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Question by PJM
Submitted on 12/16/2004
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I was in a polyamorous relationship with this beautiful mom of 2 kids.  Both of us felt a need to bond deeply beyond our primary relationship and we also felt that a polyamorous relationship involving kids was not desireable,  thus we decided to turned monogamous.  I came into the open relationship unbalanced having no other lovers but I had a few opportunities to explore with former lovers and found it inspirational and loving.

Now that we have been monogamous for the past few months, I find myself with some feelings of mistrust with my lover.  See when we dicided to become monogomous,  she wanted to keep her lovers as friends,  which I agreed. I felt ok with this until my instinct told me differently.  I asked her about this but she tells me that they are not having sex.  I feel like I am being lied too and frankly felt more comfortable in an open relationship.  Is their any way to salvage this relationship or should I move on.


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