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Answer by cherrylipz
Submitted on 8/9/2004
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well i think giving head is tha same as ne otha thing when you are in a relationship with a guy you have to be commited and not be frighted it is beter that you should rush upon a blade then go into a relationship with fear in your heart... making one another happy in the relation ship is a key thing in yer bondage i know that there are teens out thurr 13 and up who are ready to move on to the next level if you feel that you are ready then go for it then DO....but remember that you are accountable for your actions and be wise about it...now to the giving head thing...talk about it before hand make sure that he is comfortable and that you are as well. lightly grab his penis and put it up to your lips....kiss it a couple of times...then lick the tip.move off his reactions and moans...make sure that he is enjoying this then move on and deep throat it when you feel him getting hard then go a little faster then stop and take it out of your mouth then rub it with your hand fast and let him cum.

Answer by Cookie
Submitted on 8/14/2004
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I personally get creative and kinky. This is what I did for Valentine's day... First we make out...then I rub his jeans (by his crouch)and tease him and whisper some phrases and nicknames for what I want to do to his penis...then I lay him down and unzip his pants (or unbuckle) with my mouth and during this still rub with my hands. Slowly put his pants down and inch his boxers/briefs down and rub that before going in. Then I get some chocolate syrup and apply it to the penis. Lick it off gently all around, suck slowly then increase the speed as I go on. Grab his balls gently...suck them if he's lucky. I hated my first time, but now it's fun! 13,14...it is young but that's how old I was when I started too.

Answer by GodxOfxRock
Submitted on 9/5/2004
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first off, I'm a straight 15 year old guy... with that said, I've gotten head a couple times from a couple different girls and it doesn't really matter whether the girl lets the guy cum in her mouth or not... at least not to me... some guys like certain techniques that others don't, you'll have to pay attention while you're blowing him and listen to his reactions... the main reason guys make a big deal about swallowing is that: 1) when a guy goes down on a girl he doesn't stop every couple seconds to spit, 2) it looks very erotic from the guy's point of view, 3)it's a sense of acceptance, the girl accepts him and his body for what he is... i for one would never pressure a girl into oral sex... and i always warn a girl before my orgasm... and one last thing, if the guy doesn't appreciate what you're doing for him, even if you're not especially talented at it, he's an asshole and doesn't deserve it anyway

Answer by firefighter j
Submitted on 12/2/2004
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You start with kissing down his abdomen, then to his waist,hands around his butt, take your time, anticipation is part of it. Next move down past his waist, close to his penis. (You want to build up to the big finish. Don't rush it). Start by licking his shaft, then kissing his balls, those are very sensitive. Suck on them very lightly, don't pull down or use your teeth there. If when you're ready to go down on his penis,he's not hard,you can get it ready by forming a ring with your forefinger and you thumb at the base of his penis. You can tighten that up and watch it get even bigger, you won't hurt him. A man can take some roughness there. Then you want to form your mouth like if you're saying the letter "m", covering your teeth. Don't use your teeth on the head as he will not enjoy it at all. Now you want to explore all sides of the penis and every now and then go over the head (with your tongue,wet lips)moving your head side to side, sucking a little on the upstroke. When you are ready, believe me you will want to do some deep throating on him. Place your thumb directly on the cord below the shaft, as this is where the blood flows through. Keep this cord well massaged, it will enhance the experience. This is very powerfull stuff. You control him at this point. Move your head up and down as in a nodding yes fashion(this is also a charge for him, the more animated,the better). If you swallow he will think you're incredible,but only when you're comfortable with it. If he's larger,you can use two fingers and thumb wrapped around the shaft next to your lips and even your whole hand for that matter,so you don't gag. It's more than just licking and sucking or kissing. It is an art of giving your man a special gift of pleasure that only you two know about. As you get better at it,you will gain the confidence in knowing that you can please a man in your own special way. Anyways,that's how she started me off. I am larger than normal, she deep throats me all the time and doesn't gag at all now. She enjoys it as much or even more that I do. Hope this helps.

Answer by Holly
Submitted on 1/22/2005
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Well, first, I DO NOT recommend grazing your teeth on his penis at all. You should really ask him if he was OK with that. First, most men enjoy the sliding technique, please if you don't want to hurt him wrap your lips around your teeth, so there are no uncomfortable moments or amputations.You can do many things while going down for him, sliding is one, sliding is basic to giving head, it is the fast or slow movement of your wet mouth going up and down over his penis. If you are afraid your going to gag I recommend putting your hand at the base of the penis to reach areas your mouth couldn't and SLIGHTLY pull the skin taught to create some extra sensation. To make it a little more fun, you can start moving your head in a slow manner as if saying no, for example, go down as far as your comfortable then as you come back up slowly tilt your head the left, then to the right as you come back down. Or you can do a yes motion, going down with your chin moving into your chest and as you pull back up tilting your head back for that extra pleasure. But some times, when giving head if you reach under and grab his ass gently and pull him closer into you, like you want him real bad can give him the greater feeling of intimacy and desire. Another way while sucking, kissing, licking him is to fondle or cup is balls and gently rub them. If you really want to make him happy, the move I call the Lolly Pop, is very easy and fun. You lift up the penis with your hand, so your looking at the shaft (Underside of Penis) and you lick from the balls to the tip of the head, this can feel amazing for guys. Realize that you should both be comfortable in doing this, while in a relaxed, safe environment, and don't be afraid to slow down or stop. Ha ha, I don't recommend stopping for longer than a few seconds. While doing this try to think very little about what your doing (Though I do think you should think about being gentle, or rough if he asks for it), and really enjoy what your doing. Least of all don't worry. Men also find it pleasurable when you moan, or you suddenly go from a Lolly Pop and strait down over his penis into a sliding motion. Deep throating is another important aspect (if you can do it) Don't ever feel pressured to do this, and if his hands on your head pushing you over him and you really can't enjoy what your doing if he is making you do it, tell him. He should be very thankful that you're even going down for him so he will stop. But on the subject of deep throating you have to have your gag reflexes numbed, or trained from previous experiences, because everything could be ruined if you go to deep, if you know what I mean. Personally I can't deep through but I do recommend practicing with your partner if your both up to it. As if this already isn't long enough, your partner will very noticeably love this act OF love (Which it should be between two people) even more if you both enjoy some foreplay to get him hard and ready, and don't just do foreplay to leave him blue balls because you aren't ready to do a favor for him thats not very nice. Especially if he does you favors most of the time, while during foreplay that you tell him its his time to relax and that he has the night off and you want to pleasure him. Tell him to close his eyes and enjoy every sensation and if one of them is watching you, then let him. I also head from a friend that he felt he had his best orgasm when he was intimate with his girlfriend and that he really loved her before she went down on him. I do have so many more techniques but I find writing all of this very boring. I just want you to all have a good, fun time and if you want to know more information, look around on the Internet. Ha ha, and if your 14. Quite young, Don't get caught. Much love, holly.

