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Question by Carla
Submitted on 6/28/2003
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I am a citazen marrying an illegal mexican, what is there to be done for him to acquire a Green Card?  

Answer by KARICIAS
Submitted on 11/29/2003
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I would like to know the answer to this too.  My situation is slightly different, however. We have been married for nearly two years, and own a house jointly. I can't bear the thought of him having to go back to Mexico for his interview, because I know he will be barred for at least 10 years, if not permanently because he was deported once already.  Do we have any recourse?


Answer by CHRISTY
Submitted on 12/27/2003
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Answer by sue
Submitted on 3/3/2004
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If they are illegal then they need to go back to where ever the heck they came from!


Answer by fool
Submitted on 3/5/2004
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There's no penalties for getting married but you should not have sex even when you are married. Everyone knows there are always penalties for doing something illegal.


Answer by gina
Submitted on 3/9/2004
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I would like to know how you can get married to an illegal Mexican because me and my boyfriend want to get married but we do not know how to go about it.


Answer by mark
Submitted on 3/25/2004
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I would go to a j.p. and see what he says.

If this does nothing for you, go to a Las Vegas wedding chapel.


Answer by FED UP
Submitted on 4/17/2004
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I'm sure I speak for millions of American's and legal immigrants, we are tired of doing without and struggling while these people you are crying about getting married to are lowering our expectations of this country and what we should be receiving from our country. They are taking jobs from people who are legally here and they are keeping the average hourly pay rate as low as the greedy business owners wants to keep it. why don't you go to mexico with them and drag their economy down.


Answer by christina
Submitted on 4/17/2004
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my husband and I got married,he has no papers at all.they dont care if your a citizen or not.once you are married yes you file a I-130.But yes there is a ten year bar,but there is a way to get around that,but he would have to go to his country,intil everything is approved,could take months,years,it is not worth it,it cost about 3000,and they look at what you make,you have to prove you can take care of him,without ANY goverment help,if he does not pass his medical part,they can make him stay as well,he can not have anything infectious,you can do a wavier for that too.but it cost,regardless,he can still get denied,you have to fight it,it takes alot of time,could even be years.


Answer by FED UP W/Americans Opinions
Submitted on 6/21/2004
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I've been married to an illegal mexican immigrant for 3 years now.  He is the best husband and father - we have 2 children together.  We just built a nice home -- we are nice people! I think the US government should do something to make it legal for him to be here.  Afterall, they would be breaking our family apart to send him back.  I'm sick and tired of americans saying if they are here illegal they need to go back.  I mean my husband is a human being - we didn't plan to fall in love - it just happened! Why shouldn't he be allowed to stay here and work and contribute to making this country better by paying taxes! I think some people need to stop and think about what they say before it comes out of their mouth.


Answer by Kelly
Submitted on 6/26/2004
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My boyfriend is MEXICAN and to all you Americans (yes, I'm American) who say these people are taking your jobs.  Well, are you going to wash dishes or pick apples from a tree in 100 degree weather.  You American's are so lazy and they say in ten to twenty years this country will all be Mexican/Hispanic/American!  So if you don't like it, why don't you think of picking up your own garbage or wash your own dish!


Answer by mario
Submitted on 8/9/2004
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well to get your husband what my people call it papeles (papers)  you should check this website out there you fill find some anwers  www.familygreencards.com
if you happen to have any questions e-mail me at   m_infante@sbcglobal.com
by the way i am 16 years old.


Answer by Lisa
Submitted on 8/11/2004
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Thank you to all who defend illegal immigrants....who the hell are we to say who can and cant come into a country BASED on immigration?


Answer by Christina
Submitted on 8/20/2004
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My fiance is mexican. He is the greatest guy ive ever met. Hes hard working, respectful and never takes life for granted. hes someone whos touched me in a way no one has ever before. And i am willing to figth and do everything possible to make sure we can be together and get married one day and he can become an american citizen. Instead of living in fear.


Answer by rara emerterio
Submitted on 8/27/2004
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why am i punished because i love my MEXICAN husband?


Answer by Disappointed American
Submitted on 9/2/2004
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This is addressed to those 'Americans' that don't want Mexicans here (particularly FED UP):
Foremost, you're complaints are ludicrous (that means laughable or hilarious because of obvious absurdity or incongruity) and you're intellect (brain power) is only par for the American population that continues to insult the world around it with it's 'higher than thou' attitude.  Mexicans do not take your jobs.  They continue to help provide you with the economy you so ignorantly enjoy.  Your six dollar burger only costs $3.95 because hard working people from less fortunate countries come here and do our dirty work in hopes of the same dreams we have.  If it were unionized by 'Americans' it would cost you $7.99.  Second, you are no more native to this land than any of the rest of us.  Don't try telling me you're Native-American either; the fact is that Mexicans are more Native to this land than those of us with European heritage--which only lends to you're phenotype attitude. Third FACT that you should attempt to wrap your feeble mind around: the number one regional location from the world that contributes to 'illegal' immigrants in America is EUROPE! That means that the INS has shown, statistically, that European's are the group that has the largest percentage of illegal immigrants in the U.S., NOT MEXICANS/LATINOS. By the way if you don't understand (or I should say, 'can not explain') the meanings and differences behind Latino and Hispanic then, you shouldn't be allowed to gripe about them.  Bottom line is you, as well as people like you, are scared, apathetic and uneducated as to the subject matter you seem so intent on attacking.  NOW, go sit down with a dictionary, look up the words you didn't understand here and then enroll in some class where you can educate yourself with the basic facts--with any luck you may be able to turn your hateful life around, realize the benefits of this country that you abuse so blindly, and gain some empathy.
Truly, an American, who is sick to death of hearing racist pigs represent themselves as "Americans".


Answer by Lizzy0184
Submitted on 9/14/2004
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I am an American citizen and am about to marry an illegal Mexican. We have our marriage certificate already. Paper work is in process, but he's still illegal.
It's funny that "Americans" represent Freedom, but don't want anyone else to have freedom. Nobody asked to be born in a different country. America is a country that represents Freedom and EQUALITY. For you that don't know what that means - treating others equal, no matter race, religion etc. If you are true American (not just born here) you would want others to have a better life. Think about it.... How would you feel. Put yourselves in other country mens shoes. Don't forget everyones relatives weren't all citizens, think about what they went through.... Easier saying stuff, not so easy imagining stuff.


Answer by Yvonne
Submitted on 9/24/2004
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I am engaged to my illegal boyfriend and feel these laws are messed up!! If the Mexican people come to America for a better life and earn money without harming anyone, then they should have the right to become legal if they chose.


