by peach
Submitted on 5/9/2004
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wow girl at 14 and your already got 2 daughters .well i respect you girl bringin up 2 children and still having a life theres really no answer to what you want 2 know if your against abortion!i think if you are pregnant you should keep it as you already have 2 children and if you gave it up for abortion it would hurt so much!i hope you find the answer you want!x

 

Answer by ebony and renee
Submitted on 5/11/2004
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i think it is really horrible to tell people that you have had sex and now your having a baby when your not.

 

Answer by Crystal
Submitted on 5/12/2004
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Girl i don't now what to say but don't give up Ur baby cuz  thought i was but had my period. and hope y find ur answer and to all the people that are callin her a slut you are the slut. SLUT!

 

Answer by Shannon
Submitted on 5/12/2004
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MICHAELA -- I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this. I was a mother first at 16 and have 3 now at 22, so I can relate a little, but WOW!! You are really young. I do applaud you for resisting the thought of abortion and I applaud your boyfriend for sticking around. A lot of boys at that age act out of fear, and he didn't. Your girls are really lucky that they have parents who care enough to grow up and give up everything for them. I do understand the hardship though. I don't know what to say, but if you need anyone to talk to, I am here. My email address is shannonprichard1@hotmail.com. It takes great strength to ask for help, and I applaud you for that. If you need just to talk about it and maybe get some ideas from someone else, or just someone to give you a shoulder to cry on, I am definitely here. I would love for my husband and I to talk to you and your boyfriend, as we have been there (not quite as young, but close) and maybe we can show you what we did to make it work. I promise I will not try to be your mother and tell you what to do. I just think that in these times it helps to have someone who knows how it feels. Shannonprichard1@hotmail.com Don't be afraid to reach out to someone.

 

Answer by Someone who knows
Submitted on 5/12/2004
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Ebony and Renee -- I think it is really horrible to go around finding people to judge just because it makes you feel better about your flaws.

 

Answer by LULU
Submitted on 5/14/2004
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i'm 14 and i just want to ask a question can you get pregnat if you had oral sex?

 

Answer by Stephanie
Submitted on 5/28/2004
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to any of you girls on here who need someone to reach out to or just talk to, please dont hesitate to e-mail me, boy_luva_02@yahoo.com, i am a 15 yeah old girl who got molested and was almost pregnant. now i am an abortion speaker. i speak about abortion and how wrong it is. if you need encouragement or just somebody to talk to e-mail me or if u have AOL instant messenger, IM me at Xsteffie6969X i am willing to help and talk because, killing your baby is wrong. to any young girls who want to have an abortion please, force yourself to look at photos of aborted babies. Look at the awful things they do to the child. you are young girls, you shouldnt be considering abortion, and even if you do want to have one, please do it safley. i'm not on here to tell you what to do, but if you try to do it yourself you could really damage yourself. so please consider what i said, and e-mail me or IM me.

God bless and Good Luck
stephanie

 

Answer by alicia
Submitted on 5/28/2004
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i think that you should not have sex till your married so don't have sex you wont get pregnant.

 

Answer by gay
Submitted on 5/30/2004
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you all are faggots

 

Answer by gangstabom
Submitted on 5/30/2004
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MichealA, dont feel bad about 3 kids at 15.  My babiez mufah has seven shorties and she is only 16.  

 

Answer by Alex
Submitted on 6/2/2004
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roffles, just LUEicide

 

Answer by God
Submitted on 6/20/2004
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And on the 8th day, God recieved a call at work from a pregnant 13 year old, and he said "SLUT!"

 

Answer by Kelly
Submitted on 6/21/2004
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Hey, i know exactly wat ur goin thru girl, i am 13 and i just recently had an abortion. I think it was the hardest thing ive eva had 2 do in my life. But its wat i had 2 do, 4 me 4 mum and 4 my bf (weve been 2getha 4 2 yrs) Dont listen 2 any of the horrible ppl on here. Your not a slut, ppl called me a slut and they still do. I think the hardest thing was ppl at skool, my best friend helped me thru alot. I now dont go 2 skool anymore becoz it got 2 hard 4 me. I am at tafe doin all different courses. i like it so much better. Yes i will admit it has ruined my life forever and i wish it never happened but theres nothin i can do. Trust me hunny theres beautiful ppl out there that would b so happy 2 help u, just dont b afraid 2 talk 2 em, if u do wanna talk plz email me at xoxmissuniversexox@hotmail.com

 

Answer by Scared outa my mind
Submitted on 6/22/2004
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Hey I'm am 15 years old and I may have just made the biggest mistake of my life. About 3 days ago I had sex for the first time. But I didn't even know it because I got really drunk and I didn't even realize that I had unprotected sex. I am so scared. And gurls I know how you are feeling and people cannot call you a slut... They don't know what your going through I still don't know what to do my period has not come yet. I have been terrified I don't know what to do!!!

 

Answer by Morningstar
Submitted on 6/29/2004
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If you really want to abort the child, there are herbal ways to do it

 

Answer by Biology 101
Submitted on 6/29/2004
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There is a great book called Taking charge of your fertility by Toni Weschler that I think ALL girls old enough to have a period should read. Seriously consider checking it out at the library. It will teach you incredible things about your body so you will not have a lot of these questions. MOST girls have a period every 28 days, which means they ovulate (usually) on day 14 after the last period and the next period is due another 14 days after that. You can only get pregnant when you are ovulating. So, if you've had sex 3 days before your period is due, you cannot get pregnant. If you have sex when you are ovulating, you can get pregnant. But, you will not be due to have a period (for most women) for 14 days after ovulation. So there is no reason for concern over having sex and not getting a period 3 days later. One thing that you can do that will help you to know this is keep track on a calendar of the first day of every period. See how many days apart each cycle is. You should be ovulating exactly halfway through that cycle. So, if you have a period every 28 days, you should ovulate on day 14. Also, your body gives you several ques that you are ovulating, such as changes in cervical fluid (that gooey stuff on your panties that goes from not there to sometimes being a long stretchy string and is always changing), the height, firmness and openness of your cervix, and your temperature changes. These are all things you will learn in the book I mentioned (they also have a website TCOYF.com that is helpful). I do not believe in birth control, but I just miscarried a set of twins last week. So, I want to wait a couple of months to get pregnant again. I use this method to know when to time sex to avoid or achieve pregnancy. It is very easy, and I love the fact that I know my body so well. I have been doing it (tracking my cycles) since I was 17 and first got married, and I love it. Please give the book a try. You will be amazed at how great it will make you feel to know how incredible our bodies are, and how empowered you will be by the information you learn in this book.

 

Answer by snaps
Submitted on 7/1/2004
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Another thing you can do to avoid getting pregnant is not take on semen like you are a naval recruiting station.  In other words, give that thing a rest.

 

Answer by Haley
Submitted on 7/2/2004
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Hi my names Haley. i am only 13 i just read all those answers i think that some are horrible. 2 weeks ago i had dex for my 1st time with my boyfriend we have been 2gether  for agers. me and my mum do not  get along at all so tahts teh last person i am tellin. i dont want my family to get the name for my mistake. i dont have a fuking clue wat i am going to do i am thinking about getting and abortion but i dunno i ma not telling my mum. some poeple are 13 and have had kids tahst  great but i dont think i can afford it and if i do have it and if ihave it and yeh my num will kick me out of home and i wil have no one but my boyfriend. can some body please give me help
my email addy is froggy1223@hotmail.com
thanks heeps
i admire yua ll so much
xooxo

 

Answer by stress out mom
Submitted on 7/3/2004
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girlfriend you should keep your baby there is a lot of help out there if you decide to keep the baby, such as public assistances, food stamps, they will all help you with your child. when I was 15 teen years old I had a miscarriage it was very hard for me to get over then I had a child at 19 teen that was a boy and then I pregnant at the age of 22 years and now I am 25 years with a 3 year old and a 6 year old and I would not give them of for any body, there would be stressful times with them I might say, because the baby father is not there for me at all so I am doing it all by my self.  But I ask god every day to give me strength to take care of my kids. So the moral of the store is that if it is just your first child stick with it because abortion is not the answer there is help out there for you and your child but try not to make the mistake again try and finish school and go to college that is what I am doing to make a better life you me and my kids. So get the help you deserve and need well I ran out of things to say if you ever want to talk you can contact me at darcellblango@yahoo.com wish you all the luck and love. Peace out.

 

Answer by stress out mom
Submitted on 7/3/2004
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girlfrind you should keep your baby there is a lot of help out there if you decide to keep the baby, such as publice asistance, food stapms, they will all help you with yourchild. when I was 15 teen years old I had a miscarage it was very hard for me to get over then I had a child at 19 teen that was a boy and then I pregnant at the age of 22 years and now I am 25 years with a 3 year old and a 6 year old and I would not give them of for any body, there would be stressful times with them I might say, because the baby father is not there for me at all so I am doing it all by my self.  But I ask god every day to give me strenth to take care of my kids. So the moral of the store is that if it is just your first child stick with it because abortion is not the answer there is help out there for you and your child but try not to make the mistake again try and finish school and go to college that is what I am doing to make a better life you me and my kids. So get the help you deserve and need well I ran out of things to say if you ever want to talk you can contact me at darcellblango@yahoo.com wish you all the luck and love. Peace out.

 

Answer by CoOoTaH_sTaNk_LiKe_TuNa
Submitted on 7/6/2004
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Girl, You know what contact solution will take care of all your problems!! Just swallow a little bit and it will be alright!
It might kill you but the baby will be gone.....WATCHOUT NOW!

 

Answer by to Haley
Submitted on 7/6/2004
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Haley, dear, how do you know you're pregnant? Did you have a positive test or are you just assuming you are because of the symptoms?

 

Answer by me me me me me
Submitted on 7/6/2004
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why don't you give your baby up for adoption? You will not regret that like you will abortion. And a lot of people do open adoptions so you can still be in contact with the baby and all. So, you can still be a part of that child's life without having to bear that responsibility at such a young age. I'm sure that if you were going to do that and stop having sex or go on birth control, your mother would have enough respect for that decision to not throw you out. You will be surprised what even the worst parents will do when their child is pg. They can be very understanding about it. And a lot of times will want to adopt the baby them selves. Think about it.

 

Answer by Nevaeh
Submitted on 7/8/2004
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Hey.. Don't listen to anyone on here calling you a slut and everything, they don't know what you're going through. Yes, you made a mistake, everyone makes mistakes. I think the reason why I am being so caring about this situation is because I'm going through the same thing right now, and I came on to this website because I needed a answer to my question. Now looking at your question I know that I'm not the only one in this situation. If you ever need anything we can help each other..



 

Answer by netswan
Submitted on 7/10/2004
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I was doing some research about vinegar
and how it can or cannot affect the sex
of a child when I came upon this thread.

This is absolutely appalling.

First, a 13 year old girl needs advice from
her guardians. If she is scared, then she
needs to go to her local church and talk to
her minister. If that is not in her up
bringing, then she needs to go to her school
counselor.

Having a baby at 13 is a very tough decision.
Regardless, how it happened, is not the point
at all. What is to happen to her future, and
how to make an ADULT decision about the
baby, regardless if she decides to keep,
adopt or abort.
Self abortion is way too dangerous. She
needs professional counseling.

Then the young girl that keeps having
babies. I feel for you. You need to take
responsibility with birth control.
I'd suggest after this last one, to get
medically fixed. 3 kids is plenty for anyone.
No matter what age.

The reason I say this is I did know someone
once that had six abortions. I was really
disgusted with her. She kept saying she
was using stuff. Well, she was fixed, and
she still managed to get pregnant. Amazing
when so many women want babies. Anyway, her
unwanted pregnancies stopped after her
husband got fixed.

Next on oral sex.  Sperm needs to be in
your vaginal area for it to make babies.
Oral sex is dangerous, not for getting
pregnant, but in spreading diseases to your
mouth, and YOUR reputation and your own
self-esteem. NO pressure ever should put
you in that position from your peers.
Don't do it. If a guy cannot love you
because you don't PUT OUT, he is not worth
your spitting on him. A young man worth
his salt in life, would respect you, and
wait until you are older, or hopefully
ask you to be his bride.  

If he does not respect you enough for that,
then you need to find a boyfriend who does
respect you.

You do not find love by "putting out."
Love comes with maturity and respect for
one another.  Just because others are doing
it does not make it right. Respect yourself.

If peer pressure is too tough, get new
friends. Talk to a responsible adult whom
you can trust.

If you are in trouble, get your parents
involved, and get professional advice.
If you are going to have sex, get protection.
Nowadays there is DEATH that awaits you
with aids, and other complications. Pregnancy
is tough, but AIDS is death. Use birth control and condoms. Don't take chances, and if the boy COMPLAINS..... too BAD!

Take care, everyone, and do be careful
what advice people give you.

 

Answer by Confused
Submitted on 7/11/2004
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I'm 16 with the same problem. I'm pregnant...and i have NO idea what to do. I really can not keep a baby. I would get murdered by my parents..I know this is my fault...but I don't know what to do..Someone help me..

 

Answer by For Netswan
Submitted on 7/13/2004
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You have a limited advice of good advice to offer. I was a mother at 16 and have done a great job raising my kids. I was ready. But it is what myself and the man I am married to and was already married to at that time wanted. I was a young bride and we started early. That was right for us and we have never regretted it. We are now 23 with 6 kids. We do not believe in birth control, so we may have 20 by the time it is all over. I am happy with that. It is not your place to say that 3 is enough for anyone any age. My children are homeschooled, breastfed, in perfect health and happy. They are the most well behaved children I have ever seen. We have done a great job so far, and will continue to do that. My husband has a great job. For our obedience to His commands, the Lord had blessed us. We have a 12 bedroom home on 20 acres. Plenty of room for lots of kids. My husband makes plenty of money to support all of us. Dinner is ready (usually made from scratch, not boxes and cans, but from our little farm) at 6:30 pm every night and the kids are in bed by 8. I am a better wife and mother than most people I know. No one has the right to say that 3 is enough. Or to tell someone that they need to get fixed. It is her and her husband's decision. You are nosy, ignorant and rude. Instead of trying to act like some kind of a communist or something, why don't you try to help these girls to change their lives. Or better yet, butt out.

 

Answer by concretenomad
Submitted on 7/13/2004
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there are too many people infesting this planet (like ticks) already. Do what you have to but LEARN from your mistakes. Do good things, make good EDJUCATED descisions. move on.

 

Answer by YOU need to learn
Submitted on 7/13/2004
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It's spelled E-D-U-C-A-T-E-D, you dunce.

 

Answer by kiki w.
Submitted on 8/2/2004
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well baby, if that's what you feel is right for you,then you do what you do. personally i believe it is best that you keep it, i mean you went and slept around at a young age, then you must deal with the consequences. I'mnot saying you are a bad person, but i do believe that is a bad decision you made. but just be strong, God will talk to you and help you.

 

Answer by Stephanie
Submitted on 8/9/2004
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i was looking on the internet. for girls who have late periods, there is a way you can make it start, its an herbal tea. what you do is get some parsley (doesnt matter what type!), and brew some tea, bring your water to a boil and add a handful of parsley, let it stand for about 20-30 mins. and strain it and drink it. this advice came from a women on the internet who was 2 months late on her perios, drink about two-four cups of this tea and your period should start the next day or within a week or so. i hope it works out!

PS if you need someone to come and talk to, IM me on Xsteffie6969x or e-mail me at boy_luva_01@yahoo.com i am a 16 year old girl, but i know alot about alot of stuff. dotn hesitate, i am already helping one person from this board, i can help pther people too.

 

Answer by victoria
Submitted on 8/10/2004
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i hope you under stand what you are saying i think you should keep the baby and pay for you actions

 

Answer by dapimp
Submitted on 8/10/2004
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netswan, I think your uterus is gonna fall out before you are all through with this.

 

Answer by nutswan
Submitted on 8/11/2004
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netswan, I think your uterus is going to fall out if you don't slow the heck down....badda-bing!  OH!

 

Answer by anna
Submitted on 8/17/2004
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ok who ever asked if u could get pregnant by having oral sex is kinda weird no u cant get pregnant if u have any questions about abortiona nd how wrong it is IM me on aim at familyguy763 thx good luck

 

Answer by i wanna help
Submitted on 8/20/2004
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dear down girl most of these people who have labeled you a slut or called you bad names do not know the first thing about manners they are low lives and spend their time insulting other to derive joy from their "fun" so they call it.... if you email i can help you emotionally...i'll be waiting to hear from you...

punkrocinchick42@aol.com

 

Answer by derstain
Submitted on 8/21/2004
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You can indeed get pregnant by oral sex.

 

Answer by iknow what to do
Submitted on 8/23/2004
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your can fall down on your tummy 5 times and it my kill the baby

 

Answer by andi
Submitted on 8/28/2004
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I just spent about an hour reading the questions and responses in here. I don't even know how to say how I feel. Some of the ppl in here need to know that they are not alone and some of the ppl just need to shut up. My grandmother always says "If you cant say something nice, don't say anything at all" The girls who came here with questions were looking for answers not someones horrible comments, yes underage sex is not a great choice, but ppl make mistakes, at least they are looking for help.

 

Answer by mandymay
Submitted on 8/29/2004
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hi i am 15 i was out with a friend and me and him were having fun one thing led to another and we had sex that was 8/2/04 my period is late by 2 weeks and they are usualy always on the 8 give or take a few days any way its not here but i'm not geting sick but i am sooooo scared and i can't tell my mom or dad they will disown me please help by the way some of you r soooo mean so take your own advise to kill your self!!! WHAT IF IT WAS YOU!!! i know its my fault to and i also can not keep it for the chance that my parents will kill me to

 

Answer by Liz
Submitted on 9/1/2004
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welll....i think you should make your hole bigger until you can fit a bassuca in it and shoot the baby or a dagger or a cannon...and you should think before you react to a guy!! I'm 13 as well and i would never!! no never do such a thing but i think you should have an abortion if you don't want it..but if you don't want an abortion just have it and give it up for adoption...i feel really sorry for you :( and i hope you make the right decision and next time go slower with a guy...even though it may not b easy to say no to sex for you...you don't want this happening again..

sorry i couldn't help more..ive never been in this situation well i wish you all the luck you need :D

Liz xoxx

 

Answer by BabyPhat
Submitted on 9/7/2004
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Ok in my opinion I would tell u do what ur mind tells u 2 do cuz it'zu. But this having 2 do wit a baby that deserves 2 live. What r u thinkin u shoulda thought about this before u laid down with this boy. U shoulda said 2 urself should I be doin this am I ready 4 this 2 happen I might get pregnant. Well hey u did and personally I know ur young and everything and this can interfer with u doin things that u wanted 2 do and ur goin 2 have alot of responsibility on ur hands but keep the baby. Cuz if u give it up or get an abortion trust me you'll regret it 4 the rest of ur life. Just put ur self in the baby shoes what if that was u what would u want 2 happen?. How would u feel if ur mother didn't want u? how would u feel if u were never born?. Don't do nothin stupid or something that you'll regret. Think about and think real hard but hey im not u so u do u just make the right choice stay strong and good luck I believe in u. And I know that you'll make the right decision.

 

Answer by BabyPhat
Submitted on 9/7/2004
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Ok in my opinion I would tell u do what ur mind tells u 2 do cuz it'zu. But this having 2 do wit a baby that deserves 2 live. What r u thinkin u shoulda thought about this before u laid down with this boy. U shoulda said 2 urself should I be doin this am I ready 4 this 2 happen I might get pregnant. Well hey u did and personally I know ur young and everything and this can interfer with u doin things that u wanted 2 do and ur goin 2 have alot of responsibility on ur hands but keep the baby. Cuz if u give it up or get an abortion trust me you'll regret it 4 the rest of ur life. Just put ur self in the baby shoes what if that was u what would u want 2 happen?. How would u feel if ur mother didn't want u? how would u feel if u were never born?. Don't do nothin stupid or something that you'll regret. Think about and think real hard but hey im not u so u do u just make the right choice stay strong and good luck I believe in u. And I know that you'll make the right decision.

 

Answer by sweet and low
Submitted on 9/15/2004
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Here is what you do you take this as a lesson one hard lesson and I am going to tell you what happend to me I am 23 I slept with another guy after being married for 5 years and had 2 great little boys I have never done anything like this b4 and not since, but I got pregnate 1 time of sleeping with someone else and I got pregnate my husband found out except he didn t know about the pregnacy and I decided to end it myself but since he knows how much money we have a legal abortion was out of the question I went online and ordered a pill called CYTOTEC it costed 115 00 but after taking 4 of them I miscarried at home and with no problems the pack has 200 pills in it you take 2 orally and 2 vaginally and truth me it works. I hate I had to do it and if the baby had of been my husband child I would had never done this horrible act.  This is not a monster and it is nothing to be taken lightly but if you truely need to abort that baby then that is the most discreet way of doing so. and Please stop having sex until you are old and mature enough to know and understand the consequences that follow............

 

Answer by ummm
Submitted on 10/5/2004
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I think that sexual education is greatly improving in our schools but i also think that it needs to improve a lot more. I mean if you've got kids asking whether or not you can get pregnant by having oral sex, obviously there is something wrong. Do us all and yourself a favor, talk to your kids and teach them about the outcomes of what can happen when having sex at such a young age. Don't lie to them just tell them the truth, that will scare them enough or at least make them think. And to answer your question, no you cannot get pregnant by having oral sex, however there are a lot of diseases that you can get, this also applies to having sex. Either way be safe and if you don't know what your doing research, or come online and ask questions....:-) glad to help...ask me anything you want to know and if i can help you i will...e mail me at Specialkitten3@aol.com

 

Answer by mich
Submitted on 10/7/2004
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hey look im 26 and unexpectedly just found out that im 8 weeks pregnant my boyfriend has of then years has left me and rasing a child on my own is the last thing that i want, idont know if i could go through with an abortion and adoption seems like the best thing for me to do but some people would not agree please help me i am so confused, before you start slaging me of i was on the pill injection which is obvouisly not that good

 

Answer by Saint
Submitted on 10/9/2004
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My friend was pregnant at 14 and had her child at 15.  She continued with no help from her family through high school, through university and now has a fantastic job AND and awesome kid!!!  Very loving to his mommy, very polite, A student and very social.  It can be done, if you don't give up.

 

Answer by just my opinion
Submitted on 10/10/2004
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First of all, I think it's ridiculous for all of those who keep commenting that this baby is a "gift from God."  Puh-leease!!  Just in case you all haven't read the Bible lately, let me remind you that God never intended for anyone to have sexual relations outside of marriage in the first place, so it's rather doubtful that He, in His infinite wisdom, would "bless" an immoral act with such a precious gift!

Matter of fact, I defy anyone to find an instance in the Bible where the Lord rewarded anyone for being immoral...look what happened to Sodom and Gomorrah!  Need I mention the Great Flood??  He even punished King David (one of His favourite people)for having an affair by taking the life of the child he created with Bathsheba (who was, by the way, his "wife" at the time) as a result of David’s immoral slaying of Bathsheba’s husband by sending him to the front line of battle!

The problem nowadays is that people have forgotten, or rather ignored, the old saying, "You play, you pay!"  I am not necessarily for abortion (matter of fact, I’m entirely against partial birth abortion because it’s my opinion that once you decide to carry a pregnancy that far honey, it's too late to go back).  

I can, however, understand someone seeking an abortion out of desperation…but then that should be the "one and only" abortion that woman ever has.  Also, it should be done extremely early in the pregnancy and if she waits until she's six months pregnant to do it, it should be considered murder. I think that records should be kept on each woman having an abortion, and once that woman has had (or attempts to have)a second abortion, she should be arrested (unless of course, that rare chance of her life being threatened by carrying the pregnancy to term has been medically determined).  

You'd think after having had one abortion (and I'm not talking having anesthetic "twilight sleep" but actually being awake, and having it done under a local, like in the “old days,” so that she has to fully experience the results of her decision), a woman would be smart enough, and concerned enough, to find ways to prevent further unwanted pregnancies.  

As an adoptee, I have a few things to say about giving up a child for adoption!  I hear all the time what a "great act of love" it was for a mother to give her child up.  I personally feel that is just as big a cop-out as someone choosing to abort!  Either way, that woman gives up on taking responsibility for her actions.  If that mother really loved that child, she'd go through hell or high water to try and keep it and provide for it in whatever way she could.  

My birth parents were married and I had two older brothers when I was given up at 2 months of age.  After having four kids myself, and having gone through lots of hand-me-downs in the way of furniture, bottles, clothes, toys, etc., and having lived through being poor at one time in my life, you can't tell me that, even if they were broke, my parents couldn't have put boys clothes on me until they could afford better!  And don't give me that "they probably couldn't afford to feed you all" excuse...there are always soup kitchens and food pantries! And what about relatives??

I think a major problem today is that too many women try to hold onto useless men by getting pregnant and, after the fact, find that these bums can’t take care of themselves much less the children they conceive.   But all of a sudden there’s this new baby in the world and nobody has a clue what to do with it.  

We need to teach our daughters from very young on to respect themselves for who they are.  We need to encourage their independence and ability to become self-sufficient rather than let them think that Prince Charming (which usually turns out to be some manipulative dirt-ball with a drinking or drug problem) is going to come along and rescue them!

Most importantly we need to communicate to young, impressionable women that, when some obviously needy guy does happen to come into the picture, there’s no amount of love or money (or self-sacrifice) that she can “change him” with!  

A personal favourite piece of advice I’ve passed along to my daughter is that if she sees a sloppy looking guy riding down the road on a bike who “might look good if you got him a different haircut and cleaned him up a bit” but he’s not wearing spandex bike shorts, a helmet, or carrying a water bottle…guess what?  The bum doesn’t have a valid driver’s license!!!  Don’t try to rescue him and turn him into what you think he could potentially become if only he had a chance!  Call a spade, a spade!  If he looks like a bum, he probably is a bum.  Stay away!  Stay far away!!!  This is not time for handing out Charity!  Besides, what's that saying??  "Charity begins at home,"??

I think the Countries where the parents select the future spouses of their children actually have a pretty good idea!  They’ve more than likely had years to get to know the potential in-laws as well as having all those years to research the backgrounds of the prospective sons or daughters-in-law and are probably aware of genetic imbalances, as well as other negative aspects that may present themselves way down the road following the marriage.  

Let’s face it, we, in America, are far more careful about breeding our pets than we are about breeding our future generations!








 

Answer by Just another thought...
Submitted on 10/10/2004
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I know someone personally who was having infertility problems and she lamented constantly because there was some woman at church (pregnant) who had this trail of kids following behind her.  Why was God blessing this woman and yet doing this to her?

I thought about that, but it was only until I ran into her again after she and her husband, with the help of fertility drugs, had five kids.  

The kids are all pretty much messed up, the mom loves them and is overwhelmed by their issues but is too busy pursuing her own career/degree to be around to do much about it and the dad is basically neither here nor there on any issue.  It comes down to this...maybe when a couple "can't" conceive, might it be God who has made that decision?!?!

He is the one who knows beyond the shadow of a doubt who will or will not turn out to be a good parent.  Maybe He has lovingly chosen to keep that kind of hardship from certain people.  Granted children are not all hardships, but some are and I think God knows who is prepared to handle it or not.