Answer by Holly
Submitted on 1/22/2005
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Well, first, I DO NOT recommend grazing your teeth on his penis at all. You should really ask him if he was OK with that. First, most men enjoy the sliding technique, please if you don't want to hurt him wrap your lips around your teeth, so there are no uncomfortable moments or amputations. Also, create a lot of saliva so you have plenty of lubrication. You can do many things while going down for him, sliding is one, sliding is basic to giving head, it is the fast or slow movement of your wet mouth going up and down over his penis. If you are afraid your going to gag I recommend putting your hand at the base of the penis to reach areas your mouth couldn't and SLIGHTLY pull the skin taught to create some extra sensation. To make it a little more fun, you can start moving your head in a slow manner as if saying no, for example, go down as far as your comfortable then as you come back up slowly tilt your head the left, then to the right as you come back down. Or you can do a yes motion, going down with your chin moving into your chest and as you pull back up tilting your head back for that extra pleasure. But some times, when giving head if you reach under and grab his ass gently and pull him closer into you, like you want him real bad that can give him the greater feeling of intimacy and desire. Another way while sucking, kissing, licking him is to fondle or cup his balls and gently rub them. If you really want to make him happy, the move I call the Lolly Pop, is very easy and fun. You lift up the penis with your hand, so your looking at the shaft (Underside of Penis) and you lick from the balls to the tip of the head, this can feel amazing for guys. Realize that you should both be comfortable in doing this, while in a relaxed, safe environment, and don't be afraid to slow down or stop. Ha ha, I don't recommend stopping for longer than a few seconds. While doing this try to think very little about what your doing (Though I do think you should think about being gentle, or rough if he asks for it), and really enjoy what your doing. Least of all don't worry. Men also find it pleasurable when you moan, because men like to feel like your not just doing this as a chore, but that you are really enjoying taking them in, not like you aren't enjoying it, I sure do, but they like to have the recognition, they also like surprise Ex. you suddenly go from a Lolly Pop and strait down over his penis into a sliding motion. Deep throating is another important aspect (if you can do it) Don't ever feel pressured to do this, and if he has his hands on your head pushing you over him, and you really can't enjoy what your doing, tell him. He should be very thankful that you're even going down for him so he will stop. But on the subject of deep throating you have to have your gag reflexes numbed, or trained from previous experiences, because everything could be ruined if you go to deep, if you know what I mean. Personally I can't deep through but I do recommend practicing with your partner if your both up to it. One spot that is extremely sensitive is to lick the base of the head, where the shaft meets the head, it feels like magic to them. As if this already isn't long enough, your partner will noticeably love this act of love, even more, if you both enjoy some foreplay to get him hard and ready. Don't just do foreplay to leave him blue balls because you aren't ready to do a favor for him, thats not nice. But if you are quite uncomfortable, he must understand your feelings to. But if he does you favors most of the time, you can do him one, Ex. while during foreplay tell him its his time to relax and that he has the night off and you really want to pleasure him. Tell him to close his eyes and enjoy every sensation, and if one of them is watching you, then let him. I also heard from a friend that he felt he had his best orgasm when he was intimate with his girlfriend before hand, and that he really loved her before she went down on him. I do have so many more techniques but I find writing all of this very boring. I just want you to all have a good, fun time and if you want to know more information, look around on the Internet. Ha ha, and if your 14. Quite young, Don't get caught. Much love, holly.

Answer by Yours Truly
Submitted on 4/12/2005
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i think that guys like it when you just do it... you know, cause for a while you'll just makeout and the both of you will think... whats next... what else is going to happen... and he rubs his hands all over your body and wants you to do the same i think most guys try to hint by doing to you what they want you to do to them... sometime guys just whipp it out or lay your hand down there... but you should wait... you should just take do it just put you hand down there grabb it and pull it out started by giving him a hand job then after about a few seconds just go down there start by licking around the top and licking up and down it... (oh and there will be pre cum on it thats not cum though so take one for the team.. you and him that is) and put it in you mouth and then follow the three rules.... SUCK... BOB... and No Teeth

Answer by DominantGirl
Submitted on 5/20/2005
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Well, here is something you HAVE to know. start with licking the tip, that's where all the nerves are. so it feels good. Make sure the guy knows your handling this, not him. This is your decision. How? body motion, eye contact. Guys love it when you look at them as your sucking them off. Not all the time, just glance up and catch their eye. That shows confidence. Now after you lick the tip, put your lips over your teeth so the teeth wont hurt the guy, and slide it in your mouth. Now, everyone says swirl your tongue around, but it's easier said than done. You can lick the top, or around it, but don't actually try to wrap your tongue around the thing. slide it out, kiss it, lick along it, then slide it back in. Try pushing as far as you ladies can. If you gag, pull out, and go back not as much. And don't just suck in and out. Keep it in, and lick it, move your lips over it without pulling it out. You dun have to swallow, You can ask the guy to warn you before he cums. That's about it. P.S. If a guy eats his vegetables his cum will be sweet. If he eats too much meat his cum will be bitter. Just a warning.

Answer by X virgin
Submitted on 6/13/2005
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giving head is simple, basically you start off by teasing him with your tongue around the top of his penis. and slowly moving down with your mouth over it, ive given head a few times and you go down slowly right to the end and you sit the guys penis at the back of your throat you then move your tongue around it and slowly start coming up. while coming up you can either lik the side of it softly and slowly or move your tongue round it... guys love deep throat especially fast, if you feel like gagging dont think about it and go a lil slower, mix up you techneques, when hes about to come open you mouth and rub his cock on you tongue so that he can see your tongue doing this he will soon cum and squirt in the back of your throat... by squirting you hardly taste anything and its easier to swallow.

Answer by Who knows im just here to tell
Submitted on 6/20/2005
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im only 15 ive done it once in my whole life and i had no idea what i was doing like most girls...but the guy im going with now is in for a treat...lets just say iv'elearned alot since back then...I definitely prefer the guy shaved but its his choice really...When i do do it i always tease not for to long but just enough...my boyfriend also enjoys different stuff not just plain head but with icecubes and stuff..we keep it spicey...the most important thing would probably just to keep ur teeth out of the way...dont be nervous about it if ur enjoying it then it makes it a more interesting experiance...you can use ur hand or not its really up to u..i do since i dont do the deep throating thing and yes its also a plus if you play with his balls:P ive heard that once u get good at it and ur fine with how u do it u can suck on it and slowly go up moving ur head from left to right like ur saying no...its kinda hard to explain but its suppose to be good...

Answer by Just Another girl
Submitted on 6/24/2005
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Hello Ladies, First of all i am gonna say for shaving if they start they have to keep it up! and make sure they shave recently before you do it because if it has been a couple days and there is stubble it can be unpleasant for both people. Keeping the area trimmed nicely would be my advice and with giving head you just need to personalize it. i think most girls know the basics of what to do so do that and add a fun and YOU signature to it the biggest thing is to make him (THINK) or know that you are enjoying yourself and having fun. Communication is always good there is nothing wrong with stopping and saying "do you like it like that baby" or do you like it better when i do this" by even asking question it makes some guys even hotter. Because you are doing thing to please them so let them know that, that is your agenda. And if you man is huge and your affraid of chocking use mostly your hands work the tip of the penis and such up and down the sides. A guy will pretty much be happy with anything that you are doing and showing that you are willing to try and go outside your comfort zone is a big turn on!! Go get'em girls

Answer by Intermediate
Submitted on 7/19/2005
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There are many different ways to give head. There is no one specific thing that works for every guy. You have to experiment with different techniques and find out what works for them. This might take you several times to perfect. In fact, you can never reach perfection. There is always something that can be improved or something new to try. Some guys do not like to have their balls played with, so make sure that's okay with them first. If they're not too keen on the idea, you might just ask if you can play with them while not giving head so you'll be fully aware if you hurt him. Once you find out what he likes, then you can combine that with giving head. You can also ask a guy to point you in the right direction if you can't find anything that works. Most likely he has a trick up his sleeve that will help you generously. Don't be afraid to ask. You don't have to swallow unless you feel comfortable doing it. My advice would be to figure out what you're going to do with the cum before he finishes in your mouth. Personally, I can't stand the taste unless they've had a bath within the last couple hours, but all guys do taste different. And if you hate the whole idea of it going into your mouth at all, then you can find other places for the cum. You don't have to take it in your mouth and it's okay to refuse it. Sexual maturity depends greatly on age, but also on the knowledge you have of sex. I don't know many fourteen year old girls or boys that are quite ready to put themselves in that kind of situation. Experimenting will most likely lead to other things that you may want to try. You cannot take back sex, so make sure that this is a person that you truly care for and not just one that you are "in love" with. Oh, and condoms are a great and safe way to protect yourself from a lot of diseases, but only if they're latex. Others do not protect you from things such as HIV.