Answer by JJ
Submitted on 9/26/2004
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I am astounded at the obvious and outlandish, horrible prejudice statements made here. I am a Cherokee woman. And what I would say to some of these people, where are you truly from? Did your ancestors come here legally? Did they come and steal land and have the ability to do it, because of the color of their skin? And if they did, was that correct? And if they didn't, you are Native American, and should be ashamed. All people have a right to live life without oppression. All people have the right to have the ability to take care of their families, and want a better life for their children. As for your children, I truly feel sorry for them, if you don't change your hearts. I am a true American, and wish well to any who come here, work hard, and look for prosperity. This country has enough to go around.


Answer by Love my mexican
Submitted on 10/9/2004
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I have been married to my husband for 3 years now. I have filed a petition for him to become a permanent resident (I-130) but because he came here undocumented they say he can't proceed any farther in the process because of the current laws. He has been here since he was six. The lawyer said we would have to move to Mexico for him to be legal. So if you love your Mexican and the environment vote for Kerry. Republicans will never grant amnesty Democrats do.


Answer by AJ
Submitted on 10/16/2004
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i feel what was said by Kelly. i look at it this way if they really wanted the jobs they are crying about they would have already had them. but as you have said we (being americans) are lazy. they didn't come to our country and take the jobs the jobs were there and have been there waiting for someone to fill the position. it makes me sick when people set there and cry about oh they are taking our money, they are taking our this they are taking our that. get over it because you have already proved that you didn't want it!


Answer by Carmen Garciaxoxo
Submitted on 10/18/2004
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This note goes out to all you WHITE SNOBBY Americans. You guys think that just because your ancestors gave you guys a good name that your better than us? Your wrong!!! We work three times harder than you guys do. We have come from Mexico to Better ourselves, and for you guys to try and step on us as if we were dirt. Your all wrong. In ten to twenty years the majority of the United States will be filled with Mexicans/Hispanics. Then well see whose pushing who around!! I just hope you guys can realize that were humans beings just like the rest of you!!!


Answer by Carmen
Submitted on 10/18/2004
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This note goes out to all you WHITE SNOBBY Americans. You guys think that just because your ancestors gave you guys a good name that your better than us? Your wrong!!! We work three times harder than you guys do. We have come from Mexico to Better ourselves, and for you guys to try and step on us as if we were dirt. Your all wrong. In ten to twenty years the majority of the United States will be filled with Mexicans/Hispanics. Then well see whose pushing who around!! I just hope you guys can realize that were humans beings just like the rest of you!!!


Answer by Jazz
Submitted on 11/8/2004
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I am an american born citizen. It is truly disgusting and unimaginably ignorant how so called "Americans" get mad at illegal immigrants. This land was stolen from the Native people living here. How many treaties were broken by this country? So in fact, most of you and your families are here illegally. Also, this country exploits so many smaller countries that they can't make a living.  Most jobs illegal immigrants take are below minimum wage.  Would you really want that job?


Answer by Mrs. Gonzalez
Submitted on 11/16/2004
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I have been with my illegal Mexican husband for over 6 years.  We have no children together and I am 2 semesters from being an RN.  I do however have 2 children that he takes care of like his own.  He is wonderful and treats me with more respect than my white ex-husband.  He has supported me in all of my efforts in life and puts me first.  I wish that those who are worried about them taking your jobs learn what it is like to be here in their shoes.  Also, it isn't going to stop and to fight it is rediculous.  You see, we spend BILLIONS every year trying to prevent them from coming here and it isn't working so we are basically throwing money away instead of instituting a way for them to pay correct taxes, get car insurance and licenses, and keep track of who is here.  One thing that amazes me is that these people are coming to work.  They are not coming here to enter our colleges and learn to fly airplanes so they can kill thousands of citizens in 15 minutes.  I think too much energy is put on Mexican people and not on the real "enemy" that is currently here in the US.  I am proud to be a citizen but I am just as proud to have a Mexican husband who is a better man than most American men I have known.  American men are turning out to be really weak people with little to no idea on how to take care of a household much less a wife.  One day soon we are going to need the raw strength of these Mexican men to fight for this country because our young men are too soft to do it.  They would rather have keg parties, work in an office wearing a suit, they don't want to be for the most part (the men in the military are an exception) dirty and doing hard labor intensive work. Who are we kidding?  This whole argument is so rediculous and I agree with another comment:  None of those who complain about loss of jobs would even think of doing the jobs that they perform and by the way you can thank a Mexican more than likely for building the house a lot of those complaining are living in.  


Answer by Dawn
Submitted on 11/19/2004
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OK. i have a Mexican boyfriend, and he is illegal. He is the hardest working boyfriend I ever had. He is also the sweetest boyfriend i ever had. We learn a lot living together and really want to get married. He said he doesn'tcare about his papers, but what if something ever happens? Most Americans ARE lazy and most Americans don't realize what these people have to do to get over here!! it's really damn scary! They deserve a good job when they get here. don't be a hater- think about it if the tables were turned!!!


Answer by goofi
Submitted on 11/26/2004
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i would like to marry an illegal mexican what steps do i have to take?


Answer by melah.ny
Submitted on 12/14/2004
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My situation is slightly different. I am a Canadian who wants to marry a US citizen. We've been together for almost 3 years and I am currently pregnant. I haven't overstayed my "legal" welcome yet (I go back every 6 mths. for at least a 2 week stay). However through my own research I have come to the conclusion that once you have married (in the US) all you need to do is file for a green card etc. no later then 90 days after. The interview will take place in the US and everything should be good though I am not an expert on this.  


Answer by Leon (Mexican) & Anna (American)
Submitted on 1/5/2005
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Awesome kelly, I wish all of those people never  have to go through the system like we are, regardless of nationality. Its a long stressful road, if anyone wants to give or recieve advice or just talk about it you can call:
(985) 285 0007

I'm right there beside everyone, Leon


Submitted on 1/5/2005
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All I have to say is that i'm proud to be in love with an illegal hispanic.  There are so many ignorant people talking about them going back to their country, but do they think about these other illegal citizens that come from other parts of the world.  Mexicans are not the only ones coming to the US illegally and they make it seem like it.  Think about it IGNORANTS.


Answer by RuPeoPLeNuTzZ
Submitted on 1/7/2005
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The original question was a reasonble, important question. It's really sad that there are such ignorant people who enter these pages and just completely go at something that means so much. Why?? Is there a reason for all the mean things you people say?


Answer by Megan
Submitted on 1/10/2005
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I agree with the following statements about how hispanics are human beings!  Everyone is equal and they have JUST as much right to be here as we are!  Anyways, my boyfriend is from Honduras and we are planning on getting married very soon. (i am also an American citizen)  I just hope that he doesn't have to go back there.  It would definitely NOT be right if that were to be the case.  Any help?  Thanks!