If there are folks out there who say that, regarding abortion or euthanasia, it is God who should ultimately decide; then who are we to say, no matter what, we are going to force a pregnancy to occur?  Even if we have to turn to scientific measures to do so.

Shouldn't that also be God's ultimate decision??

 

Answer by on second thought...
Submitted on 10/14/2004
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Y'know now that I have been searching this site to see if my response has been printed yet (???) I notice that the poor gal, who asks the question about killing her baby,referred to herself as "down girl."  

Does this mean she is a "Down's Syndrome" child who might've been unfairly taken advantage of and has come to the sad realization that she can in no way provide for this child and, as loving as most Down Syndrome people are, does not have the heart to give that even baby away after having carried it for nine long months??

Did any of you insensitive people who called her Slut and other insulting names every think of that??


 

Answer by realy confused
Submitted on 10/18/2004
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im a 15 yr old and i love my boy..wer not exactly going out but hes going to propose to me and i want a baby but i no my parents will murder me i am wishfull o even find a job i need the best advise possible i really want a baby to call my own please please help me i just dont want my parents to lash out on me but i no a baby is the only thing i want in this world and my true love

 

Answer by ballsack
Submitted on 10/27/2004
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hi eat my scrotum!

 

Answer by Nick Nick
Submitted on 11/7/2004
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Hey grls out there in only 15 and goin through alot right now!I live with my grandma and she broke me and my boyfriend up and im so scarred that im pregnit Im so in love with him we have been together for a year and i really need to be with him.I feel that if i get pregnit i will have to be with him for 18 years of my life, so im just realy confused and scared and sad at the same time. I really just feel like killing my self. So for you grils out their that think u have it bad their is always others out their in worst positions.Speaking of sounds like i need to take my own advice.

 

Answer by some1 in ur same shoes
Submitted on 11/16/2004
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Well I am unsure whether I am pregnant or not and I accessed this website to find someways to kill my baby if I have one.  If you find some good ways to kill a baby, email me at: babyhustla15@yahoo.com.  I am serious, I NEED HELP... I DON'T WANT A CHILD AT THIS AGE!! 16!!!

 

Answer by jessica c
Submitted on 11/23/2004
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Your not a slut nor a hore you just made the wrong decision dont listen to those immature people whoever they are ya your 13 but you can do this this is your decicion dont let other people tell you what to do there all dumb i promise you i can help in any way just email me please i will listen snookiebooj@aol.com

 

Answer by BABEGIRL
Submitted on 11/26/2004
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I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL....I HAD AN ABORTION BACK IN APRIL AND NOW I AM PREGNANT AGAIN...THIS TIME I WAS ON BIRTH CONTROL AND I STILL GOT PREGNANT...IF YOU ARENT READY AN ABORTION WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA...IT DOESNT HURT AND IT IS OVER IN NO TIME...I DONT WANT THE BABY I AM PREGNANT WITH NOW BUT MY BOYFRIEND IS GIVING ME NO CHOICE BUT TO HAVE IT OR HE WILL TELL MY FAMILY I WANT TO HAVE AN ABORTION AND THAT I ALREADY HAD ONE ONCE BEFORE...IF YOU WANT TO TALK YOU CAN EMAIL ME.....LILGIRLFRIEND82@YAHOO.COM

 

Answer by 13 year old boy
Submitted on 11/27/2004
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Can i screw you and make you pregnant too?

 

Answer by i wish i could help
Submitted on 11/29/2004
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I am going through the same thing, i am 14, i just want to say that these people are real assholes, calling you names like that, i am sure your not a slut, these things happen and everything will get better in the end, dont worry to much.

 

Answer by Panda 34
Submitted on 12/6/2004
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I just want all of you who are calling this Girl a slut to put your self in her shoes for one second I bet that you couldn't. She is very brave for confessing what she has done and apparently she does not have good parents to help her through this I mean if she did I don't think this would have happend. Just because all you people think you are perfect and never made a mistake in your life don't emotionally hurt this child because you don't agree with her just keep you mouth closed. It all goes back to that saying if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything. Get over yourself and try to make a difference

 

Answer by johnnyrotton
Submitted on 12/7/2004
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my 15 yr old gf got pregnant but she didnt want it or want to go 4 abortion, she wouldnt speak 2 her mom so i punched her in the stomach very hard few times every day, after about a week she misscarried

 

Answer by Me
Submitted on 12/10/2004
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Do not listen to that psycho bit*h telling you to use a coat hanger or any other dumbass here telling you to have an abortion. You should give it up for adoption if you do not want it. So many people out there cannot have kids that can give a child a great home. If you do go a head and have an abortion than I hope you feel like the worst person in the world and that every day that you look in the mirror all you see is a murderer because that all you would be.

 

Answer by oh my god
Submitted on 12/13/2004
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who ever suggested killing her self ur a horrible person and u should try and c it from her piont of view im 14 and thought i was pregnant and panicked all the time but i didn't't tell any1 apart from my boyfriend. i child shouldnt b brought up in a family where u really didnt want it in the first place so who ever said kill urself think the girl still has feeling and is a really caring person so just f*** off u heartless b****/'s

 

Answer by shani anderson
Submitted on 12/13/2004
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Hi, my name is Shani and i am fourteen.I have been in a relationship for about five months now. I was really thinking about having sex with my bf. But now after reading every singe one of these comments i think about all of the heart ache that you have to go through. you have not only changed my life but probably thousands or maybe hundred of thousands of people's lives. well anyway i have always been really close to my parents. But for some of us, maybe they weren't. like Michaela you must not have been that close to your parent or parents! but that shouldn't have made much of a difference to any of your decisions that you made. even though you might feel maybe... pressured or you just feel that it's right you. please just think of all of the kids that are 11-16 pregnant,no home, and no family. well i would love to write more but i have to go! p.s. be strong and please try to make the right choices. PLEASE!!! if you would like to e-mail me my e-mail address is cuttie_pie15_213@hotmail.com

                 love always,
               Shani Anderson age 14

 

Answer by jesus
Submitted on 12/15/2004
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abortion is murder.............
give that "living child"  birth!!!......... and adoption.

 

Answer by I feel the same way.
Submitted on 12/16/2004
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Girl, I am 15 turning 16 in May. I've been with this guy for 4 years and we had sex for the first time about a month ago. Im late on my monthy and I think im pregnant. I have no clue what to do, im scared, lonely, and i feel like my life is over. I really need help, I cant keep the baby. My boyfriend, or parents will not Aprove! Please help any advice will work.

 

Answer by sorry to hear that
Submitted on 12/16/2004
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im sorry to hear that your pregant at 13 i know how scary it can be i have been with my bf 9 months and i thought i was.im on the pill and get my period at the same time every month and it when it didnt come i freaked! ( im not stress made my period even later) iv talked to my bf and we have decided not to have sex again and when we do in the future to be extra careful! i think you should give it up for adoption if u cant take care of it urself and at 13 i dont think any 13 year old would be. im againt abortion but its your choice to make and i think you should be supported with whatever decison you make. i hope it all works out. and for u ppl calling her a slut u only know a very small piece of information you dont know her cercomstances at all!! and if this had happend to you you would think MUCH differently!.

 

Answer by Do It
Submitted on 12/22/2004
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Having a child at 13 is too young ..even the fact of carrying it would be such a dent in your life ..i suggest if you really dont want it to get it aborted ..children should not be having children

 

Answer by kids
Submitted on 12/29/2004
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Well I read this for the first time tonight and I cannot believe what I read. There are little girls on here that are talking about being pregnant when they can't even spell. I am 16 years old and I can say that I am not a virgin but it's a decision I made but I use my head and use a condom. Little girls stay little because you have all your life to have sex and party and experiment with whatever else your little heads say is cool. But being pregnant at the age of 13 isnt going to be easy or fun next time there is a huge ass party and your friends invite you SAY NO and stay at home by yourself and say welcome to life now.

 

Answer by TWEETY
Submitted on 1/2/2005
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I  KNOW  SOMEONE  THAT  WOULD  LOVE  YOUR  BABY  PLEASE  E-MAIL  ME  FOR  THE  INFO  IT  IS  ON  YOU  IF  YOU  WANT  YOUR  BABY  TO  HAVE  A  GREAT  LIFE  E-MAIL  ME  DESIRSWEET@AOL.COM

 

Answer by Siezure Andy
Submitted on 1/6/2005
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Have you had it yet? can i have it? ill pay a good price for it. is it a boy?...i like boys mmmmm. dont mind if its a girl though....just another hole as far as i see it.mmmm. e-mail me a picture will you please. i want to see the goods before i buy. if you have got rid of it i dont mind, ill have you.mmmmm. what are you 15 now? bit older than im used to but hey...whatever man. you do shave right???mmmmm.

darcellblango@yahoo.com ; )

 

Answer by 31 YEARS OLD
Submitted on 1/12/2005
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PLEASE DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTIONG YOU WILL REGRET IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFES....NO MATTER WHAT ANYBODY SAYS, YOU MAY SAY IT WAS THE BEST DESISION OR CHOICE YOU MADE, BUT BELIEVE ME INSIDE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THE MEMORY OF THE BABY THAT COULD HAVE BEEN AND THAT THOUGHT ALONE WILL HAUNT YOU AND TORTURE YOU FOREVER...TALK TO YOUR PARENTS, IF THEY KICK YOU OUT, THERE IS SOOO MUCH HELP OUT THERE FOR TEENAGE GIRLS THAT ARE PREGNANT AND ANY AGE, GIVE YOUR BABY LIFE AND A CHANCE IN LIFE, GIVE YOUR BABY UP FOR ADOPTION, PLEASE DON'T KILL YOUR BABY...ABORTION IS MURDER, NO MATTER WHAT PEAPLE SAY, TRUST ME I KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING, PLEASE DON'T MURDER YOUR CHILD, I BEG YOU IN GOD'S NAME...

 

Answer by notswan
Submitted on 1/15/2005
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I think your uterus my just fall out.

 

Answer by deadbabyc
Submitted on 1/16/2005
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cappadonna

 

Answer by marry_love337
Submitted on 1/19/2005
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iam 15 my boyfriend is 19 iam expecting on september 11,2005. My mother don't even know we go out. I see my boyfriend every weekend at his house. I play basketball and run track. He don't want me to have the baby HELP ME PLEASE!!!! ladypink@momentum.net or mary_love337 on yahoo messenger

 

Answer by marry_love337
Submitted on 1/19/2005
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iam 15 my boyfriend is 19 iam expecting on September 11,2005. My mother don't even know we go out. I see my boyfriend every weekend at his house. I play basketball and run track. He don't want me to have the baby HELP ME PLEASE!!!! ladypink@momentum.net or mary_love337 on yahoo messenger

 

Answer by bxirene87
Submitted on 1/20/2005
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i am 17 and i am pregnant, and my mom is usually not that mean but not nice all the time but she wasn't really mad, and now she is exited i am 3 months pregnant yesterday, nad i cant wait, and i just hope everything goes well with the baby, it is truly a blessing to have something so beautiful n loving inside u i could NEVER think about doing my baby any harm, do u know how many people cant have kids? or people who want kids but cant? or just people who want kids but don't want them n just treat them like a piece of trash n want to get rid of em? well u should think about it but al i know is u probably will feel alot better after u tell ur parents.and i advise u to keep tha baby. thats what im doing. but good luck k~

 

Answer by girl with a past
Submitted on 2/3/2005
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girl dont listen to these dumb poeple listen to your heart you have been blessed with a wonderful gift my boyfriend and i want children but we are going to wait im 13 and he is 15 follow your heart good luck with whatever you want to do

 

Answer by brendik1
Submitted on 2/9/2005
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I'm sorry you have to go threw this also when you're only a child yourself.  I also had a baby at a young age, and s some of these people is right having a baby is so precious and so innocent, but at the same time it's hard.  Some people have different opinions and I think if having a baby is that bad then do what you have to do.  You're the one that has to be judged for it.

 

Answer by bloodraynebabe
Submitted on 2/12/2005
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All I gotta say is do what you gotta do stop with the gift from god stuff and you slut and I wish I had a child let her do what she has to being pregnat isnt that great and the whole abortion stuff is bad carp thats social and religious ideals *sigh*Well people I have to say this and I will get bashed for it but children are evil belive it or not we all were and weather your a wanna-be mother or not im sorry im just rambling cause I guess I hates the lil ones

 

Answer by natalie
Submitted on 2/15/2005
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hi, right i have a few things to say:
1. do not listen to some people on this MSG board who are calling you a slut and a slag they obviously have nothing better to do with their lives.
2.I have recently found out that i am pregnant and at this moment in time it would not be fair on the baby or me to have it! So i am looking at the options to get rid of it! I can  totally understand your situation, how could u possibly give a person i good life at the age of 13, no dis respect but u have to have had your life first!!
so if you need to chat to someone about it or just have someone to talk to .... my name is Natasha and i am 18, a little older than u but i don't mind...okay!!!

 

Answer by HELP ME!!
Submitted on 2/16/2005
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HEy, I know how everyone in here feels. I am 16 years old and i think I may be pregnant! I am so scared! I didnt miss my period yet but I have been having frequent urination and my stomach feels very sore!! I am not sure what to do because when I had sex I was intoxicated and I can't remember if the guy wore a condom, When I asked him he said he did but I don't know if I believe him! I cannot tell my parents either, they would kill me,, if anyone has some good advice please help... I know I brought this on myself but I'm not ready to have a kid or even have one in side me !!!

 

Answer by ~SCARED~
Submitted on 2/19/2005
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Hello, I am 16 years old and I think I may be Pregnate! I am totally scared, there is no way I could keep or even have the baby! I am really scared because a week ago I had sex but i was intoxicated and I may  have had unprotected sex, and now this week I am starting to feel some of the symptoms , i am constanlty urinationg and my stoamch feels very sore, There is no way i could have this baby ! I kno your prolly thinkin well you brought it on yourself and I kno that but I am really sorry for what I have done and people makes mistakes! if anyone can help m e that would be great

 

Answer by myra
Submitted on 2/28/2005
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i think its stupid that you want to kill your baby without an abortion, i mean just have the baby, other parents would like to have a child, so let the child get adopted. don't kill it you stupid parents!!!

 

Answer by someone in your same shoes
Submitted on 3/2/2005
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Girl, Don't be so down because I'm sixteen and I'm pregnant and I'm trying to find a way to kill my baby without abortion. My baby's father is senior in high school and I'monly a sophomore and his mother doesn't like me and my parents will kick my out if they find out I'mpregnant. so I'mtelling you to do anything you can to try and kill the baby cause I'mtrying with you. much love

 

Answer by Cara
Submitted on 3/7/2005
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People here are obviously crazy... First of all, all you bible thumpers.  You are completly crazy. God does not exisit!!!! ok in my opinion there is no god.  There is science and facts.  Telling a 13 year old to have a baby is inhumane.  Fact - It will screw up her life completly. Sure it was a mistake to have sex.  But people make mistakes.  Have a abortion. It will be the best thing you can do for yourself.  Tell your mom what happened.  Get her to make an appointment.  I know hundreds of people who have had them...I am a nurse.  And I have seen many young women be swayed by craziness that is organized relgion. Of course if you believe in god and this is going to trouble you for the rest of your life then by all means be another welfare young mother that working people like me need to support.  In other countries besides the crazy U.S. abortion isn't as big of a deal.  It happens! People who have sex get pregnant and not everybody can take care of a baby.  Sex is a part of life.  Considering that most people do not get married till their thirties, more than likly they are going to have premarital sex.  And contraception does not work everytime.  If the U.S. would allow earliar forms of "abortion" like they do in other countries you wouldn't have late term abortions that stir up all you bible thumpers.

 

Answer by jerseygurl
Submitted on 3/10/2005
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hey girl, i know exactly how you feel. i am not 13 but i am 19 and i have been with this guy for a year or two now and i think i might be pregnant. i am in college and i know i can handle it but sometimes i wonder. if u ever need someone to talk to email me adidasport2008@yahoo.com

 

Answer by derBUCaufgettinfscken
Submitted on 3/14/2005
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everyone should have a condom in the left pocket, you never know, and even if you're getting raped or something tell the rapist to use the condom

 

Answer by TanTan
Submitted on 3/15/2005
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i hope you go to hell.

 

Answer by some 1 who cares
Submitted on 3/16/2005
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hey.... I understand what u are going through my it happened to my best friend at age 13......she finally told her mom and they put it up for adoption....but i understand that u don't want to have an abortion or put it up for adoption....y don't u go talk to your parents n c what they think....they could b a big help

 

Answer by icu nurse
Submitted on 3/20/2005
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Please, what you should do is keep the baby and let a loving person who cannot have a baby like myself adopt it form you.  I would be loved and taken care of more than anything in the world.  You would never have to worry.  I cry when I hear someone wants to take an innocent life when someone is willing to love it and take care of it for the rest of its life like it was her own,  please think hard about this and pray.

 

Answer by angel3y35
Submitted on 3/21/2005
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I can't judge anyone because i have never been in the situation.  I do know that I can't have kids and it kills me.  There are a lot of women in my situation who would kill to have a baby to adopt....

 

Answer by God
Submitted on 3/24/2005
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hey my girlfriend is going through the same thing and she is only 14 and i am 17 and if her mom or dad found out they would kill me but i would like to no the same thing u would i am looking for the same answer you r and its hard to make a chose there are alot but just make sure u pick the right one do what u feel is right...
                                God...

 

Answer by Mike
Submitted on 4/1/2005
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to all u ppl who are calling these ppl sluts GROW UP!!! YOU seriously think they planned for this to happen and u just got toled by a 13 yr old

 

Answer by someone who knows what your going through
Submitted on 4/9/2005
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Hey girl, I know your going through a tough time right now. Hang in there though. I was only 14 when I thought I had the same problem. The best thing to do really is tell someone you trust and make sure your really pregnant. If you are you have to decide if you really want the baby. If you don't don't try to do the wrong thing. Get an abortion the right way because you may hurt yourself if you don't. Best wishes

 

Answer by Trise
Submitted on 4/16/2005
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How to kill a baby in your stomach.

 

Answer by Trise
Submitted on 4/16/2005
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Hi my name is Patrice I am 14 and pregnant right now. My baby daddy say that this baby is going to mess up my life.But he want to kill it.So I told him do what is best for the both of us. We are in Middle School.

 

Answer by mystic
Submitted on 4/16/2005
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who ever it was that said to use a coathanger should have some since slapped in to them i could not picture my life with out my baby  may god be with you

 

Answer by curtis
Submitted on 4/26/2005
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i have a feeling that i might be pregnant but i cannot tell my mom because she would freak and my dad will kill me my brother know but he said he won't tell the only people i have told are my friends people call me all kinds but i pay them no mind i think that you should tell a close relative if you are planning to have a abortion. the boy i was sexually active with ignores me now because he has heard the rumors that people tell him i don't know what to do? i might be pregnant

 

Answer by tmj
Submitted on 4/27/2005
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I know this is really late, but this is to all the women eho get pregnant and dont want the baby. please think before you make the decsion on having an abortion, Its Murder, I say wait to have sex when you know your ready to have a child, Wait till your out of school have your life on track before even thinking about have sex. Like someone said before, that they dont know if there pregnet or not, im in the same situation, but i wasnt forced, i have been off my period for 3 months went to planned parenthood they told me that i wasnt. but i had to go back like 2weeks later to try agian. i never went back because i was to scared to face the truth. but the more i think about it i want to Have a Baby. So think before you Make a decsion on having sex
  T~niks

 

Answer by InCaseofBadNews
Submitted on 4/28/2005
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I cant believe people can be so nieve. She was 13 years old how can you say such things to her. I can understand why she ask a question like that because she's scared. all she needed was a little bit of advice and people like you want to put her down. thats why people kill there selves. i understand that sometimes you can't go to your parents because your scared of what may happen. Abortion is legal which means it shouldn't give no one the reason to hate someone because they feel as if their to young or not fanacial fit to have that child. i say do your best in what you do have a chat with a adult you may find cool or talk to a friend or maybe even the NAF National Abortion Federation at your age you can go to Planned Parenthood Get the Morning after pill or if it's to late for that get an medical abortion (meaning by pill or needle) what evers' better 4 you but don't wait until it get to late.

Need Advice... Help Go to www.prochioce.com
Get the # to N.A.F they will help you or contact your local Planned Parenthood
There are some people that want to help....
I hope you made the right decision

 

Answer by ANGELINA
Submitted on 5/1/2005
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I FEEL YOU DONT HAVE TO KILL YOUR BABY JUST GIVE YOUR BABY TO US WE WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD LIKE ITS MINE BUT YOU WONT GET IT BACK BUT YOU CAN BE APART OF IT IF YOU WANT TOO.IF YOU WANT TO GIVE YOUR CHILD TO ME THEN EMAIL ME OK ANGELINA508@EXCITE.COMOR CALL ME AT 3343338983

 

Answer by Rachel
Submitted on 5/5/2005
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hello, i dont think you should drink vinger or use a coathanger,those options are just really silly and may be very harmful to you and your unborn child,a baby is a gift from above, to end a human life is cruel and inhumane, adoption or keeping this baby yourself is the only choice, god bless you and your baby, good luck

 

Answer by trinity
Submitted on 5/5/2005
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love is blind!!! i'm17 years old and i'mhaving a diamond princess June 27. when i first found out i was preg. i told the father we agreed on a abortion but we kept waitin to tell our parents untill i finally felt the baby move i knew then i cound'ntkill my child!! the father says he'll be around but were not together because the choice i made to keep it. i LOVED him but i love myself more!!! i totally happy with the choice i made!! PRAY ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS follow your heart in the end.!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by Princess
Submitted on 5/9/2005
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yeah know i understand what all these pregnant girls are going through i have been there to at 15 i got pregnant i was scared and did not know what to do but after talking to my boyfriend we decided abortion was the thing to do! sometimes you can't talk to your parents not everyones parents are nice some are mean! well i had a abortion and it was the right thing to do. so back off the4 girls if you don't know what the heck you are talking about if you are not pregnant or have ever been pregnant you have NO!!! room to talk like you know what you are talking about.

 

Answer by Ur Mum
Submitted on 5/11/2005
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1. you're grounded u slut. second how big was he. third u could eat it or summit. u know... if u get bored.

 

Answer by brenda
Submitted on 5/11/2005
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i understand your what you are going through, and you have a hard decision to make. don't let others influence your decision. yes there are options for you. you can tell your parents,and carry out the pregnancy and keep the baby, or give the child up for adoption. there are public assistance programs available, however: these programs will only provide assistance,they will not meet every need in your or your child's life. as for adoption, there are many couples who want to adopt a child.don't let someone influence your decision or make you feel bad because they can not conceive. this is there problem, not yours, you have to do what is best for yourself. if you decide to END THE PREGANCY-
there are different SAFE ways. don't drink venegar- it will only give you a stomach ache.don't fall down stairs: that will probally only hurt you the baby is well protected in gestational sac.  don't use a hanger! it will probally result in you stopping from pain before the fetus is aborted, and causing infection or death.
for a safe surgical or medical abortion contact Planned Parenthood at 1-800-230-plan.
(this is national number)number in georgia is (706)724-5557. web is: www.pprhs.org.
they offer Abortion by PILL. another option is miscarage brought on by herbs. search under heading:induced miscarage. herbal remedys don't always work, sometimes the fetus is killed, but not expelled: it is then necessary to have vacuum aspiration.the web sites post information on over the counter herbs to use, and the dangers of each. * VITIAMIN C - take 6 to 10 mg. of vit. c daily for 10 days.can be purchased over the counter at health food or grocery store.it is best to buy Vitamin C : pure absorbic acid- this is usually also the cheepest. good luck on what decision you make or procedure you use. foremost BE SAFE, don't hurt yourself,or let anyone else hurt you.you are important,and deserve to be happy, God loves you no matter what, and he understands. be strong and take up for yourself, when people make harsh judgements,
just think i am doing what is right for my life. everything will be ok !

 

Answer by brenda
Submitted on 5/11/2005
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This is in response to everyone passing judgement on this teen:
i am 28 years old, and i am a mother. My children are a blessing and i am fortunate to be a parent. my husband and i did not i coluld have any more kids due to a medical problem,however we were sill carefull usuing protection. And i just found out that i am pregnant. my doctor does not think the pregnancy will be viable, and if infact the embro does develop i probally won't be able to carry the pregany past 6 months. i have been in the position of the woman who is having a hard time conceiving. it is frustrating and painful to want a baby so badely only toi be denied. But that does not give me or any one else the right to pass judgement on someone else because she got pregnant and you or i did not. your harsh judgements are no less moraly wrong that her unwanted pregancy, perhaps passing judgement is worse: your words are venemous,and hateful. her pregancy may be the result of haste, even lack of knowledge, but she is not being mean or hateful to someone who obselvy in distress. she needs help, and she is asking for it. She is someone's daughter too. i pray this never happens to any of my children, but if it does it i hope that she would not speak to you. this  little girl is coping with adolesence, pregancy horemones, and a battlegroung of issues you or i know nothing about. your best advice is to kill herself.how would you feel if this child followed your advice? we do not know the circumstances in which she became pregnatnt, how bad she may already feel, or or her mental state. she is a person, and people do make mistakes, and they deserve the chance to learn from the mistakes and be forgiven.
we don't know this kid. her pregancy could be a result of : uneducation, abuse, rape, lack of self esteem, poor parental supervision, incest, peer pressure, or maby she thought she was in love, and did not think of conquenses of her actions. another peice of advice was to have someone punch her in the stomach, or fall down stairs. speaking from a medical standpoint this could cause a miscarage, but it is unlikely. the baby is usually well cushoned in fluid.other advice was to smoke, drink take drugs: this coluld cause a miscarage, but it is more likely to produce a pregnant teen hooked on drugs. if you don't know the answer to the question why bother to respond?
if you are only responding to be hatefull then shame on you for trying to make someone else misery worse with your condensending words.don't make her situation about you.this is her life, and it is not your place to judge her.too many girls are talked out of making the decesion that is right for them. this is evedent by the foster care system, cases of parents who kill their children, juvinile detention centers, and abuse and neglect cases.i have been the woman worried i would never have a child, but i don't judge others who have had an unplanned pregnancy, my not conciving has nothing to do with another's ability to conceive.now i find my self in the position of someone who has an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy. i don't know yet what i will do, but if i decide to end the pregnancy it will not be selfish as one response subested. i will be thinking of the quailty of life for this baby, how or if i can take care of the special needs arising, the effect on my other children, and the future impact of this pregnancy on my family. try not to judge this girl too harshley. one day you may find you understand her as one day you could be in the same position, or your child could be in the same position. i hope she gets the counsling she needs to make the best possible informed decision, so her future can be bright, and happy.

 

Answer by nomad
Submitted on 5/13/2005
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You fu<king God Squad Yanks annoy me.
How dare you all try and pressure a young girl like that. Would your God approve of that?!
A child is not "a gift from God" I'm sure you all know that process involved. God doesn't enter in to it.
How about supporting a young girl in her predicament?
And you call yourself Christians?!!!!!!!!

She is not a slut either. She's a girl that experimented in sex without contraception. What is the best way to prevent this in the future? Called them sluts or offering help and support?