Answer by anonymous
Submitted on 7/26/2005
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you just have to practice because remember, practice makes perfect. the first time i ever gave head, i was very nervous. but you know, when you see his cock right in front of you, it only makes you more confident in what your doing, in my opinion. most of the time the guy is hard before you even touch his penis because it is very easy for a guy to get turned on - just from the thought of you going down on him makes him hard. so, now we know that he's hard and ready to be pampered! don't go straight for the penis...tease him a little bit. kiss him on the mouth, then on his neck, then make your way down slowly while kissing his stomach. start by just licking the head of his penis. then put in in your mouth (not too far in) and massage it with your tongue. remember to hold the shaft while your doing this, and not too soft (guys like it when you hold it hard, but not so hard that it makes his eyes pop out)!!! now, lick the shaft all around it and then put his cock back into your mouth...in-out-in-out (not completely out though), almost as if he's having sex with your mouth haha. you can do deep throat if you like but i think you have to be a little more experienced with that because its a little harder to do. remember to play with his balls. hold them and suck them too...they love that. there's heaps more you can do that they love, but that'll make this too long to read. but anyway, for now, these easy steps will do the job! tips! always enjoy it, or at least look like your enjoying it,because they can tell! it makes them come faster...TRUST ME! make eye contact with him every now and then, and watch the massive smile he'll give you! good luck girls!

Answer by Tasha
Submitted on 7/27/2005
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giving head is simple.......make sure that the guy has boner first, with make out like furious savages for a while or give him a hand job. once the penis is ready they always let you know....i don't know how they do, but they always seem to let you know...then you start at the top of the penis, swirl around with your tongue, and then suck the tip as if you were licking a lollypop...very easy....do that for a while then start to move to other places of the penis, and then deep throat him a couple of times, and then go back to the top of penis and repeat the top of the penis and then deep throat....pretty soon....orgasism...and make sure that you lay off of the teeth....keep your mouth as open as possible...the less teeth, the smother it is, the faster the let go..any questions....view4romheaven@yahoo.com

Answer by Kibbles
Submitted on 8/28/2005
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I'm 14 and Ive given head a few times. Its not something you should rush into and defiantly only do it with a guy that cares for you, cause if they don't care about you, they're just going to use and abuse the gift your giving them. i find that teasing them by kissing everything but they're cock, makes them cum quicker because of the anticipation, which is good for all you scared-ee cats out there. if you have a guy that you know wont love you there's an easy way to tell. Ask him what he wants you to do when they come Right answer : What ever you want to do with it Wrong answer: swallow it whore (unless your really kinky, more power to you) hair doesn't really bother me that much, and if the guy really does love you, he wont mind if you only take his head in and suck gently while giving him a hand job. if you love the guy and it feels right, go for it, but just make sure.

Answer by researcher
Submitted on 9/17/2005
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Let's say you're with your friend, and you're kissing his body. Then you kiss his erect penis. This is a good chance to explore his penis with your mouth. How does it feel to your lips? Your tongue? Explore all around-feel it's shape, its thickness, its soft skin' the textured crown on top, with its meatus or opening; the fraenum or string-like portion coming down from the head to the ring of skin called the corona; the foreskin if he has one; the scrotum (his balls) at the base-explore all these with your lips and tongue tip. Then, if you both want, explore the penis inside your mouth-let your lips slide over the head and down the shaft a little (watch the teeth!). how does it feel to your lips and tongue now? Move them around some. If you like, slide your mouth down farther. Notice the feeling of stretch in your jaws, and if the penis gets close to your throat, the beginning of you gagging reflex. Now slide the penis out of your mouth slowly, and see how that feels. Pause for a moment, to let is sink in. You might ask your friend what he experienced. If I'm doing this, sucking someone, I usually begin to experience a warn closeness. In fact, I usually only like to suck someone when I really care a lot for him, and want to give myself as closely as I can. It's so intimate a mingling of two people: my mouth, gentle, expressive, strong, wet, warm. my speech part, the entrance for my breath, my lips; his crotch, his most sensitive, guarded physical center, his inner thighs, lower belly, testicles, and his thick pulsating penis rooted in and up through him. How delightful to share these. And his trust, his giving me his body, or mixing security and being. There are lots of things to do with your mouth on his penis, like licking it all over, sucking on it, flicking your tongue tip rapidly across the top. One of the simplest and nicest actions is to move your mouth up and down on his penis. This is called sliding. Make a ring with your lips around the shaft. You'll need a thick padding of saliva to avoid irritation and give the richest, warmest sensations-don't be afraid of it, it's in the spirit of mud pies when you were a kid, and just a fun.You can slide slow or fast, and take as much penis into your mouth as you like. One neat action is to slide down as far as you can, and then draw his penis out slowly while sucking on it, like a peppermint stick. For a more intense activity, you can slide faster and/or go deeper with your strokes. And for an even warmer closeness, you can also fondle and cup his balls in your hand, and add postillioning. If you and he decide to bring him to orgasm, sliding is a nice way. If so, he'll probably appreciate stroking as fast and full as you can. Let me relate a few tips about this. His experience will get more energetic and intense as he approaches orgasm. Your sliding will cause the most stimulation if you encircle your lips firmly around his penis and over the tips of your teeth. This makes a smooth, snug embrace, and helps avoid nips and amputations. Move your head up and down as if it were saying "yes," from just below the top of the penis to as far down as you like. Meanwhile, keep all the other parts of your mouth as relaxed as possible (actual "sucking" is not important here). As you go faster and deeper, get into a regular rhythm. If things start to get very excited, you can move from your shoulders and upper back instead of your neck, so that you're bouncing up and down with your whole upper body. By using these muscles you give more energy to your strokes and avoid fatigue better.

Answer by PuNkBaBe
Submitted on 10/10/2005
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do u suck on top of there fore skin when giving head??....cause i have guys head with out fore skin so i really don't know of u meant to roll it down or something lol.....and guys like it when i grab there penis in between my palms and slowly go up and down for a little while then bring the penis to my mouth n circle the tip of the penis(advantage having tongue ring)and then slowly lick down the shaft and then stop take penis in hands start giving little hand then slowly breathe down the shaft of the penis....and then go top circle tip again and then start sucking kinda hard up n down while moving tongue around......also its great if u suck on ice cube before hand....guys love it

Answer by Sarah
Submitted on 11/1/2005
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Female and young males I just read where 14 were too young. Let be real females about our own sexually behavior. Lot of girls starts way before the age of 14. First of all when women or girls touch or play withal male penis unless you injury it you can tell is it been touch. Male�s bodies are not like our own. Males are on the outside and we are inside. Playing with a muscles outside is totally differ than playing with the inter muscles. Putting a finger into the vaginal is total differ than rubbing the outside of a penis. A boy look down and can tell if everything is ok but girls get scare and that why girls will tell when something happen. All age�s girls are women love and enjoyed the sight of seeing or touching a male penis, testicles, scrotum. It sick how we blame the males for our behavior when we are the one who push everything that goes on. Let be real, we women show up at women house that has sons and invited us to pants changing and bath time. You know what we when over they�re for. Let stop cover up what we do. We go over so we can see the boy penis get erection. You put two children in the tub. For example a boy who is 6 year old and his 4-year-old sister are in a bathtub. She reach out and grabs it and felt it. The mother does nothing about it. There are two messages you tell the children. First it is ok for girls to touch boys at free will. The second you tell the boys those girls can do what they what to do and they have know rights. Let be real, evening little girls lust and fantasy the male penis. I see girls as young as 4 years old who get excite about a boy penis when they see it get erection or see it grow at purity time. Little girls love to see their daddy penis. Adult female like to see young boys penis. Let get real, the reason why boys do not say anything is the high in tense pleasure of the head of the penis. The old time a boy say anything is if they do not like you or you hurt them. A boy at 5 years old get the same about pleasure as a 13, or 25, or 50 year old male. Let be real, when 95 per cent of moms put their sons to bed and they kiss them and rub on them. The do as a fact react down and rub on their penis and let it get hard in their hands. The same goes for sister who does their brothers. Let be real, the reason why girls baby-sit other than money and they like kids is so they can see boy�s bodies. It is a fact that 90 of females will never say anything about another female for playing with a boy penis. The reason is because they done it also. Let be real, 14 is to young, but let be real girls as young as 4 has suck a penis. The reason why boys say nothing is the pleasure it gives. I was 13 year old and i was baby sitting my cousin who was a 10 year old boy. After he came out of the shower, I was in the bathroom drying him off. I saw his penis got hard and I reach for it and rub on it and end up sucking on it. He greatly enjoyed it. I was 9 year old and have a brother that was 13 and when we all sleep together one Saturday night is when we female whato to know if he could give sperm. My mom was showing him ways of msturbating and she got me into it. We both end up sucking him and did very heavy forplay with him. He end up spouring his sperm on to his body. He both took our finger and drip into it and taste it. We could also smell the odor in the room. That night I sleep holding my brother penis in my hand. The reason why he did not mind it because he love us and he total undertstand us female sexually. Mom and me have done it for many years to come. He has masturbate both of us and hias lick me.

