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Question by Gina
Submitted on 5/31/2004
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I am a 17 year old self mutilator from Florida. There are no Self-Mutilators Anonymous meetings in my area and I'm not finding alot from online meetings. Would I be welcome at an AA or NA meeting in my area?


Answer by aiva
Submitted on 6/30/2004
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hi... i am too a self mutilator, only im younger than you. i have been accepted to an AA meeting for my problem. i have been told to see a proffesional doctor but that drove me away. seeking help is a hard thing to do, probably the hardest for people like us. but if we do it will help us. and it will help others to understand us...
so yes, you would be accepted.

 

Answer by ccmaria
Submitted on 7/7/2004
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i'm self mulilator and i need help

 

Answer by Frankie
Submitted on 7/8/2004
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Hey Maria my name is Frankie I heard about your  problems and I'll really try to help.
My friend used to Be a self Mutilator for 3 years until she got help from a professional Phsycologist and went to 2 support groups. She later called me and thanked me for all my help. She said it's better to talk out her problems instead of cutting. You should really to the same thing. Seek proffesional help.
                        Here to help
                                  Frankie

 

Answer by kristin
Submitted on 7/8/2004
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i cut too.. i got hospitalizied for like a day but it didnt really do anything. i got sent to group therapy but it didnt work and now i see a professional... i dont think theres any hope for me. getting help makes it worse i think.. but thats just me...

 

Answer by Ali
Submitted on 7/12/2004
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Hi,
I am not a self mutilator but one of my closest friends is. I am doing my best to help her. I would like to do the same for you if you're in need of a friend. Maybe if we all work together we can figure something out.

 

Answer by Lxus
Submitted on 7/16/2004
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i am a self mutilator too.i tried to stop but i just started to eat instead.if i dont cut myself i do worse things like think of killing people so i guess selfmutilation is a better way to deal with things than other ways.

 

Answer by Octavia
Submitted on 7/21/2004
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Hello to all my name is Octavia I have been cutting now for almost 1year it is hard at times to stop I have been hospitalized for a week and three days. The most hard thing about cutting is losing the ones you love.My boyfriend left me due to the fact that I cut.The reason why I cut is b/c I hardly have any one to support me in ab=anything I do I have my momma but she is really no one I'm a 16 year old female taking this disorder by myself(not really)I have God by my side now and I am trying to make it through I am doing good so far. And I am willing 2 help anyone that is willing to seek help I might not be a doctor but I'm making it so far thanks 2 God above I haven't cut In a whole week this is my testimony and I want every one 2 here that God has delivered me I could have been dead.( I use to try to hang my self y'all I tryed everything I can think of and every time I did it God would say it is not your time to go. It is just the devil working on us and I want yall to know I am a living witness that God has delivered me and he has keep me made me happy in my sad times to misery from me and put joy. I might sound like so kind of nut case but I'm alive 2 tell the world what I have been through if y'all want to stop cutting just pray 2 God and ask him 2 lead you and guide you through cause I'm important in every aspect of this world

 

Answer by brit
Submitted on 8/13/2004
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hey i'ma self mutilator too. i'vebeen ever since i can remember and i let it push away a person i loved. he realy cared for me and i wouldn't talk to him or my other friends about it so now my friends check me everytime something is going wrong. i wish they would stop but they do it for the right reason, i did start cutting agin. see i just started high school and my ex bf is moving on and i'mtrying to but he scares away everyone who may like me. and my dad is sick and it just seems like everything is going wrong the person i uses to run to is now pushing me away and i'mtrying to be strong but last night we got in a fight and i ran in the bathroom and grabed a knife and started to cut my self and i didn't stop untill i was bleeding. befor then i just scarched myself now it's worse. i know i need help but i don't want it b/c everyone in my family thinks i'mso strong and i have to be for them so i hide my emmotions see they don't even know i cut.


 

Answer by WHOSEBUYINTHBEER
Submitted on 8/15/2004
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Man self mutilation is so stupid I used to do it and like my parents thought i was the worst personever.I did not feel as if I had done anything wrong but they took me to psychiatrist and everywhere.What drove me away was the dissapointment it brought upon my parents, so my cure for your problem is to take up a hobby or call up a friend do something productive!