 

Answer by flamedancer1
Submitted on 5/16/2005
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you should keep it i can understand you being scare being so young  but once you do it your will have guilt on your heart for the rest of your life when he or she comes to the world and you look into those eyes your heart feel warm and tears will form in your eyes

 

Answer by so shocked
Submitted on 5/16/2005
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I feel really sorry 4 u n half of u writing in r twats for god shake she is a child she doesnt want the baby stop going on about adoption go 2 a agency's instead of asking a child to have a baby 4 u u losers, n u sad people who r callin her a slag need 2 wake up n realize that sex is a way off life n she obviously didnt mean 2 get pregnant at 13. There is no other option if u dont want the baby than 2 have an abortion n u dnt need 2 tell u r mam or dad if u have a friend or relative u can trust that is over 16 then they can take u 4 the abortion without u r parents knowing, if u need 2 talk email me at shelleyem2k4@aol.com n i will give u more advice hope u make the rite decision and get through it n all u saddos out there if u dont have proper advice then dont write in and u bible people get alife it aint true !!!!! email me plz !!!! :)

 

Answer by yr so lucky
Submitted on 5/17/2005
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hay tour lucky, i no so many people that cant have a baby and even though your 13 dont give it up trust me you will never forget what u did. i was pregnant and i drank and did a lot of drugs for a week or two and i regret ever doin it i wish i didnt i wish i could have had the child. so my advice to u is keep the baby. even though your so young you will love you creation that you and this guy have made. if the father doesnt know you should tell him. i know he wont be happy but its his child too. so all i can say for you id keep the baby. i wish i did. and if u dont you should probity not have sex till your married.

 

Answer by MMMMM
Submitted on 5/19/2005
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I would also lyke to know . . I am 14 and believe i am pregnant . . i cant tell my mom she wud kill me and make me keep the baby that would ruin my life tho . . sum1 please help me im not even in highschool whut do i do? fall down the stairs?

 

Answer by tams
Submitted on 5/29/2005
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talk to someone who can really help u....like a doctor, mother, sister, or friend...seek all the help u can...adoptionis great...i am an adopted child

 

Answer by Sharon
Submitted on 6/2/2005
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i am sorry for what you are going through!  i know it must be horrible! :(  I am only 16 and I think I am still to young to be having sex..so If I am YOU most definitly are!  my friend is trying figure out ways to have an abortion..i dont know not one..I hope everything works out..

 

Answer by Someone who knows better
Submitted on 6/14/2005
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i dont know why young ladies want to do this but it is so wrong if u are not ready to have a baby then dont have sex at a young age duh think a little bit!!!!!  just think before u do anything ok!!

 

Answer by Why?
Submitted on 6/15/2005
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Well if you want to kill your baby without abortion then kill yourself!!!!!!!!!!! OK.. Stupid because you should have not had sex in the first place you could have waited. Or protect yourself with a condom that's why people invent them don't you think? God does things for a reason. Think about having it OK.. You never know it could be the next Michell Jordan or Randy Johnson and you could be the mother, but you never know if you don't have it. What is done is done.

 

Answer by Jen
Submitted on 6/16/2005
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i think you should have your baby, then give it up for adoption to a really nice family who will give it a perfect life. Then i think you should slice your wrists and beat yourself to remind you what a horrible person you are to want to kill your baby (and not through a humane abortion either, but some other sick way you would think of). After your done, i think you should pay some sick freak to skin you alive, rub your skinless body in vinegar. After thats all over, drown yourself in acid so you cannot pass on even more of your stupid genes. I hope your baby didn't get them all.

 

Answer by i want to help you
Submitted on 6/24/2005
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wow this was posted a year ago. and i dont know if you still have a problem with this, but if you need someone to talk to you can email me.
walkin_sunset@yahoo.com

 

Answer by Moon
Submitted on 7/4/2005
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Every body has a reason to be here if you have that baby, just give him an oportunity to show you, and dont blame your self just learn from your mistakes and try not to do it  again.

 

Answer by lorena
Submitted on 7/5/2005
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don't kill that baby yourself! what the hell is wrong with you! trying to kill that baby inside of you could result in the death of you too!

 

Answer by Jazzyjai
Submitted on 7/8/2005
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I'm not sure what to tell u to do because I'm on here 4 advice to I'm almost in the same position as u but I'm 14 and I'm ready for the responsibility i have created but i don't know how to tell my male-friend that i might be pregnant but I'm not completely sure that i am or not. HELP

 

Answer by Kacy
Submitted on 7/14/2005
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First, to "mom", "mommy" and all of your ilk, I hope to hell that those are just nicknames and not an indication of whether you are actually parents. No child deserves to have to hear that garbage, least of all from someone they should be able to count on.I hope none of your kids ever find themselves in crisis, because they will have nowhere to go but to a stranger.
Down Girl,(and those who follow). You are in a very tough position, and the only person who can make the decisions you need to make is you. Get some advice from an adult friend, school counselor(cheesy,but it's thier job), or even your parents. Planed Parenthood is an excellent resource to give you all your options without the judgmental crap, and they don't notify parents in most states.
Regardless of what you CHOOSE you will be the one living with the outcome, no one can do it for you.
Best of luck and love to all my little sisters,
Kacy (awesome mom to 3 beautiful kids & trying for #4)
P.S. Am I the only one who saw the spell-check feature directly below?

 

Answer by percious
Submitted on 7/14/2005
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im 19 and i wishing for the same thing your not alone and i been with this guy for 4 years

 

Answer by up boy 13 year old
Submitted on 7/25/2005
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God i told you not to swallow or you would get pregnant,

YOU SLUT

 

Answer by chris
Submitted on 7/25/2005
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Hi 13yo girl,
In almost all cases, women have the biological right to decide on who and when they breed with. It is your decision and nobody elses.  It is not murder, it is part of your evolutionary role as a human female to decide on who's genes you carry forward.  Contact a family planning or planned parenthood in your area and they can help you out.  Don't screw up your childhood if you don't have to.

 

Answer by ryan ford
Submitted on 7/26/2005
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i think if you would like to get rid of your baby here is a way to do it with out having a abortion, 1.start at the bottom of the stairs,then walk to the top,then turn round facing the bottom,then slowly just lean forward and the force of gravity will make you fall down the stairs if this has not already killed your baby go and get the rolling pin out of the top draw in the kitchen and simply smash it into your stomach not4 but 5 times then i can pretty assure that your baby will be dead.

 

Answer by ryan ford
Submitted on 7/26/2005
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slut whore slut whore slut whore

 

Answer by Anna
Submitted on 8/2/2005
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Heyy , i'm 14 and I can only imagine what you're going through, i say don't make your desicion based on something you read here, make it help your desicion but not make it for you because what this is about is you have to take time off and decide what you really want in your life , picture your life in 2 years and if it's with that baby keep it , if you see yourself without it and think that if you keep it you won't be able to move on in your life then abortion is always there, adoption is another option too.Also, each 13-14-15 year old girl that gets pregnant is diferent, just because some of them kept their baby dosen't mean you're obligated too and just because some of them got an abortion dosen't mean you're obligated  too either . Anyways I say that if this message isn't too late take some time off to think about what it is that you want , don't let others infuence you're desicion because it's your body. If you need suport you can always talk 2 me loll my e-mail adres
babybo0@msn.com  .. the seconc 0 is a zero :) good luck .. i hope you make the right choice

 

Answer by Ally
Submitted on 8/5/2005
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can you get pregnat with using a condom with spermacide on it??

 

Answer by hiiii<3
Submitted on 8/7/2005
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I am also 13 and im not sure if im pregnet and im freaking out sence i messed up so much in my life already and i cant go to my mom and tell her im pregnet. I need a way to kill it with out an abortion. and something that will WORK or...knowing if u have to get the abortion with ur parents? or can it be a family member

 

Answer by Crystal
Submitted on 8/8/2005
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All I have to say is it is highly disapointing to come onto a website to see all the hateful things people actually can come up with to say. I trully think everyone with a negative response should be punished...what nerve of you to come on here and start talking down at her don't you think she feels bad enough that she feels comfortable coming to complete strangers and this is the kind of respose you have for her. I'm highly annoied and will not come back to this sight again. Your awfull people.

 

Answer by nicole
Submitted on 8/11/2005
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welll i think that u should keep the baby
cuz theres ppl out there who would do any thing to have a baby but can't . i know ur young but so m i , tbis baby is 1 of gods creaters n should be able 2 have a change to live . u bought this baby in 2 this world n u shouldn't kill it 4 no reason.

 

Answer by Broom
Submitted on 8/16/2005
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Just sit on a broomstick! OR
Train some ants to seek and destroy!

 

Answer by aka Becky*
Submitted on 8/17/2005
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Ok everyone in here whos being a total asshole and calling this a girl a slut or w.e is so judgemental...people are writing things here like they never did anything wrong when they were 13 .... i bet some of you even had sex when you were 13 .... i had sex at 13 (with a condom) and im still with my boyfriend (fiance) NOW there fore at age 26 im still with the same person ...  you people dont know her situation or her life .... STOP JUDGING HER !!!

 

Answer by involed 2
Submitted on 8/31/2005
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okay everyone has different opinions on what u should do. Drink vinegar if u want, talk to your parents, or do abortion, maybe adoption. Screw everybody!!!! Because their not u. Do want u won't because personally I wouldn't to bring a baby in this sick world of today anyways.

 

Answer by mommy-4-the-1st-time
Submitted on 9/1/2005
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I know I'm extremely late but I'm 17 y/o and I got pregnant at 16 i had a beautiful baby boy who is now 21/2 months old I AM TH MOST HAPPIEST PERSON ALIVE i would never in my right mind abort but I'm not here to judge just think about the baby's life(yes he is alive) have him and give him up but don't hurt him if i gave mine up  i would probably have been in a mental institute  life is precious think of the baby's and think of yours could live knowing that you hurt your own flesh and blood.and seriously i wasn't even thinking about sex at 13 but i did start at the age of 14 and i did get pregnant by someone who i love and will be marrying this month (sept.)

 

Answer by jessicabran
Submitted on 9/6/2005
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don't listen to the tripe from people who have regretted stuff themselves or are begging to have a baby and trying to push their views of god upon you. just trust yourself and do what is best for your life. there are thousands upon thousands of babies to adopt but there are so many people who don't take the hint when they can't conceive that they take it out on people who can but aren't ready to have children. don't let them affect you in making the decision that is best for you.

 

Answer by Star
Submitted on 9/7/2005
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hey, I'm 16. I'm 3 months pregnant and I have never thought of losing my baby. It is my fault that I'm pregnant. But I should of thought of that before I had sex and I didn't. I'm keeping my baby. If God knew you couldn't take care of the baby he would of never let you get pregnant. It is a really big gift from God. I know someone who cannot have a kid. She prays every night for it to happen. My parents was so mad at me when they found out I was pregnant. When I told my parents they were upset at me. But it made it easier on them to understand and they forgave me after a while. But tell your parents they will understand. They were your age once. If they find out on there own. it will make a bigger problem between you and your family. Tell them so they can help you make the right chose. Don't take an innocent child out of this world. Give it up to a family who would die to have a kid. Don't run from your problems. Face them so it will be easier on you. GOOD LUCK!!!  

 

Answer by lix
Submitted on 9/12/2005
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I agree use a coathanger and scrap the fetis away with all your problems.

 

Answer by Reality Check
Submitted on 9/13/2005
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For down girl 13yrs old
You made a mistake. Bringing another unwanted child into the world will be another mistake, one that will last your entire life. Get smart, tell your parents,, and get an abortion the safe way. You are clearly NOT ready to be a parent. LEARN from this mistake, and don't make it again! Don't have any more sex until you learn about yourself and the consequences of your actions.

For Netswan
It is idiots like you infesting the earth with more kids when we cannot take care of the children already on the planet that SHAME US ALL! You don't believe in birth control, started at 16, and and may have 20 by the time you're done? What kind of world are people like you creating for the children of the future? Get a cosmic clue by four!!!

 

Answer by Shorty
Submitted on 9/15/2005
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I don't won't this baby.

 

Answer by 63isghlgsd
Submitted on 9/15/2005
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hi I'm 9 and my moms 21 and you can email  her
bullturtlenumchucks@hotmail.com i think and shes nice but i don't live with her no more because shes dead

 

Answer by don'tworry
Submitted on 9/18/2005
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my friend was was overdosed by her boyfriend when she was at a party that guy looked like a good guy but that matha F***** wasnt,t so he rapped her when he put a T-BAR in her drink. She knew she was pregnant so she took vingear and it worked it dosen,t work that moment the baby will come out like if you were having your period but it,s not your period if you see a clog of blood it's the baby.

 

Answer by simran
Submitted on 9/19/2005
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listen girl i know wht u going through i had 2 abortions between the ages 14 n 16 now am 17 i think am pregnant again i got a nice job n a nice place n i dont wana destroy tht so am going for another abortion i regret every minute of it but life goes on!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by christophersgirl85
Submitted on 9/20/2005
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I think abortion is the stupidest decision in the world.  I was dating a guy one time who told me to abort our baby when I found out that I was pregnant.  I was so upset that it obviously caused me to have a miscarriage.  I would never sacrifice my life for someone else.  That baby deserves to live and so does every other baby in the world that gets aborted every day.  The parents should think before they act, like having sex at a young age, or even having sex when you are married and you know that you could never support a baby.  That is the parents faught and not the babys.  I am pregnant and would never even dream of killing my baby.  And to the person who said to use a coathanger, I wish the coathanger would've killed you instead of the baby.  You are very stupid!!!!!

 

Answer by communism...?
Submitted on 9/21/2005
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to For Netswan: what has this got to do with communism...?

 

Answer by J
Submitted on 9/21/2005
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I think personallyy you need to talk to a person you trust about this matter.Tale to a guidence counsellor or a good friend. This is your choice to make adopt , abort or keep the child.


Good luck and all I wish you all the best.

 

Answer by Tammy
Submitted on 9/22/2005
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Hey Girl,
Look I am now 22 years old i have been trying to have i baby since i was your age and i can't have a child. i'vebeen pregnant 5 times 3 miscarriages,1 tubal, 1 i carried her 6 months she was born premature and only lived 5 hours. so i have been trying to adopt a baby but there is so much to that but that is a chance i'mwilling to take to have a baby of my own to love and take care of the rest of my life thats my all time dream. so if i can help let me know, i'mhere for you and the baby.
if you need me to just talk to or be there for you i'mhere.
If you want me to take the baby and take care of it and give it a chance at life i will,i would never take it from you forever you could always be a part of its life, hey for that matter i'lltake both of you and raise both of you..lol  SO I'M HERE FOR YOU
PLEASE CONTACT ME....
MY E-MAIL IS...
ANGELEYES32206@YAHOO.COM
E-MAIL ME AND I'LL GIVE YOU MY HOME NUMBER OKAY...PLEASE

 

Answer by Momma Suzy
Submitted on 9/25/2005
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I think a lot of these answers were completly ingnorant. At 13, you are still under the care of your parents. You need to go to them, and find a soloution together. Whether it is adoption, abortion or keeping the baby. You and your parents can find a suitable way to deal with this. I can not believe some of the responses that were left on here. You all should be ashamed of yourselves. Someone comes on here asking for some real advice, and all you can do is give your pointless tactics. If you do not want to give real advice to someone, then don't post anything. You must have something better to do than to mentally ruin someones life by saying horrible things. You are in my prayers and I hope all works out for the best for you.

 

Answer by Calli
Submitted on 9/25/2005
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i think that all of this is wrong, i am a Budist and i think all of us who sin should mabye pay in another life..:) all!

 

Answer by MARZANNE
Submitted on 9/26/2005
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i WOULD LIKE TO ADOPT A BABY GIRL (I HAVE 2 SONS AGES 10 AND 4, AND ARE UNABLE TO ADOPT THROUGH CHILD WELFARE AS I ALLREADY HAVE 2 CHILDREN
I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A BABY GIRL

 

Answer by jeff
Submitted on 9/30/2005
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keep your legs closed , problem solved

 

Answer by Denise
Submitted on 10/1/2005
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Helo Love ! am 14 15 in novmeber crnt wait am with sum lad he's proper lovely i have sex like twice a day and hes bin usin a comdom but he stopet and dus shaged me with newt on but he blirted near my vagina so i think am pregant my mum and dad will kill me and me mum will neva talk 2 me and me dad will proper bata daryl wah do i do:( anyway love! u do ur self a favour ur 13 u make ur own mind up ignore all dese tooth-faced rat's they need 2 get a grip of there self's take care x

 

Answer by Karty-Kar
Submitted on 10/3/2005
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You shouldn't do something like that you will not forgive yourself.

 

Answer by soulonfire
Submitted on 10/4/2005
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who cares how anything is spelled? this young lady needs help, shes extremely worried. If you need advice from anyone don't listen to anyone here, go to someone whom is wise and important to you.Either that or go to a planned parenthood center and talk to one of the doctors. They know what to say and how to help you. Bless you, and may God help you in these worrisome times.

 

Answer by Desperate
Submitted on 10/4/2005
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What's so wrong with asking a question like that? I my-self would love an answer. I'm 16, have a 5 and a half month old son and, just found out that i'mpregnant again. I was on birthcontrol and my fiance wore two condoms. So what is a person who want'sto keep her family together and doesn't have the money for an abortion do? Someone please tell me!!

 

Answer by nena
Submitted on 10/4/2005
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im so impressed how women come together in situations like all of these, and help each other by typing your e-mail addresses to the public. i was just searching the internet and got here. i am also impressed of how many young girls need help out there. i am 18 years-old and i've had sex with my boyfriend, too. but he takes care of me. we've been going out for almost 2 years. i am so happy with him. I HAVE TESTED MY BOYFRIEND. I HAVE TOLD HIM THAT I AM SURE I AM PREGNANT just to see how he would truly respond to a situation like this and he said "well lets talk to your parents, i wont leave you,ever." he is a wonderful 20 year-old boy. we have a lot of communication and he respects me. YOU GIRLS OUT THERE TEST YOU BOYFRIENDS,TOO. FIND OUT WHO THEY TRULY ARE AND IF THEY WOULD BE WILLING TO STICK WITH YOU IN A SITUATION LIKE PREGNANCY. try my test, it could work. KEEP IT UP ALL YOU WOMEN OUT THERE!!! keep supporting each other and please dont abort. my mom wishes she had another baby. another thing all of you girls who are thinking of practicing an abortion, look at the abortion pictures on the internet IF YOU HAVE HEART YOU WILL NOT DO IT... ARRIBA LAS MUJERES.  

 

Answer by Princess
Submitted on 10/5/2005
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Look, I know that me and my fiance are trying to have a baby and can't. There are so many Couples out there who would love to have a baby but aren't able to. Then there are so many girls like you out there who think that abortion is the answer. Give someone the chance to experience the life of a child. Someone who can care and give that baby everything that it needs. The baby deserves to live. just like every other human being!
-Princess  

 

Answer by tina
Submitted on 10/6/2005
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what is wrong with you kid you shouldn't be having sex in the first place have a little respect for yourself..... killing a child won't get you anywheres in life i just had a miscarage and there is a possibility that i can't have kids you need to put it up for adopotion for ppl that can't have children killing a child is something you are going to regret and your mom she needs help she should have taught you some manners to you if i was your mom i would make you keep that baby and rise it since you want to have sex after the baby is born i would beat the hell out of you and wouldn't care if i went to jail.... your a SLUT!!! by the time your 20 your gunna have aids and other stuff if you keep doing what your doing!!!!

 

Answer by Mallory
Submitted on 10/12/2005
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your very lucky you know . ive tried plenty of times to get pregnant and it hasnt worked out for me . i hope youll do the right decision

 

Answer by Bob
Submitted on 10/12/2005
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Kill the baby.  I'm sure you will never dream of that child.  I'm sure you'll never wonder what that warm little bundle would look like in your arms, sleeping peacefully, smiling slightly as mother's face dances for the baby in dreamland.  I'm sure you'll never have to feel uncomfortable again.  If you do this, all of your troubles will go away, not just for now, but forever.  Your parents will never know or care, you will always make better decisions, but most of all, there are absolutely no reprecussions for your actions.  Cancer is not a factor.  You can feel free to know and understand that your decision only affected you and not anyone else.  It's just a lump of tissue.  Not a breating, thinking, feeling child that will yell 'Mommy!' when you come home at the end of a day.  You shouldn't feel bad because you will never suffer nightmares of killing a child.  Just kill the kid.

 

Answer by mommy of one
Submitted on 10/13/2005
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im am 19 years old and i thought that i would not get pregnant until i went to college and got married, but things happen if you are willing to lay on your back and have sex at a early age then you should  take the responsibility to be the mother you should be. I recently had a baby i got pregnant my senior year of school. the worst time but i wouldnt take it back for anything. why would you want to kill yourchild. At least give it up for adoption. your mother didnt have an abortion on you. it is the wrong thing to do. Its horrible. If you have the baby it would be a thing you wouldnt give up in the world. A child is a precious thing. It is gods gift.

 

Answer by Doris
Submitted on 10/13/2005
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I want to say if you want to kill your baby Kill it in your mind and let someone have the baby to take care and rise. There is alot of people out there that wants babys but can't have them. Don't kill someone because your not happy. Give that baby a change to grow up and have a life. I see this as if your going to fool around, you need to be woman and have that baby and love it for it.

 

Answer by premature_abortion
Submitted on 10/15/2005
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Use green porpor, papia. or a couple quick punches about 10kg force in the desired area. Good luck! Down to over population.

 

Answer by Callie Mc
Submitted on 10/15/2005
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I was 15 when I had my first baby, and I was lucky enough to have the father stick around. We are now married, and have 3 boys and one more baby on the way. The decision is going to be a tough one, but don't make the decision alone. I had both sets of parents to help me and I turned out to be a great mom. I couldn't imagine what my life would be like without each one of my kids. I miscarried last year and forever wonder what the gender was and why it happened. I had no control over that.....you do. There are so many people willing to adopt, and I think you would be the bravest person in the world if you could have the baby and give it up. My thoughts are with you.... Callie.

 

Answer by Cheese
Submitted on 10/17/2005
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i am pregnant and i know wot its like cause I'm13 my self i tried killing myself and it didn'twork i think u should try hanging it works great

i fink your all sluts and hoes and hope you suffer and die in labour

slut slut slut slut slut slut slut sluts sluts slut slut

 

Answer by adele simpson
Submitted on 10/19/2005
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To the girl who wrote in. First of do not listen to anyone of them people who are giving you bad advice such as using a coathanger or taking drugs. Talk to your parents or if your to scared to do that talk to someone you trust. Ive just turned 20 i had my little girl when i was 18 and i have no regrets. whatever your decision if you have a abortion do it the right way.Taking drugs to kill a baby is the wrong thing to do with no guarantee of it working but you will cause unnecessary suffering to that baby that is a person growing inside of you

 

Answer by Release.the.sluts.he.said
Submitted on 10/29/2005
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"And on the 8th day, God recieved a call at work from a pregnant 13 year old, and he said "SLUT!"


Whoever wrote that... that was fukking hilarious lmfao. Anywayz I don't know whut you are going to do but maybe you should be such a whore & think... thats my advice ^_^ Hope it helps!!

 

Answer by Charlie
Submitted on 11/4/2005
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I am a 27 year old pregnant mother of two. My husband and I are just now getting to the point where we are financially stable and I just found out that I am pregnant again. My husband is insisting that I have an abortion. We both have to work and we just can not afford day care for a baby! I do not want to have an abortion. He says that he refuses to be go through having another child and that he will divorce me if I decide to have this baby. Actually he acts as though I have no choice and is pressuring me into it. He told me that he regrets having the children that we already have even though he loves them. I do not know what to do? I can not afford 3 kids on my own and am scared to death but know that adoption is not an option for me either. I love being a mom and the moment I saw my baby there would be no way I could give it up. If any of you have any advice I would greatly appreciate it.

 

Answer by LOVEMAKER
Submitted on 11/5/2005
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I DON'T HAVE ANYTHING RUDE TO SAY BECAUSE I'M FIFTHTEEN YRS OLD AND I'M PREGNANT TOO.
I FOUND YOUR STORY ON THE INTERNET BY SEARCHING A WAY TO ABORT MY PREGNANCY. I AM ALSO CONFUSED,  SCARED, AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO AND ABORTION SOUNDS GOOD RIGHT NOW

 

Answer by dont worry
Submitted on 11/6/2005
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all i cud really say 2 help u is get punched really hard n the stomach or fall down some stairs ( u still will have the baby but it will b dead and in the from it was at in the stomach ) . good luck

 

Answer by annonomous
Submitted on 11/7/2005
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i am appaled at half of the things ppl have to say on here. i am young also and i never thought that i would begin having sex until i am married but things just dont work out that way.. there were ppl that touched me without the knowledge of doing so and things like this are going to happen!!

girl, i am in the same position you are or were i should stay.. i dont really have advice for you because i am looking for some of my own.. so i will email these ppl tonight or soon and get the answers that i despretly need...

ive always been against abortion but now that i put myself in this position i am reconsidering...

 

Answer by losted in ohio
Submitted on 11/9/2005
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Hi there I know how you feel i'm 16 and in the same stop as you. I don't want to hurt my baby. I wanted this more then anything. I thought it was the only thing to keep me here on earth. Once I became pregnant.  I was so happy I told you b/f to he was also happy.About two months later I realized by something my mom said ( i hadnt told her yet) that i was way to young and poor. I told my b/f we had to kill it And we did. At the time it seemed best for the baby. Its was the most hardest thing in my life i had to do    I WISH I WOULD OF THOUGHT ABOUT GIVING THE BABY UP BEFOR I DID IT!!!!! 8(  There isn't a day that goes by I dont think of what and where it would be.  We were going to name it  JADEN TALYOR    thank for reading    8: ..(      TEARS  WE LOVE YOU JADEN  LOVE MOMMY AND DADDY   KISS GOOD NIGHT

 

Answer by Leslie
Submitted on 11/16/2005
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My husband and I cannot have children we are in our 30's and have an adopted son Jonathan we will be  more than happy to take care of you and adopt your child so that you can avoid the whole abortion thing.

 

Answer by HELP
Submitted on 11/17/2005
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help me someone tell me how to kill my baby?

 

Answer by Eve
Submitted on 11/21/2005
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Your 13 Right And thinking of an Abortion well i'm13 but live in england and know exactly  what you mean i had my baby and hes great he is comming up to 4 months now and he crys during the night but we have bonded and it even help me and my parents bond also my boyfriend the babys dad is alwase here he comes round everyday and is thinking of moving in with my family!!!! so it does work out

 

Answer by Girl
Submitted on 11/21/2005
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I know where your coming from, but my only thing is I'm 17 and I've had 2 abortions already and I know that's bad but think about me being 17 w/ 2 kids that's even worst, but I'm pregnant again, I can't tell my mom because she's going to put me out and I could go live with my boyfriend but I really don't want to, please if you have advice for me QueenieBlack1216@aol.com

 

Answer by knows something
Submitted on 11/21/2005
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ive just read all these answers and cannot believe how no one can give this girl a straight answer...i am 16 and looking for the same answer...if i find out i am pregnant i have no problem in killing it...it would ruin my life and i know that! i have a long term boyfriend but we know we just arent ready for a child. we arent idiots though we use condoms but one broke! this girl wanted to know how to kill it not advice on where to put it once she had it!