Answer by NZ chick
Submitted on 11/13/2005
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Look here is the best way i have found to give head. First of all kiss him (on the mouth) then slow work your way down kissing his neck then chest and stomach and then right down until you reach his shaft. Then lick your lips while looking at him and generally make sure your mouth is very moist. Then start at the base and lick his whole penis so it is wet. Then lightly breath on the tip of his penis as with one hand you gently cup his ball and with the other you hold the base of his penis. Slowly lower your mouth onto his erect penis and from here there are a number of things you can do. You can stick to the basic bob which is just the up and down motion but be sure to use plenty of tongue and no teeth. Otherwise try sucking, licking whatever makes him moan really. Try put his penis as far into your mouth as you can. If you get the whole thing in this is called deep throat and lets just say guys love it. After all this comes what everyone has been waiting for the cum. I would recommend to swallow as it totally boasts a guys ego and just saves on cleaning up. If there are three things you take from this, they should be; 1. DON'T USE TEETH USE PLENTY OF TONGUE 2. try to enjoy it. You shouldn't think of this as doing your man a favor but really enjoy it. It can be sensual and amazing with the right guy 3. Do it with someone special and it will be amazing i promise. I have even heard of girls getting so turned on that they orgasm while giving head PS if he does that whole put-his-hands-on-the-back-of-your-head to make you go further thing then stop and tell him nicely that if he keeps doing that he will have to finish himself off cause thats not cool

Answer by jen
Submitted on 11/29/2005
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well... Personally my boyfriend likes his head a lot! I like to give it to him too, because it makes him happy but he only gets it when im in the mood cuz there is nothing worse than give head in a bad mood, not only is it worse quality but it really loses it's effect. I'd say.... start with for play, making out, back massage, let him feel you up a little you know, things like that, it makes the release stronger. Then while your kissing him kiss all the way down to his cock and mess around there with your tongue a little, lick around the balls, but don't be too aggressive, the head is especially sensitive so don't be afraid to put emphasis on it (suck a lot) but don't ignore everything else. Deep throating takes a little getting used to, do it as much as you can but don't go over board, no one likes puke on them. Start slow and get faster all the while sucking and swirling your tongue, and if your jaw gets tired assist your-self with one hand sliding up and down the shaft and the other hand caressing his balls and consentrate your tongue and lips on his head, especially the rim and the very tip of it. And don't be afraid to moan a little, my guy likes it, it might even make him cum faster. When he does cum, if you don't want the cum in your mouth let him go on your face or chest or something but if you do put it in your mouth, i wouldn't spit it out in front of him. It's kinda insulting. Oh and one more thing ... No teeth! Good Luck!

Answer by Lushlips
Submitted on 1/2/2006
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Start by teasing him. Start off by wanking him off. Move your face close to his penis and breath on the end still wanking him. The start licking the end pulling back the foreskin back just a little. Then slowly put it in your mouth putting it deeper in your mouth every couple of sucks. Keep you tongue licking. Stop every few minute to give your mouth a rest but keep wanking. Then try wanking and sucking at the same time. An extra little tip is when they are cumming push the little bit of skin between the balls and the butt aka the gooch. Another quick tip drink a little bit of fruit juice before and after you give him head. This just stimulate your saliva glands and keeps you mouth lubricated and the cum isn't't that bad of a taste either.

Answer by jaie.marie
Submitted on 1/14/2006
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okay..serisously..i think that any age you wanna start giving head is fine..but swallowing..honestly..dont do it..dont get it in your mouth at all..and if he doesnt love you enough to tell you that he is about to finish and you dont want him to in your mouth..then leave him..and another thing..if you swallow on the first time you do it to him..and you havent been dating for a long time AND you arent that close..trust me this had happened to my friends..he goes around telling ppl that you swallow and that you are a big whore..and lots of other things..btw..i have been with my bf for over a year now..and he is 18 and i am 14..we have had sex not many times and i have givin him head once..and the sad thing is..i didnt finish him off..because i think it is discusting..and he could tell..so he made me stop..sorry i switched around in the subject so much..but i just wanted you younger girls to know these things..

Answer by Honest John
Submitted on 2/2/2006
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it's a huge turn off to guys when a girl does any favors too soon, too soon meaning under a month like alot of girls do, thinking it will make him more into her, it is not the case, if you give favors or put out too early a guy will think you're more likely to cheat on him and will lose respect and his early impression will be you are an easy object, don't let this happen to you girls, also, it's a huge turn off to a guy (meaning a real man who doesn't just want sex) when he learns you started real young (13, 14, and 12) or if you have had too many partners, this is not to say you're a whore for having sex, it's obviously not so, but if a man wants you for a relationship, he doesn't want to know you've been with alot of other guys because he will become nervous about himself and also might get a bad impression, this how us guys think, i'm in love right now, her name is natasha, (mine is really ben) and i can tell you nothing pleases a guy more than affection, caress and kiss him places other than just his sexual organs and mouth, us guys love that too...

Answer by easy-e
Submitted on 2/6/2006
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First you start with a handjob- grabbing at the base of the penis moving in an up and down motion... you can tease by licking around the tip, or up and down the shaft... then put your mouth around his penis and place your lips firmly around it for friction and a better feeling... begin to suck or... by moving your tongue as you move your mouth up and down on his penis(try to keep your tongue firm when working your way back up to the head). there is also that v-shaped area near the head of the penis.. or as some people call it the "hat" .... that v-shaped area is sensitive and using pressure with your tongue you can lick that area every now and then for added pleasure... if you follow these steps i guaruntee he wont last long ;)

Answer by kimmy
Submitted on 2/17/2006
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I'm 15 and I've given head a few time. I like to start out by licking the head of his penis in a swirling motion. I do this for a few mins. Then I lick down the shaft and back up to his head. I then start cupping his balls and rubbing them while I' still licking up and down his shaft. I do this for a couple of mins. Then I start licking his balls and I suck 1 of this balls into my mouth. Don't suck to hard on his balls cause it could hurt him. While I'm sucking on his ball I start rubbing the shaft of his penis. Then I switch and start sucking his other ball. After a few mins. I suck in both him balls in my mouth all while I'm still rubbing the shaft of his penis. I do this a few mins. Then I start lick back up his shaft all the way to the head. Then I suck on the head of his penis as if I'm trying to get him a hickey there. This will drive him wild. I now start to slowly put his penis into my mouth. I slowly go down his shaft putting more and more into my mouth. I have not yet learn to deep throat yet, but I working at it. I start go up and down on his shaft until he finally starts to cum. When he begins to cum I stop going up and down on his shaft and start sucking on the heads. The first blast of warm cum goes right down my throat. Once he start cumming I then I start suck the head a little harder, this makes him go wild and I can usually manage to get more cum out of him. He really enjoy this and I enjoy doing it to him.

