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Question by Liz Foster
Submitted on 8/18/2003
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I  am 35 years old. About a year ago I meant a wonderful black gentleman, he is 53 and just so nice to be with, so much so now that I am pregnant with his child. I am in a Poloy relationship and ever one knew about Ted. My question is this, How do I tell my children,  I have had children by two white husbands,  that I'm going to have my black lovers baby? He is so happy and so am I as will as my family. Just don't know how to tell the kids I sleep with him.


Answer by twin
Submitted on 9/9/2003
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you tell them the way you say anything difficult.
you choose a less than perfect context, a less than perfect time, and you use less than perfect words to explain a less-than-Norman-Rockwell family situation.
another approach is just to blurt it out suddenly.
everything works in this situation, except keeping your mouth shut.

 

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