 

Answer by soon to be mom
Submitted on 11/22/2005
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THIS IS A SICK AND TWISTED QUESTION, I DON'T UNDERSTAND SOME OF THE ANSWERS GIVEN! I THINK YOU NEED MENTAL HELP.... YOU ARE THIRTEEN AND WANT TO COMMIT MURDER! ITS SO SAD HOW CORRUPT OUR WORD IS!!! IT ACTUALLY BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYES!

 

Answer by lalala
Submitted on 11/23/2005
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god hatezzzz you

 

Answer by yasmin
Submitted on 11/25/2005
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girl..i have the same problem has you.i'am16 years old and i'ampregnant.i have 2 month of pregnant,and iam looking for a way to kill my baby,not by abortion.and i need someone to tell me what can i do...please...

 

Answer by Me
Submitted on 11/26/2005
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Just give me a call and i'll come along and kill the baby for if you want. It just takes a good Punch to the stomach.  :)

          ME :)

 

Answer by Day
Submitted on 11/28/2005
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hey babe, im in the same situation you are. im 15. and i dont wanna baby. smoke, drink, and drink vinigar. and take hormone pills. it will help your misscarrage. goodluck hun. my prayers are with you.

 

Answer by Chia
Submitted on 11/30/2005
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Haha I laughed when I saw the "J" to.

 

Answer by Angel
Submitted on 12/7/2005
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Im 21 weeks & I Don't want this baby.

Ive read you can buy the abortion pill online, But Im too far gone now.


angpatric3@aol.com

 

Answer by ScienceGuy
Submitted on 12/7/2005
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God didn't give her that baby.

Science did.

Get over it.

C4 will fix it all.

 

Answer by Ginger_Pop
Submitted on 12/7/2005
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Do get so mad everyone its just a Fetus...plus its her business, so don't call her slut, maybe she's not ready for kids

 

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Submitted on 12/8/2005
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Answer by Real
Submitted on 12/12/2005
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ok people on here are not answering her question, im 16 and my girlfriend is 15 and she thinks she could be pregnant, and we are trying to figure out ways to get rid of it, of course we feel bad, but the baby is not aware of anything right now in a stomach, but im not sure on how to just get rid of it? maybe hitting it? i have heard tumbling will kill it, but not sure, i would just try hitting it! sorry this was long but i wanted to actually answer your question

 

Answer by stuff
Submitted on 12/14/2005
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punch your stomach until you have a miscarriage.

 

Answer by LostInHoplessness
Submitted on 12/18/2005
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hunnie... ive had 2 miscarriages.. a baby is a blessing ,u shouldnt want to kill it. and really u shouldnt have sex when ur 13 , i have no right to say ,im 17.misscarried at 15, and 16. i loved both my baby gurls. its a sad thing and im still not over it. i dream about it ,imforever huanted and forever in doubt. is there something wrong with me? i loved my babys more then the world and myself , id do enything to have them back.please dont try to kill ur baby , who knows ,this might be the only one u could have , u only have one chance to make things right , dont kill ur baby. u never no, u might grow to love it asmuch as i loved my aby gurls

 

Answer by SanePerson
Submitted on 12/18/2005
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Hey. Sorry about all the weirdos that replied to your post, you've probably had to do something by now but if anyone in your shoes is reading this heres some GOOD advice. In the first trimester it may bring on a miscarriage to go without eating for a few days or by smoking large amounts of cigarettes. You can try those if you really want but they are not healthy options. A better idea to end your pregnancy without having to tell anyone or get tangled up in parental- consent laws, depending on what state you're in, is to travel to a state such as Connecticut where it is legal to have an abortion without parental consent. Abortions are expensive, especially further on in pregnancy, so it is best to act fast. Check out the National Network of Abortion Funds for help financing an abortion, they typically cost $300 +.

 

Answer by katherine B.K.A
Submitted on 12/21/2005
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OK WHERE DO I START OF I STARTED HAVING SEX WHEN I WAS 14 AND WHAT PEOPLE CALL ME A SLUT LOOSE VAGINA ANYTHING BABY I DON'T GIVE A BIG DAMN...I GOT PREGNANT WHEN I WAS 15 AND HAD AN ABORTION GUESS WAT I'M HAPPY I KILLED THAT BABY I DIDN'T WANT TO HAVE A BABY FROM A BOY I DON'T LIKE OR LOVE NOMORE....YES I GOT THE BALLS TO OPEN MY LEG AND A PENIS IN MY VAGINA OH HELL YEA IT FEELS GOOD BUT IT A SCARY EXPERIENCE'S WHEN U FIND U PREGNANT OR THINK U PREGNANT GIRL GO AHEAD AND HAVE THE ABORTION IT MIGHT NOT HAUNT CAUSE IT DON'T HAUNT ME I'M HAPPY I'M PROUD I KEEP HAVING SEX WITH MY BOYFRIEND.... THINK I'M PREGNANT NOW I WENT TO SEARCH AND LOOK FOR HOW TO KILL BABY BECAUSE I WANNA KILL MY BABY AGAIN WITHOUT HAVING AN ABORTION....CAUSE I DON'T WANNA TELL MY MOMMA.......BUT LET ME TELL YA PEOPLE CALL ME ALL U WANT I DON'T A F***.....GIRL GO AHEAD AND HAVE THE ABORTION........

 

Answer by mandy
Submitted on 12/26/2005
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girl I'm 12 and i am 2 months pregnant and i an soo scared to tell everyone and know what to do plez for me just hang on

 

Answer by hey......
Submitted on 12/29/2005
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what was that about vinegar? Does that work? How much would a person drink?

 

Answer by whore
Submitted on 12/30/2005
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kill yourself

 

Answer by lovablechinesebabe
Submitted on 1/4/2006
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you could try throwing yourself down the stairs.my great grandma in china use to tell me when i was little that the one thing that will kill an unborn baby is  just having a herd of buffalo stampede your stomach, it worked for me. i hope you kill your baby and everything works out for you luv ya babe

 

Answer by pimpett
Submitted on 1/4/2006
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so yeah me and my gf had sex and now we have taken 6 tests 3 positive and 3 negative

 

Answer by Liz
Submitted on 1/7/2006
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Anyone who tells this person things that make her feel any worse than she already feels....YOU NEED TO DIE!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by aslkdfjlsd
Submitted on 1/8/2006
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Honey--
I am 15 and I could be pregnant. It took one simple mistake with 7 bottles of beer and a joint and BAM-- I was on a bed with someone I barely knew. I don't believe I am pregnant but unsafe sex at ANY AGE is horrible. Just do what you think is right. Get some help. Do what you have to do...

 

Answer by a girl who went through hell
Submitted on 1/9/2006
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im sorry to hear you are going throught this, when i was 14 i became pregnant through a condom leaking, i didnt think to take the morning after pill coz i didnt know it had leaked, i was 4 months pregnant and planing to have a baby when my boyfriend at the time got into a fight with another guy, they fort and i got nocked down a flight of stairs, i sat there in agony as i bleed, i was taken to hospital but they couldnt help me baby. im 17 now and i wish i had my baby, dont hurt him/her, babys are the most important thing in the world
adopt him or her, there are hundreds of couples who cant have babys and wopuld love them, please dont kill the baby, i know its hard but please dont do it.

 

Answer by a girl who went through hell
Submitted on 1/9/2006
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im sorry to hear you are going throught this, when i was 14 i became pregnant through a condom leaking, i didnt think to take the morning after pill coz i didnt know it had leaked, i was 4 months pregnant and planing to have a baby when my boyfriend at the time got into a fight with another guy, they fort and i got nocked down a flight of stairs, i sat there in agony as i bleed, i was taken to hospital but they couldnt help me baby. im 17 now and i wish i had my baby, dont hurt him/her, babys are the most important thing in the world
adopt him or her, there are hundreds of couples who cant have babys and wopuld love them, please dont kill the baby, i know its hard but please dont do it.

 

Answer by bob
Submitted on 1/11/2006
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bhibjohmlkn

 

Answer by Just Think
Submitted on 1/13/2006
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Well I think you should first pray and see whats the best decision. I think that you do not want to abort. Maybe you are simply a bit scared. You made a mistake by having sex at age 13.God gave you that piece of heaven so that you may take care of it. He(the baby) can't decide but, just because he can't decide doesn't mean you have the right to kill it. Don't listen to all those dumb advices of killing it. If you don't want it give it on adoption. Thats better!

 

Answer by Caro
Submitted on 1/13/2006
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I've got a comment to all the people one here WANTING TO ADOPT!

you say you can't have a kid and want one or know someone that wants one. have any of you considered going over to CHINA and adopting a little asian girl? It's a good way to get a child, and it's good to prevent another child from working in slave-labor.

So if you AREN'T picky and don't care if your adopted child is the same "color" as you or not, then PLEASE, by all means, look into adopting a little chinese girl so she doesn't have to work in a sweat-shop making products for NIKE or somethin'. There are boys too, but mostly girls.

<3

 

Answer by andrew
Submitted on 1/16/2006
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pregnant teen

 

Answer by AmIgoingtopayforthis
Submitted on 1/17/2006
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Scared outa my mind,don't feel bad because just last Saturday i did the same. I am 17 and i had sex for the first time and without me or my bf thinking we didn't use protection. The good thing is we think he pulled out in time, but i haven't had my period and was suppose to start some time this week. I have been so scared to deaf, i let him know the other day so in case i was. To me i am still too young to have a child, but I'mhoping it is just stress for the reason why i haven't started yet. But i know for one thing, next time i have sex with him i will think twice before doing it without protection. I'm not saying I'mpregnant but it could be a good chance, but I'mwaiting it out, and if i am i am going to be the best mother i can be. But if not i am going to wait until I'mout of my teen years to have fun, as most people say.

 

Answer by SWEET16
Submitted on 1/17/2006
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LOOK I WOULD IKE TO SAY I KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH BUT I CANT IM 16 AND I STILL HAVEN'T HAD SEX BUT THAT ISNT A BAD THING I DONT WANT TO END UP PREGNANT I WANT A LIFE A HEAD OF ME NOT JUST NAPPIES AND SLEEPLESS NIGHTS I THINK IF YOU ARE REALLY PREGNANT YOU SHOULD TELL YOU MUM OR GP AND ASK FOR ADVICE MAYBE ABORTION OR ABORTION ISNT A BAD THING

 

Answer by someone
Submitted on 1/17/2006
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I dont think that it right that you would want to kill a poor little baby inside of you, that is just wrong. If you dont want a baby, then dont go out and have sex with guys that you dont know. So i would think befor you do!

 

Answer by killthebaby
Submitted on 1/18/2006
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i hate babys too. i wish they could all just get lit on fire and burn, but i bet they would smell like strawberrys

 

Answer by fruitcy
Submitted on 1/22/2006
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Dear God,
Please be with this young lady.  Do not let her do anything that would cause harm to her unborn child or herself.  Please dear Merciful God give her guidance in the situation.  Let the results be favorable and that no negativity would stem from the situation.  Please forgive her and may she live a productive life.  God Bless You


Fruitcy

 

Answer by i am god
Submitted on 1/26/2006
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well, there are a few things you could do, well first off there are guns, knives, pills, poison, snakes, and last but certainly not least, there's me. so if you need any help fed ex the thing to me.

 

Answer by you friendly neighborhood blackguy
Submitted on 1/26/2006
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Hey so I hear you're a slut! Wanna go do it?

 

Answer by YoungGurl`
Submitted on 1/27/2006
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okay people out their please help me bc i am 15 years old and pregnant and dont want to be and cant tell my parents bc they will literally kill me. Trust me you dont know my parents and if you did you prolly wouldnt know what to do either. So i am 5 weeks and scared to have an abortion bc im scared i will increase the risk of my parents finding out!!and death. My parents wont understand about me being pregnant bc i have disappointed them to much already and aint strong enough to hurt them nemore!They sort of like my boyfriend but he is 17 and they have limited and STRICT line of boundaries for us. As far as i think they hate him and him getting me pregnant my dad will prolly kill him and my mom already threaten to PRESS CHARGES!!!or put him in jail?can she do that and keep him away from the baby! or away from me! i mean i am 15 and can make my own choices but they treat me like im 2 years old and i cant stand it! then sometimes when i wanna run away my mom threatens to call the cops on me! but i really really love my boyfriend and wanna be with him for as long as possible..especially if im pregnant!!i dont know what to do some please help me!!BECAUSE i cant turn to my parents and dont have medical insurance or health either so i cant pay for an abortion either!!!PLEASE HELP!!

 

Answer by Don
Submitted on 1/28/2006
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Send me an email at gensou.us@gmail.com if you ever fell like getting laid again. ;)


On the current subject:  Coathanger in the bathroom. Never tell your parents.

 

Answer by Some Guy
Submitted on 1/28/2006
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Have you tried eating the fetus? That's a good way to dispose of 'em.

 

Answer by I speak for GameFAQs
Submitted on 1/28/2006
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Suicide is clearly your only option. Or you could do a barrel roll.

 

Answer by dsfds
Submitted on 1/28/2006
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dsfdsfs

 

Answer by LUEshi
Submitted on 1/28/2006
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Oh Em Gee!

 

Answer by SilenceImmortal
Submitted on 1/28/2006
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I 2nd the coat hanger.

Flight of stairs is nice too though.

 

Answer by Your fetus
Submitted on 1/28/2006
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YOU REMOVE THAT POWER DRILL FROM YOUR SPECIAL SPOT RIGHT NOW

 

Answer by dad
Submitted on 1/28/2006
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smash its head with a hammer

 

Answer by Sweetgb2001
Submitted on 1/30/2006
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PLEASE DONT LISTEN TO HALF OF THESE SAD IDIOTS WHO DONT KNOW WHAT THE HELL THEY ARE SAYING!

AND PLEASE YOU HAVE TO KNOW YOUR NOT A SLUT AND ITS WRONG FOR SOME IDIOTS ON HERE TO SAY THAT AND JUDGE YOU WHEN THEY DONT KNOW YOU, AND WHEN YOU WAS ONLY ASKING FOR HELP.

YOU MUST SPEAK TO SOMEONE IF NOT YOUR PARENTS THEN SOMEONE ELSE LIKE AN AUNT, FRIENDS OR SOMEONE!

IF YOU NEED ANY HELP OR JUST SOMEONE TO TALK TO PLEASE EMAIL sweetgb2001@hotmail.com ME IM ALWAYS HERE TO LISTEN WITHOUT JUDGING AND PLEASE PLEASE DONT GET RID OF THE BABY AFTER ALL IF YOU DO NOT WANT IT THEN I WILL LOOK AFTER HIM/HER FOR YOU, I ALREADY HAVE ONE OF MY OWN!

Kelly

 

Answer by god fearer
Submitted on 1/30/2006
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the lord will frown on you. when you are able to have a baby you want be. you are olny 13

 

Answer by Dead baby killer
Submitted on 2/1/2006
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Kill Yourself.

 

Answer by Tasha
Submitted on 2/4/2006
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hia girlies im 16 n ive bin goinout wiv mi bf 4 ova 6munths mi mum took me 2 the clinic 2 get protectd jst so i dnt av any mistakes!!
bt the otha week i had unprotectd sex wiv im 4  the 1st tym eva n he was mi 1st iswell i am l8 4 mi period n me 2 i am scared n gt papranoid n any 1 hu wants 2 talk im ere 4 ya minky54321carthew@hotmail.com if ya jst wana chat n b happy lol
thanx

 

Answer by brandy
Submitted on 2/4/2006
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no one should want to kill a baby. that baby did not ask to be brought into this world and you should not take it out.  to all you people that may not understand or do research think i lost my baby when i was 16 weeks pregnant and i had the chance to see him he was completly developed you com tell the sex see his eyes,hands,feet and all other parts we even had the chance to count fingers and toes. i really wanted my baby and instead of bringing him home from the hospital we had to get the funeral home to pick him up and the next day we had to go to the cemetary and bury our baby that we wanted to have at home with us.    remember from my heart to yours please think before you kill a baby that would love to live a life instead of abortion  think adoption.
i hope my story can change your mind when thinking about adoption  

            

 

Answer by baby mama @14
Submitted on 2/5/2006
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give it up for an adoptions because if you don't you will be sorry!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by irish
Submitted on 2/7/2006
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Kill Yourself!  If you die the baby also will.  And at least you won't have the opportunity to get knocked up again and kill another one.

 

Answer by mommy2be
Submitted on 2/14/2006
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you will go to jail

 

Answer by Erich
Submitted on 2/17/2006
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LOOK if you want to get rid of somthing you can't take care of do this. But if you want to get rid of it cuz you just don't want it just listen. IF you have birth control pills take some of those and some uppers or downers or codine. Or get drunk and take some blood thinners. You can just take pills and mix the pills with opposite pills or drink with them. Opposite pills like example xanx with uppers. Get drunk and take some codine.If your under 3 months do this and if your not listen to what i have to say. ITz gunna be hard to do it but. you have to nearly overdose with pills. Or just do uppers and lots of downers. BUT LISTEN TO THIS IF YOU TAKE MORE UPPERS THEN DOWNERS YOU HAVE THE LARGE CHANCE OF DIEING. But just think of those pills in your house and make your own combination. thats all. don't listen to those fags up there i've helped kill "cells" before. so do it if you can't take care of it on by your own selves. but if you can do it on your own or if both of you are there well i'm prodeath. we're over populated and well kill 1/3 of the human population and we all will be fine. so bi bi .

 

Answer by fidget
Submitted on 2/23/2006
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Hey what ever you do don't get an abortion I was 17 when I got pregnant and let me tell you my little girl has saved my life more times then I can think of. She is almost three and I thank the lord every day for her. You will be able to make it all you need to do is believe. I know that sounds crazy and I got it out of a book but let me tell you I have been there and I know what you are going through. I would say have your baby and screw what every one else says I have done it for almost three years on my own and her father decided to come around and he realized that he was missing out on the best thing of his life his daughter so don't let any one tell you what to do. You need to believe in yourself if you want to get any where in life. contact me if you wanna chat. mford10307@hotmail.com

 

Answer by Ladybug
Submitted on 2/23/2006
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I am also 13 and i just had sex with my ex_boyfriend Cortni. He didn't use a condom because he didn't have one and he said that he was smart enough to pull it out when he was cum-ming. and like a dummy i believed him. Now I'm getting bigger every day and I'VE been craving for pickles and orange juice since i don't know when. I need to know about the best home-abortion it is.

 

Answer by hannah
Submitted on 2/25/2006
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Everyone calling her a slut. Shut up. She made a mistake . You don't know her you don't know if shes a slut or not. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU SHOULD DO FOR YOURSELF. TELL YOUR PARENTS AND GET AN ABORTION HAVING THE BABY COULD RUIN YOUR LIFE. ITS NOT NICE TI KILL A BABY BUT YOUR THIRTEEN THERE IS NO WAY YOU CAN  HAVE THIS BABY. GET THE ABORTION AS SOON AS POSSIBLE

 

Answer by justagirl15
Submitted on 2/27/2006
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i have a big problem, i am 15 yrs old and pregnant i need the baby to die i cant tell no one i dont know what to do can someone help me does an abortion cost money? how much? pleeeeeeeeease!!

 

Answer by Well, what's done is done
Submitted on 2/28/2006
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The best thing to do is to actually contact a professional, he / she will not judge you on this and can give you the right advice.  It maybe or maybe not that you should have this baby.. i.e. there may be risks at giving birth if your physical conditions are not good.

I hope you find a good solution and that you have a happy life :-)

 

Answer by Some guy
Submitted on 3/1/2006
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Slice the baby on separate parts and eat it. Then the rest of it you can put in the freezer and you will have some healthy own-blood food for at least 5 days.

 

Answer by .xWindowPanex.
Submitted on 3/5/2006
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hey, i think you should talk to an adult about it, don't kill the baby lots of couples would love to be blessed with a child but they can't because of all sortsof reasons. I'm 15 and i think i could be pregnant too, yes im worried to hell about it cos i dont want to be but if the outocme of it is yes i am then i have to keep it not just for my sake but for the babies and my boyfriends. I'm sure your parents would forgive you, at the end of the day they can only look down on it as a blessing as they have a grandchild .x.X

 

Answer by pooh
Submitted on 3/6/2006
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hey..i have had 1 miscarriage and I'm 15yrs old..and those are really painfull i don't think u want to kill ur baby..just follow ur heart if ur babys daddy is around then tell his ass to get a job and help..the 1st thing u should do is tell ur parents,so they can take u to the doctor's and maybe even help take care of that baby!! take care all of y'all and hope that everything works out good!

 

Answer by Im a guy in distress
Submitted on 3/7/2006
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someone help me ..my gf just got some blood in her panites and it has been like 10 days after..what does this mean..someone plz answer quick

 

Answer by Jenn
Submitted on 3/8/2006
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i think that you should not abort the baby because it is still a beating heart and what if you are caring someone who could change the world; there is another solution to this give it up for a adotion i bet there is a  family out there that would love to have child of there own. all i can say is that no one can tell you the right answer or give you the answer. and also in the bible it say that you should not kill!!!!!

 

Answer by Dr.Forshee
Submitted on 3/9/2006
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Hello, I would give you some advice, however, i am not persuading you to get an abortion, but Vitiman C because of the ascorbic acid contained in Vitiman C and the herb parsley works even better when mixed and this creates something similar to the "Pill" but is not as effective but its what most of you would want to hear instead of persacution from other but it is the safest way to have an abortion at home and is painless, trust me I'm a doctor at a Health Clinic for 11 years now and I have studied many way's to do this for teens who cannont get one done because of parantel concent and I do not want them injuring themselves trying to have a forced abortion on themselves so I'm just offering advice on ways to have one without hurting yourselves, because if i go against it you will still find a way if you have that set in your mind so just do it the safe way oh yeah and make sure that the vitiman C you obtain contains ascrobic acid (almost a form of spermacide/noxol-9) or it will not work.  Hope I can be of help to all of you

 

Answer by wweeeooo!
Submitted on 3/10/2006
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VAGINA I LOVE IT MMMM BABY

 

Answer by Paulsmommy
Submitted on 3/12/2006
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Wow, first of all I would like to say to all of you rude people. Get the hell away from here. Obviously these girls are coming here looking for some sort of support. And if they wanted your sort of crap they could get that anywhere.

Having a baby at such a young age doesn't ruin your life or screw you up. It only does if you let it. I found that it just put my life slightly on hold. I was fifteen when I got pregnant with my son. He will be four this summer. I love him to pieces and wouldn't trade him for anything. I went through so many emotional ups and downs though through out my pregnancy. My boyfriend who promised to always love me and stay with me dumped when I was only four months along because he decided that he was too young to be a dad. I had briefly thought about abortion but I just couldn't bring myself to murdering my baby. And then there was good old adoption. I sometimes wish that I had done it because it can be real rough. There isn't anything really tough about being a parent. But if you are a party person that all has to stop. You can't just get up and go whenever you want or spend your money on stupid junk. Being a parent is an actual job. And the people that say it isn't hard work seriously need a good talking too with my fist. There is nothing easy about parenting. It is very rewarding and gets easier as you go about it. For example potty training was hell but now at least I don't have to buy diapers.
My babies father is never around. Never really has been. We haven't had any actual contact for a while. Except for when he gets mad and e-mails me saying that he is going to take Paul away. But that never goes anywhere because he is now a dead beat drug addict.
His little sister just had a baby a couple of months ago and she is only fourteen. She gave her baby up though. Says that it just kills her inside but she knows that it was for the better because there family is no place to raise a baby.
So all in all, it is your personal choice. But I would highly suggest adoption over abortion. And if you are thinking of keeping your baby, don't get discouraged. It is hard. But not impossible. And the more fun things in life just have to wait but they are not out of reach.

 

Answer by Sarahck
Submitted on 3/13/2006
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my email is sarahck92@yahoo.com

PLEASE HELP ME




 

Answer by shaun balintine
Submitted on 3/13/2006
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My darling, the easist way that i know of, that is for the most part, undecitable and consiterd an accident in most cases...Is fall down the steps. Making sure to smash your stomich on every one on the way down. Anouther way would be to use the new piece of technoligy invented by my firm, The Baby Smasher. All you need is any kind of drill, be it cordless or with cord. You attach out Baby Smasher to the end, stick it in your sewer of a vagina and just drill away. you can make your own at home to!!! All you need is a metal hanger. just chuck it up into the drill, bend it around a bit, and DRILL AWAY!!!!!!.... after you are done get a shop-vac and just suck out the remaining baby-slop. And thats it!!!!! you have just smashed your first baby!!!! o and go have sex with dogs to.  
           -Love
               Shaun Balintine
               Perryopolis, Pa 15473
               724-736-4025

 

Answer by nicmomy
Submitted on 3/13/2006
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stop having sex my gf is having a baby and  ruined her life she is kicked out of her house and now lives on the streets and shes only 14. i love her but i cant help her. and she going to use a caot hanger to kill if im scared if she going to hurt herself. i wish she wouldnt.

 

Answer by red
Submitted on 3/16/2006
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i think im prgnant...plaese healp me i cant have no baby right now...and i cant tell my mom i need help please

contact me at dime82287@yahoo.com

 

Answer by GOD
Submitted on 3/17/2006
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NOW the baby has to be a couple of years old just drop it down the stairs and say you tripped

 

Answer by stephanie
Submitted on 3/18/2006
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hey its gonna be ok im 15 and pregnant my boyfriend dont want to have the baby but its not there choice its ours the females the one with the baby inside of us. Wat u need to do is sit down n think do u want a baby one of your own instead of seeing other babbies n sayin aww how cute now if u have it people can say that to your baby or do u just want to git rid of it so u can finish school then have one and i dont know about u but if i have my baby i wont be able to give it up. but when u do decide if u decide to git an abortion read about them first n if u decide to keep it first sit down with the daddy of the baby and tell him say its my desion im the one pregnant u got me pregnant now suffer with the consciences wat ever u do congragulations

 

Answer by Ms.T
Submitted on 3/19/2006
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GIRL WAS HAPPENEN I AM 4MONTHS PREGNANT AND I AM 18 ABOUT TO BE 19, DOING THINGS SUCH AS FINDIN A WAY TO END YOUR BABY LIFE IS NOT SUCH A GOOD IDEA BUT I WAS KINDA IN YOUR SHOES BECAUSE I THOUGHT ABOUT AN ABORTION BUT THEN AGAIN I WAS TO SCARED TO MAKE A CHOICE LIKE THAT, SO THE CHOICE I DID MAKE I HAPPEN TO BE FINALLY HAPPY WITH AND THAT WAS KEEPIN MY BABY, PLEASE JUST KEEP THE BABY EVEN IF YOU WOULD JUST HAVE TO GIVE YOUR BABY TO SOMEONE UNTIL U FILL READY TO TAKE ON RESPONSIBILITES PLEEEEASE

 

Answer by Ms.T
Submitted on 3/19/2006
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GIRL WAS HAPPENEN I AM 4MONTHS PREGNANT AND I AM 18 ABOUT TO BE 19, DOING THINGS SUCH AS FINDIN A WAY TO END YOUR BABY LIFE IS NOT SUCH A GOOD IDEA BUT I WAS KINDA IN YOUR SHOES BECAUSE I THOUGHT ABOUT AN ABORTION BUT THEN AGAIN I WAS TO SCARED TO MAKE A CHOICE LIKE THAT, SO THE CHOICE I DID MAKE I HAPPEN TO BE FINALLY HAPPY WITH AND THAT WAS KEEPIN MY BABY, PLEASE JUST KEEP THE BABY EVEN IF YOU WOULD JUST HAVE TO GIVE YOUR BABY TO SOMEONE UNTIL U FILL READY TO TAKE ON RESPONSIBILITES

 

Answer by Ms.T
Submitted on 3/19/2006
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GIRL WAS HAPPENEN I AM 4MONTHS PREGNANT AND I AM 18 ABOUT TO BE 19, DOING THINGS SUCH AS FINDIN A WAY TO END YOUR BABY LIFE IS NOT SUCH A GOOD IDEA BUT I WAS KINDA IN YOUR SHOES BECAUSE I THOUGHT ABOUT AN ABORTION BUT THEN AGAIN I WAS TO SCARED TO MAKE A CHOICE LIKE THAT, SO THE CHOICE I DID MAKE I HAPPEN TO BE FINALLY HAPPY WITH AND THAT WAS KEEPIN MY BABY, PLEASE JUST KEEP THE BABY EVEN IF YOU WOULD JUST HAVE TO GIVE YOUR BABY TO SOMEONE UNTIL U FILL READY TO TAKE ON RESPONSIBILITES

 

Answer by READ THIS!
Submitted on 3/20/2006
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Wow okay for all you people putting this girl down and saying all this stuff like just shut the hell up. If you were in her shoes how would u feel hearing all this. Exactly thats what i thought you wouldn't like it, So i suggest u all grow up and if u don't have any "GOOD" advice don't give any at all!