Answer by may
Submitted on 2/27/2006
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have you ever pretended to be old? when you put your lips over your teeth so it looks like you are old and have no teeth? well guys really like it when you do that and rub your lip-covered-teeth over the shaft of his penis and apply a little pressure (like you are biting but you are not because your teeth are covered by your lips). While you do this you can lick the head and shaft depending on how far it's in your mouth. some guys are kind of scared of finishing in your mouth so it's a good idea to know what kind of guy you are doing it to. Ask him or something. make sure you have a tissue handy, not every girl (or i guess some guys)can swallow or even have it in their mouths for too long.

Answer by nice & slow
Submitted on 3/13/2006
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first of all, i start by getting them ready for it by nibbling on ears, kissing down neck, licking to belly button and then licking down the penis to his balls, then lick on don his leg, suck on his toes and work my way back up, licking and sucking all on his balls, then lick up the shaft on one side and back down the other side,then back up,and run my tongue all around the head nice and slow (they really love it if you have a tongue ring-which i do)as im stroking it, then suck on the head awhile and put my tongue in his pee slit and suck so hard,then take his penis in my mouth and suck on it as i am taking more and more down my my throat til i have all of it, then i make sure i get every last drop of his cum.

Answer by cheeky
Submitted on 4/11/2006
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well im here with my mate and we've done it quite a few times. we came to the conclusion that the first thing u have to do is: 1- Kiss him from head to toes!! 2- Suck on his nipples 3- Lick their ears 4- Play with his belly button 5- Then start goin further down and play with his pubes. curl and twist them around 6- Next start kissing the knob of the penis 7- Then put his balls in ur mouth an nibble on them a little. 8- next start sucking on that big thing go faster n faster and uhhhhhhhhh ahhhh 9- wank at the same time as u suck 10- do a lot of rubbing 11- dont swallow his cum. 12- let it go on ur hands and then give that dirty bastard a cum massage. 13- enojoy!!!!!!!!!

Answer by hunter67
Submitted on 4/27/2006
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Well i am 14 and have been with my boyfriend for about five months. i have given him head a fair bit but he was my first head job. the reason i did it wasnt because of pear preassure or just coz its the thing to do, i did it because we love and respect eachother and i wanted to show him that in new and pleasing ways. he had asked me to a few times earlier in our relationship and i had refused, and he never once preasured or asked me again untill i offered. i think when you have found someone like this (who doesnt preassure you) and you really care for, there is no real age for giving head. trust me, you really have to know, trust and be comfortable with the person for it to really be enjoyable and not feel awquard. you will know this if afterwards you can openly discuss what he liked/disliked or if there is anything he wishes for you to do more/less of. remember if he askes you to give him head he is not preasuring you, just simply asking a question and if you are comfortable with this person it will be easy to say no. if you have to make an excuse or know you dont want to but do it anyway, you are obviously not as close as you think. if you do say no and he complains or keeps asking, he is definately not worth it and is obviously using you. also when you are little and have your first kiss and stuff the first thing you do is run to your friends and get all exited and soon everyone knows. sexual contact such as head should be done with couples as a sign of love so things like this should be kept between the couple or a few close trusting friends. make sure you tell him this to, you dont want people getting the wrong impression of you... hope this answers your question to all those girls who were worrid about being too young, luv yas!

Answer by cassie.
Submitted on 5/11/2006
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your only 13, and you have given head about 3-4 times. thats fukin wrong. your 13!! what are u dumb? ur prolly blonde, n e ways im not fussed on giving head, my bf always asks me, i jst say no, he'll keep goin on about it for ages, but i just put my clothes back on and say suck it ya self, but we will prolly get back into it, he just wont have gotten head, i think he is learning now that when i say no i mean it, it makes me more determin to keep my no if he keeps on goin on about it, dont let them EVER pressure you, if you dont feel comffy with it, then dont do it. i have been pressured into it to many times with one of my ex boyfriends, thats why i hate doin it now, cos i was never comffy with it, so i feel i never reall will be until im read for it, but 13,come on are u even emotinaly ready for it? geeez thats crazy. just lookin out for ya's. catch yas! oh, yea tease there nob abit n then deep throat it n suck harrd.. =P

Answer by Frosty
Submitted on 5/14/2006
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For many guys, although not all, anticipation will make it better. I tend to start kissing along his torso, slowly toward his penis--but not touching, or if so, "accidentally"--and along his thighs/inner thighs, so that my neck or chest rubs against him while I'm kissing/licking his skin. Then, when I think that I've gotten him extremely excited, I will lick back toward just above his penis. Often, he will move against my skin, and I use this to get him in my mouth "accidentally" again (meaning, pretend it's an accident). Then I cover his penis as much as I possibly can with my mouth, to counter the teasing with a lot of stimulation. From there, I play, kiss, suck all along the shaft, spitting a little for lubrication. Also, touch and gently massage his balls. I generally end with covering my hand in saliva and jacking him off with the motion of my mouth going up and down his penis, so that it is entirely stimulated. You do not have to swallow, and most guys who are courteous will tell you when they're about to cum so you can decide whether to get it in your mouth.

Answer by ktothesecond
Submitted on 5/27/2006
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I'd say: don't deep throat, some guys like that, but it usually uncomfortable for the head-giver, and doesn't maximize pleasure. Another word, don't use teeth. That's extremely uncomfortable for most men (Teeth next to the most sensitive part of your body, that is). Additionally, don't just turn your mouth into a make-shift vagina. You can utilize it so much more. Use lots of toungue, especially around the head (which is where all the nerves in the penis are)switch between sucking, licking etc., and be sure to move around on the penis. the singular most sensitive spot on the penis is a frenulum on the back side of the penis (the side of the penis that is facing away from the body, when erect) which is a tiny peice of skin that connects the head to the shaft. If you can find that, use lots of tongue and you're golden. Also, the cornea, the ring of extra skin right below the head is also very tender. This is a very good place to focus your tongue. Just remember to use your hands, mix it up, try new things, have fun, and most importantly, communicate with your partner.

Answer by izzy
Submitted on 6/20/2006
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Okay first off im going to say NEVER EVER EVER get tips from girls on how to give head! never ask anybody without a penis cuz they dont no what it feels like. Even if there guys have said they were great do u think thats ushally true? most of the time they just dont want to hurt there feelings. so you have two options. you can wing it yourself and just see what you guy moans to more or go to some website where a guy explains whats best! oh and on the thing about being 14! im 14 and im not saying i have given head but its deffenatly come up a few times. there is no 'set age' to beging that kind of stuff. do it when you feel read and comfortable with the person your with and NEVER do it drunk cuz that doesn't even count and it loses all meaning and you just end up looking like a slut if you have any other questions u can e-mail me at izzy_babie@hotmail.com

Answer by izzy
Submitted on 6/20/2006
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Okay first off im going to say NEVER EVER EVER get tips from girls on how to give head! never ask anybody without a penis cuz they dont no what it feels like. Even if there guys have said they were great do u think thats ushally true? most of the time they just dont want to hurt there feelings. so you have two options. you can wing it yourself and just see what you guy moans to more or go to some website where a guy explains whats best! oh and on the thing about being 14! im 14 and im not saying i have given head but its deffenatly come up a few times. there is no 'set age' to beging that kind of stuff. do it when you feel read and comfortable with the person your with and NEVER do it drunk cuz that doesn't even count and it loses all meaning and you just end up looking like a slut if you have any other questions u can e-mail me at izzy_babie@hotmail.com

Answer by i swear i dont have crabs
Submitted on 7/15/2006
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ok, so im 12 years old and i'vealready giving my boyfriend (of a few weeks) head about 5 or 6 times. i dont really keep count anymore. the first time i actually bit down TOO hard and he screamed in pain, but that didn't stop him from cumming all over my face anyways. can two people give a guy head at once? its something i was thinking about trying soon... and also. sometimes i like leaving a little bit of cum left on my lip and saving it for later :P i crave the salty taste. is it illegal to give a guy head who is 5 years older than you? what if hes my boyfriend? he doesn't know im actually 12 so he wouldn't get in trouble if the police found out right? or would he? I NEED HELP. much love-- brian.