 

Answer by tunzi
Submitted on 8/29/2004
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i have been a cutter for the past 3 years on and off and in the past year and a half i have cut everyday at least 3 to 8 times. i'vebeen through 3 professionals and none of them can help. my father doesn't help, he just thinks it's a faze i will grow out of. i need help and i know it. but i just don't know how to get it. some days i just want to kill myself, just so i don't have to live my life!!! i come from a family who thinks that if they buy me a car or something, that everything will be ok and it's not. i realize that i have a problem and i would love to talk to anyone who is just like me!!!

 

Answer by Kate
Submitted on 9/5/2004
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THE ANT AND THE CONTACT LENS
A true story by Josh and Karen Zarandona
Brenda was a young woman who was invited to go rock climbing. Although she was very scared, she went with her group to a tremendous granite cliff. In spite of her fear, she put on the gear, took hold of the rope, and started up the face of that rock.
Well, she got to a ledge where she could take a breather. As she was hanging on there, the safety rope snapped against Brenda's eye and knocked out her contact lens. Well, here she is, on a rock ledge, with hundreds of feet below her and hundreds of feet above her. Of course, she looked and looked and looked, hoping it had landed on the ledge, but it just wasn't there.
Here she was, far from home, her sight now
blurry. She was desperate and began to get
upset, so she prayed to the Lord to help her to find it. When she got to the top, a friend examined her eye and her clothing for the lens, but there was no contact lens to be found. She sat down,
despondent, with the rest of the party, waiting for the rest of them to make it up the face of the cliff.
She looked out across range after range of
mountains, thinking of that verse that says, "The eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth." She thought, "Lord, You can see all these mountains. You know every stone and
leaf, and You know exactly where my contact lens is. Please help me."
Finally, they walked down the trail to the
bottom. At the bottom there was a new party of climbers just starting up the face of the cliff. One of them shouted out, "Hey, you guys! Anybody lose a contact lens?"
Well, that would be startling enough, but you
know why the climber saw it? An ant was moving slowly across the face of the rock, carrying it on it's back.
Brenda told me that her father is a cartoonist. When she told him the incredible story of the ant, the prayer, and the contact lens, he drew a picture of an ant lugging that contact lens with the words, "Lord, I don't know why You want
me to carry this thing. I can't eat it, and
it's awfully heavy. But if this is what You
want me to do, I'll carry it for You."
Without Him, I am nothing,
but with Him...I can do all things through
Christ which strengthens me. (Phil. 4:13)

**Remember: even in your darkest hour...when it seems like (yes even God isn't there)... just remember... he created you and loves each and everyone of you unconditionally!  All you have to do is reach out!  

I'm praying for you!

 

Answer by DEADSARAH
Submitted on 9/15/2004
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i'MA CUTTER AND THERE'S NOW WAY THAT ANYBODY CAN HELP ME... LIFE IS FULL OF LIES AND HATRED, THERE'S NOTHING FOR ME.. NO ONE LOVES ME..

 

Answer by nothingleftofme
Submitted on 9/18/2004
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im the weakest person on earth i dont cut myself but i am thinking about it. the reason why i said i am weak is b/c i am scared to do it but i am in so much pain and i cant do anything about it i tried to kill myself but i am not brave enough and i cant do anything about it i dont talk to no one everything is bottled up inside and i seriously dont feel like living i dont want to deal with pain

 

Answer by PJ
Submitted on 9/25/2004
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My best friend is a cutter and we are looking to get her help. If anyone knows any places in Daytona Beach, Florida that work with cutters, please respond. It is the hardest thing to find around here.

 

Answer by nicole
Submitted on 10/7/2004
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i am a cutter and have been for almost a year. sometimes i think i need to find help but then something happens agian and i begin to cut. I hate the life im living and things i do. But theres no one to talk to around here. I know i need help and so do most of you. i lost alot of friends and a boyfriend because of this. I know i need to stop but i just dont know where to go for help. :(

 

Answer by MyLeftArm
Submitted on 10/8/2004
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Hi, as a member of AA, i can answer your question. ANYONE can attend OPEN AA meetings. You do not need to have a problem with alcohol to attend OPEN meetings. However, only alcoholics may attend closed, step and beginners meetings. Please be aware that you cannot share at most open meetings. I am also a self injurer and i can find only 2 meetings for SMA (Self Mutilators anoymous) and i am in NYC! so i feel for you, but your best bet is to get counselling and try to find SMA meetings on line or better yet, in person, to attend.