 

Answer by A GUY
Submitted on 3/20/2006
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ok ok. most of u are probably thinking since im a guy i dont know anything about women and stuff. i know what you should do, live with it. it is a human being and it is your fault for receiving it, so do not kill it. first of all, you shouldnt be having sex at 13. im not just talking to down girl, but all of you who were pregnant at an early age.  plz pray to God and accept Him as your Saviour. it will help

 

Answer by jessica
Submitted on 3/21/2006
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i also had gotten pregnant at age 13 it is hard.but not the end of the world i would have never thought of doing what u are asking
. I did think of adoption option .to have that option is a great thing. I chose to have my baby i made my bed and i slept in it.i know have a smart pretty 10 year old little girl. i gave birth to her 8 days after my 14th B-day.It was hard and i didn't have much support my family and her father wanted me  to have an abortion.But i gave my little girl the chance of life.finished school went to collage. bought a home and gave her 3 brothers and a great step father. and u can to or give her to someone who can.i want you to go to this web sight and really think of what you are doing www.abortiontv.com...

 

Answer by Stephanie143Mark
Submitted on 3/21/2006
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Hey hunny my name is Stephanie, I am 18 years old I just found out I am 13 weeks pregnant. I am very scared but think of the long term effects of what your thinking about doing. Im keeping my baby because it is my fault I got pregnant not the unborn childs. There is lots of people that can help you. I havent told my parents yet and im sure they will be upset to. Please dont hurt yourself or this child. midy77@aol.com is my email if you want to talk .

 

Answer by jess
Submitted on 3/22/2006
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just have the baby

 

Answer by rich
Submitted on 3/24/2006
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talk to your parents dont kill the  baby

 

Answer by morgan
Submitted on 3/26/2006
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go to the clinic. search the web. good luck

 

Answer by sorry
Submitted on 3/27/2006
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I was going through the same thing i am 13 and i might be pregnant I'm so scared and i didn't know what to do i was confused but i made my mind up that i was going to keep my baby and then i fell i was terrified i went to the doctor and lost my baby. One side of me was kinda happy and the other side was sad i really didn't need a baby in my life but i new since i laid down i had to get up with the responsibility. It was hard but I knew that God had to do what he had to do. So it was all in his hands now and i am glad that i no my child is somewhere good with someone who will take care of him as much as i could have

 

Answer by Jaay
Submitted on 4/2/2006
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I use to believe in abortion until I saw exactly what they did and no matter how you look at it it's murder.  Funny how Americans use abortion as a means to birth control.  You know before you have unprotected sex the consequences and I think just because a child doesnt fit your lifestyle you should not be allowed to get an abortion its sickening.  If you believe in the word of god for those of you who acknowledge him you'd know that its a human being from the time of conception.  The word says he who committs murder has no everlasting life in him.  Stop having risky sex and you wont have to consider murdering a baby.

 

Answer by you people are horrible
Submitted on 4/3/2006
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the poor girl came on here for help and all you guys can do is call her a slut and whore and how the hell do you all know she's loose? have you done her? no. so stfu. Listen hun, im 16 years old and have had the pregnancy scare twice. thank the great god above, they were just false alarms. If you really dont want to have the baby, im not for abortion unless for a good reason. your not a whore and not a slut. dont listen to those ppl. Just please put it up for adoption. i know by now you've done something but i hope you made the right choice. to the girl whose working on 3 kids, honey, no offense, but didnt u learn by the 1st kid if not by god the second kid? lol we have invented birth control use it girl, it helps lol. Im sorry you're in that situation and i hope everything works out. for all you ppl who dissed them on here, get the hell of the computer cuz they dont deserve that and the way you all are judging them girls, dont exactly say much about you. to stephanie, i admire you. im glad you were one of the only ones who have sense on this board. if anybody has any comments for me... email me at texasgiirl1508@aol.com

 

Answer by Slut
Submitted on 4/5/2006
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You slut, That coathanger thing sounds good, go sit in a corner

 

Answer by me
Submitted on 4/11/2006
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TURN LESBIAN

 

Answer by amanda
Submitted on 4/12/2006
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i just want to say that i understand where that little girl is coming from.  i am seventeen and just found out that i am pregnant.  my boyfriend just left for the army and said that if i want to keep it, he will support us, but would also understand if i chose to terminate the pregnancy. the only reason i would want to terminate the pregnancy is because i don't think it is fair to the child to have to deal with such young parents.  my mother barely made it to the end of her graduation before she had me, and i always told myself i would never have a baby until after i was out of high school.  now look what i've got myself into.  so here is my advice to this girl: follow your heart, talk to an adult you trust, and know that your mom will be more understanding than you think.  i just hope that everything works out, for her, and for me.

 

Answer by sam
Submitted on 4/15/2006
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i think i might be pregnant and I'm 14....can diet pills kill it? i don't want my parents to know...

 

Answer by KILLIS
Submitted on 4/17/2006
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I THINK IT WILL BE HARD TO TELL THEM BUT YOUR PARENTS HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW OR AT LEAST ANOTHER ADULT IN YOUR LIFE

 

Answer by angel_one
Submitted on 4/18/2006
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ok i know this thread was started along time ago, now actually not long after my first baby was born, and she is now almost 3! anyway- i think a lot of you girls who say your parents will kill you if your were pg need to rethink that thought, they may be dissappointed at first, and it may take them some time to "get over it" but they love you and can help you more than you realise. i know how you feel about your parents - been there done that, thought my dad was the biggest ...... and my mum was just way tooooooo religious - to even speak to about birth control (let alone sex at a really young age) but now as a mother even though i would probley be mad,upset, dissapointed i would rather my baby come to me for this advice than half of the idiots replying in here - dont get me wrong some of you are great and if all people thought like you and actually cared there wouldnt be such a problem with seeking advice from places like this, but you others, are saying things that are not very helpfull!!

 

Answer by 15 year old girl
Submitted on 4/18/2006
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hello my name is unknown. I was raped, by my step brother and im pregent now. My mom or dad doesn't know, but my dad's fiancee does she is very willing to help me out in any way that she can. I can't tell my mom or dad that im pregent i would get kicked out of my house even thought i was raped. I can't get an abortion b/c i need a parents concent and i can't let either of them know. I need some sort of anwser and i need one quick im about 12 weeks in to it already and i have been trying everything i can think of and nothing is working. I tried the vitamin C thing and that did not work please help me in some way. IM OPEN TO ANYHING...... PLease Help Me

 

Answer by tanesha
Submitted on 4/18/2006
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to lu lu no u cant get pregnant by having oral sex. but u shouldn't be doing that anyway cause thats narsty. u should be ashamed of ya safe. and u should find out everything about sex and oral before u start doing it.

 

Answer by leo
Submitted on 4/19/2006
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best thread. ever.

 

Answer by kimberly
Submitted on 4/19/2006
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look! u have no reason to kill your baby. no matter how young u r. Im pregnet and im only 16. my parents were mad at first but now they r happy to be gradparents. Why would u kill somehting that God made? its murder. I am praying for u and hope you make the right choice. I know like i sound liek a goodie goodie but trust me im not. You will be happy when u have the baby and watch it grow up. I know i was scared at first but it all went well. Jesus went through so much more then just delivering a baby. Jesus wont give u pain u cant bear. I have already had 1 kid and another is comming. As much as a slut i may seem 2 be im not. It wasnt my fault. But anyway evern if u do wanna kill ur baby still just remember that u r killing a living person that God made just for u and no one else. God bless u and ur baby.

 

Answer by leo
Submitted on 4/20/2006
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best thread. ever.

 

Answer by wants a baby
Submitted on 4/23/2006
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I don't know what to say except stop thinking of only yourself I would love to have a baby and I am unable to if it will change your mind I will let you come here and live with me and I will pay for everything in exchange as soon as the baby is born you let me take the baby I am married to my husband for the past 12 years and I will love that baby till the end of time we are also christians this way noone will have to see you pregnant then when you are well we will pay for your ticket and you can go home or whereever you want to go

 

Answer by Kelsi
Submitted on 4/26/2006
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How does one go about using a coat hanger...

just for research..

really..

:/

 

Answer by me
Submitted on 4/27/2006
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well, u shoulda thought bout dat b4 u had unprotected sex. it's not a good thing to b doin. u can really get hurt and  scarred for life. don't try 2 end the pregnancy by urself bc there r sum ways 2 do so. like having sum1 hit u sumthin like dat. but dont do it. u wanted to act like an adult so now take responsiblility 4 ur actions n b an adult.

 

Answer by Amanda
Submitted on 4/27/2006
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i'm17. i'mpregnant. i'mtaking responisbility for my actions, and having this baby.
i chose to have sex.
i understood the risks involved.
and now, i'mhappily going to have a baby in 7 months.
Sex is not one of those "you have to be old to handle it" type things. its a reponsiblity type thing, and if you aren't responsible enough to handle a child...you shouldn't have had sex. especially unprotected.
now for my advice: talk to an adult. anyone. a mom or dad or grandparent..an aunt or an uncle..older cousin.. teacher..someone. if an abortion is honestly the right thing for you, get it done professionally. but don't do it because you're scared or don't want strech marks or something..
and i hope that whatever you decide... when you start having sex again.. you use birth control. Use the pill AND condoms..its a surefire way to avoid pregnancy.

 

Answer by CurryMAN
Submitted on 4/28/2006
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Are u a chav??? that would explain the sluttiness... If you are jump of a building, a nice high one. while stabbing urself with a coathanger or fish hook. Get drunk and take ecstacy before u do it or it will take forever. Hows the father make him jump with you. it will be kool, 2 chavs at the same time. If you need any more advice email me at
Chicken-tikka@CurryMAN.com

 

Answer by EBAY
Submitted on 4/28/2006
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It has came to our attention that you are pregnant, but you do not wish to keep your child. May I reccommend that you sell your child over ebay. If you decide to sell your child through us you will make money unlike if you have an abortion you risk your chance getting pregnant later on in life.
If you do this you can make some other famillies really happy who cannot conceive.
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we look forward to your response

 

Answer by irollgreendutches@yahoo.com
Submitted on 4/28/2006
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if u honestly don't want the baby please e mail me cause i will take go care of it just let me sign the birth certificate

 

Answer by it could be a joke?
Submitted on 4/29/2006
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hehe than you've all been duped!

 

Answer by anonymous1
Submitted on 4/30/2006
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you can take up to 6-10 grams of vitamin c a day

 

Answer by lisa
Submitted on 5/1/2006
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im sorry for everyone having these tough situations but please do whats right and dont abord your baby.it is a gift from god. the best gift anyone could ever receive. he gave you that gift because he felt it was time. its no ones choice.its all up to him. i have pcos (cysts on my ovaries) and have been trying to get pg for about 5 years now. i got pg about 2 years ago but miscarried. it was the worst thing that could have happened to me. so please think twice before you make a huge mistake(abortion) that will stick with you for the rest f your life.

 

Answer by luvMYbaby
Submitted on 5/1/2006
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im 15. and got pregnant at 14. i just turned 15 in march. i just had the baby april 6th, 2006. and it was hard tellin my parents. but finally, they forgive, and they wanted to help. i had it bad oof,. my boyfriend was 17 at the time, then turned 18 right before i had her, therefor illegal. my parents liked him, then i got pregnant. and, they wanted to lock him up. i explained he would be there, and they finally gave in. i felt the same way you did. its hard at first, but trust me, its so worth it. my baby is my life. i feel i have been blessed

 

Answer by girls who know best 
Submitted on 5/9/2006
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just think very carfully about what you want to do we all would suggest that you give it up for adoption and just think about you S.A.T.S. at the moment you are only 13 that is to  young for anyone to take full care of a baby all we can say is do the right thing please

 

Answer by daddy
Submitted on 5/10/2006
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de3say 9eb3ich ebmakootich !

 

Answer by LITTLEMSTWEETY
Submitted on 5/11/2006
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Hello everyone my name is Emily and I am now nine years old. I first began my period earlier this year. im in the 3 grade. I had sex with my older brother jason best friend mike. mike is 19 i did not no what i was doin and i got pregnant. iwas trowing up in school and they thought i was sicks. they did a test that hurt and i was pregnant. my mom made me kill and dont tell anyone. i was so scared. I wish i could keept it would be like a baby sister. Im not really hvig sex anymoere and i didnt tell on mike casue he is soooo cute when i get 15 we will getmearied and have kids.
BYE!

 

Answer by 20
Submitted on 5/13/2006
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i am 20 and just found out that i am pregnant my boyfriend already has one child we always use protection except that one time. my parents and hard. i cant tell them i want to keep my baby but i cant. i have to get rid of it before i start to show i have tried everything and its not working. i dont know what to do either

 

Answer by ROSIE
Submitted on 5/17/2006
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YOU MADE THE LIFE INSIDE AND WANT TO DESTROY A LIVING SOUL YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOUR SELF THE BABY DIDNT ASK TO GET THERE SO HOW CAN YOU MAKE A DICISION ON A LIFE TO KILL YOU MADE YOUR BED GIRL YOU LAY IN IT AND STICK TO PLAYING WITH DOLLYS NOT BOYS PENIS YOU WANTED THE 2 MINUTES OF PLEASURE NOW YOU SUFFER THE CONSIQUENCIES

 

Answer by Lola
Submitted on 5/19/2006
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I hope everything went well for this young lady.  I'd love to hear from you and in the meantime can we have a new topic?

 

Answer by ADRiANNA
Submitted on 5/21/2006
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Answer by Rebekka
Submitted on 5/21/2006
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I understand all of you girls. I think I am pregnant because I have all the symptoms. But, there is more to resort to. Like if you don't want to go to your parents, go to someone you trust. But, I grew up with parents who found everything out. They will find out though, but don't let that stop you. Anyways, don't let all those reactions up there get you down, because they only tell you that because they are insecure about themselves. Everybody has a right to say something, but it is not right to judge. Try to be respectful of those who are gong through such a rough time. You are only saying that because you haven'tgone through it yourself, and I know that because you wouldn't be saying 'don't kill the baby!' if you were in their position. So just for all you out there who make mistakes, remember, there will always be someone to help. Oh and btw, if you were a real true believer in God, you wouldn't be saying that God won't love you for aborting. He will always love you no matter what.
Rebekka Hansen

 

Answer by Brianna
Submitted on 5/22/2006
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My name is marquisha and i am in the same sictuation u are in.I really and truly care about wats going on with u.I am 16 years old and i have been searching for home remedies to help me if i am pregnant but sweetie i dont think you should hurt ur precious body because some of these remedies cause u to not be able to concieve after u have took them.I want u to no that its not the end of the world i no that u feel as if u cant tell anyone about wats goin on with u because u feel ashamed but no ones opinion should count.BE STRONG AND BOLD AND GET HELP SOON CAUSE I DONT WANT UR LIFE TO BE IN JEAPORDY TAKING IN HOME REMEDIES TALK TO UR MOM AND LET HER  NO SHE CAN EITHER ACCEPT IT OR NOT.I HOPE THINGS GET BETTER AND U DO SOMETHING SOON.

 

Answer by mad katt
Submitted on 5/24/2006
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why would you want to kill a living person who has done nothing wrong i am totally against abortions it makes me feil sick when someone tells me they wanmt to kill there baby if you was not prepared for this when u had sex u shouldnt have had it , ur just sick in the head if you abort a baby especially at the age of 13 what was u even thinking about having sex

 

Answer by someting special
Submitted on 5/26/2006
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don't listen to none of these dumb ass people who are calling you a slut. yes you shouldn't be having sex at 13 but your not a slut. And really don't listen to the people telling you to kill yourself. the best thing 4 you to do is tell your parents and get tit over wit. trying to kill it yourself will just create problems. You had sex you have to pay the price

 

Answer by niecey
Submitted on 5/27/2006
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i think you should keep your baby i have a baby and its the best thing that ever happened to me.i am sixteen

 

Answer by Mike
Submitted on 5/27/2006
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Send it to me. I will eat it

 

Answer by RACHEL
Submitted on 5/27/2006
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DOES DRINKING VINEGAR REALLY WORK? AND HOW MUCH DO YOU HAVE TO DRINK?


SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER.

 

Answer by Greg Monaco
Submitted on 5/28/2006
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I wish I had known of a way.  Since my wife became pregnant, I think by me, my life has sucked.  I hate it, I hate her and I hate the baby most.

 

Answer by skj
Submitted on 5/29/2006
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I stumbled across this website while I was looking for something else, but I am leaving a comment.
   First off...I am a woman, so don't let my post fool you.
   The subject of abortion makes me irate. I think it is disgusting for any reason EXCEPT health reasons. If a woman is going to die because of it, then by all means. BUT..if a woman is doing it strictly out of convenience, then shame on her!!

   A special comment to Naelki, who posted a message on 3/21/2004. It is regarding how her sister and brother-in-law are scared to ADOPT "because the birthparents can come back in 5 years and take the child back." That is NOT TRUE. Once the adoption papers are signed, that child cannot be taken away by anyone other than child welfare if they were to find the parents unfit. But as far as ANY birth-relative coming back to take the child away from your sister is SOOOO not true. Why do you think there are 1000's upon 1000's of adoptees and birthparents searching for each other on the internet? Once an adoptee is 18 (or 21 in some states), they have a right to know who gave birth to them, but as far as birthparents coming back to take their child back. It does not happen, so tell your sister that it will be safe to adopt.

   And finally....some words to think about for anyone who is considering an abortion...

"Choose Life....YOUR mom did."


 

Answer by ashley leasure
Submitted on 5/29/2006
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hey my name is ashley and i know how u r feeling dont listen to nobody on here cuz trust me they dont no wat there talking about if u read this i want to let u know that im 15 and i think im preganat i dont have a good relationship wit my parents and dont nno wat to do i have thought the same way b 4 how to i kill my baby cuz im scared thats how i got here and reading all thats stuff peeps said is right give birth and either take care of it or sumthing givin it up for adoption will hurt even more cuz ur regret well email me at6 simple_N_sweet6949@yahoo.com and ill giv u my num so we can talk and get to know each other hey and were in the same position so it would be nice to get to no u

 

Answer by m8
Submitted on 6/6/2006
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kill the bay dont tell ur mum or dad drink alot to kill it i did it n it worked good luck

 

Answer by jojo
Submitted on 6/6/2006
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I am 15 and i am pretty sure i am pregnet and i know excacly how u feel. i do not want to tell my parents or anybody else and i would also like to know how to kill it with out a medical abortion and i know its wrong but i would much rather my baby never exsist than it live a life knowing it was adopted or living with a teen mother. this sucks!

 

Answer by i_dontKNOW
Submitted on 6/7/2006
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okay wit the coathanger how do you use it? my friend told me but i was to afraid

 

Answer by ~* Danielle *~
Submitted on 6/8/2006
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hey I'm only 13 I'll be 14 in August and I had sex unprotected only for like 2 minutes tho, I'm scared that what if I'm pregnent. what will I do I don't want to tell my parents because they will tell my boyfriends parents and he will have to go live with his dad. he lives in colrado i live in indiana. what do i do i need help.......someone help me

 

Answer by Mysteryguy
Submitted on 6/10/2006
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you should both just come clean. you made the mistake now you have to pay for it. and if you kill the baby that is just wrong. how would you like to die cause your 13 or 16 year old mom didnt use a condom. then you can wonder the rest of your life what the baby would have been like, and it will eat you up inside. to the people actually giving her advice to use hangers and stuff like that, thats just disgusting. you dont take an innocent persons life, no matter how old they are. killing is wrong, abortion is wrong. use a condom for gods sake. imagine how the guy who got her pregnant is feeling right now.

 

Answer by PRIEST TODD
Submitted on 6/16/2006
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YEH FOR REAL, I THINK I PICK UP A TREND HERE, ALL THE BABY KILLERS HERE CANT SPELL.

OH AND YEH....U MUST REALLY HATE YOURSELF, DONT WE ALL.

TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILTIY!!!, I HOPE GOD SMITES YOU YOU ALL GOOD!!! I PRAY ALL YOU BABY KILLERS SPEND THE REST OF ETERNITY IN A JET FUELED FIRE IN HELL!!!

 

Answer by kelly
Submitted on 6/18/2006
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im 14 and its not my fult that im pregnant :( but i aint gonna have baby and maybe take my life iswell coz im tiny and theres nothin rong wid feelin the way i do im still a child myself let alone havein 1!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by baby girl
Submitted on 6/19/2006
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I have been through problems similar 2 alot of girls on here... I got pregnant 4 the first time when i was 14 years old... I had a abortion to get rid of that baby, every one ask me do I regret it, and yes I kinda do, but then again i think it was the best thing for me to do due to the fact that I was so young. I got pregnant again at the age of 15, an I had the decision of aborting that one to, but I choose not to cause I did not want to go through the heart-ache again. On December 31 I delivered a healthy baby boy whom weighed 7pounds & 9 ounces. Now when i think what my life would have been like if i would have aborted him also, i cant even imangin... with that said ladies PLEASE THINK cause the decision you make you are going to have to live with it the rest of your life...

 

Answer by tippy
Submitted on 6/19/2006
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well i know what you mean but you need to have this baby and if you want i will adopt it just call me at 229-308-2136 and dont worry about what those other people say cause if they were bad enough they would tell you to your face what they have to say about you and not on the internet where people can read it and laugh at you.

 

Answer by Confused teen!
Submitted on 6/21/2006
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hey look i know all of you guys are like omg these girls are sluts and everything but... i know how they feel... im 16 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years. a couple of months ago we decided we were ready to have sex. granit we did use a condom!! and we checked it first we've had sex a couple times after that but we used a condom everytime!! now i missed my period this month and im really really scared that im pregnat!! if i am im ruined!! im in high school and i dont want to drop out!! i dont want to kill it  but thats the only way b/c my parents must NOT find out! if they do i would feel terrible cuz i would feel like i dissapointed them. and they done nothing but be so wonderful to  me and my brother and sister! im the baby of the family and i made a big mistake! but im a teenager and i have hormones just like everyone else! we felt like we were ready and i dont regret doing it and i kmew the consecuenses! thats why i made sure everytime the condom was safe.. maybe my period just didnt come this month but why?? and if i am pregnat is thier anyway to kill it even though im deff. going to regret doing it. but sadly its the only way!! my family is very very religious and belive sex before marridge is the worst thing possible!! i feel terrible i wish i could go back in time!! uhh..

 

Answer by baby
Submitted on 6/23/2006
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UMM WELL I HAVE THE SAME SITUATION GOING FOR ME.. KINDA.. I HAD SEX.. BUT IDK IF IM PREGNANT OR NOT?
IF I AM.
I DONT WANT TO BE CALLED A SLUT.
AND I DONT WANT TO KEEP THE BABY.
AND I DONT WANT TO HAVE AN ABORTION.
I WOULD KEEP THE BABY IF MY DAD WASN'T ALIVE, AND IF I WAS OUT OF SCHOOL..
WHAT ARE SOME WAYS TO GET RID OF IT.. OTHER THAN DRINKING AND USING A COAT HANGER SMOKING AND VINIGAR.

 

Answer by someone
Submitted on 6/27/2006
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hey

why did u open ur legs if u do not want a baby why have sex for??? why do u want to kill an inercent baby for u dik head if you want your baby dead you should be killed u little 13 yr old SLUT close ur legs an that will not happen to you wat would ur mother say if u killed your baby an all of ur frieends you would be a dik head if u killed someone innocent fuk head u should be dead wat doe ur bf think of wat u want for one my gf is pregnet if she wanted to get rid of the baby i swear to god i would get rid of her meaning kill her of fuk head you  should be shot you little SLUT get a life y don't u have the baby an put it up for adobshen instect of killing somethink inocent

from someone who LOVES BABYS

 

Answer by starlight
Submitted on 6/27/2006
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i am 27 years old and I'm having my first baby and my bf and i couldn't be more happy. for those of you who are having baby's at 13 you should be ashamed of your self's. for one you are still a baby your self's and sex should be the last thing on your mind.and having an abortion is an option but if you were being kids the way you should be you wouldn't have to make the biggest disition of your life at such a young age. the only thing i can say is shame on your parents for not knowing what is going on right under there noses. bad parenting if you ask me........

 

Answer by help4U
Submitted on 6/29/2006
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ok, I just want to start out by saying that you shouldn't listen to advice about using herbs and whatnot, that is not an alternative to an abortion, and in reality they are both killing your baby.  Trying to do an abortion yourself will result in one of three option. 1.)you will hurt your baby and not kill it, resulting in neurological damage, or physical development problems. 2.)you will succeed in killing your baby, but also succeed in killing your self esteem, remember you are an important person, designed with a specific purpose in mind. 3.) There is always the possibility of hurting of killing yourself,  the statistics for non-medical abortions before they were legal, had a VERY high death rate for the mother.

Remember, the problems you have now will not be the ones you have down the line.