Answer by esmerelda
Submitted on 7/19/2006
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well. im 14 and i gave my boyfriend head in a movie theater, it was pretty great. i just grabbed him at 1st. and starting rubbing him through his pants.then he pulled it out. as i gave him a handjob, we were making out. then i slowly kissed him lower and lower until i got to his penis. i started licking and sucking lighty on the head and then i started getting deeper and deeper. as i started to suck and swivel my tounge around he started to moan. it was really hot. then he started pushing my head down farther and farther. then i started deep throating him. i then grabbed his balls. and started massaging them. a few minutes later he came! haahha. giving oral is really fun. you should try it.

Answer by Haed Master
Submitted on 9/6/2006
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I'm 15 and i Have givin head 25 or 30 times all to my little brother who is 14. His penis is 9 inches. He loves it when i give him head. I usually give him head when we get home from school every day. So times I go and give him head when he is in the showers or getting dress for school. I start by giving him a lap dance. He love to feel my but rubbing him on the penis. Next I give him a hand job. Then i start to lick around the head of the penis. Then I start to suck his penis until he cums into my mouth. Finally my brother and I start to french Kiss to pass the cum from one to another one then back into my mouth then I swallow the cum. The hair on the penis and around the balls should be shaved.

Answer by Wow.....
Submitted on 10/12/2006
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Ok first off, if you are anywhere under the age of possibly 18, which you are considered a minor then it is wrong to have any sexual contact. Why? Is there a legal age to have consentingly sex? No, but at that age your mind has some what (hopefully) matured, and YOU AS A GIRL have a sense whether or not that SEX is love and not 'popping' the guy off. At that age you can RATIONALIZE if he is just using you as an accessory and just to satisfy him. AKA you at that age are relevant to a 'right now' girl, and not a 'right girl'. Girls start young, and they end young too. Consequences catch up with you sooner than you think. Enjoy life now and regret it later. Free will is harmful and using your discretion is most important. Comment: First off, Easy~Erin... Hmm well you name speaks for itself. You sound so proud of your 3-4 times, which infact must have been horrible yet you have convinced your mind you were in paradise. BEE: obviously you support my argument. Under 18 you cannot rationalize for your self whether or not you are ready or if it is appropriate. You are not using YOUR common sense but OTHERS when they say 'go for it', Give it time and let it make you a smarter person. CONCLUSION: PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE! TRUST ME AS A GUY, I WAS 20 WHEN I FIRST EXPEREINCED MY SEXUAL ENCOUNTER, AND THANK GOD I DID AT MY AGE I WAS SMART EDUCATED RESPECTFUL LOYAL AND MOST OF ALL READY. I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL GIRL AND WE HAVE THE GREATEST TIMES TOGETHER. IF YOU WAIT AND GET READY YOU WILL HAVE MORE THAN ENOUGH TIME TO MAKE UP FOR THE LOST YEARS. BE SAFE. THINK SMART. BE YOU.

Answer by Juanita
Submitted on 10/27/2006
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The best advice for giving head is...No guy is the same, what is great for one guy may be the worst for another. If you want to give great head watch his reactions as his cock is in your Mouth. You will know when you have a winning "Move" or, on the flip side when what your doing just is not doing it for him. I have been told by more then one guy I was the "Best", I'm not gloating, but I have been doing this for a few years now, and can honestly say it is one of my favorite things to do in bed. Look up at him, look into his eyes watch his reactions to every little thing you do to pleasure him. Not only will this make you a better Lover knowing what pleases him, but it also it can be one of the Biggest Turn On's watching him getting so much pleasures from what I'm doing to him!! Good Luck and Keep Sucking!!

Answer by bobble head
Submitted on 11/2/2006
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First you have to get the guy hard. You have to tease him, you can't just stick your head down there and start sucking..when he comes it'll be more intense if you tease him from the beginning. Then once u get down there start lightly sucking on the head, cup the balls, swirl your tongue around and try to get as much of the penis in your mouth as you can. If you gag, then release some of the penis and just use your hand @ the base of the penis and just suck the head of the penis. Don't neglect the balls either! A lot of girls dont like it but i personally think its really hot to do this to a guy, it turns me on and makes me feel hot. You dont have to swallow but a lot of guys think its hot. :)

Answer by sKeEzYsShOrTi
Submitted on 12/7/2006
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i give my man head when ever he is in the mood....he likes it when i start at the head and roll my tounge around it with my tounge ring and look up at him....then i take it all in at once then i wrap my hand around his penis and slowly massage it in a circular motion. then i lick the head all the way to the balls and place his balls in my mouth....then i go back up kissing it and then i deep throat for a little way and by then he is ready for penatration...so we do it....thats a good blow job...yes 13-15 is to young for all that but im 18 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we got really close before we did anything other than kiss....i love my baby!

Answer by sillybilly
Submitted on 12/28/2006
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I love giving my bf head. It lets guys know u like their cock. I start by slowly kissing from his mouth to his cock, then I grip it, put the tip in my mouth and kiss it, then I circle my tongue around the tip slow then faster(they love it when you alternate) then I take it all in my mouth, I give it a good up and down then I grip it again. By this time he's already stiff and starting to moan, then I suck and lick only the tip while I jack him off. This makes it feel like he's inside you. (Remember to change speeds every once in a while, and be smooth w/it). Then I take it all in my mouth again(they love this) and get a vaccum like suction going on (this squeezes his hard cock just right) and I start to go up and down faster. Then jack him off fast and if he's getting close to coming just deep throat it until he does (If ur unsure if he's about to come, just ask him he'll most likely be so hott he'll scream "yes!!" just so you'll continue; swallowing is a turn on 4 him, but if u can't bear the taste just have a small towel nearby). Its always good to do a little more soft sucking after he comes to make sure he's completely satisfied. Don't Forget!! To massage his balls while you have all of him in your mouth. This makes the coming experience better for him. Now you can just slowly kiss him from the cock up(if he doesn't mind going cock to mouth).

Answer by MissHellGoddess13
Submitted on 1/3/2007
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Hm, I see I am not the only thirteen year-old in here who is answering things such as this. Giving head is actually very simple, I can give it to you all detailed or not, I guess it doesn�t matter. How To Give Head: The very first thing you probably want to do before even starting is making sure the male is shaved. After this, head down to his lower area, look at him in the eyes as if a way to say �Get ready.� Do NOT take him in right away, tease him first, breathe somewhat on his penis, making him shiver, this will excite the both of you. After doing that for a few seconds, lick your tongue over the head of his penis (Circular motion is the best). Start to take his tip in your mouth sucking on it softly, after doing this for an amount of time, you can take him fully in your mouth, go slow, and then faster, and if you want you can make a pattern after that, such as: Going fast up him, and going slower when you get to his tip. When he gets ready to cum tease him again by either stopping for a second, or by going slower, do not tease him for long, or he will lose the feel of cumming, after doing all of the teasing, go faster so he can cum ( It�s best if you swallow it, guys tend to think that is kinky. ) And for those who seem to wonder �She is so young, but knows so much.� Then yes, I know I am 13, but very mature, even in looks. So, I hope this not only answers FlaVoROfThEWe3k�s question, but everyone else�s as well.