 

Answer by Vanessa
Submitted on 10/8/2004
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hi i too am a self mutilator and i will be turning 14 in 4 days i have been hospitalized 4 times in two months..i dont know what to do either

 

Answer by Stace
Submitted on 10/8/2004
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I too am a self-mutilator.. I have been cutting since I was at least 13, I'm 17 now. I have been hospitalized seven times. I'm not proud of what I do.. but I'm not someone who can talk to someone about the way I feel. It is hard for me to open up to people, or even just talk. I put on an act in front of people, but when I am alone I can't help but cut because things are either unbearable or just unlivable. I really want help with this, because I feel at the rate I am going that I will be cutting for the rest of my life. One of my teachers gave a lot of the students around up wake up calls the other day, she had us do a free write on how we feel about depression, suicide, and self mutilation. Everyone wrote about it, and when I wrote about it, I cried. She read them in class today, leaving out everyones names, she told everyone to stop and look around at the kids that we go to school with, before we even think about talking about them, picking fun at them, and so on. A lot of people were crying and I just sat and looked around, looked around at all the people who weren't crying, and looked at the facial expressions of practically everyone. It made me feel good when I told the teacher about my situation, though I don't want her to get involved.. I still needed to get it out. I hate bottling up everything, but I also hate people pitying me, because of it... If anyone has any information.. please lemme know.. I'd really like to get at least a lot of my frustration out without taking it out on myself.

 

Answer by need help
Submitted on 10/11/2004
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I don't cut myself, but I feel I have a problem.  I cry a lot for no reason, or atleast I can't find the reason.  It has to be caused by something.  Everything seems fine in my life though, I'm a straight A student, dance teacher, student council, you name it.  I also am in a relationship with this guy I've been with for the past year and a half.  I get mad over stuff like not getting to see him or having nothing to do and I go crazy.  I start hitting myself hard trying to hurt myself.  I think I do it to leave marks so people will ask and feel sorry for me.  I don't understand myself...someone please help

 

Answer by shan
Submitted on 10/15/2004
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help me i am a self mutilator . i have been for two years and just go help a week ago i need some on to relate to

 

Answer by Angel
Submitted on 10/25/2004
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hi, I'm a cutter, I've been one for almost two years now. I started cutting because I hated my body. I don't think that I can look in the mirror without disguting myself...and so I cut. My father's a drunk (so am I) and my mother's a door matt so she can't help me. My family has a history of psycological problems and I'm scared b/c I have no one to talk to; all of a sudden cutting's become my life. Please can anyone help me?

 

Answer by mickey
Submitted on 10/27/2004
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hi I'm a self mutilator and has been for a while but i stopped when my mom found out but now i started again. so i don't think its something people can help you with its a choice you have to make yourself. hope this helps I'm with you.
mickey

 

Answer by meaghan
Submitted on 11/1/2004
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Hi my name is Meaghan I been cutting for a year 1/2 I'm 19 I been in and out of hospitals but they don't really help i need a group with people like me but there are non e around me a least I can't seem to find one.

 

Answer by freak
Submitted on 11/4/2004
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I live near Nashville, TN and there are no SMA meetings here. I think we should all get together and talk with people in our areas to get more meetings going. I found an online meeting, but I need to see someone else's scars personally before I can believe that they're on the same page as me. I can't have any help until and only until there is a live meeting. So let's all start something in our areas!!

 

Answer by Aubrey Drof
Submitted on 11/17/2004
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I`m a cutter 2. My friends just don`t under stand!!!!!!They scream @ me 2 stop but the only reason why i really cut is cause i have anger problems & family problems. And what i need is love and support from my friends!! I have tried every thing 2 tell them i need support and love NOT THEM SCREAMING AT ME!!!! but they still do it!! " You want us to support your cutting that STUPID" thats what they say! PLEASE SOME ONE HELP ME!!!!!!!!! PLEASE I DON`T KNOW WHAT 2 DO !!! I love my family to death but my 2 brothers and Dad can be so rude and sarcastic! I tell them 2 stop but they don`t listen!!! If they heard all of this they would think i`m weak EVERY 1 WOULD!!! i don`t want that SOME HELP!!!!!!