 

Answer by marcilla
Submitted on 7/5/2006
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one thing iv got to say if you go upone your self trying to abort the baby there are many risk that you can harm and kill yourself you can bleed to death cause an infection besides why would you want to kill a human being that has an heart beat its as if your commiting murder think that baby is apart of you i understand that your scared and all iv been in a situation when i was 14 years old pregnant and terrified not no how would i be a mother at a young age but a i went through a terrible momment because at 4 months pregnant iv experienced a misscariage its the hardest and saddest thing to experince that was 5 years ago now im 9 months pregnant just cant wait for baby to come dont go makeing a stupid decision i no you can have more scence then that that baby didnt ask to be conceived let that baby have live

 

Answer by vero
Submitted on 7/5/2006
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your 13 years old u should've thought about the consequences before having sex or at least u couldv'e used a condom. u have a lil one now, don't try to abort it think of different options, there's many people that want children but cant have any the only other choice thats if u don't want it, is to give the baby up for adoption

 

Answer by brianna
Submitted on 7/6/2006
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To those people that call you a slut and much worst they have no idea what it feels like. I'min a situation just as you were. my boyfriend and i have been having unprotected sex at the age 15 and 17, because we both thought he didn't have good sperm, we both thought he shot blanks which is why we have unprotected sex and that was last spring,but we love each other very much and we've been together for 2 years and then two years later i might be pregnant. And damn is it scary you don't know what to do and don't know who to turn to. so if they don't know what it's like then don't hypocrite. It's stupid how they say "don't open your legs if you don't want to take responsibility" go though it first and then see how hard it is to deal with the fact that your life is gone and there's no way to return to it. It's not easy to get it back when you have a kid unless you have a mom that will help you out so you can return to the "so called life that you had" people don't always have parents like that. Everybody makes mistakes and that was one a baby is a gift from GOD but sometimes he blesses us with one to soon or when we are not ready. Even then if you think about adoption we soon to be parents don't know if our baby is going to a good,nice and supportive family. Adoption is not always the right choice neither is abortion or keeping the baby if we can't support it financially or at all!If you do keep the baby welfare and food stamps are just easy ways out my mom has to support the people that have keep she pays for their babies diapers and etc. and thats not right i think that's why if you want to keep it support it the right way work, don't rely on other people supporting you child. i know my boyfriend will if i am pregnant. which is why i love him so much!And for the people that say that are the ones that don't have sex because their ugly and stupid and have nothing better to do but pick on people that have problem when they have problems themselves. All those people just need to back off and mind their own god damn business cause nobody asked for their opinion in the first place. Speak when spoken too A*******!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by amy
Submitted on 7/8/2006
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she isnt a slut, sometimes these things happen.

 

Answer by Kristie
Submitted on 7/10/2006
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hey i am 13 too
things r alot harder these days & more pressuring
feel free to email me & please do
candyshopgurl93@yahoo.com
& tell me how u r doin...
ok
ttyl

 

Answer by disturbed
Submitted on 7/14/2006
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This is a sick sick sick sick (times infinity) post or whatever.....

 

Answer by disturbed
Submitted on 7/14/2006
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This is a sick sick sick sick (times infinity) post or whatever.....

 

Answer by TAM TAM THE POM POM
Submitted on 7/16/2006
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HI... THATS A REALLY HARD SITUATION YOUR IN.. IM SURE PEOPLE GIVING U ADVICE IS ONLY CONFUSING YOU MORE. ALL I NEED TO SAY IS NOT ADVICE, ITS WORDS THAT HAVE HAPPEND I HAVE A FRIEND WHO GOT PREGNENT AND HAD THE BABY... IT IS NOW 14 MONTHS OLD... SHE'S TALKED TO ME A LOT OF TIMES ABOUT HER LIFE, SHES CHANGED A LOT SHE WAS ONLY 15 WHEN SHE HAD THIS KID.. (SHILOA) SHES BEAUTIFUL.. AND WE ALL LOVE HER, ESPCAILLY SAMMY(MOM), THE MOST. BUT STILL SHE IS VERY UNHAPPY THAT SHE HAS TO GIVE UP HER WHOLE LIFE TO CARE FOR THIS BABY.. ITS A LOT OF WORK.. THERES MILLIONS OF PEOPLE IN THE WORLD AND NOT ENOUGH LOVE.  MAKE YOUR DISSITION ON YOUR OWN.. AND NOT FROM OTHERS. THINK TO YOURSELF WHAT YOU WANT.. 13 IS YOUNGE BUT TAKING IN A CHILD CAN BE DONE.. ANYTHING CAN BE DONE.. BUT THERE ARE CONSINQUENCES. AND THINGS YOU'LL WANT TO REGRET BUT CANT BECAUSE OF TOO MUCH LOVE YOU HAVE FOR IT.  LIKE I SAID.. THINK ABOUT YOURSELF,  AND LAST OF ALL DONT TRUST ANYONE BUT YOURSELF... AND WORDS THAT CAN HELP YOU OUT WITH YOUR OWN DESISSION. NOT STORIES LIKE THIS ONE.

 

Answer by lex0013
Submitted on 7/18/2006
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make your decisions for yourself. don't interfere in other peoples lives. If they choose not to go through pregnancy and have a child then that is there right. You may not agree but you also do not have the right to force someone to complete pregnancy who do you people think you are?

 

Answer by Cannibal Corpse
Submitted on 7/22/2006
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Pop rocks + coca cola + your uterus = amazing instant abortion!!

 

Answer by cheri
Submitted on 7/23/2006
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i don't really know how i want to know how i think im pregnant

 

Answer by SoGoneInMisery
Submitted on 7/30/2006
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Well it isn't much i can tell you but follow your heart...I got pregnant when i was 14 and i had her, her name was Sha'Nyiahbut she later died at 2 months..Having a child is like seeing light for the first time..Girl this is your child like it or not..I think you should have it and forget about an abortion or anything else that can or may hurt you but kill the baby...Taking a life isn't the answer to a mistake..

 

Answer by patrick benson
Submitted on 7/31/2006
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please if you want my advice, look after your child. i was given away as a child and ended up in the hands of militants (they're illegal milatary groups) if i can i want to prevent a child going through the same pain i did. of wondering who i was and where i came from, wondering why the hell these people make go out with a bunch of other kids, yes i was not the only loveless child made to do the job for these nameless "men". but in the end it is your desicion i just trust you take my painful story in to consideration before you make it.                                                                                      yours scincerely                                   patrick benson

 

Answer by Smartasskass14yrs old
Submitted on 7/31/2006
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hey i kno what ur going through im only 14 and i think im pregnent to....dont feel bad ur not a slut and neither am i we r just to people that made a mistake....also i was wondering the same question..(thats how i came upon this website)if u wanna talk about anything at all we could just tell eachother our problems and we could try to resolve them....my email address is :smartasskass@hotmail.com

email me if u wanna talk!

love always,
Kassandra

 

Answer by Smartasskass14yrs old
Submitted on 7/31/2006
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hey i kno what ur going through im only 14 and i think im pregnent to....dont feel bad ur not a slut and neither am i we r just to people that made a mistake....also i was wondering the same question..(thats how i came upon this website)if u wanna talk about anything at all we could just tell eachother our problems and we could try to resolve them....my email address is :smartasskass@hotmail.com

email me if u wanna talk!

love always,
Kassandra

 

Answer by 123456789
Submitted on 8/3/2006
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you people haven't answered the question, she wants to get rid of the baby without an abortion, the feedback is good but some people don't want kids, fools

 

Answer by stuck 55
Submitted on 8/3/2006
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my girl friend is 15 and im 45 and she is preagnet  i am cheating on her with her mom and both of them are preagnet and i dont know witch one to pick i need help so please helpme

 

Answer by Grand Wizarde (its french)
Submitted on 8/6/2006
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well first you have to reach your hand up there and fish around for anything, if you dont feel it at first keep trying, they're tough little rascals to locate.  once you know exactly where it is you gotta get a close personal friend to perform a defocimioplasty, aka alabama hotpocket. once the "act" is over you need to prepare a sterilized razor blade.  a few min over a stove will do just fine. test it out by cutting in curse words or short phrases like "daddy, NO!" or "I deserved it" into your legs and vaginal area. (try to put in an emoticon every once in a while to sprucen things up ^_^).  once things are all right with the cutting, its time to find that lil bastard and cut em out.  (to be honest the defocimioplasty and the self mutilation was just for fun)

Another easier (and more fun) option to getting the baby out is to travel to six flags and ride the kingda ka roller coaster as many times as you can. See how high you can launch it as it flies out! (136 is the current record)

good luck

 

Answer by lucy
Submitted on 8/6/2006
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hey. i really need help. i had sex for my first time about a week ago. i lost track of when im supposed to be on my period and im starting to get worried. is there anyway i could get rid of this baby before having it. i honestly cant tell anyone about this well at least not adults and my mom would kill me. how can i tell if i am pregnate..like should i just go and get a pregnacy test? but would that work even if it was before i got my period...if this is making any sense at all. please PLEASE PLEASE email me. but if i do end up pregnate..what could i do to get rid of it..abortion/adoption being the last resorts...please email me please. luckoftheirish16@hotmail.com. PLEASE

 

Answer by confuse
Submitted on 8/8/2006
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i really cant help you i might be pregnant to ..o how i pray im not..but i was think bout askin the same question..but den i thought bout it..and its not safe to try an murder a baby with out medical assistance..so be carefull and just go see a doctor

 

Answer by Nikki
Submitted on 8/10/2006
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I think some of these ppl on here need help who the hell tells a 13 yr old to kill herself i kinda feel like i am in the same boat as her except i have a beautiful daughter going on 2 this year and i was raped and now i am pregnant by this asshole i am a married woman and i dunno what to do so i know how she feels right now

 

Answer by 100% CoNcEiTeD
Submitted on 8/15/2006
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gurl im goin thru da same thang all i could say is drank some vinegar

 

Answer by Madam sex-a-lot
Submitted on 8/16/2006
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rarrrr garblle

 

Answer by god
Submitted on 8/20/2006
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when its born rent a wood chipper and say it was a accident

 

Answer by shanny
Submitted on 8/22/2006
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girl i understand were your coming from i am 18 and my boyfriend doesn't want me to keep this baby i don't know what to do eather i am really scared of both keeping it or not my mom said shes with me no matter what but i just don't know what to do i love my boyfriend with all my heart we have bin dating for 2 years and were getting married but he doesn't want this baby... but just follow your heart I'm trying to follow mine but i don't want to go the wrong way HELP!!!

 

Answer by gothbaby
Submitted on 8/24/2006
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to all of the mean ass ppl on here telling her to kll herself or telling her tht she's a slut~~~~u dont even kno her situation so if u dont have ne good advice as how to get rid of the child on her own then dont leave a message

 

Answer by Dont understand
Submitted on 8/24/2006
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You are crazy ...... if you didn't want to have a baby why did you open your legs ... and don't even think about saying I used a condom cause you should not be having SEX at that age.

 

Answer by Richard Simmons
Submitted on 8/25/2006
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You need to jaazersize urself hunny

 

Answer by ure mom
Submitted on 8/26/2006
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can u have the symptoms and not be preganant?

 

Answer by keegansbaby
Submitted on 9/1/2006
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im trying to do the same thing but i really dont want to my boyfriends making me

 

Answer by dwn2it
Submitted on 9/4/2006
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you need a round room.....and god

 

Answer by wtf
Submitted on 9/7/2006
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dont screw at 13
and why the hell does noone use condoms

 

Answer by Blue Eyes
Submitted on 9/13/2006
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I dunno any way to do that but i have heard ways...My friend told me that if you drink a cup of vinegar that it will kill the baby..but i don't know..so don't try it. But there is also birth control..i read that it you take birth control the right way it can kill a unborn baby. And don't listen to any of these people about you being a slut or all this other stuff it was your decision to have sex. NOT ANYONE ELSE'S!!!! so Everyone needs to lay off...NONE of you know what she is going through and you all are making it Worse...SO CHILL!!! And I know what you are going through my best friend went through it and i was there for her all the way, her rents kicked her out for a month and she lived with me...then they saw what they were doing to her and she moved back in. you will have to live with the decision that you made with your parents and Everything...but if you are mature enough to have have sex you have to be mature enough to get through it as harsh as it is..and i know this doesn't help and i am so sorry for you! If i could i would help you!!

Yours Truly,
Blue Eyes

 

Answer by sandra louis
Submitted on 9/14/2006
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honestly i know how because i seen it b4 but i wont tell you just for the fact u made the mistake and u take care the responsibility

 

Answer by Ha3moglobin
Submitted on 9/16/2006
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I heard there's a certain root extract that's hard to obtain, but healthy for you. (obviously not for the baby...that's the point) Find some ecstacy or some other chemical drugs. If you are addicted to anything right now STOP using it. The baby is addicted to whatever you are and the withdrawls can be fatal to the baby. I'm not trying to give you bad advice. Some people don't understand. I've been there. This is one of your only options.  

 

Answer by The Oracle
Submitted on 9/16/2006
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Killing an unborn fetus IS an abortion. How did that get by you?

Maybe now you understand that heterosexual sex is reproduction. How did you miss that in grade school?

 

Answer by clasz0/7 
Submitted on 9/17/2006
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man i just wanna kno do drinking vingaer really work???????????????????????

 

Answer by slutty girl
Submitted on 9/18/2006
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maybe youre too much of a slut to handle this responsibility. youre nasty if youre having sex at 13, get a real life SLUTTY GIRL. maybe u shoudl just kill yourself too. loser!

 

Answer by RLD
Submitted on 9/18/2006
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Ok,your an idoit! If I ever get pregnant like that I would never kill it. It is a sin and also the dumbest thing anyone could ever do! I would have it and then put it up for a adoption. It would do you alot of good doing that instead of putting yourself and that unborn child through that pain. you know later down the road you would regret that so just have the baby and quit having sex! You are way to young to be doing things like that. Most likely your parents dont know about it! But you need to tell them one way or another because their just going to find out anyway. Also another thing you need to call your local health department and make you an apointment to make sure you are really pregnate. then go on from there!

 

Answer by Nicole
Submitted on 9/19/2006
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If i cant tell my mom that i am pregant and that i dont want her to no what do i do other then haveing an abortion?

 

Answer by Zahrim
Submitted on 9/24/2006
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Wow, I love how this just degenerated into insults over some more than likely fictional person...

 

Answer by a pregnant woman
Submitted on 9/26/2006
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This all just makes me sick. You know, Im 26yrs old and 21 weeks pregnant myself. There is NO way I would even think about aborting this child. There are so many women out there that cant even have kids, maybe you should be one of them. Sure, Im scared as hell to have a child, but when I feel the small kicks (that sometimes hurt) I know I would never do something like that. Hell, my fiancee and I were only together a month before I got pregnant, now we are both excited and getting ready to have a little one in our lives. I know one woman that can never have kids and she would make a wonderful mother. You dont deserve this gift if you abort it. I hope you never have another child in your life.

 

Answer by misstoya
Submitted on 9/27/2006
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I know how you feel because I'm 19 with one beautiful daughter already and i damn sure don't want anymore. for all of you with the bad comments you don't f@#%^& understand so shut that s#!+!!!!

 

Answer by shaun po
Submitted on 9/27/2006
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coat hanger

 

Answer by Seventeen
Submitted on 9/28/2006
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I think it is funny how you all call her a slut and a whore. I know how easy it is to get condoms and birth control. You critize her but you don't know her, you don't know her story. I was using condoms and by chance it broke. I don't think that half of you in here are fit to be good parents. Why? Because you call some 13 year old a slut. What if this happens to your kid. Don't say it won't because it can happen to anyone.

 

Answer by ~Blup blup~
Submitted on 9/28/2006
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have a boiling bath no cold water and a whole bottle of vodka/gin/whiskey take ur pic baby goes be bye

 

Answer by lala
Submitted on 10/1/2006
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have the baby and enjoy life!

 

Answer by tan
Submitted on 10/3/2006
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i cannot believe half of the comments i read - stop being judgemental! everybody makes mistakes me included - i was pregnant at 14 but miscarried at 2 month which i believe was a blessing in disguise. i was on the pill and even had the morning after pill wen i got cought i miscarried a week b4 my abortion. i appluad these young giirls on ere who are asking strangers for help and what do most of you do call them names and crap. now i am 18 and i am pregnant again but i am having an abortion coz i am being kicked out of my home and will have no where to live or ne1 4 support apart from my fella - these girls may be finking bout abortion becasue of there own situation and the future child. it is not fiar bringin a child up if the mother cannot support herself like me let alone a child - these girls r not selfish about this they r lukin at all solutions and it is there decision! tan xx

 

Answer by Concerned about you and myself!!!!!!
Submitted on 10/3/2006
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Well I'm in the same thing right now Im not much older than you. I don't know if I am or not. Well God will forgive if you kill it. Drink vinegar. But someone told me that will not help. But no one knows. Go to the doctor. Abortions are banded in y state. I think but try your best on the decision you make. God will forgive you. Pray about your problem. I was in church this sunday and my pastor said if you start thinking about you start bebliving on your mind that you are/then you start acting like ~~even though you couldn't be. I don't want to be and I had a period after it and in weeks i should have another but I hope im not pregnant.Im having sympotoms like lower stomach pains-back pains but i have had a bladder/kidney infection and it feels the same as an infection. I have no one to talk to either but there is someone who can relate to your problem that can help you out. Im going to find someone to help me you do tha same. its been a month since i've had sex and it was my first time i just wish i had someone to relate to me. Well think about postive things not the negative mess these hating people putting on here.  They can let you be because they can't control you and can tell you what to do so all of them can shut up about it.

Well good luck with your problem/ i hope i find it too!!!

Peace_God is love_Pray

 

Answer by Karissa
Submitted on 10/5/2006
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What I think you should do is tell your parents talk to them about it you'll feel allot better believe me I'm in the same suttiation.

 

Answer by Daddy
Submitted on 10/8/2006
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Kill yourself. Or use a coathanger

 

Answer by lkvy
Submitted on 10/9/2006
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Wait until it's born, and then muffle it with a pillow.

 

Answer by Asshole
Submitted on 10/9/2006
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Maybe I should come over there and give you some steel toed justice until you give birth to maccaroni...

 

Answer by secretbaby
Submitted on 10/9/2006
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okay, i have the same question as you.
i am also 13. and for all the people that are going to rave about this i don't regret what i did. My boyfriend loves me and i love him. it just wasn't supposed to happen like it did.
i hope all goes well and you figure a way out.
wish me luck and i wish you luck as well

 

Answer by hot_dog_seller
Submitted on 10/11/2006
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i know how you feel. I'm 15, and I'm dating an 18 year old.
I'm 1 week late and I'm hardly ever late. and i know it sounds psycho but i keep having dreams about babies and stuff. I'm SO worried i cant think straight. i cant confront my mom or dad or any adults because i will seriously get killed. my parents finally trust me and then something like this happens. plus a medical abortion is illegal in Michigan. long story short, it you find an answer let me know.

 

Answer by Jaimee
Submitted on 10/11/2006
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hey, im 13 too. i figured out about 4 days ago that i was pregnant. my boyfriend is so happy.. But im very scared. i don't know what to do. it's kind of wierd. Never thought it would happen to me i guess? Im probobly gonna have an abortion. I really don't want my friends or family to find out.

 

Answer by liz
Submitted on 10/12/2006
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i can't believe how mean some people on here are. i'madopted but i'vealso lost a baby and will most likely lose the child i am caring now due to medical issues. yes i am glad that my birth mother did decided to give me a chance but i also understand what it's like to be put into a situation you don't know if you can handle. adoption isn't that easy for all you people acting like it is you have to carry a child (your child) w/ you go threw the pain of having that child then never see it again! my only advice to everyone is to do what you believe is right but "at home abortions" can be very dangerous to you also so at least talk to your doctor. well good luck to everyone and god bless. and to everyone who had something negative to say go find something better to do.
~Liz

 

Answer by skylar
Submitted on 10/16/2006
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there  is the morning after pill now available, i don't know if you can get one without a prescription or how old you have to be. i do not think you need a prescription. you should look into this.. i had an abortion when i was 19, and i suffered from post traumatic stress disorder for a long time, and still do. i know you are going through hell right now. don't listen to those people calling u names, they don't know what this is like. u can email me if u want, jalenhalo@yahoo.com. hugs, i hope u will be okay.

 

Answer by Star
Submitted on 10/17/2006
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Hi im not going to say anything mean or anything bt, i am goin thru the same thing okay im only one year older then you though im 14 you can email me and we will talk private i feel so stressed and i cant consintrate in school!! anyways here is my email address.......anthonys_mine_byotch@yahoo.com

 

Answer by Amy
Submitted on 10/22/2006
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LISTEN, i'm 17 and am pregnant with my first child,people need to stop worrying about what people are gonna think of you. i was really scared of telling anyone but i confided in a friend, and he told me " your very stupid for getting yourself in this situation but take control, act up to your responsabilities, the worst thing you could do know is get rid of it, he advised me to got to my first scan and see the baby before making any rash decision,i went to my scan and now i feel terrible for even thinking about killing it.AND AS FOR THESE PEOPLE THAT COME ON HERE WITH HARSH COMMENT ABOUT HOW PEOPLE SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE, YOU NEED TO THINK THESE GIRLS COULD BE TERRIFIED AND CONFUSED THEY NEED PEOPLES HELP NOT TO BE SHUND THIS IS 2006 NOT THE 1920S, anyone that feels they need help on what to do just email me amy--_--@hotmail.co.uk

 

Answer by Confused and scared
Submitted on 10/23/2006
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I Am 15years old and pregnat i want to get a Abortion but hpw can i do that with out my parents finding out ???? i cant have the baby !!!

 

Answer by wings
Submitted on 10/24/2006
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This is not the end of the world as it seems,if there is a way you can contact me I will be more the willing to help profide options, things happen, people make mistakes and I'm sure your parents are not going to kill you, there are so many, many ways of dealing with this.You are not alone,your not the first and you won't be the last to feel this way.

 

Answer by Que
Submitted on 10/24/2006
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Baby, killing your baby will be the worse mistake you make. this is God child inside of you think about it. DO NOT KILL A BLESSING FROM GOD!!!

 

Answer by Yvette
Submitted on 10/26/2006
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I know I am a little late with my reply,but I am 4 month's pregnant.This will be my third child.I am so happy.About this 13 yr old.wow,you have guts asking how to kill your baby.Talk to your parents they may understand more than you think.I will not tell you to go through with it or to try to put it out of your mind,but feeling a baby move inside you is a wonderful feeling. People on here are right though there are many of people out there that would take your baby in a heartbeat.Some will even pay good money to have a baby.Please don't use a coathanger,you can bleed to death or get a massive infection,which you can die from as well.I know your scared.I know I would be.I have 2 boys and one on the way.I hope I am having a girl.Wish me luck,but if it's a boy that's ok I Will love it anyway.Best of luck to everyone that is needing help.

 

Answer by Sammy V
Submitted on 10/26/2006
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come round my gaff n i fuk ur gash lyk neva b4 then ull get rid of dat lil satan child

 

Answer by Yvette
Submitted on 10/26/2006
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I know I am a little late with my reply,but I am 4 month's pregnant.This will be my third child.I am so happy.About this 13 yr old.wow,you have guts asking how to kill your baby.Talk to your parents they may understand more than you think.I will not tell you to go through with it or to try to put it out of your mind,but feeling a baby move inside you is a wonderful feeling. People on here are right though there are many of people out there that would take your baby in a heartbeat.Some will even pay good money to have a baby.Please don't use a coathanger!You can bleed to death or get a massive infection,which you can die from as well.I know your scared.I know I would be.I have 2 boys and one on the way.I hope I am having a girl.Wish me luck,but if it's a boy thats ok I Will love it anyway.Best of luck to everyone that is needing help.

 

Answer by please help
Submitted on 10/26/2006
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i have question.. I'm 18 and have a gorgeous 8 month old daughter.her father isn't in the picture but I'm with a man who loves and adores us.we are very serious and he plans on adopting her.. we've only had sex once.. i had my period sept 14th.. we had sex on sept. 23rd with no protection but he didn't even cum at all that we both know of.. well.. i was at a party .. and i got raped on Oct. 7th. but this guy had used a condom and came inside of it. well i haven't had my period since.my boyfriend doesn't know about me being raped.no one does I'm so scared and i could do was cry. but now I'm scared I'm pregnant and i don't know what to do.i don't want another baby now.. but I'm mainly worried about whose would it be?my boyfriend.. or the guy who raped me.. please help!!

 

Answer by Jessica
Submitted on 10/27/2006
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wow u r dumb. you shouldent kill a baby.

 

Answer by Frank
Submitted on 10/28/2006
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Use one of the following:

- Chainsaw

- Toilet Plunger

- Coathanger

- Large Stone

- Lava Lamp

or anything else u can think off that will get right up there.

 

Answer by ..slut
Submitted on 10/29/2006
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first off your a little young to be having sex.. and second off your so lucky to be pregnant. I want a baby like crazy and abortion is the worst thing you could ever do its murder and i hope you know that.

 

Answer by key key
Submitted on 10/30/2006
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Don't let the feelings of other people make you feel any less of a person. I know sometimes people make mistakes in there life and making a mistake does not make you a SLUT. Do what you think is best for you and drinking vinegar does not work. Just remember the only person who can judge you is GOD.
Good luck and God bless!!!
P.S tell your parents, parents always know whats best for there children.
love,
key key

 

Answer by Heaven Exist
Submitted on 11/1/2006
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No one knows for sure how to and im sure ur going thorugh a rough time the people who posted negative comments dont understand the feeling i wish u best of luck but dont act stupidly

 

Answer by anna
Submitted on 11/2/2006
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i have a 13 year old sister and if she was going to have a baby i would KILL her!!!....but i would also try and help her.i think you need to talk to someone like your MOM! where is your mom?your mom needs some help with her parenting skills.your 13!!!if you cant handle having a baby you cant handle haveing sex.think befor you act little girl... you just a child

 

Answer by bunkey
Submitted on 11/4/2006
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Hi,I'm fifteen and still a virgin so my opinion probably means the least but I think you should do what you think is best.For you and the baby.My sister is 19 and she is racking her brains on what to do so I can only imagine what it is like for you.All I hope is you learn from this and do what you think is right.Weather it is abortion, adoption, or keeping the baby I'm not totally crazy about abortion but if it is what you think is best.As for the judgmental calls on you every one is open to thier own opinion but it's up to you to listen to them or not.I wish you the best of luck I truly do.

 

Answer by wicked cherry
Submitted on 11/6/2006
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well, i think you shouldn't have a abortion because I'msixteen and i have a beautiful son, that is 7 months. oh well if your parents get mad at you. they won't be forever. they'll still love you. they'll be disappointed in you. but they'll love you. just keep the baby inside you and have it and raise it. yeah it's hard, but it gets eaiser when he/she gets older. because when it's 7 months to 4 years old it'll be a fun stage. trust me. The real father of my baby won't help me raise it. but my boyfriend is helping me.. talk to the father about it. and see what he wants. if he wants to help you, let him. if he doesn't. pay child's support. you'll get a lot of money. well if you ever need me, e-mail me on Devansbabygurl07@yahoo.com or hotmail.com

love,
Wicked Cherry

 

Answer by Kali
Submitted on 11/7/2006
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I have a friend and she is going through the same thing but I say keep it if you will I kept mine and now I am happy!

 

Answer by conceited
Submitted on 11/10/2006
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These are some harsh answers. Don't kill it; people like you truly depress me. There are so many women out there who can't get pregnant; couples that want babies.. And you want to home abort it? Girl, come on. Talk to somebody who will be straight up.

