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Question by walg9e
Submitted on 4/28/2007
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Should I continue waiting and being friends with a man who I'm in love with but have never had sex with, while still pursuing other relationships in the meantime because he is in a relationship.  I love being able to talk to him about anything and he not judge me or think any different of me.  We have grown so close and I don't want anyone else.  I even am willing to be in a polyamorous relationship if he and his woman were open to it.  That's how bad I want to be more than friends because my sexual desire for him also grows more intense as we get closer and closer.  And I can't continue just being his friend sometimes.  It's a roller coaster ride.  One week I'm content, while the next I want more and get depressed when he reminds me that he is in a monogomous relationship that has to dissolve on it's own because he can't even entertain the thought of ending it.  It has to dissolve on its own account in its own time.  But I don't know if I should wait or not.  He wouldn't care if I found someone else in the meantime.  He ultimately wants me to be happy and if that's without him then that's the way it has to be.  I just want him soooo bad to be in my life long term. Would I be stupid for wishing and waiting?


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