Answer by Seeking Refuge
Submitted on 1/12/2005
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It's sad to see that some of you are so close minded, but on the other hand it's nice to see other fellow women in my situation.

For those of you that feel we have committed a "sin against God," get a clue and think of how you might feel if you ended up in a similar situation. And don't sit there saying "it won't happen" because I used to feel that way too.

I never thought I'd date a Mexican that didn't speak English, but here I am and deeply in love more then ever before. So before you judge us all remember we're still ALL human and what we look like and where we come from doesn't really matter ...

Stranger things have happened.


Answer by Confused
Submitted on 1/24/2005
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Immigration is nothing new to this country, but there are laws regulating it.  The fact that you and your husband are "nice people" is irrelevant.  Anybody is welcome to stay in this country legally.  If you don't agree with the laws, then it's your responsibility to move elsewhere, or wait for a pardon.  If you want to stay in this country as a legal citizen, then start the proper legal procedures.  


Answer by Christina Maria
Submitted on 2/15/2005
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I would like to just say I am an american and I have fallen in love with a mexican he is a beautiful person he has family back in mexico that he wants to go and see but he is afriad if he returns back he will have to stay there. I have children too and understand his worries completely but I don't want to sound selfish but I don't want him to go back not until I can find out a way to marry him make him legal and then we can all go back to see his family. Please anyone with information that may help me please email me @ wildchildcrazzy@aol.com I would appreciate it alot. And to all the americans out here you need to look at what you have and not what you don't have mexicans,blacks,whites all are people we all are human beings not objects. We all are Gods children Think About That before you say things you really don't know anything about. Remember no! one has the right to judge anyone but God.
                     Love Christina Maria


Answer by STAR
Submitted on 2/18/2005
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Answer by teacher7777
Submitted on 2/26/2005
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I would also like to know the answer to this. I have been married to an illegal Mexican for over 3 years now. If anyone has any advice or wants to chat more about this, my e-mail is teacher@iowatelecom.net.


Answer by cant believe u people
Submitted on 3/24/2005
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ok i am american. I live with an illegal mexican. Hes the best thing that has ever come into my life. This man has accepted my son as his own. Contriutes to household financial responsilities such as rent and food. It kills me to hear some of the things you lazy ass americans say about immigrants. i mean are you all going to work picking up trash in hot weather,poring concrete in the middle of july, or workin in hot factories with no ac? i didnt think so how do i know this im white. i know damn i work in an office and thank god for that. But for real all these huge building and the way homes can be uil so fast should be credited to these mexicans. i mean i work at a hotel and we hire hispanics only to clean rooms because they work there butts off then go home! i swear i really think some ofyou need to get off you high horse and get a life you do know that we stole this land from the indians right or did you forget that minor detail. as far as im concerned we have no right to judge who enters the us ,as long and they are working and contributing. i know many more homeless, jobless white people than hispanics so i guess ya'llbetter beef up on your spanish becaus ethey are not going anywhere pinche pendejos!


Answer by Mae Angeles
Submitted on 4/4/2005
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My lord, and none of these responses take into account the literally hundreds of thousands of children who were brought over by their parents who are still classified as illegal, but have only known the US as their home.

Did any of you with negative comments realize that there are many innocent parties in the illegal immigration issue.  My husband was brought here at 2 and finally now has papers in processing to become a citizen.  He's been here for over 25 years.  It wasn't his fault, and sending him back to Mexico would make no sense whatsoever.


Answer by jake
Submitted on 5/4/2005
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If we had a President with any balls, you illegals would be back where you belong!
What is it about the word "illegal" that you dont understand?


Answer by Shellbell
Submitted on 5/12/2005
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My husband is hispanic and illegal. I dont know what I would do if they took him away. We have a beautiful daughter together and he takes better care of my son then my sons father. Its hard and we have the same questions as all of you. How do we get him legal, what do I do. I dont want to live in mexico, but if they sent him back I am afraid I would have to. I really dont no any answers and if anyone knows the answers to these questions it would be a blessing. My husband works harder than most white or black men. I think they should be able to be here as much as we can visit there country.


Answer by Jeana
Submitted on 5/30/2005
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Laws are laws good people or not we need to follow laws. In America if you break a law you go to jail, why is everyone crying about them getting sent back if they are here illegally? They broke the law and there are consequences to pay!!  I have a lot of Mexican friends who became permanent residences and then U.S. citizens, so it is possible to be here legally!! If you want to live in this country so bad and love it here then why isn't it worth it to do it the right way, the way that is legal to the country you want to live in? If you don't like our laws what are you doing here? To the people that are married to an illegal, stop crying - you knew the laws before you got into this!!!


Answer by kayla
Submitted on 6/26/2005
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those illegal Mexican immigrant are willing to come ant clean restrooms unlike some American citizen who just want thing handed to them on a silver plater. i haver been dating a illegal Mexican for over 2 years and he dose more work in one day then some American.and just to let you know of anyone is an illegal immigrant it is the American because the Indians we here before any American then it came the Mexican so before anyone try to put down the Mexican the need to get there facts right!!!!


Answer by manuel
Submitted on 6/28/2005
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i would like to know the answer for this situation also


Answer by Sara M. Kennedy
Submitted on 7/11/2005
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I find it shocking that there are so many heartless people in this world. How can people write such rude posts about people who are here illegally? Yes, there are some people who are here illegally that are careless about breaking laws and being in such a great country. They should be deported,but what about those illegal immigrants that work those long hard hours for cheap labor in order to provide food and shelter for thier families? There are many immigrants here illegally that are trying really hard to make a living. I am white and I have many friends of different nationalities that are here illegally and they are awesome people. It sucks to see them struggling to find a job and worrying about whether they will have enough money for thier rent because the jobs that they have don't pay alot,or to hear them talk about wanting to go to college and make something of themselves but they are not able to because of the fact that they are here illegally.We are all human beings and no one should be judged by who they are or where they come from. No one is better than anyone else. I think that if you are happy and in love with someone regardless if they are here illegally you should go ahead and get married. Who is anyone to tell you that you cant marry someone that you love and adore? I wish all you couples that have written posts about getting married all the happiness in the world and all the luck for getting your fiances papers in order.