 

Answer by alone
Submitted on 11/21/2004
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hey i have been cutting for almost a year and i cant seem to stop no one really notices it because no one notices me i try to explain it to some people i say that u have all this emotional pain that never stops so when u cut it turns it in to physical pain you can control cause once it heals its gone

 

Answer by kaysha
Submitted on 11/24/2004
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I CUT A LOT...DEAL WITH PAIN..UM..WRITING HELPS..BUT CONISDERING I WAS JUST CUTTING MYSELF ABOUT 15 MINUTES AGO YOU CAN SEE IT DOESNT ALWAYS HELP...I KUT EVERYDAY..I LOVE IT   BUT I KNOW ITS BAD...I SHOULD GET HELP....EMAIL..hahahairool@yahoo.com

 

Answer by meghan
Submitted on 12/1/2004
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im a cuter to i did it last year and i stop for abit and then i started again this year cux i stay back in gread 6 and all of my frieds went to 7th gread and its really hard cuz i feel so alone and i dont no what to do everyone there i hate.

 

Answer by Veronica
Submitted on 12/8/2004
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Hi, I used to cut, i was hospitalized for 1day. I have stoped because i seeked profesional help. I definetly Belive that you will get the help you need. Trying to stop is hard i kno its like smoking. So just hang in there!!!!
Get Better

 

Answer by Kayri
Submitted on 12/29/2004
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Self mutilation is a big problem nowadays. I have suffered from it and so has my family and friends. don't think that you are in this alone. One way to quit is to squeeze ice cubes in your hands until the urge to cut goes away. Also, just remember that metal razors definantly do not help you, and trusting in your friends and family will help get you through.

 

Answer by LeeLee
Submitted on 1/3/2005
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Im from Texas and im 18 I have been cutting for 5 years most of it I have kept secret but my secret was just discoverd in October.  SO now I see a counselor I love talking to him but for some reason it dosent help all that much.  I just can't stop the tension builds so high in me I can't control myself.  I have scars all over me and its ugly.  But now im addicted too it.  And it sux when I feel any anger or feelings I just cut I don't even cry anymore.  I really do want to get better guys see help while your still fresh at it one day your going to go too deep and there will be no tomarrow.  I know I can get pretty suicidal but just imagine what that would do to your family your friends.  Really if you look at it suicide is very selfish. The only reason why im still holding on is becuase of my sisters they mean the world to me.  So if you can see help immediently and be real with your emotions get out of it as soon as possible!

 

Answer by anonymous
Submitted on 1/13/2005
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i know someone that cuts, what should i do???
please respond

 

Answer by Kevin R. Bieber
Submitted on 1/19/2005
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I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the State of Florida and willing to assist those in need.  Feel free to call me ANYTIME, ANY DAY, ANY HOUR, 754-422-5000.
Kevin Bieber:)

 

Answer by missy
Submitted on 1/28/2005
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i am 13 I've been a self injurer for 2 years and i cant seem to stop when i do it i get carried away and don't stop I've been in the hospital from being sick because of a dirty razor no one understands i just need sum 1 to talk to when I'm feeling like that can somebody help?

 

Answer by Christine
Submitted on 1/30/2005
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Hi. I am 16 years old and I have been cutting since I was a bout 12 I think. I got help  by way of a stomach doctor. I had to see him for my stomach problems but he said there wasn't anything there. So they put me in counseling.I am doing better now. Although I found a different faith than the person who wrote before me. I found Wicca.It seems to help. I cut off and on now. But I have stopped for up to three months.I don't know about AA but therapy has really helped me.Good luck and I hope you get the help you need

 

Answer by phynix
Submitted on 2/16/2005
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look my name is phynix i use to be a self mutilator i didn't go to the extreme of cut or anything like that i just used safety pins to make small holes to watch myself bleed to feel something other than the pain of being alone. i am 17 and i live in Texas and i lost my frist true love because i was stupid and thats when i started it was about two years ago every once in a while i would cut myself but mainly just the safety pins i even had a glove with thumb tacks on the fingers so i could punch my arm and rip it open and there is a way for every one to stop. i still have times to were i just want to stick another one in my arm and watch the blood come around it but i don't i think about something that makes me feel good inside and if anybody wants to talk i am here. i would give my cell # out but i don't think the site  