 

Answer by Dirty Grebo
Submitted on 11/12/2006
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Do you want to no a way were you don't get pregnant? DON'T HAVE SEX WITHOUT CONTRACEPTION!!

 

Answer by rockyroad
Submitted on 11/12/2006
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haha to the idiot that cant spell educate lol.
well im 14 and i cant say that ive ever had intercourse because im waiting for the right guy MY personal belief is if you know that you cant handle a baby do not have sex, but im not here to lecture anyone. i cant say i know how you feel but i applaud you in your search for information. maybe you should get an abortion. dont listen to any of the Bible thumping idiots. i believe i read in time magazine if you donate your embryo to stem cell research they'll pay for it. and since your only 13 if you go into court a judge will grant you the gift of abortion without telling your parents

 

Answer by People
Submitted on 11/14/2006
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I need some ways to help miscarry my baby too, i know it sounds bad but i come from another country and my parents will kill me literally. i didnt mean for it to happen, i only did it once :( plz someone help me. im too young to get an abortion and i dont have any money!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by hi. u need help
Submitted on 11/16/2006
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lulu chick ur retatrded........

hey 4000 times a day............. 167 times an hour.

2.75 min a day............

every 22 seconds.

a an american life is murdered

smoking can kill......

abortion always does........


it hurts the baby when it happens..  and i t hurts u before......during and after the abortion........... u will becom very depressed too  people help her..............

 

Answer by The man upstairs
Submitted on 11/20/2006
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i think the coat hanger idea should work

 

Answer by Squee
Submitted on 11/25/2006
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Wow you are a slut

 

Answer by UMMMM. YEA
Submitted on 11/26/2006
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OKay girl? whoever you are.. dont listen to these people. first of all i dont believe in abotions but if you fell like what you did is a mistake then do what you feel is right. And another thing, dont go posting your biz on the internet. ARE YOU CRAZY!! anyways yea talk to an adult. Because you will not be able to go throuhg this on your own.

 

Answer by 3w
Submitted on 11/29/2006
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WOW!!! girl just stand on your head and hope the baby falls in ur throat and choke you to death. see if you die, it dies poblem solved!

 

Answer by Need help
Submitted on 11/30/2006
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I think that u have to do what you have to do. I'm 15 and didnt even have sex and i am pregnant. i didnt think that could happen but it did. so if you dont want the baby its ur decison and u shouldnt listen to all these people putting you down. ok. live good, be true.

 

Answer by jake hayes
Submitted on 12/1/2006
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cook it slowly for 15 min on high temp then it should slide out nicly
then just take a hammer to its head
ant thrust a dager through the spleen









JUST KIDING

 

Answer by WONDERING?
Submitted on 12/2/2006
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CAN U GET PREGNANT FROM "PRE-CUM"

 

Answer by mari
Submitted on 12/2/2006
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!!wow!! this is the worst message i'VEEVER read!

 

Answer by mari
Submitted on 12/2/2006
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oh and eating spicy food will kill your unborn baby....ugh!! this is beyond stupid!!!! when I was preggie all I craved was spicy food.. I had my baby July 15th, 06.. boy was he da cutest little boy..
Let me tell u one thing, the reason u prolly feel that way is because u feel like ur parents wont help u.. but u never know.. they might be a little mad, but they'll be happy at the end. Pregnancy is scary, but its the most beautiful feeling, when u walk around the mall with ur maternity outfits, you just wanna be the center of attention, you feel so pretty, everyone walks and looks at how beautiful your belly looks. And I was scared before I had him.. but now, I see him, he's still a little baby, his look is sooo sweet and innocent, he laughs now when we play peek-ah boo.. and u know what, I would've missed all this fun If I didn't have him.. he's my little joy. Just yesterday I broke down crying cause I have so many problems, I had gone $400.00 negative on my bank account, my hubby might be going to jail cause he got a warrent, and I might lose my job.. but u know what..I went home, looked at my baby and he gave me a smile, I hugged him and everything seemed ok.. being with him makes me feel like my problems are gone.. and I tell you, it was all worth it :)

 

Answer by good
Submitted on 12/3/2006
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im in the same boat with you my gf thisnks she is and i think she is to she jsut started 3eating alot  her belly got a lil bigger and her boobsjust grew all with in a month  and shes 2 days late some 1 tell me what to to she dont want this baby and neither do i i cnt have a kid i love her and she loves but i cant havea baby she wants to kill it b4 it devolpes and i agr3e with her  some 1 help me

 

Answer by nina
Submitted on 12/7/2006
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ok first off ure still a little gurl ure barely a teenager!! ure still a baby!! why in the hell are u opening ure legs at such an age! wat guy would do that to u? let me guess some sick 17 or 18 year old?? u need help not to be rude but u r way to young an u deserve the consenquences.

 

Answer by Roslyn
Submitted on 12/7/2006
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Sweetie, you're not the only one. I'm sixteen and I might be pregnant. I'm not deffinately for sure. But I'm absolutely terrified. And when some of you people say talk to your parents, it's not that easy. I fight with my mom all the time and my dad would kill me, not to mention my boyfriend. My dad could charge my boyfriend with satutory rape, although as the saying goes "You can't rape the willing." Kind of stupid I know. But I know that my boyfriend would stick around. He wouldn't just leave. Afterall his dad left him and his mother. Plus she's lost his mom, step-dad, sister, and 5 month-old niece within 6 months. I'm pretty much all that he has. I want to talk to him about this but I'm scared to. If you guys have any non-religious advice about things you can do at home then email me at snoopy89_22@hotmail.com or IM me on AIM/AOL l0ve b4 lust So, please, please help me! And good luck to everybody else who needs it.

 

Answer by alyssa aros
Submitted on 12/7/2006
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you slut

 

Answer by Tati
Submitted on 12/8/2006
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Well Girl I feel your paine.NO I dont have any children ,but I know what a strugle it will be for you. Im only 14 But girl do whats best for you dont listen to some of these stupi comments on here. Trust me they will hurt you . Take my advice just trust in the Lord and he will make a way for you and your child. He will never leave you nor ,forsake you.I know i dont know you .But Im willing to help you and your baby if you want me to.
             GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by SEXXXI BAMBI
Submitted on 12/8/2006
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HAY I NOE THIS WAS POSTED TWO YEARS AGO BUT KNOW I'M 13 AND I'M PREGNANT I FOUND OUT THIS MOURNING AND I'M ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIED I ASKED THE SAME QUESTION ON GOGGLE AND SO IF YOU WOULD TELL ME WHAT YOU DID AND JUST A FEW WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT WOULD BE NICE PL
PEACE LOVE AND LIFE
YOUNG GIRL

 

Answer by Scared
Submitted on 12/9/2006
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hello i am 14 and in one month im turnin 15...i think i might be pregnant and i know what you gurls are feeling...i have been through alot...this is the 2 time i been pregnant and i am scared to death...my parents dont believe in having kids this young and the guy told my friends that me and him was never nothing and he had never done nothing wit me...i lost my virginity to him and did it with him twice and got pregnant last time but lost it.....he is the only guy i done it wit......AND TO YOU PEOPLE CALLIN USE SLUTS.....YEAH I BET YOU WAS WORSE AND TO THE GUYS I BET YOU ARE EVEN WORSE ABOUT SEX..plz help me!!

 

Answer by someone
Submitted on 12/12/2006
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let the baby live. God brought the baby into the world for a reson dont hurt the baby. let her grow up. Please...

 

Answer by tina
Submitted on 12/13/2006
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How mean and nasty of all of you to call her such horrid names. People make mistakes and I am sure you all have. I can relate to her, even though I am 28 years old. Ia m also pg and trying to find another option other than abortion. I have 3 children already and this was caused by a one night stand. I really just cant believe that some people are so heartless to call her names. Call me what you want but like I said, no one is perfect

 

Answer by babygirl
Submitted on 12/13/2006
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GIRL I AM 18 WEEKS PREGNANT AND CAME ACROSS YOUR PAGE.  I AM NOT GOING TO JUDGE U BUT I AM VERY HEARTBROKEN ON YOUR WAY OF PUTTING IT.  YOU DON'T WANT TO KILL YOUR BABY GO TO //www.priestsforlife.org/resources/abortionimages/index.htm GIRL AFTER YOU SEE THAT YOU WILL NEVER EVER EVER WANT TO KILL YOUR BABY.  MY SISTER JUST ADOPTED A NEW BABY THE OTHER MONTH AND WHAT A HAPPY FAMILY THEY ARE NOW THEY HAVE A JOY IN THEIR LIFE PLEASE PLEASE GIVE THE BABY TO SOMEONE THAT ISN'T AS LUCKY AS YOU ARE TO GET PREGNANT I BEG OF YOU GOD BLESS AND GOOD LUCK HUNNY BUT DON'T FORGET TO PLEASE GO TO THAT SITE AND THINK OF IT...........

 

Answer by jake hayes
Submitted on 12/15/2006
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i prefer to roast it slowly over an open flame for fiteen minutes that way the flesh is still warm and your teeth sink in easy

 

Answer by CANDY
Submitted on 12/18/2006
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PLEASE DONT MAKE THAT MISTAKE...A BABY IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING THAT CAN HAPPEN IN SOMEONES LIFE...OR ATLEAST IN MINE.IVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND ALMOST 10 MONTHS AND WE WANT A BABY REALLY BAD...BUT YEAH I GUESS MY PARENTS THINK THEY CAN STILL CONTROLL MY LIFE.IM CONFUSED...I DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD LEAVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND....ONE THING I CAN TELL YOU FOR SURE IS TO HAVE YOUR BABY...TALK TO YOUR PARENTS,THEYLL UNDERSTAND YOU...THEY HAVE ALOT OF LOVE FOR YOU..THEYLL UNDERSTAND THINGS HAPPEN...DONT LISTEN TO ALL THESE DUMB PEOPLE THAT ARE TALKING ABOUT NEGATIVE STUFF...THEY NEED TO GROW UP! JUST PLEASE KEEP YOU BABY...ITS GOING TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR EVER BUT FOR THE GOOD! YOULL SEE,WITH YOUR BABY,YOUR GOING TO LIVE A BEAUTIFUL LIFE. TAKE CARE.MUCH LOVE
           CANDY.

 

Answer by Alejandra G. Satanne
Submitted on 12/18/2006
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dfasdfa SATAN IS AWESOME!!

 

Answer by Heather
Submitted on 12/19/2006
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omg all these answers are so horrible
how can you people say these things?
esp the one who asked the question.
some of you ppl are sick

 

Answer by help
Submitted on 12/24/2006
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omg please help me i had sex and well we did use protection but i'm already 2 weeks late and well i haven't gotten apregnancy test but i'm really scared! please if u have any ideas or comments please e-mail me  ladiablita1012009@yahoo.com

 

Answer by w.belynda
Submitted on 12/28/2006
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I am 14 years old and I think that I am pregnant and I do not no what to do I only told some of my friends and I am still scared I am scared to tell my father because I don't no what he will do if i tell him that I am pregnant and the boy that I did it with I have not heard from him in the last 2 weeks I call him he does not answer I need help HELP ME PLEASE email me belyndaj2001@yahoo.com

 

Answer by crystalbkillenem
Submitted on 12/30/2006
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Well you made a mistake and everyone does people dont have to call you a slut im 14 im still a virgin but i thought about sex its natural but getting pregnant and having an abortion i would never do no mater howmad my parents might be thats just something you dont do but like I said people make mistakes.

 

Answer by Shelly
Submitted on 12/31/2006
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well i think that <b> babies at this age is gross </b> actually at any age...

if you need, i have awsome recipes to eat the baby. !!!



love ya

 

Answer by **********
Submitted on 1/2/2007
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i am disgraced at some of the advice some people are giving to a thirteen year old. she is only a baby herself all she wanted was some help and advice. and you never know what some of the comments people have put towards her will make her do. how would you like it if the shoe was one the other foot and you had a daughter her age, telling her things like that. these kind of comments could make her take her own life. But what goes around always comes back around.TO THOSE NASTY ONES. If you cant give decent advice then dont give none at all.

 

Answer by ps01
Submitted on 1/2/2007
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Sweetheart, I'm in the same situation. I'm 15 and scared as hell. I cant tell my parents otherwise they would kill me and i would not be able to see my boyfriend after that day. I want to get rid of the baby. Ive hit myself in the stomach but I'm not sure if its working. I wouldn't want to wait up one day and my tummy be ten times bigger. All i can say is that I'm looking for the same answer. Sorry to hear about your news, good luck.
ps.

 

Answer by Loc
Submitted on 1/3/2007
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I know how you feel on new years day of 07 my boyfriend of 16 told me he bust a nut ~n~ me (some new years gift) I was so scared of what I new my mother would do I also thought of killing my baby but I've thought it over and decided that my baby didn't ask for this nor should I take it away from what might be the best life for it you should have yo baby and not even give it up. If you do your baby will most likely hate you for giving him/her up in da first place so have it love it it could be the next president you never know

 

Answer by innocent-girly xXxXxXxXXxXXx
Submitted on 1/4/2007
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girl i no dis was poseted so long ago like years and ur like 16 now but hu cares its summit to do aii girl i hop eu ad dat baby hun cus if u did ya'no mayb u changed ur mind y'no mayb u had it and got it adopted i dunno but i hope u happy now kk and dont listen to dos ppl callin u a slut and a slag and dat dont listen kk !! i no im only 12 (im not preggy btw) but u no im quite mature for me age so y'no get well soon hunni bunch and hope u all groovy
lvya innocent-girly xXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxxxXxX

 

Answer by im fat and proud and only
Submitted on 1/5/2007
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come on me

 

Answer by 25 and really worried
Submitted on 1/5/2007
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What if you've been pregnant for a couple of months but just ended a period last month and are still spotting, should abortion be considered?

 

Answer by marsadie
Submitted on 1/8/2007
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u better give that baby up 4 adoption cuz if u  kill a baby u will go 2 hell and u will regret it later own n life pleaz dnt kill it god cant 4give u 4 suicide u reep wat u so

 

Answer by Jesus
Submitted on 1/9/2007
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I will suck the fetus from your womb with a straw and swallow the tasty treat as a vitamin shake

 

Answer by Jessica
Submitted on 1/12/2007
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I've been undergoing infertility treatments for a while now and if you feel you can't take care of your child, I'll be more than happy to adopt it! I live in WV and am married to a wonderful man. We would give a baby a wonderful, loving life. I don't know how anyone could kill their baby, but I've never been in that situation, and I was raised believing otherwise, but if anyone decides they can't go through with raising a child, we're here or if you need help in finding a place to help you in this situation without having to kill your baby, I'll be more than happy to help my yahoo is sugar_n_spice10985 or my myspace is www.myspace.com/jess_n_mike4ever

 

Answer by diva305
Submitted on 1/16/2007
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girl you know ill i have to tell you is that love you Ur baby that is the most precious thing eva ama turn 14 in i have sex  to in i don't use protection. but amt start cause i wanna have fun in this world.
having a baby at such a young age doesn't feel good.but ill i wish u the best

 

Answer by brit
Submitted on 1/16/2007
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i think I'm pregnant. Not sure. how do I kill my baby without an abortion? PLEASE help.

 

Answer by Britskers
Submitted on 1/17/2007
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I am 15, turning 16 soon. I have been going out with my boyfriend for a long time and we are madly in love. we are planning to spend our future together. before him i didnt believe in sex or anything like it until marraige. but its different when your in love. he became my first time. im am no slut or anything of the sort. i have done it about 5 times and every time we used a condom. the last time we did it was a week from today, and i think im late on my period. i also think the condom might have leaked last time. im really nervous that i may be pregnant .. and dont know what to do about it.. i could not tell my mom, or my family at all because i would be a huge disappointment to everybody. all of my family are huge christians and would pretty much hate me if they found out. i want to get rid of the baby with out hurting anybody . i dont know what to do and im not even sure if im pregnant. please help me out. email me at Britskers@yahoo.com

thank you so much all comments are appreciated.

 

Answer by  
Submitted on 1/19/2007
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Answer by advice.....
Submitted on 1/20/2007
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I have to say
  No One should be rude on this site; everyones life is different and unique & things happen; thats how we learn.  Some of us don't have good role models and some of us are looking for affection in the wrong way and some women or girls are sexually abused.  Men are able to behave sexually without websites like this because they are not the ones who have the big decision when it comes to pregnancy.  (well actually they do to some degree)
We women & girls need to bond and try to be helpful not mean.
I myself had an abortion once, I had an affair, became pregnant and made this choice. The entire event changed my view of life in that I respect 'other peoples relationships & making a baby is special.  
I found the abortion itself to be ok, but the after thoughts and emotions were very hard on me.  I don't even kill bugs if I don't have to...so this was a HUGE conflict of interest.
Bottom line is, abortion is out there as an option.  It's not easy emotionally.  
Use protection, or don't have sex at all.  And if you keep the child, do what's best for it.
Good luck to you all past present & future!

 

Answer by soumAsSP h 0 l3
Submitted on 1/21/2007
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wHell. t HERE |S ae k ILL pi LL
Heroin.
cocaine-
or kill yourself :D

 

Answer by thomas
Submitted on 1/24/2007
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HI my name is alanza thomas i just want to say that you a smart girl do you know what your doing by killing your baby god made you and he is also makeing your baby for you god put that baby here for a reason your mom are dad dont want you to have a baby because at your age maybe they no what it fill like when they was young its a lot to do a baby is not so easy to take care of but your mom did what she had to do its hard i seen my sister take care of her kids and she always need help she now has 3 kids one is 10 and 6 and 3 and her kids dads are not there for her she do it all by her self and they have every thing they need she works hard to but she gets it done thats why i hepl her a lot because i no she was not thinging when she had them kids what she was geting in to shes liveing a hard life she had 3 abortions and that hurt me to my hart because them babys need to be in this world and i look at her kids and say they are a gife in this world they said her frist baby was going to have prombles and it was going to be slow and they did not know what they was talking about she is so smart she can do my home work and she is 10 and im 16 what im trying to say is that babys is a gife from god and keep the baby.

 

Answer by 13 yr old slutt
Submitted on 1/27/2007
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just have sex while your pregnant can i come?

 

Answer by jessica
Submitted on 1/28/2007
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alright. i had sex with my boyfriend. i'm fifteen. i know young. and we were doing it and the condom broke. like he said he wasn't about to ejaculate or anything. i was just wondering if i could still possibly get pregnant. i'm so scared. i think about it all the time. i think maybe that me stressing over this may cause me to have a late period. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP!!!

 

Answer by J
Submitted on 1/29/2007
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This is the sickest webiste that I have ever seen , letting someone even have the option of asking how to kill their baby and some peoples responses are so disturbing. How is this even legal?????????????

 

Answer by unknown
Submitted on 1/31/2007
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Hi why whould u get an aboction thats so mean... and thats like killing a living peron give it ta an addoption center...
-unknowm

 

Answer by age16
Submitted on 2/3/2007
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i know how you feel i am so lost right now i don't know if i am but i think so. i don't know what to do. my family won't help. they won't love me anymore. i would be on my own with my boyfriend. i haven't told him that i think i am yet because i don't want to ruin his life. we love each other even though older people might not think that we can love at this age. i don't want to depend on his family because his mom is a single mom and has to work two jobs just to support themselves and me and a baby on top of that, do you see what i am up against. i never had a mom really there for me and that's the only thing that i know i would be able to do right in my life. but i am young and no one is ever going to take me seriously about this. i don't know what to do if anyone would like to help me please, i need it. i am lost with no one there.

 

Answer by mell
Submitted on 2/4/2007
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Answer by poo bear
Submitted on 2/8/2007
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can u send me some pichres and i might buy it

 

Answer by chic2007
Submitted on 2/9/2007
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First off I would like to something to jasmine. She's not a slut you have no idea about what is going on in her life other than she is 13 and pregnant. Get off your high horse! Now to answer the question I think that you should go to a local planned parenthood to discuss options and also to get help with a professional. You need to understand that this decision will stick with you for the rest of your life. You need to understand that you may regret it. I would talk to other people that have had abortions to see how it has effected them and also speak with people who not to. This is a decision that you shouldn't make alone! I know right now you are scared and confused and I would be to but you really need to talk to someone about those feelings. At your age medically going through with the pregnancy could damage you. At your age your body is not fully capable of handling a baby and you may most likely miscarry or the baby may have some defects. I am going to assume that the baby's father one is older than you and two doesn't know that you are pregnant or doesn't care. This is as much his problem as it is yours. Children are a blessing and truly a miracle but not if you are not ready. You don't want to hate your child because you made a mistake. There are alot of things you should have done like using protection or even not having sex but you chose your path and now you have more options. Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes you have to deal with it even when your not ready. I am not going to preach to you about whether it is right or wrong or that you are too young to have sex you have already went through that yourself. I would suggest talking to a professonail about your decision to have sex to find out why you felt so strongly about becomeing an adult. Be a kid life is short and soon you will be worrying about bills and work. Enjoy it while you can. Don't feel that you need to have sex to be cool. The people you are friends with now once you graduate you probably will never speak again. Life isn't about who is cool or who has the most money it's about living life as much as you can and making yourself happy. Don't ever let anyone make you feel like your nothing. I am sorry that this is so long but I am doing a collage paper on abortion and came across this site and really wanted to let you know that regardless of what you choose it is your choice and your choice alone what you do with your body but you still need to talk to someone about what you are going through, and don't listen to people try to guilt you. One last thing if you do decide that you do not want to have the baby get an abortion do not do it on your own. You don't want to hurt yourself to the point that you are never able to have kids.

With Love and Support,
Chic2007


 

Answer by All The Right Regrets
Submitted on 2/12/2007
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For all the people who are calling this poor girl a slut, you need to take a step back and think about what you are doing. This poor girl is only 13, she is scared and vulnerable, she came here for help not critisism from close mined judgemental people who want to jump to conclusion. She probably didn't want a few people to push their values or beliefs on her. Thats stupid and far from what she needs.


 

Answer by 14yrs
Submitted on 2/16/2007
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im going through the same thing,,im about to be 14 and im almost a month pregnant,,and my parents still havent found out,,and i dont want them to find out,,so i cant get an abbortion proffesionaly and both me and my boyfriend want to have the baby,,but we cant. we dont want to kill it,,it goes against everything we believe in,,but if we had the baby we would both be dead,,and i dont know how to get rid of this baby without killing myself. please help,,what should i do?

 

Answer by mother of 9
Submitted on 2/17/2007
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get salt mix it with water vinegar and alcohol. get some bud(weed) smoke it all night till your high. than when you have the baby choke it than eat it.

 

Answer by oops, i did it again
Submitted on 2/20/2007
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umm, i have been with my girlfriend for one and a half years. we have had sex twice a night for the past year. it was all unprotected and i dont like to pull out. i thought she was pregnant so when she was sleeping i punched her in the stomach. she woke up and we went to the hospital. the baby was dead....problem solved!!!!!

 

Answer by YOUR MOM!
Submitted on 2/21/2007
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THIS IS RIDICULOS! this baby is crying foR someone to love it and your taking that life away.. how coulD you??
i know what you guyS are going through. ive been pregnant before and im only 15 but i had a miscarrige.
please let this baby live..
what did they do to deserve to DIE!?

 

Answer by jordn
Submitted on 2/22/2007
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i think some of yall girls are stupid 1st of all having sex come with consiquenes you got pregnant deal with it, it was ment to happen my situation is why worse then any of yours and still im not going to get an abortin i am 16 and pregnant by a 32 year old i love him to death, and i dont wont him to go to prison but he may go i live in florida so or laws are gay even as much as i love him im not goin gto do it he is very supported of me and even if your baby daddy dosent support you and that is the reason to get an abortion then somthing is wrong with you cause i would never put a man first in my childs life yall need help if you get an abortion

 

Answer by lil nesha
Submitted on 2/23/2007
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hi dnt listen to these supose to be grown women. Do wat ur heart feel but remember wat u have done to your child.I looked up sum info it says vitamin c will do tha job,well i have 2 go bye

 

Answer by blickity blam
Submitted on 2/24/2007
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Get on birth control kiddies.

 

Answer by mother of 3
Submitted on 2/24/2007
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i know u are really young but do not self abort it is dangerous and let me tell u a story i was 14 when i got pregnant and i had a son at 15 then when i was 16 i got pregnant again and had my second son when i was 17 and I'm 18 almost 19 and have my third child its a little girl and i graduated high school and am going to collage. i have a father who was killed and a mother who is an alcoholic look for a support group talk to some one you can trust  

 

Answer by La'Courtney
Submitted on 2/25/2007
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For all u young teenagers getting pregnat all i can tell u is wrap it up b/c u never know what you'll end up with besides a baby.

 

Answer by kayla
Submitted on 2/26/2007
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Hi girl  ........   I am kayla .....  And I am 15 teen and I have I baby who is 2 months old and she ( makayla) is the best thing that happended  to me so have your baby if you don't you will think about it your hole life cause makayla is not the first time I got a baby but the first baby I KILLED and I wish god, how io wish I WOULD HAVE NEVER LOSE HIM CAUSE i THINK ABOUT EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE A CHILD IS A bless from GOD so keep you baby ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,  You will love your child like your mom loves you !!!!!!! keep him or her ............  think about if your mom would have done that do you just something to think about !!!!!!11

 

Answer by madz
Submitted on 2/26/2007
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uh hi. im madison. im 13 too. i am this close to doing that "coat hanger abortion" thing. i dont know, i cant tell my parents. i know they will blow it all out of proportion.  help?

 

Answer by uh yeah
Submitted on 2/28/2007
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Get the morning after pill...or fall down some stairs. If I got pregnant, and I'm 18, I'd have my boyfriend punch me in the stomach....several times.
But that's just me.

 

Answer by lydia
Submitted on 3/1/2007
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If your not willing to tell your parents - as you may not be close to them or other probelms. Tell someone like a aunty , or cousin or a friends mum. And they may be able to help you in this situation.I've been there before but please do not listen to some peoples comments and do something stupid. There are other options,

 

Answer by someone
Submitted on 3/3/2007
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I dont care if it is wrong to kill a baby, I'll have one later in life, but for now, I have the same question as you. For me, I'm not sure if I AM pregnant, but I'm continueing birth control either way, because that's one way to kill it. If that fails, I'll take mutiple "day after" pills and so things such as punch myself in the stomach and run so much that I throw up and go in hottubs for hours (or just fill my own tub up with burning hot water...that'd work, too)...well yeah good luck with disposing of your non born brat.

 

Answer by Piper Sue Anne
Submitted on 3/6/2007
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girl i wish i could help but at the moment im in the same boat you are. im 16 and i think i am. so i wish i could help... you could leave your baby with a police officer, you wont be charged and they will find a good home for it. thats what my best friend did.  

 

Answer by dani dear
Submitted on 3/6/2007
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well
i think all the people calling you a whore and such need to die.
they DONT know you.

and i know how you feel.
just...
stop eating for a few days.