Answer by worried1234
Submitted on 8/1/2005
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my boyfriend is Mexican he was deported last year i was pregnant and had his son 8 months ago someone please email me if you know how i can get him back to be with us my email sammi54875@hotmail.com


Answer by Aurora
Submitted on 9/15/2005
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I'm a mexican american and i am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 21.He is also mexican and we been together for almost 3 years and we also have a little baby boy. Were going to get married next week and i agree if it was'ntfor the mexicans or other hispanic immigrants the U.S.A would'nt be so rich. It would'nt be what the U.S.A is today. so you gringos need to think about what you say .Don't you remember back in the day when U.S.A need people to work your Land so what did U.S.A do ? They brought Mexicans to pick your apples and to to conststruct your roads so don't you give me that crap!So all you americans saying that us mexicans need to go back where we came from , you better thank god for us mexicans because without us the U.S.A ain't nothing !


Answer by CURIOUS
Submitted on 9/15/2005
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Answer by jessica
Submitted on 9/16/2005
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I wish everyone was not so negative about the Hispanic population growing, they are almost always very hard workers and we should be thankful for them coming here and helping us out. Why do we have to be so racist and partial?


Answer by BECCA
Submitted on 10/3/2005
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Answer by Marian
Submitted on 10/27/2005
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I am dating a Mexican guy who is here legally. Honestly, I really do not see what the big deal is if someone is legal or not. Do you people even live in states like Arizona where many of the illegals dwell? They are hardly taking any jobs from anyone. How many of you want to work in 115 degree heat pulling weeds from rock hard dirt, only to get screwed over by some fat F##ker who knows he can get away with it, because you are illegal?  

Educate yourselves. My mom was an illegal immigrant, and guess what, she's WHITE. Not from Mexico. I wouldn't exist or would this country exist if it weren't for immigrants.

As far as answering the question about marrying an illegal: The JOP and ministers and such have absolutely nothing to do with immigration, what-so-ever. They just marry you, and that is it.

The whole process of having your loved one receive a green card, permanent stay, etc., is through immigration services. It is a long and arduous process.



Answer by Jesse
Submitted on 11/3/2005
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good one kelly i'malso sick of those selfish assholes


Answer by Heather
Submitted on 11/14/2005
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For everyone that says the illegal mexicans are destorying this country look at it this way they are very hard workers, they do crappy jobs, and they are paying into our SSI that they'll never see back.  For everyone that puts them down please go to mexico for 1 year and see how much you like it(and you have to start off with no money).


Answer by Gordon
Submitted on 11/19/2005
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Trying to get around the law to suite your situation, is not the answer. Laws help and protect everyone.Do it right, immigrate legally no worry, no problems.


Answer by kraissa
Submitted on 12/1/2005
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I'm too a american with a hispanic for two years.i do not understand what everyones problem is. I totally agree with kelly and fed up w/americans opinion!and fed up can kiss my ass, you just mad with your american flee-bag boyfriend.everyone is equal. they are equal to all right. why would the government throw away a family or the only real work being done that americans are too lazy to do.


Answer by Cheleah
Submitted on 12/14/2005
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To get married to an illegal in the U.S. you will need to have $50 and get you marriage license from the Register of Deeds in you county. The you can go to the magistrate office and get married.  If he does have a tax ID number he or she will be asked to sign an affidavit and that will be that. Your married.  The tricky part will be for your new spouse to get there papers. First you the spouse will need to file the I-130 form them wait for immigration to respond.


Answer by La Sirena
Submitted on 12/22/2005
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Hey, I'm in love with a Mexican man, he is 200 times more intelligent, nicer, and cuter than any white guy I've ever met.  I'm an American as well.  I want to marry him but don't know how, without sending him back to Mexico first.


Answer by Choo1
Submitted on 12/23/2005
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I am married to an illegal alien. You can get married in any state that does not require a social security number, or one that will allow your fiance to sign a sworn affidative that states he or she has never been issued a SSN. I, however, would not advise anyone to marry an illegal. INS will not grant your spouse legal permanent resident. Taxes are a pain as well. You are better off to marry your fiance in his own country. Immigration lawers are not cheap.


Answer by michele
Submitted on 12/29/2005
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hey man, im a 19 yr old white girl that fell in love with a 30 yr old mexican over the summer. he was awsome.. the craziest guy id ever met.  i trusted that man with all my heart.  he changed the way i look at life and introduced me to some very new experiences. even though i left for school in the fall, we still talk and are good friends.  


Answer by bsmartt81
Submitted on 1/7/2006
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and he just recently went back to mexico for a while.  We plan on getting married in mexico in april, but there is one problem he is married to a us citizen but he has no immigration papers. I need to know if he has to get divorced here before we get married there and attempt to bring him back legally. I would appreciate it if anyone has any information on this.


Answer by hecho en los ustados unidos
Submitted on 1/11/2006
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1. Hispanics take the jobs Americans don't want.
2. To everyone who wants to kick illegals out, your ancestors got off of a boat not speaking this language as well. Not to mention, if the immigration laws that existed today had existed  in the past, most of us would'ntbe "American."
3. We (Americans) stole this country,spilled the blood of many indigenous people,and hispanics. Most of the southwest states were once a part of Mexico.
4.The reason most people really dislike hispanics are because they make Americans look lazy. Which as a whole we are.
This country has always been and with the grace of God will continue to be a melting pot of all races. And if you don't like this maybe you should get out of America.


Answer by Sicily
Submitted on 1/19/2006
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You people are no help at all. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and plan to get married, find some answers to what we can do, no one wants to hear your opinion about it, just answers on what to do!


Answer by Gordita
Submitted on 1/23/2006
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Well, I don't think there is much hope for getting a green card for your illegal Mexican boyfriend. The only thing to do is for him to go back home and come back over legally. I am having this problem myself. I was a lazy American, single mother on welfare. Until I met my boyfriend and fell in love with the greatest man I have ever met. Since meeting him, my quality of life has improved 100%. I moved out of my parents house finally at 27! I now have more energy and do more things then ever before, because I am happy. We live together in our own place now. He has been working in the same filthy factory for 2 years now. And on the weekends he prunes and cuts America's freakin' Christmas trees. You didn't think some white American is out there in that cold weather chopping those trees down for 6 dollars an hour, did you??? Anyway, my man works hard, he's illegal and he still pays his taxes. He doesn't want to live here forever. He eventually wants to go back and live in Mexico. Is it really asking too much for him to get a temporary work visa? I guess so. That why we have to go and live in Mexico. I am not about to keep trying to have a life with this man when at anytime he could be deported. So, I will pick up and move myself to Mexico with my 8yr old daughter because America is too racist to give him a work visa. P.S. If there were no Mexicans here, America would starve!