 

Answer by Alison
Submitted on 2/21/2005
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Hi,
I am a cutter. I have been doing it for a while and I really want to stop but I just cant! I do it on my legs and wrists.Well, I just wanna say please do not start cutting yourself because its hard to stop! Thanks for reading this!
                   Alison

 

Answer by june
Submitted on 3/14/2005
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hey. im a 13 yr. old cutter, i cut at least 10 times whenever i do it... i cant stop. i tried to kill myself last wednesday but i failed.i know i need help, but it's hard. anyone got any good advice email at gopherbunny131991@yahoo.com  thanx

 

Answer by abbs
Submitted on 3/18/2005
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i am 15 years old and i have been cutting since i was about 12. i did it a couple of times when i first started and then i told my friends what i did. when they told the counselor i had moved to a different spot where no one would see. i said i had stopped but i hadn't. i did it off and on for about a year and then at the beginning of the school year this year i started up again i missed the feeling i got from it. thats when it started getting serious. it was close to everyday again. then for a while i cut everyday then i moved to carving things into my skin like crosses and words. and one time i lost close to a cup of blood. then i got my first boyfriend and i was actually happy. so i only did it when i was having a really bad day. well i haven't done it for 5 months but i am having that craving for the feeling again. i keeping getting into fights with my friends so i really want to cut. i haven't yet but it will only be a matter of time before i do. what should i do?

 

Answer by friend
Submitted on 3/21/2005
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plz help me,one of my closest friends is a cutter and i am really worried, their whole arm is covered with scars and. i dont know how long they have been cutting and i want 2 help them, can u guys offer any advice? the main problem is that if i suggest therapy or group help, i could scare them off, what should i do?

 

Answer by Cait
Submitted on 3/22/2005
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Hello everybody, I am 15 years old and I live in southern California. I was watching a TV show on TV and it was about cutters and I was just watching it in shock how they described the typical cutter, I don't know... it just hit me hard because they were describing almost exactly how I am. I have been a cutter for 2 1/2 years now and not many people know, my mom doesn't know and my dad doesn't know, nobody in my family knows. If I told them they would just give me a bible and say pray about it, see my dads a pastor and if he found out he would just freak out and then think I am not walking with the lord.I don't know what to do though, I tell myself after I do it that its the las time but then I end up doing it the next time something goes wrong. I need help but I cant tell my parents. What should I do?

 

Answer by sumthin u dont kno
Submitted on 3/27/2005
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what losers

 

Answer by Dee
Submitted on 4/2/2005
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I too used to cut, but i worked though that.  I was 14 when i first started cutting.  After i stopped cutting i developed an eating disorder.  I am almost completely healthy again.  i'm here if anyone wants to talk

 

Answer by Dee
Submitted on 4/2/2005
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Lxus I have been thinking a lot about your answer and i have to say that you should never stop trying to quit! You may not think so, but it could be the deciding factor to whether you live or die.

 

Answer by HeLpLeSs
Submitted on 4/17/2005
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I am a Self-mutilator too and i know from trying it is not just a thing that u can turn on and off and when things get tough it is really hard to try and not do it. all i want is help from friends but i am too afraid to tell them because i am afraid to lose them and that is the last thing i need in my life is more hurt. Does any one know of a way that i can try and stop this and not get hurt and more? I really need help the 1 friend i did tell is really scared and i don't know what to do.
             HeLpLeSs & CoNfUsEd

 

Answer by crazywoman
Submitted on 4/27/2005
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i some times want to get away and not ever come back some times i think about u no

 

Answer by rara
Submitted on 5/5/2005
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hey you all need to stop wanting attention!

 

Answer by Darla
Submitted on 5/6/2005
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I am a self muitlator too.  I think that trying to get help makes it worse because then you are talking about your past and problems over and over again.