 

Answer by well said netswan
Submitted on 3/8/2007
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theres a lot that netswan says, that is very wise and constructive, its a shame theres a minority of immature singled minded people in here, who seem to think they havn't fu*ked up once in there lives, we wasnt born perfect, and nobody in here really knows this girls full story to why she opened her legs to this mistake, it seems to me shes a scared girl whos desparate for a solution.... so those who chuck comments like slut keep your legs closed and adviseing this girl to self harm herself and the baby think carefully on what your advising, because you are just as bad as the mother who choose'sto abort the babie???  not only could you influnece the girl to kill her self but the babie you so call care about would be dead to... now to the girl you have to options to better your future as you are only 13 and your body is not fully developed have a abortion or adopt the babie.... my personal thoughts on abortion services and adoption services i think they should be used for extreme circumstances, and for parents with young kids like this its your responsiblitie to make sure your kids are protected regardless other wise when your backs turned, this is what goes on...!!! i hope this makes sense to all if it dont anaylis what i wrote peace.......!!

 

Answer by POS
Submitted on 3/8/2007
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Mummy Loves us all so don't forget this

 

Answer by down girl 13yrs old's baby
Submitted on 3/9/2007
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Mommy I want to die.  You would too if you had to live in your stinking rotting slutty vagina.

 

Answer by genn
Submitted on 3/10/2007
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your a whore just to let you know.

 

Answer by Quandary
Submitted on 3/10/2007
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Hey, dummies, don't panic!

Check out:
http://ec.princeton.edu/emergency-contraception.html

and find out how to get it:
http://ec.princeton.edu/get-ec-now.html

In Switzerland it's called "NorLevo" and available in Pharmacies without prescription. I don't know about the US, but Princeton says it's called "Plan B" and I think it's probably available in a pharmacy of your choice (find out)...

Also, it's well-known that if you take the emergency contraception pills for several days (better weeks) after being pregnant, you will be very likely to loose your baby quite soon. And after all, that's what you want...

But if you can afford it, you should really consider a proper abortion (the others are right, talk to your parents - they surely won't like it, probably  curse at you as well <<actually, that is what I would do, too, if you were my children>> but they will definitely NOT kill you)!!!

{- If you can't talk to your parents, try your grand-parents or maybe a sympathetic teacher... and tell them to "shut-up", but in a nice way.

Also, maybe you can find feminist or pro-women  organisations, 'check the phone directory', in the part that is called "yellow pages"
}

However, unlike some people here, I would NOT recommend you having a child at 13/14/15 etc. for medical, educational, and after all financial reasons!!!

Speaking in medical terms:
If you are below 18/19 years (or if you are above 35 years), YOU are called: "HIGH-RISK pregnancy"!

...Maybe you should use condoms more often...
would be a lot more comforting and safe...
...especially on behalf of HIV/AIDS...

You can use the internet to buy them online anonymously, if you are too shy to go to a shop...

Don't listen to the f****** religious people who tell you not to have sex at below 18. They tell a lot of crap anyway! Their problem is, that they simply don't value joy. (And by the way, they would also forbid abortion or contraception or birth-control in general, if only they could.)

Enjoy love, but use condoms! That's the right way. Even over 18 ;-)

Hoping having helped...


Greetings from Switzerland

Somebody
Physics faculty
Swiss Federal Institute of Technology

 

Answer by Anonymous22
Submitted on 3/11/2007
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i know what you're going through. im a year older than you and i have the same problem. i came to this website seeking advice as well and so if there are any other girls who do..

the things ive found to do are drink orange juice and take lots of vitamin C. another thing is some kind of southern medicine called castrol or something.

 

Answer by killa
Submitted on 3/12/2007
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coat hanger and bleach.
(you can figure out the rest)

 

Answer by Erin
Submitted on 3/13/2007
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Do it up, hun. Tell your parents 'cause I'm pretty sure you might need a legal guardian with you if you're only thirteen. Or not, I could be wrong. But talk to them anyway. Tell them about what you're thinking of doing. They'll want what's best for you anyway, and should try to put you on a good path to heal. The whole baby thing really sucks if you're not ready for it. Some people have had better results, but you know yourself best, eh?
Get on with it, though. Don't leave it too long, or the process will suck even more. Sooner the better.

 

Answer by mee
Submitted on 3/14/2007
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hey you should not even think about killing ur baby if u did want the damn thing then you should not have had sex in the frecking first place.

 

Answer by ghsadl
Submitted on 3/15/2007
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freak!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by Shadow
Submitted on 3/15/2007
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To answer your original question, you can do a number of things in an attempt to terminate your pregnancy. There is herbal abortion, but it's very unreliable and can get expensive, so I do not suggest that. Do all the things pregnannt women are advised not to do - smoke, drink, do drugs, exercise heavily, take very hot baths (or use a hot tub), have someone strike you in the stomach with a lot of force. At the very least, if you use a lot of substances, your fetus might be so deformed that an abortion - even late-term - would be recommended. Exposing your body to hot water frequently by soaking in a hot bath or jacuzzi will increase the chance of miscarriage.

If it's early in the pregnancy, try taking large amounts of parsley and ginger, either in the form of strong tea or the herbs themselves. These two herbs are commonly used to induce menstrual flow, and you may be able to bleed away the uterine lining containing the embryo.

If you can get your hands on a medication called Misoprostol, take that. This is a drug used to treat ulcers, but it has abortifacent properties (meaning it can kill a developing fetus). Extremely high amounts of vitamin C (taken in supplement form, most likely) will cause a drop in progesterone, which is a hormone essential to pregnancy - this can sometimes lead to miscarriage.

I strongly advise against coat hangers or any other objects being inserted into your body because it could gouge your inner body and cause infection, internal bleeding, even death.

 

Answer by bere alston
Submitted on 3/16/2007
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i kill her by suferkating her

 

Answer by Alex K.
Submitted on 3/19/2007
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Abortion is the best choice for you.  You certainly made a mistake, but it's all a part of life.  Talk to an adult you can trust, call planned parenthood, set up an appointment and go through with it.  And next time, please think first and protect yourself.

Alex.

 

Answer by Nurez
Submitted on 3/20/2007
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Well. You should get a knife and try to pick the fetus out, and when that doesn't work, try using a hook, like the fishermen use. That works everytime.
Thank'sfor the advise.

Wanna call me ?

 

Answer by kkk
Submitted on 3/20/2007
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LISTEN UP...
okay im a 14 year old girl...
and i think im pregnant...
and its not easy...
let me tell u my story..
my sister got preg. at 16 and it ruined my family..i couldnt ever do that to my parents again...they hated it.
soooo. i think i am. and my friend
kept punching herself in the stomach...
and she ended up at the hospital with enternal bleeding and clots. she said it was the most painful thing ever.
and still i CANT go to the hospital b/c my parents will know...
so please some one help me find out a way to kill it safely...w/o parents...
PLEASE!!!:'(

 

Answer by Jessy
Submitted on 3/22/2007
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I personally think that if you are woman enough to make the baby, then you are woman enough to take care of it. It dosn'tmatter if you can take care of it, you can put it up for adoption. I strongly believe that if you want to kill babies you, in turn, should be systematically shot in the face. Killing a baby is like pushing a paralized person off of a cliff. They don't know that it's comming and there is nothing they can do about it. That is probably the most low down thing you could ever ever do. You openened the can of worms and you need to deal with the consequences.

 

Answer by Babyg
Submitted on 3/24/2007
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babes, abortion is not that bad, i had one in 2006 i is over and done with in 20Min you can get back to normal the next day, just make sure somebody is there with you and you have support afterwards.....

 

Answer by nelly
Submitted on 3/28/2007
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do not do something you are going to regret later on in time. a child is something that doesn't always come easy to everyone. keep it or give it up for adoption. don't kill your baby.definately don't kill yourself.

 

Answer by a brunette from bama
Submitted on 3/28/2007
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Darlin, im 15 & pregnant right now & dont know what to do or how to tell my dad. my boyfriends parents & my mom knows. but abortion has yet to cross my mind. & killing other ways will effect you. please hunny dont hurt yourself. just have it. & if push comes to shove. then abort it the right way. just remember its not the babys fault & i have to tell myself that  everyday! take care & good luck

 

Answer by Kayla
Submitted on 3/29/2007
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Hey, I cannot tell you that you should not have had sex at all because I am 18 and I started havin sex at a very young age also. I will say this tho, if you have an abortion, you will think about that baby everday. You will always wonder what she/he could've been, where they could have gone, and you wouldnt know because you wouldn't give them a chance. You may even think about it spiritually and wonder if they are upset with you and if God doesn't want you anymore because of it or you may feel like God can nevre look at you the same again. I should know---- I have been there before. But ust listen, do this ONLY because YOU want to, if you are havin any second thoughts about it...any at all, even a lil thought, then DON'T do it because chances are, you will regret it later. Everything happens for a reason, how about keep the baby, she/he could change your life :]

 

Answer by jazzie j*
Submitted on 3/30/2007
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ummm..where should i start?...iim 13 as well..and im a curious girl..i have had sex with this boy nearly 7 times and i think im pregnant as well..and there's no way i could tell my mommy..nor my father..my mother works at a hospital in labor and delivery and she always tell me about all the teenage girls that have babies and she says that embarrass the mother..ii dont know what i was thinking when i did what i was doing...i really do regret it because now im in something that i cant get out..and i ave nobody to talk to but him and he keeps saying im not pregnant..but i dont think he knows what is going on...we are both young..(13+14)...t00 young to be parents and i should have said no...i know..but its hard to do that when you think some boy loves you and he wont do anything to get you into trouble..i dont undersatand!.but i wish someone could help me too because i was trying to find a way to get rid of this baby too...but i dont want the risks of abortion because my stepmother died from having an abortion..and i dont want to let my belly grow either!.im scared half to death..HELP us!

 

Answer by lala
Submitted on 3/31/2007
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um wat can i say like you guys r crazy i have a friend who is pregrant now and i want to help so bad but i really dont know wat to do... i have been online trying to gather some ideas to help her but i dont know man ur buggin if your having sex aat that age and on top of dat u had unpreteced sex wow

 

Answer by just wondering
Submitted on 4/1/2007
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I was researching for a report that i have to write for school... and was just wondering how this whole thing turned out.  I was reading the comments and it is like an unfinished story.  What is the ending?

 

Answer by christina
Submitted on 4/1/2007
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i think i am prego and i cant stand that thought of having a baby at this age i am 15 almost 16 and i have so much more to live... if i tell my mom she will kill me and my dad... i cant even begin... i am so in shock at this whole thing.. my boyfriend and i thought that it was alll fun and games.. and that having sex was "fun". things were great.. the feeling tha thoughts the ...EVERYTHING... until our 15 time having sex the condom broke... and he didnt cum a lot in the condom but a little and i hear that you can get pregnant from the "pre-cum" and boy have i been praying for my period... i know that i have the ability to be a great mom... but not now.. i am head of the cheer squad and vp of my school. i have so many things to do and i cant stand the thought of telling my parents. i know just how you feel..i am only in highschool and you... you are 13... i feel so sorry for you. it has only been 2 1/2 weeks since my last period and it is normally irregular so we will just wait and see. i did talk to someone about it though. and i think you should do the same. i talked to my bestfriends mother who is just about the mother known to man good luck

 

Answer by Jesus Christ
Submitted on 4/1/2007
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My child just place the baby in a blender and hit puree. That is what I did when my father who art in heaven, forced me to rape those prostitutes.

 

Answer by It's okay
Submitted on 4/3/2007
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Dont worry about all those telling you that YOUR decision. People are so SELF CENTERED I'm sick of them thinking some "great family" will adopt your child when in many cases children end up in Foster homes until age 18 at which time they are kicked out onto the streets with no support. Most of whom end up in and out of jail for the rest of there lives. These great families people speak of are rare, especially after a new case of child molestation is reported nearly everyday with the aggressors being ADOPTED AND FOSTER PARENTS so why dont people worry about themselves and quit trying to make others feel guilty about personal decisions. REALITY CHECK PEOPLE ARE HAVING SEX AT YOUNGER AGES THESE DAYS GET IT THROUGH YOUR HEADS IDIOTS!!!! Worry about your own children and grandchildren before you start judging others. Besides look at yourself in the mirror and ask HAVE I REALLY MADE MYSELF PROUD?? I dont think any of us are pure of mistakes so SHUT UP already!!!!

 

Answer by kill that baby
Submitted on 4/3/2007
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kill the baby with a rusty spoon and eat the remains you slut.The other way is to find Ozzy Ozborne and pay him to bite its head off on national television. Oh yeah almost forgot









SLUT

 

Answer by tyler
Submitted on 4/4/2007
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go into the bathroom and beat your stomach with a bat

 

Answer by That One dude
Submitted on 4/5/2007
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...>.> Abort it. Now. Kill it if you already gave birth to it. Its a demon child.

 

Answer by anonima
Submitted on 4/7/2007
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wtf is this serious? really, do you think its normal to be embraced at age of 13?? dont use stupid suicide methods and go to the doctor...

 

Answer by Curriebum
Submitted on 4/9/2007
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i think u should just wait untill u r sure about what u want .. i think its sad that u r so young and ur not a slag because ur only 13 .. just think about what ur doing and make sure ur always safe x

 

Answer by queen
Submitted on 4/10/2007
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How could you think something like that me and my husban have been tring to have a baby but can't cause he can't really have any kids and your tiring to get rid of yours your all dumb I tell you little girls like you are stupied wanting to have sex yall are just dumb really.
        

 

Answer by miley
Submitted on 4/10/2007
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I do not want to kill my baby.

 

Answer by me
Submitted on 4/12/2007
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i am ashamed in some of your replys to this girl. she dose not need to be told that she is wrong or that her disisions she has made were wrong .. she knows that .. she needs to be told what top do from hear.
she needs help .. in knowing what to do with her baby .. what todo with her self and what to do wioth the relationship between her perents. insted of yelling abuse at her y not try and help her..
now darlin i cant help you personally because i have no idea who you are or what you ar goin through .. onkly you know that ..
i think you need to talk to someone about what your feeling immidetly .. if you cant talk to your perents . go to the doctor .. or even your local church , chaplain at school some one that will listen to you and can tell you were to go from hear..
i would listen to some of what these people hav saed about adoption and abortion... i would not try to do it your self ..
most impoortantly .. your disision will stay will you untill the day you die... be prepared for that.. if you feel lyk you can live with the disision you make then its all up to you ,,,
but as long as you learn from every thin.. im not saying DONT HAV SEX but jus think about it ,,, love your self and have respect for your self  and know you are surrounded by ppl who love you ( even though you may not know it )
i hope you make you disisions wisely
and i hope you learn and find positive in this situation
thank you for letting me hav my oppinion
and i know you are quite scared atm so if i can do any thin
emil me .. jaydey_schenk@hotmai.com
i have jus turned 18 (if that helps you to approch me, some tyms age makes a difference)
hope to hear from you
GOD bless

 

Answer by garcia
Submitted on 4/13/2007
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hey girls do what u think is if u dont have a good life then dnt have it

 

Answer by some thoughts
Submitted on 4/17/2007
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I tried for over a year to get pregnant and am now finally expecting my first baby.  Don't abort your babies; there are SOOO many people who would love to take care of your baby for you...I would have given anything to be able to adopt someones baby for them.  Carry the baby for 9 months of your life, and then you can go on living knowing that your baby is safe and cared for.  http://care-net.org/  

 

Answer by pretty_eyes
Submitted on 4/19/2007
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i feel the same as all you young girls, i just turned 15 a month ago... but i havent had my period in four months... the guy am pregnant by i have been with since i was 12yrs old so i basiclly grew up with him.
It's a HARD thing to go through b/c am going through it... NONE OF YOU ARE SLUTS! Were are young &nd we are going through life we are all bound to make mistakes! you learn from these mistakes... now i have to look and think hard &nd figure what am going to do for me &nd my baby...
so good luck to every girl going through this... &nd am gonna wish myself good luck..
thankx for listening to what i have to say...
<3 ily.

 

Answer by experienced mum
Submitted on 4/22/2007
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to all those young ones that are pregnant, please don't listen to most of the people. thank you to those that have given good or positive advice. regardless of what others have called you or how they have judged you, you are only human. good people make bad decisions, and you can only do what is right for you! at 18 i fell pregnant and preyed to god that i would miscarry, i was so distraught but soon became excited. my proudest moment was giving birth to my beautiful little boy. the next day we discovered my baby had a life threatening disease and was able to choose to let him die. i feel god was testing me, i chose life. i hated seeing my baby have open heart surgery at 6 days old! he is now 5! I also have a 3 year old, i didn't want him either but the love i have for him could never be compromised!!! i also now have a 4 month old boy and have just discovered I'm8 weeks pregnant. again i do not want what is inside of me, this time though  i didn't have a choice, i was raped by my boyfriend. I know though that i can love this child and just need to focus on that!!!! my point is, there is always a choice and only you can decide what the right choice for you is. just ask yourself first though, if i wake up in ten years time and regret my decision? will i at that point have different views and class myself as a murderer? please, i mean nothing by those questions just realistically i mean, look to the future!!!! and good luck!!!! xxx

 

Answer by trouble
Submitted on 4/24/2007
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i think people should not have one because god said you should not murder any one  

 

Answer by babie eater 5$
Submitted on 4/24/2007
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run it over with a lawn mower, but ,make sure its the old ones with the blades that go whooooooosh because the new ones are too messy

 

Answer by Lady tweety
Submitted on 4/25/2007
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i am 16 and i am pregnent i don't know what to do i haven't told my mom cuz she said she will put me out my boyfriend wants the baby and i am havin second thoughts i love kids and i want my own i'mjust scared of what my mom might say and judge me help me please someone

 

Answer by ur best friend
Submitted on 4/26/2007
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i think u sould drink tea and coffee that is wat i think and use condoms lots of condoms

 

Answer by Jay*Me
Submitted on 4/27/2007
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It's ok maybe you were in the wrong place at the wrong time.... I think that u should keep your baby even though it's going to be hard!! I'm 13 too so i can understand about how you feel...

 

Answer by jessica
Submitted on 4/28/2007
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use the after morning pill

 

Answer by nikki
Submitted on 4/30/2007
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call me and I'll buy it from you. Baby organs are a real hot item. Livers are going for 10 even 20 Gs. Let me know

 

Answer by No
Submitted on 5/2/2007
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Answer by babygirl
Submitted on 5/3/2007
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im 7months pregnant my mum hasnt noticed yet but i really want to kill it!! if she finds out sh will thro me out.. and ill hav no where 2 go! plz sum1 tell me how i can kill it xxx

 

Answer by Dani
Submitted on 5/3/2007
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hey i am only 15 and i have heard stories of how, sex can ruin your life...and personally i don't wanna wait till marriage i am waiting for love..and not anytime soon, but that isn't my point i think you could wait till you can share it with someone very special...i hope you can do something very great and this is a lession, well a very hard one but we all make them. Some greater then others. and sweetheart if this man really loved you, really loved you, he wouldn't have said yes, then got you pregnant..think before you wanna have fun.

 

Answer by Alexia
Submitted on 5/4/2007
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I got pregnant at 17 and wanted to get an abortion but my boyfriend convinced me not to. I still didn't want the baby but I got through. I had an accident when I was 4 1/2 months pregnant and lost my baby. DO NOT ABORT YOUR BABY! Losing my baby made me realize how much I really wanted to have the baby. I felt empty inside. I was numb. If you give up this baby, you will be filled with regret. And there is no changing the past. If you really want to give up this baby, please set up an adoption. Try not to set it up until after you have the baby. You might change your mind. Don't have an abortion. You will regret it.

 

Answer by neasha b
Submitted on 5/5/2007
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well im sorry for i dont kno wwhat to tell you but all these others women on here thats calling you names they need to show some respect. If it was them i wouldnt treat them that way well all ima say is that if u want the baby then keep it and if your baby's daddy is envovled in the childs life i say keep it forget all the people thats calling you names everything happens for a reason so god would not be calling you that. God bless

 

Answer by omg im  pregnant
Submitted on 5/6/2007
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omg i am only 11 and i got pregnant. my brother made me have sex with his friend and if my mom finds out i will be killed what should i do i no how you feel

 

Answer by Empress
Submitted on 5/6/2007
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Hi, down Girl, your question was posted 4 years ago, I hope you are well and that you made the right decision for you. I don't know if you will even read this, but If you do I hope you know that the people that were mean and rude just dont know enough about people to understand your pain and confusion. If you ever need someone to talk to, e-mail me or add me to your msn v_a_m_p@hotmail.com All my best wishes
xxx

 

Answer by sophie
Submitted on 5/7/2007
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i am 13 and firstly to all the people who are being incredibly rude towards pregnant youngsters then please stop! I really want a baby but i wont have one because my parents would be devastated and ashamed of me and i couldn't do that to them. However if i new they wouldn't react that way i would have a child like that! Whether it was a mistake or not no one deserves some of the comments that have been given. Words can't describe how much i want a baby but I'm quite clever at school and i know i could have a good career after school if i continued my education. Has anyone got any advice on how to overcome this constant want! I'd like to babysit or anything to just be with a baby but i don't know anyone with young children:S

 

Answer by John Evanzzzzzzzzzz
Submitted on 5/7/2007
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i like 13 year old girls. maybe i could video tape you in my studio sometime

 

Answer by Reaper
Submitted on 5/7/2007
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look i dont know about the killing part but my Gf is i THINK but am not shere pregnent but im terrifid and her parents will kill here anyway and this is a small town everyone nows her parents so she cant talk to anyone...help...plz

 

Answer by angel
Submitted on 5/8/2007
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i think i have a solution, there is this girl in my first hour who name is Brooke Richardson and she says she has killed her baby has a new baby and also has had had a miscarriage so if you want to contact her call the Green River Wyoming Youth home and ask for Brooke.

 

Answer by angel
Submitted on 5/8/2007
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i thinkn i have a solution, there is this girl in my first hour who name is Brooke Richardson and she says she has killed her baby has a new baby and also has had had a misscarrage so if you want to contact her call the Green River Wyoming Youth home and ask for Brooke.

 

Answer by kk
Submitted on 5/8/2007
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its ok just keep you'rhead up. just dont do nothing stupid okm cuz many people r here to help u if u wanna keep in touch write me
kkskboo247@aol.com

 

Answer by kristine
Submitted on 5/10/2007
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all you people on here calling her slut and hoe and all these negative names.. and telling her to kill herself.. you need to check yourself. here you are bashing her for wanting to get rid of her baby, yet you sit there and tear her down with those names and remarks? hypocrites. you should be ashamed. her question is sick and pathetic. why would you want to kill something living inside of you? but don`t tell her to kill herself. assholes.

 

Answer by Me 15
Submitted on 5/10/2007
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Im pregnant and i want to kill the baby myself what do i do

 

Answer by lilkenny
Submitted on 5/10/2007
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no you is haveing a baby you was haveing sex now you going that baby that a good thing to do see i am haveing a baby an di no i am not killing it

 

Answer by mommi now
Submitted on 5/10/2007
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i just fell onto this blog.. i cannot believe you people...  she is on here crying for help! and all you do is criticize her.  ya shes too young to be having sex, but some people dont have good parenting!

 

Answer by disgraced ppl
Submitted on 5/15/2007
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ye are disgracefull!!!!!!!

 

Answer by Jill
Submitted on 5/20/2007
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Look Im 32 I have two kids Chase and Samantha and when I was 18 I got pregnate and I lost it. I know what a tough desision this is. I personlly was going to let it be adopted. But me and my parents sat down and had a long talk. They will understand go to your parents. and ask them what you should do.

 

Answer by britt britt
Submitted on 5/23/2007
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*alchol
*smoking
*caffeine
*NSAIDS - ibeprofen, advil, naxaprofen
*stress
*spicy foods
*vitamin c
*vinegar
*contact solution
*Going up to judge and asking for an abortion without your parents knowing depending on the situation

 

Answer by Girl
Submitted on 5/24/2007
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omg leave her alone, i'm16 and my termination is this Tueday, and if you judge this girl or anyone else and give advice to kill herself it is YOU that wil be judged in hell

 

Answer by david yo
Submitted on 5/24/2007
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what the hell is your problem? do you have no morals? you parents obviously didnt hit you enough!!! YOu STUPID LITTLE GIRL. that is a child inside of you! would you take a newborn child and shove a knife through it? or drop it from a building. WOULD YOU SHOVE A COATHANGER THROUGH IT?!!?! STUPID STUPID STUPID!! aBORTION is just as wrong, its just one person that will never breath, walk, talk, play, giggle, cry, or love. stupid girl. you need to keep your legs closed, slut!

 

Answer by david yo
Submitted on 5/24/2007
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what the hell is your problem? do you have no morals? you parents obviously didnt hit you enough!!! YOu STUPID LITTLE GIRL. that is a child inside of you! would you take a newborn child and shove a knife through it? or drop it from a building. WOULD YOU SHOVE A COATHANGER THROUGH IT?!!?! STUPID STUPID STUPID!! aBORTION is just as wrong, its just one person that will never breath, walk, talk, play, giggle, cry, or love. stupid girl. you need to keep your legs closed, slut!

 

Answer by Dumbass
Submitted on 5/25/2007
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You are all dumb stop posting sob stories, and buy a comdom=)

 

Answer by thetruth
Submitted on 5/26/2007
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Just in case someone else comes across this thread I need to speak the truth here.

There are some awful, awful, completely stupid people that have posted on this.

A 13 year old girl should not be having babies or sex. She should be living her childhood- building her self worth and self esteem. That said, if she is pregnant, she shouldnt have ignorant, horrible people telling her to have the kid, calling her a slut, using a coat hanger!!! OMG!

Please, tell someone liberal and open minded, or go to a PLANNED PARENTHOOD to get a safe abortion. Please don't bring children into this world if you arent mentally, emotionally or financially ready to support them.

Birth control is a wonderful, safe gift that we are lucky to have in our society. The greatest thing you can do is educate yourself, get a job doing something you love, and having a baby when you are ready to be a good role model.

Don't have babies because you need something to love or want something to love you. Don't have babies because you need to tell yourself that you have a purpose in life. Don't have babies to give your life meaning or to save your marriage or to get a guy to marry you or stay with you. THESE ARE ALL THE WRONG REASONS. so, so , so wrong.

Once you find meaning and love within yourself, which takes many many years, only then are you able to give emotionally MATURE love to a child.

again, google PLANNED PARENTHOOD
they will help you

 

Answer by Superchick
Submitted on 5/27/2007
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Don't kill your unborn baby, honey.  I understand that you are young and probably feeling very overwhelmed and frightened, but placing your child for adoption is a viable solution.  Just remember, there is a human being inside your body, and it is not his or her fault that you had sex/were raped/whatever.  He or she doesn't deserve to receive the "death penalty."  

 

Answer by reemah
Submitted on 6/1/2007
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Im am going through the same situation right now. I just graduated high school and I was having unprotected sex. I want to keep my baby but I just don't know what other people like my mother would think about me. Im so confused I don't know what to do. If anyone has some advice for me please contact me at:
kareemah973@hotmail.com

 

Answer by nhje
Submitted on 6/3/2007
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At your age there is no reason you should have a child and its good that you know that as well I would suggest some sort of blood pressure RX or penny-seed oil but that could put you into a coma make a nice tee with some blue and black cohosh thats to lower blood pressure mix a tsp of penny-oil and some honey or lem