Answer by MEXICAN
Submitted on 1/28/2006
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Answer by aleisha
Submitted on 2/1/2006
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i think that last one was really great its the truth my boyfriend is mexicono and i love him so much Americans need to get off there behinds an shake hands my father says its the damn rednecks i wise this country would stop to think these countries should be are friends if there some peoples enemies god says keep them closer please stop being fools alot of these people in the united states are druggies, alcoholics,anything bad but my love only works and comes home everyday he does not get out and have fun its work there's nothing wrong with that


Answer by MexaRican
Submitted on 2/8/2006
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Well i havent fallen in "love" with a illegal mexican but i believe that the government should do something to make the process alot easier for them. They are human just like us, cut them they bleed red just like the rest of us. Alot of my friends are illegal but that doesnt change anything. They are some of the best friends i could ever have. So ppl need to chill out, THEY SHOULDNT HAVE TO GO BACK TO THEIR OWN COUNTRY. We were all illegal at one time exept for the Native Americans. Most of the ppl that think they should go back...well there roots go back to probably Italy, Germany...places like that. So honestly if we are going to kick "mexicans" out we might as well kick most of the population out. Yes i will say it, im half mexican but im thinking of this logically.


Answer by MexaRican
Submitted on 2/8/2006
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Well i havent fallen in "love" with a illegal mexican but i believe that the government should do something to make the process alot easier for them. They are human just like us, cut them they bleed red just like the rest of us. Alot of my friends are illegal but that doesnt change anything. They are some of the best friends i could ever have. So ppl need to chill out, THEY SHOULDNT HAVE TO GO BACK TO THEIR OWN COUNTRY. We were all illegal at one time exept for the Native Americans. Most of the ppl that think they should go back...well there roots go back to probably Italy, Germany...places like that. So honestly if we are going to kick "mexicans" out we might as well kick most of the population out. Yes i will say it, im half mexican but im thinking of this logically.


Answer by ALISHA
Submitted on 2/8/2006
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Answer by ASHLEY
Submitted on 2/20/2006
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I think that all of us Americans need to back off of these Mexicans i am married to a wonderful Mexican for about 4 years and i think that he has worked harder in one day then Americans have worked in their whole lifetime they do alot of stuff that we would never do so think before you talk your stuff!!!!!!!!


Answer by pokey
Submitted on 2/22/2006
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i work with mexicans all the time they are great people they work great people have to work with them to get to know them i think they should be able to stay here


Answer by ANGELA
Submitted on 2/27/2006
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To FED UP, my husband is illegal and let me tell you he probably makes more in one week than you make in a month. He is a hard worker and knows what hes doing. He sure is helping the economy here. Please don't be so ignorant.  


Answer by jimmy
Submitted on 3/10/2006
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you people are sick and nasty and should stick with your own kind ...........


Answer by Ashley
Submitted on 3/20/2006
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I am with an illegal immigrant.  We have two children, and are getting married in May.  It would be nice if the government would help in keeping the family together, but after all that is too much to ask since there are a lot of americans whinning and crying about mexicans taking their jobs, however, I don't see those people working fields for 5 dollars an hour.  It's not like we are on welfare.  I just want to be able to keep our family together.  and for the smart ass who said we need to go to mexico, go to hell.  We have just as much right to be here with our husbands and children as you do.


Answer by Baka
Submitted on 3/29/2006
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For all of you, your significant other crossed into this country illegally, he/she knew the risks of crossing into this country, and if he/she were caught in this country they would be sent back.  If you married one you should head back with him to his/her home country until you can legally come back together.  As for the one that thinks Americans are lazy, we are not, we are willing to wash dishes, and do other minuscule task for minimum wage, so yes they are taking jobs away from us.  Why do your illegals others just not petition there own government for better living conditions rather then come to the united states and mooch off our system


Answer by To_the Dum_Arze_bleedinghearts
Submitted on 4/5/2006
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For those who married ILLEGALS what part of that word do YOU not understand?
Oh hes so great oh he pays taxes oh he does jobs americans wont BULLCRAP!!! Who in the hell do you think did those jobs BEFORE they got here??? Pays taxes? LMAFAO yea right!
Why dont you and ur married half go back to mexico and fix THAT government ILLEGAL MEANS JUST THAT!!!


Answer by la_mera_weda@yahoo.com
Submitted on 4/21/2006
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i would like to know the answer to this question also i have been looking and lookin and i can not find help anywhere


Answer by Someone who thinks and feels
Submitted on 5/7/2006
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As you can see we all are going backwards becoming more racist, like to black people, Jewish people and now to Latin people, I think you guys need to mature and rethink what you say, people come from far way countries to work hard and do things that they never did in their countries to give their children a better life, why don't you put yourself in their shoes and think what would you do, it is so easy to judge people but not to put yourself in their side. People are becoming more inhuman and heartless day by day. What would you do if didn't have a option to migrate to another to succeed. Would stay in your country and die of hunger, come on people!!! They are no criminal, they just working hard and making your lives easier, by cleaning toilets and you are on your jacuzzi. We all make America. Sorry if i offended you but it's true.


Answer by KK R.
Submitted on 5/15/2006
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Well just to let you lazy americans know i am with a mexican who is illegal and out of everybody i know he is the hardest worker there is. Out of 3 years of work he has missed 0 days. He works 15 hour shifts at a meat plant. I never planned to fall in love with him, it just happened. I dont care what immigration laws there are he will get back to the United States and we will ALWAYS be together. So shove it you close minded americans. Oh and to let you know one day Americans are going be outnumbered by mexican/americans and mexicans. Hope you like the future!!


Answer by dm
Submitted on 5/17/2006
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Corporations are outsourcing the jobs you claim to be to taken from legal immigrants to other countries where labor is cheaper. Get your facts straight. Before you start pointing fingers, remember all immigrants all started out from the same humble beginnings - all doing the dirty work.


Answer by Joe
Submitted on 5/18/2006
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American citizen girls who fall in love and want to marry illegal aliens should be sent to prison for harboring criminals i.e. illegal aliens. I think these type of girls are another reason why illegal immigration is increasing. Also these girls should pay extra taxes to cover the costs of increased hospital emergency room visits by uninsured illegal aliens.


Answer by victoria
Submitted on 6/7/2006
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I once was one of those people that believed that the Mexicans were stealing our jobs but now I have come to my senses and realized the jobs they have are ones we wouldn't lower ourselves to do. I mean if we were doing them then these employers wouldn't have the vacancies to hire them right? My granddaughter is bi-racial and the most wonderful human being on the face of the earth yes I am prejudice but at least it is in a good way not a negative way!! I have recently began dating an illegal immigrant that has been here since he was 7 years old he tried to attend school but due to a learning disablilty he wasn't able to finish. He started working for a company 7 years ago at the age of 17 and makes much more than the bottom dollar wage some of you have spoken about he even makes more an hour than I do and I am a college gradute with a Bachelors degree. So your stereo typing of the Hispanic people is just that your opinion so do us all a favor you go back to where you came from because if you aren't native american you aren't from here either. Just think if your fore-fathers were sent home where would you be now? Not here thats for sure so before you open your uneducated mouth again to put down what the Hispanics are doing to our economy just think about what your welfare/foodstamp drawing lazy buns have done to it already!!!!