Answer by Cherry
Submitted on 1/14/2007
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Ok most of them answers are good and i agree I'm 15 yrs old have been with my boyfriend for a yr now and the thing i found most interesting is that we had sex before i gave him head. I suggests that for like commitment sake if your really interested in a guy make him give u oral (let him finger u or lick u out) before u give him oral now giving oral may seem like a big thing i of all people no what its like considering i was a complete fridget when i met my current boyfriend but i remember that start off slow and go as far back as u can if u have any questions u can send me an email at hot_chicky_babe_@hotmail.com i will be pleased to answer an questions u may have for me Thanks Cherry

Answer by Suzette
Submitted on 1/27/2007
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First of all, for all the answers that mentioned getting pregnant in correlation with oral sex is an idiot. I was thirteen [seventeen now]. Age is no definition for when one is ready of sexual activity. To each their own, as everyone isn't ready at the same time. It's a matter of maturity, and that differs. The main thing is to not be pressured into it, because then you'll end up hating it. You can start with him erect, or you can do it to get him erect. I've found it's better when he already is, that way you don't have a flaccid mass of skin in your mouth. It really isn't hard, it should come naturally. --just don't bite. [Unless he says to...in which case, he's weird. Or goth.]

Answer by Chicklet
Submitted on 2/12/2007
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I'v given head a whole lot to the same guy, I think we all know we can't get pregnant from just that. I was at the start of being sexually active with him when I was 14 and he was 15 and I don't regret it but make sure you know what you're about to do. He likes it when I tongue the head, and deepthroat, cuz all guys do. But I can't really deepthroat cuz it makes me wanna barf cuz I have bad gag reflexes. I'v swallowed like twice and the rest I just give him a handjob off to the side until he's done so don't be afraid to do that if your scared to swallow cuz they should be greatful your at least going down there with your face. Don't let him pressure you. YOU make all the calls and YOU decide when enough is enough. Don't go around doing anything with a ton of guys cuz noone likes a slut.

Answer by masterpenis
Submitted on 2/18/2007
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I like to receive head as long as it is done properly. The tip/head of the penis is the most sensitive, so focus your attention there. Deep throating is usually not necessary. It does not do much for the man, and usually chokes the girl/woman. Watch the teeth. Scraping the penis with the teeth is a definite no-no (for most). Light stimulation to the balls is a plus. Gently tickle the underside of the balls. If a girl/woman gives me some good head, I almost always reciprocate by giving her some oral pleasure too. Usually I do her before she does me. Make sure you take a good shower and scrub down there before doing any of this. Nothing is more of a mood kill than attempting to give someone some oral only to find that their genital region is not clean... Head is good, head is great. Give some head and celebrate. The more you give, the better it feels. So give some head and make them squeal!

Answer by N/a
Submitted on 4/19/2007
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Ok I'm gay and I know what guys like because well I like it.I start off before hes hard just kiss it and roll back the foreskin and make some eye contact move down the shaft once hes hard and you can use your hands a bit to get things started. Return to the top and start to deep throat, when you do this keep your lips tight to his cock tight or its pretty much pointless. Tickle rub and play with his balls it will only add to the excitment, try to make eye contact as much as possible most guys find it hot. You don't have to swallow but it avoids the taste and I think guys like it better. When you take a few minutes off to breathe / give yourself a break talk to him about how you want his cum and dirty things you can do with it.

Answer by doubledoolittle
Submitted on 5/7/2007
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If you give head like this to your man, he will do anything you want. No woman can tell another woman exactly how to duck cock because each man likes something a little different. There are some basics though. I hear people say to lick up and down and all that. Here is a word of advice: that is stupid. Just stroke it first--not too softly, not too harshly. Then put your lips just around the head and moan. Then put the head in and start sucking up and down, but go a little bit deeper each time to get the entire cock wet. Make sure you stoke it at the same time or it will stink. Make sure you get as much in your mouth as possible and keep it as wet as possible. Go almost all the way out, then all the way back in your mouth--in and out. When he starts to cum, deep throat and bob your head all over it while moaning and stroking it. When he is done, open your mouth and show him the cum, then swallow it.

Answer by Dr. Lina Schwartz, MD
Submitted on 5/15/2007
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It is a MYTH that you cannot get pregnant from giving head. In fact, you can. Research shows that after the semen travels down your esophagus, it enters your small intestine, which leads to your large intestine. Because your large intestine is such a short distance away from your ovaries, the sperm swim over to the unfertilized egg and, as a result, it makes an embryo. DUH But this only happens if you're under 15 because just like your body knows when to start each period, it also knows that if you're 13 or 14 years old and shouldn't be giving head. As a result, you get pregnant because thirteen year olds should not be engaging themselves in sexual activities. Go outside and play-- enjoy your childhood. Clearly, the boys your age are doing the same and the older boys that are letting you give them head are losers and are using you for sex. Wait a few years, please.

Answer by Woodja Blome
Submitted on 5/26/2007
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There is no such thing as bad head unless you make the guy bleed - and that would still be debatable. There is only good head, better head and great head. If he marries you, you are doing something right. You can stop doing it though once you get married. Any guy should be grateful that a women would suck them off and shouldn't complain. If they do, tell them to do it themselves. Remember that. And if they tell you that you are doing it wrong or not very good, tell them it is hard for you to get use to his penis size. Tell him your last boyfriend was so big you could only get the head into your mouth so that is all you ever sucked. That will shut him up.

Answer by Woodja Blome
Submitted on 5/27/2007
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There is no such thing as bad head unless you make the guy bleed - and that would still be debatable. There is only good head, better head and great head. If he marries you, you are doing something right. You can stop doing it though once you get married. Any guy should be grateful that a women would suck them off and shouldn't complain. If they do, tell them to do it themselves. Remember that. And if they tell you that you are doing it wrong or not very good, tell them it is hard for you to get use to his penis size. Tell him your last boyfriend was so big you could only get the head into your mouth so that is all you ever sucked. That will shut him up.

Answer by ~SoSweet~SoYoung~
Submitted on 6/13/2007
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Well I'm still pretty young and only given head a few times but my man likes it, so here what I do- first play with his cock for a minute then softly lick the tip. start slow and take the head in to you mouth sucking softly. slowly take more in. stop every so often and lick his shaft and suck on it from the side for a secant. if his really big or you just don't want to deep through (cause I don't and I haven't got any complaints yet) then you can hold the base of his cock as you bob your head and move your hand in rhythm. if you have never given head before and don't know if you want to swallow or not, either be sure to pull back and finish the job with you hand or go ahead and swallow anyway. (it's just must guys think it's a bit upsetting yo spit it out)

Answer by The Fag Master
Submitted on 7/19/2007
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I'm a guy so I know how to do it and I know how it feels, so listen up, what I'm telling you is an exclusive treat if you really wanna please the guy. FIRST - tease him, lick everywhere but the tip don't take too long or he'll get frustrated, but make sure you cover everything but the head... flick the underside of the head with your tongue to hint you're gonna go up there soon. SECOND - Take in the cock.. as much as you can, if you don't have a gag reflex, then deep throat it, it's hot and what guy doesn't like it..? it's not for beginners so don't try unless you've practiced a little.. you don't want to throw up on his magic wand.. ***taking it all in will make the fact you teased it even better, even if you can't get it all, the enclosure of the penis in the mouth feels AMAZING!! THIRD - you go back and forth, in and out making sure you aren't scratching the heck out of him with your molars. you can flick and swirl your tongue around while the cock is still inside your mouth... twist it around the head.. but not often, it's an intense sensation and you want it to be special when you do it. FOURTH - periodically pay attention to his balls. Some girls (And guys) don't like doing this because they're scary.. but really they're not too bad. Don't suck hard unless he's a masochist... there's is a reason it's called "where it hurts" be gentle and light. Go below the ball sack to the perennium this place will make the guy purr like a really big kitten. Lick it in big stokes. Pay attention to the shaft whenever you leave it (if you want) by jerking it with your hand . But be sure to always go back to it with your mouth. NEVER - suck the tip hard. it's uncomfortable and really intense... it's hard not to kick the person off if they do this. Swallow, spit, let him cum on your face, whatever.. there's no right or wrong thing to do with his load. LAST - roll over and let his tongue play with you! ...for more wonderful hints and advice... Sunday nights at 11 watch Talk Sex with Sue!

