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I am recently married to a man I have dated for the last two years. About a year ago I found gay movies hidden in our home. When I asked about these he said they were probably left there buy the previous tenant. I had doubts but he was so upset I would ask him I dropped it. He always had and continues to have porno around mostly penthouse and hustler. Recently he has started working nights, and I days. We have some sexual toys we purchased a while back and have used together, now the toys are being used when I'm not home. When I questioned him about it he gets extrememly angry and says if I love him I would never doubt his sexual preferences. (it's obvious the toys are being used and I'm sure as adults I don't have to explain which ones and how) I don't know how to open up discussions with him, He gets so defensive. I love my husband and I'm hurting and confused right now with no one to confide or turn to. Is this normal experimenting or is he bi? Are there any groups I can go to for help? I want him to know no matter what I will love him. If he stays in the bond of our marriage and never strays I can cope if he needs more then I need to know. I need help, respectfully

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