Answer by Heather
Submitted on 6/28/2006
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I have been involved with a Hispanic male from Mexico for 3 years.  He works not one but 3 jobs, which is more than I can say for the Americans in our own back yard who live off our taxes through welfare and other tax supported programs.  You say go to his country and make their economy suffer.  Their economy is suffering.  They come here to survive on more than 5 dollars a day.  I would like to see Americans work for that.  In case you haven't noticed Americans are not even the majority in this country anymore.  We are a melting pot for the whole world.  Everyone is angry at Mexicans. What a joke.  They are the least lazy ethnic background I have ever had the pleasure of knowing.  So before you speak you should get some knowledge on the subject.


Answer by ayo ayo
Submitted on 6/28/2006
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ya assholes....unless you're 100% native american i guarantee someone SOMEONE in your family was an immigrant...so don't talk junk xenophobes. love transcends national borders. get married. get happy. there's enough miserable lonely people in the world, marry whoever the hell you want!


Answer by oscar
Submitted on 7/12/2006
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quiero coger putas gringas


Answer by susie
Submitted on 8/21/2006
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I'm married to an illegal Mexican also and from what we could find out you will have to fill out forms from INS to apply for permanent resident status. Then they have to go back to Mexico to wait for an interview.  Our lawyer told us the wait in Mexico would be from 6 to 9 months, and then he would have to prove my child and I couldn't survive here without his support.  If we can't prove that then he will not be approved and will be forced to stay in Mexico.  I also would like to say to those of you who are yelling send them back where they came from, "Don't you have anything better to worry about?  These people haven't hurt you or anyone else, and they are taking the jobs Americans won't do. Would you like to strip tobacco or roof a house in 110 degree weather?" I doubt that.


Answer by I love my Illegal!
Submitted on 8/21/2006
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Me (American) and my Fiance (Mexican) have been together for 2 years now and we have a 6month old daughter. My fiance works 7 days a week and HARD to support our little family and so that i don't have to work and i can stay home and raise our daughter. And yes he DOES pay taxes! But he is not legal and has no papers at all :( We plan on getting married this month at the justice of the peace, (and no you do not have to be legal to get married in America or to marry an American)I couldn't stand the fact of him getting deported and me without my partner and my daughter without a father. I just recently went to Mexico with my daughter to visit my fiance's family ( Without him :() And now i truly understand why the all risk their lives to come her because if i had to live there i would do the same thing! Its horrible there and SO sad. Like something you see on t.v where to send money to to help the poor children. Oh my god it was very depressing! So anyways we plan on trying for a green card once our daughter is one year....Does anyone know how to go about this with out getting him deported or having him go back to Mexico while in the process??


Answer by mexican lover
Submitted on 8/30/2006
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i love my mexican and you are damn right get off your high horse cause only the native americans are actually from here. just because you were born here doesnt mean your from here. they arent dogs theyre people and they work hard and are damn proud to be here.


Answer by Drew
Submitted on 8/30/2006
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Answer by rebakah
Submitted on 9/2/2006
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This isn't an answer, but true.  If we are not an American Indian, we are born of immigrants usually from Europe.  Our country is the melting pot for the whole world.  Give me your tired, your weak, your hungry.  That is what WE are, THANK GOD that we should be so lucky.  Let them come and work.  Best workers I have EVER seen.


Answer by darla
Submitted on 9/19/2006
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I am from canada and plan to marry a mexican. Anybody know the process on this?
send me and email to xandria10@hotmai.com


Answer by bjgatorgranny
Submitted on 10/5/2006
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How do they obtain a green card or social security card?


Answer by Becka
Submitted on 10/9/2006
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i am going to marry a immigrant and i am expecting  his baby and i am tired of all the people saying that all the mexicans should go back where they came from because that are human beings just like all of us American people.i think it is wrong that just cause they speak a different language that you can not except them well if you really want to know what i think....i think everyone would like them if they would try to become friends with one of them.


Answer by Queen
Submitted on 10/12/2006
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I just have a comment, to all you ignorant people saying that illegals are taking jobs from US citizens, you should go out to the real world and look around, walk in to the Welfare office and what do you see a bunch of young healthy African-Americans, Cacusians, and Latin-Americans, that choose to live off the government and the taxes that we pay because they are too LAZY to get off their butts and make something of themselves.  Or they pack themselves with more kids than they can support.  And do you know where most of the money they get is going? To drugs, alcohol, and sex. But I guess its ok because they are legal.Another thing did you know that there are illegal people that also pay taxes? and that all of those welfare US citizens are leaving off of them too? You must also know that most of construction workers and field workers are illegal?Thats right so the house that you might be leaving in was built by an "alien" or the food that you are eating was picked by an "alien".So I suggest that next time you open your mouth you look around and realize that its not illegal people that are bringing down the country or taking jobs, its people that are lazy and take advantage of the great help and opportunities that this country has to offer.


Answer by sara
Submitted on 10/13/2006
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i am in love with one to. I don't know what to do! I want get married but I don't know how!!


Answer by samantha
Submitted on 10/17/2006
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its true there is alot of lazy americans and they should not talk bad about no one all they are is sorry i mean i have a boyfriend and a baby and i love them with all my heart and i think its just sorry for people to talk junk about the people u love its not right they work to take care of their familys


Answer by Brenda
Submitted on 10/23/2006
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well Ive been married going on 1 year been with my husband for 7 yrs.And yes Im from the united states as well.We have 4 children together ,He works full time and some overtime,He makes a decent living ,Hes not working for pennies.He owns our home,and all the vehicles we own.So why would he have to go back so I would live off the government which that wouldnt happen but what if other women had too,would that just make all the people FED UP happy.Oh He also pays his taxes not that illegal huh? some us citizens dont even do that ,we started the process of getting his papers but put it off because we heard of the 10 year story.But were doing good without them papers who really needs them..... But just to let all the fed up citizens they wouldnt have thewse jobs if people of the us would take them or do anything for that matter we ought to ban Homeless,and acholics and all the people living off the government that dont need it.Lets talk about them its time to change the subject.


Answer by Sheila
Submitted on 10/24/2006
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To all the Americans that think all illegal Mexicans should go back to Mexico...I am totally in love with a Hispanic male,He has treated me better than any American ever did.He does work hard and never gets into any trouble,he pays his taxes just like I do the only thing is Our government gets to keep his money because he is illegal and cant claim it at the end of the year.So you people should thank your lucky stars that we do have illegal Mexicans in the United States like my boyfriend,if we didn't this country would be in alot worst shape than it is.