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Question by FlaVoROfThEWe3k
Submitted on 4/6/2004
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How do you give head?

Answer by person
Submitted on 4/26/2004
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suck that special place

Answer by BamMargerasBia
Submitted on 5/7/2004
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Okay first of all...you start out by licking the tip of his penis. Then you kiss/lick down the shaft with your tongue then you go back up and swirl the tip around your tongue. then you juss grip the tip and start lickin ya know repeat them steps till he comes.

Answer by playbunny69
Submitted on 6/6/2004
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Well I've only given head like 2 or 3 times but they really like it when u suck on their penis really fast and roll ur tongue around

Answer by me
Submitted on 6/22/2004
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are guys erect when you start giving head? or do they GET a boner or what

Answer by BEE
Submitted on 6/23/2004
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IS 14 A YOUNG AGE TOO GIVE A GUY HEAD?

Answer by shortay
Submitted on 6/24/2004
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this is to BEE . . . i think 14 is definately to young but if you feel that you are ready then there is no perfect age, if you feel like you have to ask someone if you are old enough then i think you may not be old or mature enough to be doing anything like that.

Answer by ant
Submitted on 6/24/2004
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Guys are erect when you start mostly. Don't have to be but most guys will probably be erect when it is started. Yea, 14 is pretty young to start anything sexual. It is a lot more emotionally connecting then you think it is going to be. Plus you don't want to be getting any diseases that young(not any time actually) and you don't want to be getting pregnant that young either.

Answer by SuPaKaT
Submitted on 7/5/2004
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Okay...Giving head is simple dudettes! You grab his penis and give him a hand job while cupping and like feeling his balls and licking around his penis and around the head of his penis. There is nothing more than that and if the guy doesn't like it well then they can just go masturbate because you are doing this as a gift not as a "this has to feel good or I have to make it better" kind of thing. If he's not happy and complains about it. SCREW HIM!!! (not literaly)

Answer by SOMEgirl
Submitted on 7/7/2004
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well my guy likes it when i LIGHTY graze my teeth on his penis when i suck him off and i give him a hand job when i give him head. he likes it when i deep throat him too, but sometimes it makes me gag. and also when i start i go at a slower pace and then when i can tell he's about to cum i go faster.

Answer by KayKayEraser
Submitted on 7/10/2004
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well i have givin head a couple times now. and they like it wen u swirl around the head of the penis. then start going up and down really fast wit ur mouth play wit there balls. then let them cum. spit or swallow eather way they are happy to not have the cum on them:D good luck you newys

Answer by bb
Submitted on 7/12/2004
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it's better if they shave right?

Answer by HypErLiLbOo
Submitted on 7/16/2004
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Okay yea u can`t get pregnant from givin head! yea n don`t giv head to a guy jus cuz he askz for it do it cuz u want to don`t let him pressure u into n e thing! n ther are a lot of techiniques u can do whiel givin head .. all these answerz r good i agree wit most of em .. but u can`t get pregnant from givin head! but u coud get a disease! so u hav to watch out

Answer by Easy~Erin
Submitted on 7/17/2004
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I'm only 13 and I've done it 3 or 4 times already and I have found it to be nasty to suck on it if its hairy so they should definitely shave first

Answer by babahgurl
Submitted on 8/2/2004
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lick under and beside his balls, it drives my man crazy

Answer by someone
Submitted on 8/2/2004
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do u just suck on it or what?

Answer by shorty
Submitted on 8/2/2004
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dang 13 is young.. haha

Answer by ash
Submitted on 8/4/2004
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ive givin head once and the guy loved it. i didnt know wut to do but i remember watching american pie so go out and watch it. it will help u

Answer by CT
Submitted on 8/4/2004
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I have a question what deasise could u get and what affect does it have?can u die or anything?And how do u get it?

Answer by losty
Submitted on 8/5/2004
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ok i tried giving head and i kept gagging and i need as much advice as possible to make my boyfriend happy when i give him i dunno what im doin at all plz help me!!!!!!!

Answer by UNKNOWN!!
Submitted on 8/14/2004
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what scares me is what if it tastes gross :(

Answer by Megan Ross
Submitted on 8/17/2004
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I've gave head before and I don't think boys should shave but getting hair in your mouth is pretty nasty tasting

Answer by Pimkie
Submitted on 8/19/2004
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Okay, I was asked by someone to give head during a trip I am going to. I have never done this before and I am not certain as to what to do! Anyone have a simple explanation of something me, a sweet little virgin may understand? And exactly how bad is the seeman? I think I would swallow, but I gag rather easily on new things. Can anyone help?

Answer by foxy
Submitted on 8/21/2004
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gogogogog

Answer by GO-go
Submitted on 8/25/2004
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how do u 'deep throat'? and can u be really bad at giving hand jobs/ blow jobs?.... nervous about my first time. wanna get it perfect!

Answer by Cayli
Submitted on 8/27/2004
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13 is way too young to be giving head! I don't even think you should be looking at the things written on this page!

Answer by blow me
Submitted on 8/29/2004
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well ive never done it..so i wouldnt knooooooo

Answer by Shorty
Submitted on 8/30/2004
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is it true that you can get diseases from giving head even if that person does'nt have a disease to pass on to you

Answer by debbie
Submitted on 8/31/2004
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I am 18 yrs old. My boyfriend is 27 yrs old and has a 9" cock and it is really fat. So far I only gave him a hand job and I am ready to move to second base and blow him. I have never sucked cock in my life before. Is there anything special about sucking a cock of this size. Also, he wants me to swallow his cum, but from experience from giving him hand job, he cums a lot. Any tips on this? Thanks

Answer by mee
Submitted on 9/7/2004
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ok.. u dont want to start off fast or with 2 much tongue. u wanna start out when hes already erect and lick and kiss hte shaft. when he becomes MORE excited then u can cover ur teeth with ur lips gently and slowly move up and down. since the head is so sensative its best to wait until hes more into it lol. go faster as he is about to cum. only do it if your comfortable and remember if ur worried that he wont want u ne more if u dont do it.. hes not the guy to do it with make sure he respects u.. unless ur doing it for urself and hte experience ;)

Answer by becky
Submitted on 9/8/2004
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Yeah attually u can get pregnant sucking a guys penis, if he cums enough, the sperm can swim down your body, bet u didn't know that ladies! happy sucking

Answer by missy
Submitted on 9/15/2004
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hey evry1. giving head isnt that hard u hav 2 make sure ur both completely ready and if ur not dnt be pressured in2 anything. anyone youndger than 13 should ask a doctor about giving head but as our world changes we hav 12 yr old girls on the st pregnant. so remember u may earn a bad rep.

Answer by HoHoHo
Submitted on 9/18/2004
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Ok 14 and 13 are way to young to be giving head! Im 16 and ive given head a few times and i found that it is way better if they shave! Also, guys have said it is way better to return the favor is a girl shaves.

Answer by 69er
Submitted on 9/18/2004
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giving head is great...all guys luv it but hey i lost my virginity when i was 12. so hey what ever all you need to know is how to rub him the right way!good luck!!!!

Answer by i dnt no!!!
Submitted on 9/19/2004
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hey me and my bf av done everything but me giving him head i fill that he mite get the hump with me not doing it i only don't wanna do it because i don't no how and don't wanna make a fool of myself??? what shall i do and i need simple instructions!!!! HELP!!!!!