 

Answer by Famie
Submitted on 5/18/2005
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Hello, Am a self mutilator and i have gotten to a point where i have stopped feeling that kind of pain and want more, and i couple weeks ago, i have popped pills and slit my throat both times someone was always there...why cant i just die??...please help

 

Answer by Ashley
Submitted on 5/29/2005
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Hi I am a 12 year old self mutilator. I have cut since i was about 10 or so. My parents know and they are seeking me help but what if I dont want help? I have been alone (or felt) for most of my life, and thats not about to change. I dont cut that deep so I havent been hospitalized or anything but I have bleed quite a bit. I actually agree with you kristen ( see other entries ) I think that help makes it worse!!!  

 

Answer by SARA
Submitted on 6/6/2005
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IVE BEEN CUTTING EVER SINCE 6TH GRADE NOW AND IM IN THE 9TH GRADE SUPPOSE TO BE GOING IN 10TH BUT THIS SERIOUSLY DEADLY PROBLEM OF MINE "CUTTING" HELD ME BACK SO IMA BE GOING INTO THE 9TH GRADE AGIAN!! I CANT CONSINTRATE ON NETHING I FEEL EMPTY AND WEAK ALL THE TIME FROM MY DEPRESSION THAT NEVER STOPS! I SEEM LIKE A GIRL THAT DOESNT HAVE NE PROBLEMS @ SCHOOL BUT I DO I REALLY NEED HELP IVE BEEN TO A COUPLE OF MENTAL HOSPITALS AND THEY ONLY LOCKED ME UP LIKE I WAS A CRAZY PERSON OR SOMEHTIN AND IT MADE IT WORSE THERES CUTS ON MY LEGS ARMS WRISTS CHEST FEET AND STOMACH THERE IS NO SPOT THAT NOT FILL UP WITH CUTS ON MY BODY AND SO IF I DONT DO SOMEHTIN FAST IT COULD TAKE MY LIFE IM ALWAYS IN PAIN WHICH I LOVE BECAUSE IT MAKES ME FEEL A LOT BETTER AND RELEIVED BUT I WANT TO LEARN TO HATE PAIN BUT TO ME I SCREAM THROUGHT MY CUTS SO WUT SHOULD I DO??? PLAESE HELP!!!

 

Answer by EmoBoi
Submitted on 6/26/2005
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This is so damn hilarious! XD

 

Answer by P4yn3
Submitted on 6/26/2005
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I r liek slit muh wriztz

helpzr0z


LOLEZ

 

Answer by its all in the stars
Submitted on 6/27/2005
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heyy guys!!!....ive tried to stop cutting and i dotn do it everyday soo i dotn think im that severe but theres days where i go crazzzyy!!!!!! and idk if this ever happened to ne of u guys but it frustrates me to hear ppl joking around about cutters they dont understand we go thru everydayy!!!! and as for me i would be a  telling u guys to let ur feelign out diffrerently...u just have to fidn wat ur good at orrr not even that wat u enjoy doingg!!!!! well guys have a great day!!!!1

does ne one else cut wiht safety pins?!

its all in the stars XOXO

 

Answer by givingup
Submitted on 6/30/2005
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i cut myself a lot and i stop for like a month for one of my new cloest friends. i promised her i wouldnt n i tried so hard but 2 days ago i broke my promise, n i havent told her yet. but if i didnt id prob kill myself. i broke my promise 2 other times b4 to my best frined so i jus gave up and kept doing it . im not saying i want help. i just wana say people have there own ways of handling them and if this helps them just leave them alone, but if there gona kill themselves by doing this them it should stop. take it eZ

 

Answer by tabbitha
Submitted on 7/21/2005
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my best friend moved to fllorida, my mom left me....i am 14 years old by the way, and i cut constantly, i did for 1 year befor this, then the one person who helped me moved away back to saint pete florida. so now i cutt all the time and see nothing wrong with what i do, no one else cares so why should i??