Answer by Brenda
Submitted on 10/30/2006
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Well as far as Illegal Immigrants...
I am a USA born citizen, 100% Mexican.
I have found a man that I plan to spend the rest of my life with.
He is an undocumented resident in the USA.
I plan on marrying this man no matter what.
I only want to do it the smart way.
He will get his visa and come to the USA, when then we will get married, OR better yet I can go live with him in Mexico he is an Contractor/Engineer (over there). I do not mind moving, but if we can stay here it would be nice. Maybe some of out mates can do better in Mexico. When they have their degrees/certificates/diplomas they think they can do better here. That is not always the case.
So either or... If I find a loophole I will let you know.
There are always loopholes...we just need to find them.


Answer by SARAHM
Submitted on 11/1/2006
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I'm marriead to an Illegal and we have a child together. we did apply for the I-130 and all the other papers. he's been in Mexico for 4 months and doesn't look like he'll be here anytime soon.. we are thinking of moving there to be with him.. I love American(hate the way some Americans are acting about this whole thing) but i love my husband more.

We got married at the Probate office. They can't demand his SSN so he can leave it blank or use is tax ID number. If that judge says he won't marry you without ssn then go to another county and try there. or like another poster said go to vagas.


Answer by Tanisha
Submitted on 11/5/2006
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i would like to now the answer to that question as well i have been with my husbind now for 3 years and we have two beautiful children together but i cant sit back and watch as i can travel and he cannot i mean why should it matter to most people why they are here in the first place i mean adleast they are here to do some of us lazy americans wont do and they do it for free, i love my husbind and i dont care if her is illegal i love him all the same and that dosent change how i feel about him no matter what any one else might think or say. i should stand by him no matter what.


Answer by ERICA
Submitted on 11/15/2006
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SUPPORT US AND HE Pays taxes but does'ntget anything back because he's not legal. the poverty level in mexico is sad they live in clay houses and have to sell veggies to buy meat if they were lucky. life is hard there
and we should be grateful that we aren't living that way. my husband didn't ask to be born or to have a heart. mexicans die everyday trying to come here and it's in vain. i do agree with the borders to help catch smugglers. I also want to say that at one time our families were immigrant so what makes us any better than mexicans. my husband is mexican but his ancestors are Aztec Indians and they did not speak spanish.
I also want to say that black people can relate to a certain extent because thier families were killed, slaves and now thier
equal. what makes someone equal? all mexicans are not abusive my husband does alot to make our family happy. our lives feel threatened because at any time thier father my husband can be sent away for a long time and I'mnot guarantee i we will ever see each other again. Is that fair?
would you like your mate ripped away? It's like them dying but not really! think about it open minded.


Answer by Jess523
Submitted on 12/3/2006
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Right on Kelly and "fed up w/american opinions"! And I would like to add that illegal Mexican immigrants *are* paying taxes! They just don't get any refund at the end of the year, can't get any government assistance, and have to put up with crap like their manager saying, "Ha, I could hit you with this hot fry basket right now and you couldn't do anything about it!" (I've personally witnessed this while working at Wendy's.)

Anyway, most people from Mexico are at least part Native American-- there's a sign up along Central Ave in NM where I live that shows a man who is supposed to be Aztec, and he's pointing his finger angrily and it says, "Who's the illigal alien, pilgrim?" Think about that one for a while "Americans"!



Answer by Amanda
Submitted on 12/8/2006
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I have been with my Mexican husband for almost two years. To all those who say they need to go back to Mexico, shut-up, this country was built by immigrants. Just because you are an American doesn't mean you are better than Mexicans. They want better for their children just like we do. I'm sure that some come here to steal from and hurt other people, but not all of them so don't say they all need to go back. My husband has been here for ten years and paid taxes every year and not once has he ever gotten back any of that money back at the end of year. I already had a two yr old son and was one month pregnant wish my second child when I meet my husband. Both of my children are from American's who ran as far as they could when my tests came back positive. He stepped up they both call him Daddy, he is on my youngest child's birth certificate, he is a great provider, I have everything I ever ask for, as do my children. It really scares me not knowing if he is going to pulled over by police and never come home that day. I really think people should just keep their mouths shut when it comes to illegal immigration because as said before they are doing jobs alot of American's would never do!


Answer by jean/stacy
Submitted on 12/15/2006
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I am married to a korean.  we have a child.  I don't think he wants to be married.  I want a divorce.  Can I get one and keep my child.  He does not have a visa.  thanks.


Answer by Mike
Submitted on 12/30/2006
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Here is some thing you all don't seem to think about.

5 months ago I was hit by a durk driver while I was driving home. He totaled my car doing $15,000.00 dollars worth of damage to it. I have  also had 2 surgery's to repair damage done to my back. I'm going to be going in for a third in two months. I have had to get two vertebrae in my back reconstructed. I also have 3 broken ribs and a broken nose.

Now I bet you all are wondering why I bring this up? The driver that hit my car with his suv and for the most part ran over it was in fact an illegal alien. The plates on the Jeep   Cherokee where stolen off another car. He had no insurance at all.

So he has since gotten out of jail and ran back to Mexico where he came form. Leaving me unable to work and taking painkillers for the rest of my life so that I can get out of bed every day.

So next time you all are driving down the street I want you all to think about what happened to me and think is  illegal immigration a problem?

Oh and all of you that  are "FED UP W/Americans Opinions" would be singing a different song if you where in my shoes.

If you are going to come to the US do it right. Not only are you breaking our laws but you are also shooting your self in the foot.

Another unknown fact about illegal immigrants is that if you are hurt on the job you are NOT in any way covered by workers compensation. Your boss could fire you on the  spot no matter how bad you are hurt the people you work for do NOT have to do any thing about it! Hell, they don't even have to call 911.

I do not have any thing against people that want to come to the states to make a better life for them selfs. I do have alot of problems with people doing it the wrong way.


Answer by melmac
Submitted on 1/4/2007
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do what you gotta do no-one can stop how you feel. im married to an illegal mexican and im leaving the country to bring him back to take your job


Answer by PeaceLovingFreedomFighter
Submitted on 2/19/2007
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My Mexican fiance and I have been together for two years and we are getting married in five weeks. You don't need anything to get married, but you do need things to get them papers (aka Green Card). Check out this site for basic information, then find the nearest Immigration Attorney. Mine is amazing. Good luck!


P.S. And to all of those who are hating Mexicans for where they were born, grow up. You don't know what people are like until you give them a chance. And we're all just people anyway, just with different skin. It's only skin anyway.