 

Answer by Shera
Submitted on 8/4/2005
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I was a cutter for 3 years. I managed to stop on my own, without help. What I did was I finally looked at myself and decided I had to stop, my arms are covered in thick scars, as well are my legs and I wanted to be someone better than that, I wanted to go to the pool and wear a bikini.
Working out also helped me a lot, and I used some special vitamin E cream that has worked wonders on my scars.
If I could stop on my own, anyone can, remember only you are in control of yourself.
:)

 

Answer by heART
Submitted on 9/5/2005
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Hello i have been cutting bout two years know i want to stop cutting but it doesnt work what i try i dont want my parents to find out they will kill me if they do
i need help i want to stop

 

Answer by SAD GOTH
Submitted on 9/7/2005
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I am younger than yew ppl.Way younger.Im 13, cutting is a habit.A bad one, I cut, I bleed to feel.I am wat yew ppl do to me.Wat ppl do to other kids is torment.I have a razor blade, tht i got out of a pencil sharpener, and cut my self to peices.I'm a sad goth n tht is my story..

 

Answer by issara
Submitted on 9/16/2005
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I'm 15 a cutter and everyone is always trying to change my mind but it wont work this is who I am and how I'll stay

 

Answer by Dream
Submitted on 9/22/2005
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Hi my name I chose not admit but my problem I must. I am 24 years old and have been cutting sense I was 10. I am not here to lie so please believe all I have to say. I have been hospitalized 17 times and the longest was for two months. I am not a suicidal cutter all my doctors claim its OCD. I now have a child and was able to pull away from addiction because of the fear someone would take him away claiming I'm an unfit mother due to my problem. Recently I started again, I fear I'll be in my 50s watching my grandchildren from the bathroom window while I lay bloody. I am honestly scared and I have no where to turn. I have decided to write about this in hopes to... well I don't really know why I've written this. I can't tell my friends or my family because they all will only put my back in the hospital. I have been to AA meetings for drug abuse and was able to talk about this problem as well, for me it did no good. I stopped the drugs but this is one addiction I cant turn away from. I'm actually in College to learn how to be able to help others with this problem, but I can't even help myself

 

Answer by Marian
Submitted on 10/2/2005
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Hi. I'm mariana,  I'm 15 and I have been cutting for 4 years now. I really need help. The only person who knows that I cut is my big sister but she promised not to tell my mom. And I would of never told her but I had my coat off and she saw my wrists and arms.

 

Answer by iceman
Submitted on 10/2/2005
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yea ive probably been cutting for a year now periodicly stopping and then doing it again ive tried to get help and it didnt work so i have no idea wat to do

 

Answer by Lesley
Submitted on 10/7/2005
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I would like to help you all. If you need someone to talk to I am here. I have a 17 year old son who I love more than life. I feel for you all and would like to help, if you need someone to talk to I am here for you. I couldn't bear to think of my son having no-one to share his problems with so if you need someone to talk to, I will help you as much as I can.

Lesley

 

Answer by Anglique
Submitted on 12/9/2005
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Hi, I have been a cutter for more than a year and i am only 15!!! I know lot of people say it is just because i am young but it is still hard.I havent cut since Oct. 28 of this ear and i'me still counting the days. My modivation is my boyfriend. He has stuck by me through everything and I know if I cut it would hurt him to so every time I feel the need I just think about how much I love him and how I don't want to ruin things for us. so maybe you can find a source of modivation. i tend to write a lot of poetry now and do lots of art to just keep yourself busy and good luck!!!!

 

Answer by sammy
Submitted on 12/13/2005
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i am a cutter and i have no 1 to talk to about it and i really want to talk to some1 who has or does do it because its easier to talk about it so if there is a cutter out there that wants to help me email me at animaildoc101@yahoo.com i really need help
                 love
                  sammy

 

Answer by Camellia (Mother's Love 4 my CutterDaughterThat I Love!!!!!
Submitted on 1/5/2006
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Cutting is 1 of the most hardest addiction 2 quit!!!!! But u can gain control!!!! My daughter is a serious cutter it scare's the hell out of me!!! But Nothing shocks me !!! I have took her to Doc n Mental Health THEY DONT HAVE A CLUE !!!! Lets try to help each other. If all of u are like my daughter and I have meet many cutters!!! Lets start our on Meetings!!!!!! Lt me know what u think?

 

Answer by Mutilator
Submitted on 1/22/2006
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ive been cutting 2... and i cry about it sometimes...so i stopped cutting onions.

 

Answer by chasity
Submitted on 2/14/2006
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i mutilate my own body i create scars and it's getting worse now i do it on both wrists my upper arm my thighs and my legs i used to only cut on my left wrist but since i got 7 stitches i stoped but it seems to be getting worse and my boyfriend does it to and he expects me to see him as a influence to stop but i can't stop him no matter how hard i try...sometimes i want it to stop other times i just accept it

 

Answer by Allie
Submitted on 2/24/2006
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Just like some of the people on here, i use to be a self harmer. Just last year, my best friend finally relized what was going on with me and she helped me to stop harming myself. I use to burn myself with a lighter and cut myself with scissors when i would get too stressed out and i did this for about a year. Now that i think about it, it was really foolish of me to think that harming myself would actually make things better, because the truth is, is it doesnt. It only makes u feel incontroll for a short period and makes u want to hurt urself more and more so u can feel like that all the time. If you are a self harmer, please get help. Even if it seems like it wont help you, it will. Anything helps. Even if its with your best friend, you should talk to someone. You shouldnt have to harm yourself to make things seem better. If you do have the urge to cut or hurt yourself, do anything to get ur mind off of it. There are many things you can do instead of cutting, for example, instead of cutting yourself draw red lines on your skin until the urge goes away, Call a friend, do some deep breathing, or the best one Squeeze ice cubes in ur hands until the urge to cut goes away. These worked for me and they should work for you. Think about what ur doing to yourself. Do u really want people to find out what ur doing and title you as the girl who cuts herself? Think about it.

 

Answer by WildChild101
Submitted on 3/2/2006
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I self mutilate my self to much and i don't know how to stop. my parents find out alot and they are affraid for me they say that cutting your self is a scream for help or a slow procces of suiced1 i wan to stop and i am gald that i am not the only one out there!

 

Answer by Jeni Marie <3
Submitted on 3/10/2006
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i understand u all accept the em.....murderer? i mean what the freak . do u expect us to ACTUALLY TALK  to u now that we know afterwards you'llprobably chop us up into pieces and hide us in your freezer? i mean come on.

 

Answer by jessie_lynn
Submitted on 3/19/2006
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My friend cuts because she was sexually assaulted when she was younger. Ive found in helping her that you have to deal with things head on and have someone with you helping you deal with them to make the pain go away and with my best friend i do arm checks and such . I know promises are big to her so i can always find if she did by asking her and saying promise. If anyone has any other advice for me i would greatly appreciate it

 

Answer by chuk
Submitted on 3/27/2006
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"i am a self mutilator too.i tried to stop but i just started to eat instead.if i dont cut myself i do worse things like think of killing people so i guess selfmutilation is a better way to deal with things than other ways." Hey, I studied obsessive compulsive disorder and this seems a lot like it. with things about thinking you will hurt someone else, so try lookin that up.

 

Answer by Dylan
Submitted on 3/31/2006
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Hey I have been cutting for the past 4 years and really want help.  My mom has found out a couple of times and says I'm sick!!  I really don't know what to do!?!?!  Our school counselor is my friends mom and I know that shouldn't affect my decision to talk to her but....I dunno!!  If anyone knows of any place in Green Bay WI, please help!!  This website is my only hope!!!

 

Answer by sammid
Submitted on 4/2/2006
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Hi i am a self mutilator too, I cut to relieve stress and pain in my life, my parents would never figure out anything about this because I do it in secret to keep away from all the attention people suspect this is what we're all doing this for. Like they know anything, the people that think this is so wrong are usually the people that have everything perfect in their life and they should stop judging people and look at themselves for a change!

 

Answer by Chelsea
Submitted on 6/17/2006
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i cut.what should i do?

 

Answer by Jesus loves you
Submitted on 8/23/2006
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Octavia is right! God is the answer!

 

Answer by Darwin
Submitted on 10/15/2006
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I'm a proud self mutilator, I am not ashamed of what I do, I consider it an uplifting empowering act. Where are there other proud self mutilators!?

 

Answer by Molly
Submitted on 10/18/2006
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I have been cutting myself for over 10 years now.  I have just began to seek help, except I live in Kentucky and there aren't any meetings or group sessions around here.  Now I don't know what to do.

 

Answer by me
Submitted on 10/29/2006
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i used to self mutilate, i went to see a counsellor, have been going to see her every week for a year now and has helped me.  i haven't self mutilated for 9 months.

 

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