Answer by sn102
Submitted on 3/1/2007
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Never speak ill of a man that has Mexicans.


Answer by illegals who take advantage
Submitted on 3/3/2007
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I am so sick of the greedy needy illegal chicks coming to the US, marrying our nice guys, taking their money, breaking their hearts, getting pregnant.
DONT BE SO STUPID GUYS.... these broads just want to live in the US and take your money! Still with US girls! And you illegal gals... GO HOME AND GET A JOB!!!


Answer by traci
Submitted on 3/18/2007
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i want to marry my loved one but not sure i can hes an illegal


Answer by Emily
Submitted on 3/26/2007
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First of all i am with a guy who was born in mexico but came legally to the u.s at the age of three and we have a kid together.My boyfriend got deported not to long ago,and i think it is so stupid when you have "mostly" white people saying they need to go back.Half the jobs the illegal immigrants do are jobs that no white person would do because they think they deserve a better paying job. Also i have noticed that during the time i study history the blacks and the mexicans always got along,but not the white people.The white people were the ones that wanted slavery. I know there are some white people who don't think mexicans should go back to mexico, but the majority of them do.


Answer by maranda
Submitted on 3/28/2007
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I am dating a mexican guy who is illegal and i think if you dont like them (mexicans) then thats your business, you dont do there work and you dont get paid the money they do so stop complaining! I think illegals have some freakin balls to come to another country with nothing and make something of themselves. Plus they are awesome lovers (=


Answer by linz
Submitted on 4/17/2007
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Excuse me for the people that are so ignorant to say such stupid things like they still jobs!!!!!!This is the land of the free right??!!!I mean that is why people want to be here. Anyways you can't help who you fall in love with and my husband and I have been married 5 years and have 2 kids together and he is down in mexico awaiting his visa it has been almost 5 months and it just is not fair not to let him back in he has not been caught crossing illegally and my kids and I are barely making it!It is not right or fair what good honest working people have to go through!!!!!!!


Answer by rckpnk469
Submitted on 4/27/2007
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I have to agree with Kelly. I too am married to an illegal Mexican, and I am also white. He started out working in restaurant's and he is now working in construction. I have had conversations with his construction bosses and them telling me that white people are so lazy. He recently started out in a new company and his new boss told me that before him and his brother got there they were so behind because everyone was lazy and they didn't't want to work but my husband still goes in on Saturday's and Sunday's even if its not required. Maybe you white people should get off your butts and try doing what he does!!!


Answer by Rebecca
Submitted on 4/30/2007
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I am an American going to marry a Mexican. I Love him he loves me and my kids. He is the best thing that has happened to me other than my kids. People here in the USA want to bring a Mexican down, You know that is what is wrong with this country they run their mouths to much. Not to mention they are lazy want to have all these kids and stay home and want the government to pay their way. The Mexicans get hired because the bust their asses on a job,they are dependable. If every one would give them a chance they really are great people, not always talking bad about someone. They are Human and part of GOD'S family too. So the ones that have talked so bad about them I bet you are the ones that will be in Church Sunday acting like a saint. While you are there please say a prayer for yourself. You ask one for help I bet they will help you. Ask your neighbor or even your family and I bet 8 out of 10 they will say I don't have time right now.   Think about it.


Answer by maddie
Submitted on 5/1/2007
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Hi FED UP and people like you... My great- grandparents came here from Eastern Europe.  They were immigrants, and all of you "Americans" are also descendants of immigrants.  I guess your grandparents, great-grandparents, etc. took the jobs of the people here before them, so they should have been told to go home like you're telling current immigrants?  I agree with Kelly, are you really upset that you can't get a job washing dishes, and anyway, who's stopping you from getting that sort of job and being paid the same wages as an immigrant?  Go apply for such a job and let us know if you were turned down and why.


Answer by angelina
Submitted on 5/3/2007
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Thats all very nice that y'all are specking your minds, but nobody has really answer the QUESTION! Now I love my boyfriend very much and ,yes, he is illegal, but there is nothing to be done about it. So, could one of you explain to me why our great government is thinking about opening the Canada border but not Mexico's?


Answer by michelle
Submitted on 5/5/2007
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my ex boyfriend got married and was in a bad car wreck his fault and he did not get deported because he was married but the rest off the guys in the car did because they were not. Me and my husband got married and immigration came to his work he never got taken. my question is if they wont take him away will they let him back in being married we would like to go visit family's. i do agree American's are lazy and they need to understand without illegals our economy would be worse because they do all the field work construction and any other crappy jobs and still manage to take care of their families!!!!!!!!!!!!


Answer by Karen Millikan
Submitted on 5/5/2007
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To the man and woman that wants to get marred Just gave me a call my name is Karen I think we can help you. Now for us we want to pay federal Tax we need the forms to do this can somebody help us with this. And we want to register with the federal goverment MS.TISDALE@SBCGLOBAL.NET


Answer by april
Submitted on 5/18/2007
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you can get married to a mexican here in south carolina in the little city called camdon you just need one to be american  with a ss card


Answer by boz
Submitted on 5/19/2007
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Why do people come on these newsgroups if they aren't going to offer something productive? Immigration is not limited to illegal Mexicans. Quite frankly, the current abuse of the H1B program should be of far greater concern. That involves high paying technology jobs, not the low wage agri jobs.


Answer by sassy
Submitted on 6/15/2007
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To the lady about the illegal mexicans bringing down our economy. My fiance is illegal, we have a daughter together. He makes just as much if not more then the legal people at his job. Maybe if the legal citizens would get off there lazy rears and work the hard jobs the mexicans wouldn't need to do it. So get over yourself, wake up and quit being racist.


Answer by cRiSTiaN's GiRL
Submitted on 7/6/2007
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To all you girls out there with hispanic husbands, I got ur back. I have been with my husband for 5 years and we are going through alot of immigration problems right now. It is definatly not easy, we are surrounded my alot of raciest people it is our society, but one day they will understand because the hispanics are getting better educated here and they will soon take over our country. Everybody will realize that we need mexicans when they deport the hispanics that pick our friuts and veggies and catch our chickens and work in produce plants and factories, because the racist americans arent going to have food however it is sad that it will have to get that bad in order for them to realize that they are important. The thing that agrivates me the most is when they say that they dont pay taxes, okay alot of hispanics that are here illegaly pay taxes under what ever name that they are working under!!!! every time that they go to the store they pay sales taxes, they are paying in alot of money that they are never going to get back ever,it is time for america to face it okay they do cost us millions of dollars but we are never negative because they pay in ALOT more than they cost the government!!!!!


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